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A) A depressing amount of men don't know where the clit is. It literally has one purpose: pleasure. Most women can't cum without SOME clitoral stimulation. Don't rub it like you're trying to start a fire, either. Be gentle, lick your fingers first, and watch how your woman reacts. B) If you really care about showing a girl a good time in bed, slow down. Way down. Make everything count. Studies have shown average amount that it takes for a woman's body to be fully physiologically ready for sex is…
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:07 AM
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But it's good to at least have that conversation early on, yeah? I think it's foolish of anyone to waste a year of their life with someone just because they didn't ask if they want kids at some point in the future within a few weeks of meeting.
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:17 PM
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Bruh. She's literally turning the conversation sexual of her own volition. Take the opportunity to spark her interest.
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:21 PM
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Tell her that you want to lick her from her head to her toes, then you want to move from the bed down to the floor.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:29 PM
4

I had a good experience with Shoott-- they essentially organize multi-person photoshoots on the same day in a public place (like a park or interesting landmark). You show up and shoot during your time slot, then receive a digital proof gallery where you can purchase individual shots for $25 each. They're available in a lot of major cities. If you want use my referral code, feel free to DM me-- otherwise you can check them out at shoott.com.
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:24 PM
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100% this. No one is trying to take advantage of you, we're just trying to make sure that hooking up with you is not going to be the last thing we ever do.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:16 AM
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If it was a good enough first date for the Obamas, it works for me. It's cheap, quick, and can be really cute if you find a place to sit and people-watch.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:52 AM
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If I'm headed out with a non-drinker, I'll take them for ice cream or frozen yogurt.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:03 PM
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Bossy femme here. I've met different play partners over the years through FetLife, Tinder, and Reddit. Try for bisexual girls. There's a decent number of us out here who would love to peg a very good boy.
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:11 PM
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well there’s dame Edna, Agnes brown, mrs doubtfire Maybe you'd be funnier if you weren't punching down.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:51 PM
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You realize that no one is required to procreate with a socially inept man, right? Procreation requires sex and women want to actually be attracted to the person they're mating with. Go figure.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah but you aren't trying to bang your friends. Hell, you don't even want her to see you as a friend. You want her to see you as someone passionate and fun. There are smart women out there who would be keen to have deep conversations but even then, you still need to flirt. Female desire is responsive -- women get turned on by knowing that you want them. If you're determined to talk warfare, then at least describe how one might effectively penetrate a defense... wink wink, nudge nudge.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:44 PM
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I, personally, would take a cute girl with an engaging personality over a hot girl who's completely vapid.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:47 PM
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wholesome and cute Lol
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:13 PM
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The idea that men have to be DTF on sight with most women is a myth. Maybe you're just the kind of dude who really only feels desire once you actually have a conversation with a girl. There's nothing wrong with that. You're allowed to have standards.
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:33 PM
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This comment right here, Officer
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:23 PM
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Women talk. She almost certainly is going to tell her friend about how the guy from Tinder that they met turned out to be a complete weirdo.
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:10 PM
1

On the first date, yeah, but buying flowers for someone you're in an actual relationship with is different.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:35 PM
1

I am also well-traveled and have made my own fair share of... temporary friends. (:
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:08 AM
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Lady here. I agree with you that ghosting is lame. Maybe something to the effect of, "Hey there! Glad to see you're doing well. I had a great time with you in [city], but that's as far as this goes for me. Thanks for being sweet. Safe travels." I always think it's kinder to be direct than to leave the other person hanging. Sure, you can ghost, but if the roles were reversed, how would you like the other person to treat you?
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:25 PM
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Ask nicely and I'll let you lick me 🙃
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:15 PM
7

That part. Just hanging around campus without actually attending classes gives off creepy loser vibes, but taking some silly class just for fun like art or a foreign language would make you a more interesting person anyway.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:59 PM
10

Bro read a book
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:37 PM
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She was drinking, you weren't. You coerced her into doing something she didn't want to do AND you didn't go down on her. And now you're wondering why she's grossed out by you?
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:26 AM
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Hygiene, obviously. Do you look clean? Do you smell good? Are your hands and nails clean enough to touch my hoo-ha?
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:47 AM
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Google Kenneth Play. He's got an entire video course and also a book and a few free videos. Whatever you do, do NOT do what you see in mainstream porn. Not every woman likes being jackhammered and even then, you can't go from 0 to 100 without hurting her. Most women take between 10-20 minutes to become fully physically aroused through a combination of erogenous zone stimulation.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:05 PM
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Why didn't you eat her out instead?
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:43 PM
5

Burning Man-type events, kink/BDSM scenes, goth and 80s nights at clubs/bars, and yoga studios.
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:10 PM
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7 years isn't a huge age gap, but the fact you work in the same industry and met on the same set is the more delicate issue, especially if one of you ever ends up in a supervisory role.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:36 PM
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Either people want to get married or they don't. Either people want kids or they don't. For one thing, fertility has a timeline. If I'm 30 and wanting to start a family, I can't waste years of my life hopping from bed to bed hoping to stumble upon someone who will be a responsible partner and a good parent. I need to find that person sooner rather than later. Why are you so intimidated by women being honest with you? If you are going to have a serious relationship, wouldn't you rather be with so…
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:04 PM
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Your brain really really wants to release pair-bonding chemicals. The longer you spend with someone, the more likely you are to develop feelings. It's why most FWB arrangements either end in a relationship or dissolve entirely after a period of time.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:36 AM
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There is nothing humane about a basket full of dirty panties from multiple women. But hey, if you're trying to give off "major creep" vibes, by all means.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:52 PM
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Sleeping together is super intimate. I'd be 100% certain that you want a relationship with this girl and she wants one with you before doing an overnight date. It's the first date-- if you don't sleep over, it gives you both something to look forward to.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:48 PM
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Why are you so committed to spending the night? You can have sex with someone and then go home to sleep in your own bed. I don't mind sex on the first date, but when we're done I would kindly prefer you get tf out of my house.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:23 PM
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Flirt with him. Buy him a drink. Ask him out. Most guys would love to have a girl make the first move.
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:54 AM
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Also sex and dating as a teen seems so much more exciting and pleasurable than as a grown man due to raging homrones, being carefree and naive and discovering and experiementing. Consider that when you're an adult man, you have adult money to spend on adult things like good food, good booze, drugs, concert tickets, plane tickets, cars, real estate, etc. Your time will come. Have patience. My biggest advice: get your mind and money right so you can live independently on your own and be successful…
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:01 PM
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One can have standards without being a shallow person. Picture the least attractive woman you know and imagine her getting mad at you for rejecting her advances because all men are supposed to like sex. That's the energy this post gives off.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:17 PM
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Start small. Don't try to get their number, just practice asking for directions or asking for the time.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:59 AM
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Ok but... are you a 10/10?
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:40 AM
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People love talking about themselves, so find ways to ask her about herself without turning the conversation into an interview.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:41 AM
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That part. It's like the scene in Wolf of Wall Street where Jordan Belfort thinks he drove the Lamborghini home "without a scratch."
/r/seduction21/03/22 11:41 PM
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It's not her, it's you. You choose to live in one of the most populous cities on Earth where dating is extremely difficult. Getting angry doesn't change the fact that a woman on a first or second date owes you nothing. The more you stew in your anger, the more you're going to give off vibes of neediness and desperation.
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:09 PM
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Asking her what you missed is cringey AF. It's not a job interview. Just move on with your life.
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:02 PM
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Especially since the not-performer one will probably feel a bit awkward and inadequate to see that very seductive woman that you have desire for if she is also trying to get your attention. Exactly this. Maybe the burlesque performer won't care, but the other girl is gonna feel awkward AF.
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:51 PM
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Sleeping together creates intimacy. If you guys are just hooking up, she's probably doing it to keep things casual.
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:20 AM
1

Maybe join a community sports league? I feel like a lot of volleyball and basketball players are built like that.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:54 PM
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Some guys are really into women with short hair-- you can browse r/shorthairedhotties for haircut inspiration.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:41 PM
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Have some empathy. Meeting a girl in public gives her a chance to make sure she's not going to end up locked up in your basement. For guys, the worst thing that's going to happen on a bad date is that you have a bad time. For women, it's assault or worse.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:36 AM
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Get yourself a big booty Latina.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:05 AM
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Maybe your junk tastes funny.
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:04 PM
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Bacterial Vaginosis, my guy. Vaginismus is when the vaginal muscles are too tight to make sex pleasurable or even possible.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:11 AM
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She needs to see a gynecologist.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:41 AM
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The sad truth is that you don't. Online dating apps are going to show you their profiles so you keep coming back, but they're not getting shown your profile because you're probably not in the same ranking algorithmically.
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:14 PM
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From my experience so far, gay clubs are a decent spot to game. The volume isn't as high as regular clubs but the talent is pretty good. Also, the girls seem more receptive. As a queer woman, this is why I don't bother with gay bars anymore.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:00 PM
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I'm just saying, by this logic, if your bro invites you over to do this for him... he doesn't see you as a threat.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:45 PM
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This only works if you're positive your friend is unattractive. 😂
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:31 PM
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Have you considered asking a licensed mental health professional?
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:36 PM
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Reddit personals, like r/r4r and r/dirtyr4r.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:53 PM
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If you're not a person who enjoys nightclubs, don't try to meet girls at clubs. You're not going to have much in common with that kind of girl anyway.
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:30 AM
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Because when the first words out of my mouth are "I have a boyfriend," men are like "Oh my God I'm just trying to have a conversation with you can't you treat me like a human being wtf" Or on the other end of the spectrum, you tell a man "no" outright and he pesters you the whole evening and then follows you to your car. "Accepting advances" from strange men often looks like being polite while trying to figure out how much danger I'm actually in and when it's safe to make an exit. Even average-l…
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:49 PM
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You sound a lot like my ex-- he was a South Asian dude with a lot of hair. I found his body hair sexy AF. I loved running my fingers through his chest hair while we would cuddle after sex. I agree with another commenter-- get tattoos. He had a bad-ass Ganesha tattoo that drove me wild. Also, you're definitely wearing too much cologne. One spray in the air and walk through it, plus antiperspirant if you sweat a lot. That's it. You sound like you're doing ok in the looks department. Your bigger pr…
/r/seduction30/12/21 03:44 PM
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Does this count as her chasing me? Correct. Relax and enjoy it. Sounds like she's pretty into you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:19 PM
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Movies are mediocre first dates. They're expensive and they don't give you any opportunity to build rapport. Do something interactive instead.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:39 AM
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You need a major paradigm shift, dude. A partnership is just that, but you're over here scared about to losing your ability to control your girlfriend. Grow up.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:58 AM
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If you're secure, then having a female friend has advantages: you can meet other women through her, you can learn more about how women work, and you get social proof from being seen in public with an attractive woman. Just don't ever be friends with a woman in hopes of eventually seducing her-- that reeks of desperation.
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:16 PM
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https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2019-02-14/single-on-valentine-s-day-it-might-be-where-you-live It's from 2019, but it's a start.
/r/seduction30/11/21 03:07 AM
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I'm a girl, but thank you. 😄
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:58 PM
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A good rule of thumb is just to describe either what you're gonna do or what you're doing right now. Gonna do: Something like, "I can't wait to (taste your pussy/be inside you/cum inside you/etc)," "I'm gonna make you cum with (this cock, my fingers/tongue, this toy)," "Ah yeah you're gonna make me cum" Doing: "I love being inside you," "It feels so good when you (suck my cock/clench down/ride me/spread your legs for me/etc)," "Ah yeah, (suck my cock/ride me/take my cock/etc) just like that," "Y…
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:55 PM
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I don't think your experience is the norm, though. There's a new post almost every day on r/nonmonogamy from a guy who has zero dating prospects while his girlfriend/wife has tons. Guys who want non-monogamous relationships need to realize it's a struggle sometimes.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:02 PM
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I know bringing it up to her will make me seem needy and controlling Because you are being needy and controlling. Attractive women get flirted with constantly, and most women-- especially younger women-- instinctively respond with courtesy even when we don't want the attention. I can't tell you how many times I've laughed at some guy's joke that wasn't even funny just because it's less riskier than being confrontational. The worst thing that happens when you turn down a woman? She cries. The wor…
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:32 PM
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People love to talk about themselves and what they're interested in. Ask questions, then use what they tell you to make jokes and flirt.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:05 AM
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This sub: "I've slept with over 200 women AmA" Also this sub: oMg tHiS aTtRAcTiVe wOmAn HaS hAd 7 pArTneRs 😭😭😭
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:14 PM
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Snap can be completely anonymous depending on how you set it up, IG is as private as you intend for it to be. 10 minutes on the internet with a phone number can get you someone's full name and address. If someone turns out to be a real creep, I can very easily block them on social media-- I can even block them by IP on some platforms. If they've got my phone number, they can harass me indefinitely unless I choose to go through the trouble of changing my number. Also, it goes both ways-- if he gi…
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:48 PM
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Woman here too-- I'd much rather give a random stranger from the internet a social media handle than a phone number.
/r/seduction23/08/21 03:10 PM
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I don’t have any friends(I don’t care for them) This reeks of a codependent, jealous relationship just waiting to happen.
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:58 AM
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How do you feel about her hooking up with other dudes, though?
/r/seduction06/06/21 05:59 AM
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There's a thick line between "douche" and "well-dressed." You can look like a grown-ass man with a nice physique without needing to stray into drywall-punching territory. Slim fit button downs, solid color t-shirts, polos, and sweaters are your friend.
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:42 PM
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Before you go out, do some thinking about what you have to talk about. It helps if you already do cool and interesting stuff. ("Man, I'm super sore from my hike yesterday. We went to (place)-- have you been?") What is interesting to you? What are you passionate about? Look up some current events if you need to. How often do you ask questions? Telling someone they're attractive doesn't move the conversation forward, but asking about a choice they made (clothing, jewelry, cars, books) does. Be obs…
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:48 PM
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I agree, it's a great massage oil, but it's not safe for use with condoms. People should only use water-based lubes if they're using latex condoms.
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:09 PM
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Okay, I'll say it: get some decent lube and tissues within an arm's reach of the bed. Oh, and I always feel special when a guy asks what I like to drink (alcoholic, sure, but especially non) and then just happens to have it when I open his fridge. :)
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:11 PM
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Nice smells around/ candles Seconded. The small effort of a $4 candle shows that he went out of his way to try to make his space nice and comfortable. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, they sell good candles at the supermarket. It is a super simple gesture that projects maturity and manliness.
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:07 PM
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On the contrary, you want to get rid of any evidence of any other girl being there recently (also, delete your ex's profile off your Netflix). Listen, I'm not a virgin, and I'm not expecting you to be, either. Yes, do take out the trash if there are condoms or condom wrappers in it, but if I had the (already mortifying) experience of a surprise visit from Aunt Flo, I would be grateful to a guy who was like, "Whatever, it's no big deal, I keep a couple of tampons around because things happen. Let…
/r/seduction12/02/21 02:54 AM
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Like the saying goes, tell smart girls they're pretty and tell pretty girls they're smart.
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:52 PM
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Everybody likes to feel recognized for their hard work and trust me, getting ready for a date is work. Every date means I: exfoliate, paint my nails, shave, moisturize, do my hair, squeeze myself into cute underwear, coordinate an outfit, pluck my brows/chin/upper lip, and apply perfume and makeup. So even a simple "You look nice" or "Hey cutie/beautiful" when we first see each other goes a long way.
/r/seduction10/01/21 05:51 PM
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Amorous woman here-- if I meet a guy who doesn't drink, I'll ask him out for ice cream. My regular spot even has dairy free options. Doesn't have the gravity of a dinner date, but allows me to meet them in a public place and assess our chemistry. Also, very easy to make a quick exit from when circumstances, uh, arise.
/r/seduction07/07/20 12:27 AM
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(Think nerdy, reads book, etc). Just one. One book. Only one.
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:04 AM
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You said you doubt the existence of a quality girl who cannot be gamed. If you're looking for a relationship with the kind of woman who's going to enhance your life (as OP seems to be doing) you might be able to get your foot in the door with game but it's going to take more than just solid PUA techniques to maintain that.
/r/seduction26/11/15 05:56 AM
2

Game will get a girl to notice you, respond to you, and maybe even bang you, but you can't build an awesome, fulfilling LTR on game alone.
/r/seduction26/11/15 04:45 AM
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Seconded-- there would be many women out there who would be just fine with a guy on the smaller side. A petite woman's lady parts can't stretch indefinitely-- some guys just are too big for some women. Penetration is overrated, anyway. If you don't know how to be amazing in bed in other ways, now's the time to learn. Plus, a satisfied sex partner is usually all too happy to return the favor...
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:29 AM
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24/F. Only 10% of women are lesbians. Sigh.
/r/seduction07/12/13 11:52 PM
3

This. Go cold turkey on the compliments. She will notice, trust me, and when she brings it up tell her that you thought she didn't like being complimented. It will work wonders.
/r/seduction17/11/13 02:00 PM
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Dude, there's tons of stuff. You might start with Arden Leigh's book-- she's an fPUA that studied with Neil Strauss. You can download a copy for Kindle for pretty cheap.
/r/seduction08/11/13 03:56 PM
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Fuuuuuuuuuck. This thought alone is a game-changer.
/r/seduction20/10/13 02:19 PM
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Reading this was the kick in the ass I needed. Number closed with three pretty girls tonight. Thank you so. effing. much.
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:51 PM
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I was high on reading this and the link you posted. Number closed with three girls tonight. Thanks, brother.
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:50 PM
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