kandy96 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
491	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move?	Fundamentals	kandy96	/r/seduction	16/01/20 09:47 PM
6	Going Out on Valentine's Day..?	Conversation	kandy96	/r/seduction	12/02/20 05:29 PM
3	How to deal in the age of Snapchat..?		kandy96	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:37 PM
2	Initial Conversation Advice?		kandy96	/r/seduction	04/09/19 05:00 AM
1	Dating Apps, but for the relatively unphotogenic...	Conversation	kandy96	/r/seduction	18/02/20 12:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Being attractive in person but not in photos is FRUSTRATING! Big smart plays brother. Great idea. Appreciate you	/r/seduction	16/01/21 02:05 AM
1	Being attractive in person but not in photos is FRUSTRATING! You a smart dude	/r/seduction	16/01/21 02:01 AM
1	Being attractive in person but not in photos is FRUSTRATING! HAHAHAHA ok fair point on the Benedict, but I am DEF trying to smash.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 01:57 AM
1	First successful attempt at getting the girl to come to me at a club Yes this is FIRE. Compliment ANYTHING, tattoo's are especially good since that was her choice so she's more than likely really into it. Just a little better than nice eyes, nice smile, etc.	/r/seduction	12/03/20 12:07 AM
1	I've definitely been guilty of this... This is definitely a Royal Caribbean ship LOL I'm like why tf does this look so familiar? This kid could've been on my damn ship last month! Hahaha	/r/seduction	12/03/20 12:02 AM
1	I've gone from being a loner to getting a lot of girls in just a few months; some of my tips I liked this post because I can see myself saying pretty much the same shit. Your story is similar to mine (timeline and all), drunk me girls are all over because I'm confident and fun. Sober me is slowly gaining some of that confidence knowing that in the back of my head if I'm a fucking pimp when I'm drunk I can be when I'm sober too. I've hooked up with a handful of girls and don't think any of them still like me hahaha I've been called a douche, fuckboy, all that same shit, but I don't reall…	/r/seduction	19/02/20 01:15 AM
2	Dating Apps, but for the relatively unphotogenic... Not me! I was looking forward to this one lol.	/r/seduction	18/02/20 08:56 PM
1	Dating Apps, but for the relatively unphotogenic... Damn, this hasn't happened to me before! I thought it was a really good post lol.	/r/seduction	18/02/20 12:45 AM
4	I started the afternoon on 12, now having 7. A couple of days made, few rejections but gave out 5 roses in total around Brunei University in London. Harder with pairs, easiest were alone. Some should have been approached but let it go. Overall, feeling proud. Cold Approached with Flowers in hand. Yeaaa I didn't understand the rose vs. flower argument here hahahaha	/r/seduction	15/02/20 01:08 AM
1	I started the afternoon on 12, now having 7. A couple of days made, few rejections but gave out 5 roses in total around Brunei University in London. Harder with pairs, easiest were alone. Some should have been approached but let it go. Overall, feeling proud. Cold Approached with Flowers in hand. I might be misreading some of these comments, but what's wrong with a guy giving out roses to girls on Valentine's Day? The only concern I have that I guess others here have is you are saying "cold approach" like you are trying to get at them by starting with the rose. Only do one thing homie, give them a rose and make their day, or don't give them a rose and "cold approach". If this WASN'T Valentine's Day, yea kinda weird.	/r/seduction	15/02/20 12:23 AM
1	Going Out on Valentine's Day..? Thx homie, looking forward to it!	/r/seduction	14/02/20 12:14 AM
1	Going Out on Valentine's Day..? I like the odds! 1/3rd seems about right for relationships. Do you know the age group you polled?	/r/seduction	12/02/20 06:23 PM
1	Solo Night Game - mindset and a good beginner strategy Towards the end you mention the art of being rejected, but taking it with confidence. I love this shit. One of my favorite memories was this group of 3 girls that were all obviously looking at me the entire night. Eventually I said fuck it and walked up and said to the group "do any of you want to dance?" and they all looked at me and said no. I replied "yea you're all full of shit" hahaha I've been able to get away with lines like this in the past luckily. Not the end of the story... a cute gir…	/r/seduction	29/01/20 10:57 PM
1	Solo Night Game - mindset and a good beginner strategy Straight up I could've posted this lol. None of my friends like going out, but I LOVE it. Almost always dance with at least one cute girl when I go out, often a little making out too, but I still lack confidence haha. I've never had a bad night out alone. It's always been fun and to me that's what matters.	/r/seduction	29/01/20 10:53 PM
3	Any tips on keeping a conversation going on a first date? In my experience the relationship isn't going to progress further than a first date if the conversation doesn't flow. Either you don't have similar lifestyles and interests to be able to connect, or the other person isn't interested in learning about you. Conversations with the one you are supposed to be with shouldn't ever feel forced. Don't be the one asking all the questions, but show interest in their answers when you do, and try to relate to them with your own experiences whenever possible.…	/r/seduction	23/01/20 10:55 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Yea I get what you mean. I've seen it said here by guys and girls alike that the hottest in the club never get approached because guys are intimidated, but I never see that being the case when I'm out.	/r/seduction	23/01/20 07:54 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Fuck. Yes. ! Haha	/r/seduction	17/01/20 10:45 PM
2	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Very VERY true. I RARELY approach based on a little hint of eye contact unless it was quick but dead obvious. A few eye catches here and there is when I'll pull the trigger, assuming it's on purpose at that point :)	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:21 PM
2	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? A little eye contact is more of a yellow light for a cold approach lol, especially in a more public setting like the mall. If you find her trying to make her self apparent to you more and more while you're there, definitely go for it. Just saying don't take accidental or "random" eye contact to mean she's interested. That being said, if you can sense a girl is trying to make eye contact with you at a bar, for sure go for it. Eye contact isn't accidental at bars and clubs 99% of the time!	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:20 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Being dragged away takes it to another level. I love that shit haha	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:16 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? That would make for a long title! I definitely do enjoy that feeling of sexual tension, but putting it off to make it even better when it happens. Thx for the reply.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:13 PM
3	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? This is what the intention of my post was, specifically why I titled it how I did rather than "women approaching you". The first move doesn't have to be approaching!	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:11 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Agreed, good post. Anytime you have your phone out it closes you off. Similar to crossing your arms.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:09 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Not always true. Maybe to get the 10's in the bar/club, yes. But an alright dude could get a cute girl if he's confident about it and gives off a good presence. Seen it happen to my alright looking friends PLENTY of times.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:08 PM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Not necessarily... Like I said in the entirety of the post, "making the first move" could be more than just a girl actually approaching you. If a girl makes eye contact with me and I think she's interested, I still have to be the one to approach, but she showed interest before I did.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 05:06 PM
3	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Facts my friend! Always stack the odds in your favor.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 12:07 AM
1	I'm a 24 year old male virgin - help/advice I lost my virginity at 21 and it was so unexpected. I had opportunities with 'alright' looking girls freshman and sophomore year of college, but knew that the first had to be better than that. Eventually it happened. It fell into my lap, but I still had to go out for it to happen (which was MUCH easier when I turned 21 for obvious reasons). When I was a virgin, every night I went out was "let's see if I get lucky and lose it tonight". Again, I had expectations on it and wanted it to be special. …	/r/seduction	14/01/20 12:24 AM
1	My tease and seduce spotify playlist. Enjoy 😈 Good stuff, I will be taking some of these over to my playlist, Sleep Well Love...	/r/seduction	27/12/19 07:32 PM
1	How to deal in the age of Snapchat..? Yea I fuck around with lighting and stuff to see what I can pull off lol. Facts about snap being dead, can't wait for that. Just a waste of time.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:50 PM
1	Your opinion? Keep talking to different girls should never be the "other" option. That should be what you're doing anyway until you start "dating" someone. Can't hurt to try to hang out once. Just make it a lunch date at a bar. Maybe try a bar that has a "darker" atmosphere to imitate a nighttime mood?	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:47 PM
1	Winking to a women? I wink at plenty of girls if they're checking me out. Like someone else said it's gotta be kinda cocky, like throw in a smirk after and kinda move on.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:41 PM
1	Question about starting out Creepy. Don't go to the same place over and over, especially a mall where teenagers tend to hang out. If you're going to initiate conversations cold, do it somewhere mature. Don't psyche yourself out about being introverted, when you find the right girl you won't feel like an introvert anymore because either you have things in common to talk about, or she realizes you are introverted and helps keep conversation going because she's interested in you!	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:32 PM
1	I made it out of the friendzone! Time changes people, maybe she's out of that "fuck around and have fun in college" phase. I know of a lot of girls that didn't date the first 2-3 years of college because they didn't want to be tied down. Now don't blow it! Lol jk have a good time and show her she made the right choice.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 11:28 PM
1	Are people here going for girls/guys that they don’t find that attractive? It makes no sense! I think dating a less attractive girl is much more common than fucking a less attractive one. If I'm trying to get laid I'm going for 8's and up. Dating, I'll look at 6's with good personalities and interests.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 06:02 PM
2	I hate the fact that I am supposed to approach and do all the hard stuff while women have it on the plate Sure this is how society is, but we can only blame the guys that throw themselves at each and every girl for this mentality. Girls know that guys will come up to them even if they don't put in effort. I've personally switched my outlook on this and yes I will approach girls first, but only if they are showing interest first (eye contact, etc.) "Cold approaching" each and every girl you find attractive is what gives them that confidence. Let them initiate...	/r/seduction	27/11/19 12:12 AM
2	Approach anxiety when sober Just wanted to add some thoughts. I find myself making out with more girls at clubs when I'm drunk, but it never leads anywhere. Of course this is due to the false confidence alcohol gives that allows easier conversation. I think that unless a girl REALLY likes you, these drunk nights are more for fun and nothing else. I've found that plenty of girls going out for the night want to leave that night in the past unless a guy really stands out to them. Even if you end up taking her home there is ty…	/r/seduction	27/11/19 12:04 AM
1	Help with a Casual Hookup FWB Situation... Fair points, good answer actually. Probably can't hurt to try it one more time and tell her what I like and see if she gets the message. Thx man	/r/seduction	19/11/19 12:23 AM
1	In your opinion, what are 3 things a good wing man does? The number ONE thing a good wingman does, is doesn't get jealous if you bag a hot girl and he doesn't. That is ALL. There's more to it, but that one is mad important. If it happens once, that's it for him I don't care if it's my best friend. We aren't wingmanning if you try to swoop or pull me away from the girl I get.	/r/seduction	07/11/19 12:46 AM
1	Approached by a girl on a night out Good shit bro! I'm very similar to you in the fact that I'm confident in myself but sometimes think eh maybe I'm not attractive after all. The nights like this turn that thinking totally upside down and I feel fine as a mf haha. On a side note I went out alone last night for the first time EVER. Actually pretty satisfying. I'm not the most social guy in the world, but it felt pretty good! Danced with a handful of girls and got some numbers. Keep doing you bro, enjoy those moments when they happe…	/r/seduction	02/11/19 12:06 AM
2	What’s better speaking softer or louder ? fosh	/r/seduction	04/09/19 09:00 PM
1	Direct Vs Situational vs Indirect Direct if you're a good looking confident dude that doesn't mind being shot down once in awhile for approaching like this. Situational if your personality shines more than looks. Indirect, well your example might work or be taken weird ("looks like you're into fitness" "were you checking out my ass?" "oh you were checking out my ass ;)" ) This is a good mix of both of the above if you have an "indirect" reason to talk to her. Has to be the right place too. Generally if you are presented with an …	/r/seduction	04/09/19 08:56 PM
1	Initial Conversation Advice? Even better!!	/r/seduction	04/09/19 03:51 PM
1	Initial Conversation Advice? I have definitely been pulling myself away from buying drinks for women, that's really one of the reasons I asked this question is wanting ways to approach a girl without wasting money hahaha. I like your opener though, cute, kinda cheesy, I'll put my own spin on it and give it a try! Thx!	/r/seduction	04/09/19 07:05 AM
2	Initial Conversation Advice? I actually really like this idea. I've always played the idea of "cocky confidence", which I find works wonders with women. This matches that idea spot on. Even if she says yea right at least you had a somewhat comical excuse to introduce yourself. Thanks!!	/r/seduction	04/09/19 07:03 AM