| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 57 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm Syndrome | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | kalrhista | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 08:39 PM |
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| 73 | A lesson from my 90yo Grandmother’s boyfriend.100% agree, but the event in OPs post is not the bare minimum. There’s a good chance he could have died from this event; most people lose their sense of logic in life threatening situations and can’t think beyond the event. The next level is just calling loved ones to gain support and tell them you love them. This man went beyond that and did 3 compassionate things for OPs nana, with extra care for her feelings over his. It’s implied in the post that he placed the items in the hallway while wait… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsThe point about LVM being very hierarchy oriented really resonated with me. On this sub I think it’s become such a common thing to attribute too much self awareness to LVM. Like yes they know what they’re doing is generally horrid, but if they were fully aware of this fact they wouldn’t be able to see themselves as a good person, which is kind of a human thing to need. Like even Hitler thought he was doing good things, clearly he lacked real self awareness and empathy. There has to be a lot of c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 35 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.Or never cleaned. And then he passes his nasty infection on to her, but then blames her for being unclean somehow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 10 | We need more of this! 😌🥰 It's a big achievement and she deserves to celebrate 🥂 [not my friend ~ it's a repost from another sub]I mean, shoots like this kind of highlight the lack of a baby and family. It makes her incredible accomplishment look less than the accomplishment of giving birth. Do an original photo shoot with your thesis or certificate as the main focus. It’s kind of like when Hollywood remakes male cast movies with women instead. Like we don’t want the hand-me-down lame man stories that make women seem lame instead. We are creative enough to come up with our own new stories to tell and connect with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 20 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenI really don’t think that many of them have the self awareness to spot the double standard. Their advice changes without conscious intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 15 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenAssuming institutions teach anyone. The pandemic has made it pretty clear how little they support their students. Maybe the guys just miss having a mommy to hold their hand through it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Traits of a HVW that come off as negative in the eyes of societyGenuine question: how is being dismissive a HV trait? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:19 PM |
| 29 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetSo is this like an every guy thing or just sad internet LVM? Bc I see this all the time on the internet but never in real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Therapists are frustratingIt depends what your primary reasons for going to therapy are, but I would suggest working on other things for the time being, and wait until you can switch therapists for romantic relationships. For example interpersonal relationships in general (and you could frame others as women or neutral if she’s constantly defending men), or self esteem/confidence, etc. The risk of constantly having these interactions is that eventually you’ll internalise at least some of her views and it could spill over… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 75 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Lol at “not having ambition, having to[sic] much ambition” In other words “slightly less ambitious than me bc I can’t handle women being better than me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:34 PM |
| 11 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭Red pill isn’t banned, it’s quarantined. Anyone can still join | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 13 | I would have called the policeWhat would be the best course of action in this situation? Police wouldn’t arrive in time and you can bet he’ll say it didn’t record/ delete the vid before it can be proven. I’d love to grab and smash it but then you’re stuck with a 2k bill plus it’s prob on iCloud anyways. And he could crawl right under and hurt you back, it’s a dangerous move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:30 AM |
| 22 | I would have called the policeIt’s a forever 21, which as the name suggests is targeted at young women/teenagers. I don’t think they have separate change rooms, but it’s mostly only girls who shop there anyways. Most guys would be embarrassed to even be seen shopping there. Clearly the store should reconsider their layout | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:26 AM |
| 19 | Statistical proof I will be alone forever. (based on 4 requirements)It’s certainly a bleak outlook, but this is where the overlapping stats become a bit misleading. You’re right I didn’t split the 370k people in half for men and women, but since some of the the other stats aren’t only for men, I can’t know if it’s a 50/50 split. Another comment here makes this point too, using the example of higher percent liberals fitting into younger age ranges. With this many variables it really could be much higher than 1% or much lower. But idk enough about stats to make an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 90 | Statistical proof I will be alone forever. (based on 4 requirements)1% of 37m is still 370k. It’s a long shot but also keep in mind these men generally will be urban, not rural. And we only have a few big cities. Plus high value people are friends with other high value people. It’s hard, but now that you know what you want, it can be a small world. That being said, I think it’s good to be prepared to be alone and not settle, just showing you that you can use your same reasoning to narrow a search too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:49 AM |
| 23 | How to deal with a cheaterDisagree, you just know they’ll spin this to any mutual friends that you were in his phone. Just leave and block. If you must let him know you know he cheated, leave a one sentence note or text before you block. Let him wonder how you found out, don’t let him learn to be sneakier with his phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Sante | Relationship Coach on Instagram: “Most men are deeply frustrated by women. They don’t understand how to love these “illogical”, “irrational” beings. Women don’t stay true to…”Lol I think he just wanted me to stop using words he couldn’t understand. He was insecure af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 13 | Sante | Relationship Coach on Instagram: “Most men are deeply frustrated by women. They don’t understand how to love these “illogical”, “irrational” beings. Women don’t stay true to…”On a similar note, I really like this comment because you saw an unfamiliar word that you wanted to learn, and instead of asking the speaker to define it for you (or dismissing them for using big/ uncommon words) you looked it up yourself. And then you thanked them for teaching you something new. It reminds me of an ex who always asked me what words meant and then got mad when I sent a screenshot of the definition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 6 | There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics..On today’s episode of “Which inanimate object are women?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 3 | If cameras were everywhere men would know how we feel.Agreed. As OP touched on, tech like this always has potential for good and potential for evil, so it’s about deciding if the risks outweigh the benefits. In this case it’s important to consider who is running this system and for what purpose? Based on how social media and the internet in general has already been playing out, I think it’s a bit idealistic to think that women will benefit more than men when you think about the answers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 12 | The anti-porn: Share your favorite love scenes from movies/TV here!Watching other people have sex is just so off. The ambiguous scenes that don’t actually show anything, sure, maybe. But still, feels like arguing semantics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:03 AM |
| 4 | I have a chronic illness too, and I cant tell you how many times i heard that it is all in my head🤡thousands of women suffer from malpractice only because they are WOMENWould you expect that it’s the same for Vyvanse/ other ADHD meds?I take it when I really need to, but it only works for like 3 days max and then I have to go off for like a week for it to be tolerable again. The side effects are rough, but same as you, I’m almost out of options for other medications to try. Adderall made my hands shake so much. Did your doctor talk about her experience with other female ADHD treatments? The saddest thing is that female doctors aren’t necessarily more knowledgeab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 11 | (Throwaway account) HVM husband standing up for me regarding his brotherIn your opinion, why do you think they have such polar attitudes about how to run a household? Generally these attitudes are highly influenced by the parents. Is there a large age gap between the two of them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 4 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!I know you meant finances but I laughed at the mental picture of getting your fiancés together for college | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Study shows both men and women prefer someone who is not so easily available (medium) for long term relationship. Being easily available makes you casual sex material.Reminds me of the Nice Guys who are available af but blame their lack of success on women preferring aSsHoLeS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Negging?At the least, the fact that he didn’t ask what a neg is would be a red flag that he’s into PUA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:27 AM |
| 14 | What are your thoughts on Kaouthar Darmoni?Never heard of her before, but after watching the ted talk you linked I certainly will be looking her up! On one hand it makes me sad that I never had a childhood like what she describes, and the young girls in my family don’t/won’t get that either. On the other hand it makes me excited to learn that there are other ways to experience womanhood and sisterhood. She has the kind of liveliness that passes on to everyone, I feel more energetic just watching her! Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:23 AM |
| 44 | LVMs like to whine about women making them feel insecure about their looks, but they're laughably dismissive of even EACH OTHER's problems (maybe even more so than the "shallow" women themselves).Too bad you didnt call him out for the accidental small dick reveal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend tells me that I am "calling him a piece of shit" and that I'm basically straight up saying I think he's I think he's going to cheat on me and leave me when I talk about my insecurities and fears of abandonment, being cheated on, sexual inadequacy, etc. I guess that's what I am saying.This could go one of two ways, with a little more context. Is he constantly playing the victim? Did you actually call him a piece of shit or did you call him out for something and he flipped the conversation to make you into the bad guy? Is he blaming you for something you aren't doing as a way to avoid difficult conversations? If he has the EQ of a toddler then this is a good wakeup call to get out before he gaslights you out of recognition. Don't discredit your intuition if you think something… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | LVM's greatest fear are Cat Ladies. Here's why:What do they say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:26 AM |
| 17 | Women shouldn’t be told to get used to mothering grown menShe knows what the answers are, but the fact of this video indicates she won't take any good advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:36 AM |
| 56 | What FDS lesson was hard to "unsee" now that FDS made you aware of it?That men know exactly what they are doing to you. The whole cOmUniCaTe thing is just a socially acceptable gaslighting technique that is wielded to cover the tracks of individual gaslighting. Enough of the incredibly well thought out explanations that are crystal clear, only for him to pull the "taking it too personal/ overthinking/ emotional" card. The importance of generosity. I totally fell for the whole equal financial contribution thing, especially for dates, because "women are equal and me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Don't date people who don't value your time. Point blank.I started seeing my ex a few months following a bad concussion which turned me from being a minimum 15 minutes early person to an hour late person. Once I knew this, I started getting ready so early it took up half my day and would let him know in advance if I was running even 5 minutes behind, and even what the arrival time on my gps was bc I felt so bad being late. And it happened often enough that I was way too lenient when he was late, and he just kept pushing it. He was the picture of punct… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm Syndrome😬Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeA martyr 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 3 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeI remember the main actor of You was using his social media to tell viewers that he played the bad guy... so many girls wanted a guy like that. Messed up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeWhat blows my mind is that people are watching it! The description doesn't even try to hide what it is Though I wonder if Netflix puts things in the top ten for advertising, since they don't release stats and like you said, no reviews or ratings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm Syndrome"I don't understand why women like to get raped." Sad to think how many men see how popular this is and come to the same conclusion, but go along with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:15 PM |
| 6 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeThe OG indoctrination | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:12 PM |
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