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What am I supposed to argue? You claim all women manipulate all the time. You claim that 12 year old girls enjoy the gross behavior grown men give them. You leave no space for any argument. So what should I say? Nooo, I promise I am able to be good and so are others, I promise :( Also, I didn‘t intend to manipulate. It was just a way of saying „I do not wish to argue with you, because it is utterly meaningless“. And also at the same time saying your view of the world IS sad, and hopelessly lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:07 PM
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You have my pity. Your life must be very sad and lonely :( unable to live, unable to be lived. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:35 PM
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Not all do, some do. Red Pill, blue pill… anyone trying to sell you one answer for a topic that is as thought and talked about since the start of humanity as dazing is, is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:36 PM
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She isn‘t. But she says she is, and acts the victim when he pulls away because oh no, poor her has once again lost a „friend“.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:51 PM
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Oh the guys are a bit at fault too. But it doesn’t make the woman innocent. I am more annoyed by the fact that those women, former friends, act like the victim. Stop calling him, stop using the free services. If you do, you can‘t act the poor victim when he stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:49 PM
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The friendzone exists, and some women abuse it. I know so many women who are utterly garbage friends who won‘t even blink when you bleed out in front of them. But they have guys who are courting them. Driving them everywhere whenever they want, spending endless money on them, being there 24/7 for every need. And everyone knows he likes her. In one case he even told her. But when you ask those women they blink innocently. „Oh no, poor me. I thought I had found a true friend. But he only used me o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:18 PM
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One they have truly passion for :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:19 PM
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Is „traditional“ aka wants a bangmaid and not a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:03 PM
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Seeing pregnant women in my friend circle… yes it is a scam for most. He makes more but she makes enough to be considered rich if she were single herself. She gets pregnant. Bosses treat her like shit. He has no issues. She will take one year off, ruin her prospects in her dream job she worked for to get for like 15 years. He will take two months. He can’t cook so it will be her job on top of caring for a new born. She is actually supposed to freeze meals and prepare for the last two months of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:39 PM
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Uhm… thing is… when I look at my partner he is the most charismatic, most attractive, smartest, sexiest person ever. Even when he eats all my snacks 😂 Love made me think Henry Cavill is “okay” but not as hot and wonderful as my partner. I just love this guy, and imagining a life without him, even with a different relationship makes me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:58 PM
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I was that woman… I attracted horrible abusive men, until I thought all men were like that. When I stopped being the shy, sweet, submissive girl…. I had a bunch of mature, nice, cool guys interested in me instead. (And women) Secure men want secure women. They want a partner, to love and be loved. Men that want nothing but a bangmaid are a huge redflag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:09 AM
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Different women consider different things creepy. Reading a giant sub/the whole internet and then trying to make sense of it for every single woman makes zero sense, the attempt will only lead to contradictions and frustrations. Same with every single other group of people. What is creepy for me personally is, when some men are unable to read or accept a “no”. I had a dude follow me, even half into the bus, holding up the whole bus because he was trying hard to cold approach, and didn’t accept I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:39 AM
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I did! For a year. Bf didn’t even realize because the “men must make the first move” is so ingrained in him that when he finally asked me out after a year, he thought he made the first step. And sometimes complained at men needing to make the first moves, that’s when I usually stare at him until he blushes and grumbles “yeah, yeah not always…”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:29 AM
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First: my heartfelt condolences to you, losing someone is hard, and crying about that is simply human. Could it be that many guys on this sub’s type is “emotionally unavailable women”? Maybe stemming from trauma? “Making this icy person love me means I made it and can like myself!” That was me a few years ago, but with men. I was only attracting and attracted to often diagnosed narcissists, because my dad was one and my mindset of “If I make one of them love me, I am perfect enough to finally lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:16 AM
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One of my best friends is a guy, I often am able to talk better with men than women in casual settings. But ai am bi and stopped trying to make gender the deciding factor if I like a person or not. I like some people. Some likable people are guys 🤷🏻‍♀️ That I am a nerd and am drawn to nerdy people is also a reason I often have an easier time chatting with guys. Sadly not as many women share my interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:32 PM
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Good friend of mine either tries to get with emotionally unavable women like his mom was. Or women who beed therapy, not a boyfriend, because he has a fix it mentality. My thoughts do not come from jealousy though. Just feel bad for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:33 PM
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I will totally mock anyone who is randomly proud of the size of their genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:27 AM
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Hi, cheating is horrible, and is cruel and mean spirited. But I don’t think it has anything to do with your appearance. It only has to do with the rotten morality of the cheaters. My boyfriend, good looking guy, handsome, rich family and all, was cheated on by pretty much all of his gfs before me. Which destroyed his self esteem, and made him believe that something is wrong with him. Which breaks my heart and makes me hate those girls with a passion. What I mean to say is… cheating usually nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:39 AM
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Interdependent. We live our lives but together, and support one another in all the ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:22 PM
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Online dating is so far off of the reality of a lot of dating still, it always feels weird using it as the only basis for talking about the other gender. It’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:33 PM
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Sad. Was there, for years. Agoraphobia… were my saddest years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:49 AM
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Would never date a promiscuous man or woman 🤷🏻‍♀️ I won’t shame either for it, but I know too many who are simply poly and would not work with my monogamous self.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:54 PM
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Men on this sub want a virgin/low body count woman that also fucks them in the first date, because else there is no chance she is attracted to them. (So setting themselves up to never be happy and always be angry at women whatever they do) People who describe the other gender as “all wo/men are incapable of love and just slutty users or they are unattractive” simply make clear that they are only attracted to trashy people and then upset that said trashy people don’t wanna fuck them too. If you i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:24 PM
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They do… he simply doesn’t realize he is one of them, which is the silly part. Body dysmorphia. He truly sees himself as ugly while the world says he is handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:05 PM
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… Maybe, MAYBE, you as a straight man are not charmed by those men? But male attracted women do see a charm? Like could that be possible? Because everyone I know, every single woman… dates sweet and caring men. Sometimes I can not find those handsome at all, not my type. But they look at them like they are the stars. My partner is kind, funny, loving, open in his affections and I adore him endlessly. I’d give my life for him in a heartbeat and he’d for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:12 AM
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My friends find my bf objectively good looking. One best friend is aroace, but likes art, other is a bi guy, but knows he’d never have a chance and respects me lol there is a person who thinks he is ugly and gets angry at anyone saying anything different is my bf. Body dysmorphia :( he sometimes says “handsome men have it easier” too and I just facepalm hard. Personally, I can see why someone would see their partner attractive. Like uh… flowers are pretty but I don’t want to bang them. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:06 AM
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I was approached a lot by guys, and often that was okay. Like saying “hey I know that anime on your shirt, what do you think of…” or making casual small talk. Small talk that could develop somewhere. I wasn’t just a walking piece of fuck meat to them… then there were guys who made their sexual interest clear before even knowing my name. Annoying me to take off my headphones or ignoring that I was reading a book etc. those guys? Me and my friends all hate. We don’t hate being approached as humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:11 PM
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I am sorry for you :( no one should experience such cruelty. Not from those they know, nor from strangers! Sadly, the only one closure one gets is with yourself. Years of therapy allowed me to just… move on. Horrible stuff happened. But I am happy, maybe out of spite. The bullies probably don’t even remember it… fuck, after my glow up some dudes who nearly drove me to suicide ended up introducing themselves in a bar and ask if I moved there anew 😂 But as I said, you can move on, if you find clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:14 AM
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I have a classmate, he is 19 and severely autistic. With zero masking or life skills. I think his parents ignored his problems until after his boss told them and that they need to do something. He thinks frowning is „being friendly“. He reads texts of others loud, will stalk and harass women and girls. Does sometimes not realize he is bullied until the guys started to punch him around and I stepped in. He is bi… has no issue finding guys having flings with him, but women ignore him majorly, or r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:15 AM
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Okay… wasn‘t too hard, I think, but I tried: His passions - the way he lights up when he finds a new woodworking tool. The adorable rambling where I barely understand anything, but he is happy so I am happy and could listen for hours. His silliness - I am silly, I love puns, I love using silly words… and so does he. We developed our own language. Our own way to communicate His intelligence - the way he reads up on difficult topics when he is curious and is then able to break them down for others…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:56 AM
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I threw myself between a larger guy beating a smaller one. When my classmates got bullied I stepped in When the teacher pulled on the arm of my worst bully as a kid, and he cried in pain and humiliation, I stepped in and cried. (He thanked me with beating me more but well he was a born sociopath I think) I step into any injustice. When I was bullied? Guys said nothing or joined. Us girls needing to start walking home groups so we‘d not be alone. When I was 11 and new at a big school with older b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:25 AM
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Wow sounds like you will raise a mentally ill robot that will be so out with touch with the normal world that most stable women will step around him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:51 AM
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No faces/bodies. 3-5 images that describe the person. A funny meme, aesthetic, hobbies, a small info text, whatever a person considers „that‘s me“. Personal pictures can be traded in the chat. Chats need to be closed when no interest and only 3 can be open at once. Filter and survey about all the preferences (physical/politics/etc). But not in yes/no but rather „deal breaker / don‘t care / preference“. And if either is in the deal breaker category they aren‘t shown to the other. Clearly lying in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:50 AM
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Which one would play board games with me? Laugh about really dumb puns with me? Which one connect deeply on an emotional level with me, a nerdy gamer girl? Nothing you said made me go: „yes! That guy“ neither did anything make me go „nah, not that one“ none is better than the other to me, as I said neither, again. Would need to know interests and personality Women with less life experience and no own strong standing in life would probably choose A. Simply because they‘d think his popular status …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:17 AM
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Because that is a saying men use for men. Women don‘t as much think in „finishing last or first“ and rather about the journey? Idk, it is just not fitting for typical girls talk I think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:59 AM
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My boyfriend is taller than me, but the average height of men is taller in my country. I make the money, as he has social anxiety etc He has beautiful eyes and a nice face, and yes, other women look at him, but he doesn’t even realize. We are equals and partners, sometimes I am more dominant, sometimes he is. For me, he doesn’t fit anything I ever read about RP. I mean he cares about men issues, so do I. And maybe before he had met me those were a bit more one sided, but my feminist views were a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:19 AM
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I am doing so... I love him and he supports me from home. He is very much a househusband, but I still help with chores too. I hope he'll find the strength to work one day, not for money or anything. But I would love to see him being able to use his hobby and passion every day and learn more about it while working. But if he doesn't get over his social anxiety etc... idgaf either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:30 PM
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I was A LOT happier as single than I was when I was only treated as a bangmaid in my relationships and thought that was simply the reality of dating as a woman. I am MAJORLY happier with a partner who loves and respects me. ​ The risk to fall into the hands of a manipulator, abuser etc is too high. Too many men don't even know how to make themselves a sandwich. And when in puppy love phase one gladly makes those sandwiches. Then more is demanded, and more and more and nothing is returned... and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:26 PM
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Would have loved this thought experiment years ago. Now I just want to add my partner and choose him over and over. Even if Idris Elba and Henry Cavill knocked on my door together with Jenna Coleman and Karlach (fictional lady I adore at the moment) and offer to woo me I’d just be “wanna play boardgames with me and my boyfriend?” I can still trll that they are attractive to me but… imagine sex? No. Not anymore, before I was in a committed relationship maybe. (My “body count” is two. So even back…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:32 AM
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I had a crush on guys like that, I think? I met guys I found v attractive physically. Then they talked and suddenly their whole appearance becomes ick. Those photoshop nlie eyes? Kinda creepy. The athletic form? Ugh, self-obsessed. That everything? Ewww go away. Thing is there are guys (and in my case also women) who I look at and go “Dang!” But I never looked at someone and found them unattractive, more like… neutral. So people start at 0 for me or maybe at ten points, not much. And from there …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:21 AM
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And another woman might like you exactly for your weirdness. So… she was right? I get it, guys want the cheatcode for every woman to drop on their knees with open mouth, but that doesn’t exist. I like nerdy guys. Always did, if I can’t talk about fantasy, tv shows and other passions I just, meh. I like being weird, so my bf joining right in and us now having our own weird language and signs and bubble is more than I could have ever dreamed of. Some women prefer serious men and think nerd stuff i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:13 AM
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I’m a feminist, and my boyfriend opened my eyes about a lot of struggles men face. We have open and honest conversations and both grow from our worldview expanding. Tbh, tho. Like for me every person is differently feminist than another. I don’t know any guy calling himself a MRA irl, but might be similar 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:03 AM
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Yes. Also the best in bed. The loveliest. The one making me happiest. I am very “I love this person so I can’t even understand what I found sexually attractive in other guys” tho. Like I used to love Henry Cavill, but now… yeh he pretty but… meh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:42 AM
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If I am interested I show it. I approach at least casually. Ask to meet up at a gaming cafe, have dinner, watch movies… buuut my boyfriend didn’t even realize I was making moves. He was so used to that it was asked of him to do, and too insecure to think I was attracted to him that he always said no and then needed a full year to ask me out. To tell me he thought he’d never have a chance and I just started to list him all the times I asked him out 😂 He still sometimes complains that the world de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:47 PM
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So does that mean I am not a woman? Hate loud and obnoxious guys. Dirtbikes or whatever in that direction are a turn off. I prefer to be at home, read and game (with my bf) most my bf‘s friends are women, which I am friends with too… also whenever I had interest in a guy and I met his „bro“ friends, any attraction died instantly „street smarts“ tend to be what we call „wit“. Like yes, some kind of wit and able to think on your feet and be funny, is useful in all socialization(with and by any gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:29 PM
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Ah, so it’s not about dating but just mindless sex. In that case fond places with women who look for that too and appear like you are good in bed. Like first times with men lead only for ca 12% of women to a satisfying ending so it’s far less appealing than for a man. Usually, The higher the education of women (or anyone) the less just fucking like rabbits seems appealing, too. Also swinger clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:24 AM
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Every woman is different. Just like every man is. Some want a caretaker. Some want an ego boost to flex with Some want a partner Some simply want someone to help cleaning Me? I wanted someone to be weird with. To be able to discuss any topics and have different opinions without anyone feeling looked down upon. Laughing about the silliest things. Supporting each other, feeling save and valued and feeling like I too am a safe space for him. And most things I have now I didn’t know before I met him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:07 PM
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I approached my now boyfriend first… and after that a few times because he didn’t realize I was into him. It needed a year for him to ask me out and REALLY thought he was the one making the first step 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:17 PM
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I can’t even imagine being with someone else without starting to cry, and he is the same. The idea being apart feels worse than anything else. Coming home to him, his sparkling eyes, kisses… it’s worth more than anything else. If I want to spoil myself I buy HIM a gift because his happiness makes me happier than my own, and it is the other way around too. There is no logic or reason there. Just he is my HIM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:14 AM
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I am a woman with lots of money and my bf stays at home and has strong depressions, social anxiety… BUT… all relationships have conditions. But not silly superficial ones, but… is your life better with them in it? Is coming home to a waiting partner worth the work hours? Or would you prefer an empty apartment? Is cleaning etc rewarding because when the partner shows up and is there and smiles all is good? Most would need to work and do their chores when alone too. So is the person being there ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:55 AM
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Preface: I’m bi I don’t understand what feminine and masculine means in its core… Like a therapist once told me: masculine is the destruction of the unwanted, feminine is the nurturing of the good …. Tbh it strengthened my fear of men greatly Then she told me to make a list of my feminine and my masculine traits. Video gaming, all of it would be masculine… I felt devalued as a person. Told I need to feel more like a woman to be happy. When I needed to be happier to feel more like a PERSON. It ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:50 AM
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Stop hanging around teenagers. Those of that age or that are stuck there. I only have mature friends and all the guys are great and all the women are too. All in committing relationships or healthily single without the need to declare a different gender is less feeling and human. You just hang around toxic people, I did too when I was you g, but if you shed those toxic people and views… you’ll open your eyes you’ll see that the world wasn’t as black and white from the start. Googled, and only fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:43 AM
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It's garbage like that, that makes women hate the manosphere. Hypergamy doesn’t exist, some women and men just don’t want to commit. Some do. My boyfriend has less money than I, has anxiety, and is, according to others, decent looking but not a top model. (to me and my in-love brain no man is as attracted to any man as to him) Everyone loves opportunism. “Does this person add joy, warmth, and laughter to my life?” If the answer is no… yeah then there is no hope for love there. And what brings jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:17 AM
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Some women expect all that… but many don’t. My boyfriend is much less secure than I am and has less money. But I think I can argue from the “animal” side too. Redpillers argue a lot that we are all still cavemen… but we aren’t. Our surroundings, life goals, etc changed. This also means our attraction model changed. If it is just survival and birthing babies? Yeah, some muscle dude with money would do. Protect the lifestyle and family and shut up. But that isn’t a life many women want anymore. We…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 08:09 AM
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One of my male best friends used to have the kind of humor that was just degrading women and minorities. He didn’t fully mean it, but after a while, it hurt. I ended up with a breakdown, most other girls I know thought the same, and we all distanced ourselves. Luckily, there were therapists and staff that talked to him. Tell him that many of us are deeply traumatized, so his “jokes” trigger and hurt us. So he… changed. He still has dark humor, but he changed so far that I and others call him one…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 07:41 AM
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