Couldnt agree more. My comment was more based on the fact that in this sub we routinely see the "I'm 23, have 12 kids by 15 dudes, my kids are my life, if you cant handle me at my worst you dont deserve me at my best, looking for someone over 6 ft tall, making 6 figures a year, NO HOOK-UPS". This girl has a legitimate concern (albeit stringing the guy along) and was looking for advice.
Honestly, I dont see a problem here. Meaning it doesn't fit this sub well. She isn't unreasonable in her question. The obvious answer is that she is scared of commitment and this guy is moving too quickly. Regardless, I don't see how this fits the "Where are all the good men" sub. Silly: yes, fit for this sub: no
She let dudes cum in her bed, now she needs to lay in it. This is the most poetic thing I have heard in 2019. Thanks for ending the year on solid wisdom.