kammalot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Learning to move on	Getting Started	kammalot	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 06:37 PM
16	Do they have to make it as hard as possible?	Rant	kammalot	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 03:31 AM
5	Advice for jealousy	Getting Started	kammalot	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/24 06:19 PM
0	Don’t know who created this….	Getting Started	kammalot	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 12:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Maybe Best of luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 04:54 PM
2	Do they have to make it as hard as possible? I would have totally done that if we were in a better place.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 01:49 PM
11	Do they have to make it as hard as possible? I don’t know why I keep needing reminding that it doesn’t matter anymore. That I don’t need to care anymore except for the kids. I’ll be moved out soon and everything will start getting better. Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 03:51 AM
2	Learning to move on Thank you. Part of the hard time I am having is because I do not have a good support system, but I am working on that. Trying to find a support group, I have a therapist, going to join some adult league sports, etc. I have plans, they just take time to come about, but I’m working on it. You might see me on here more. And I’ll try and add to others comments too, it’s hard to read them sometimes, but I know it will help.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 11:36 PM
1	Learning to move on I’m taking this and running with it. Everything is going to be cool calm and collective from me from now on. No more emotions, just matter of fact. When she said that today I was mad, but now that I go back and think about it, I’m glad she said it, so I can stop caring so much about sharing myself with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 11:12 PM
3	Learning to move on I totally agree that she is not being the person I thought she was in this situation. I even told my therapist that yesterday, that for our entire relationship she has been wearing her emotions on her sleeve and ever since we decided to separate, they’re gone. She is obviously in a completely different mindset than me and doesn’t want to deal with me anymore, so I’m done trying to share myself with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 11:10 PM
3	Learning to move on You’re right, I was trying to hold her accountable to my feelings. I’m on the path to not caring anymore now and it feels so much better.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 11:07 PM
2	Advice for jealousy I think I’ve already come to terms with why it’s ending, neither of are upset about it, just scared. We both know our shortfalls. She has clearly known a lot longer though that it’s over and just didn’t tell me. I think we are both in very different positions in this process. She has clearly accepted and is ready to try and move on while I am stuck at step 1, and it’s hard to see her there while I’m stuck here. I’m already in therapy, we are being as amicable as possible, and we both have our fa…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/24 07:29 PM