| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 920 | ladies and gentlemen welcome to the stage...pickmeisha! | PICKME CULTURE | karichar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:24 PM |
| 855 | get a dog if you want obedience | karichar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:06 AM | |
| 401 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to start | MALE DEPRAVITY | karichar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 342 | men like this are why I’m happy being single | MALE DEPRAVITY | karichar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | feeling so lucky to have been raised by a HVM father | How-To High Value | karichar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:12 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 237 | Online dating be like...😂the part about “you’re gonna have to pick me up” is too accurate lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Two male Youtubers spend 20 minutes discussing how Aragorn is a rejection of toxic masculinitythe LOTR is a great example of men actually having emotions and friendship and feelings rather than just depressing it all to be action douchebros, which is part of why I love these movies so much also eowyn saying “I am no man” and defeating the unkillable guy? she’s my heroine lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 41 | But Porn Is Supposed To “Empower” Women, Right? How Empowered Do You Think She Feels RN? 🙄if there’s any 18-19yo girls out there reading this: don’t start an only fans. if you ever want to change careers, this will bite you in the ass. trust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:00 PM |
| 43 | Where's the lie?the fake braces is one of the grossest porn tropes to me. I mean it’s all fucking disgusting, but there’s something especially creepy and pedophilic about fake braces | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 229 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕imagine being so pathetically insecure that seeing a woman buy herself a car sends you into a misogynistic rage 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 40 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡all I’ve seen on Twitter is men defending him and making jokes on her, it makes me sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 272 | i felt this one deep within my soulas a woman in law school where classes are heavily discussion based/Socratic method...I feel this in my soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 38 | Sad but trueseriously, and I hate the whole “oh it’s just being realistic.” bitch are dragons realistic!?!?!!? (yes, this is aimed at game of thrones) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 40 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."being single is so glorious I never have to share a single bite of food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:45 PM |
| 11 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?ok yes I agree but can you elaborate? This is a really interesting idea to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 22 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?I have never felt such rage after reading anything hoooly shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 85 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsEvery time I tell a man I’m bi I regret it later. Like, bi ladies, if you’re reading this, please don’t tell your male partners lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 3 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startI was raised in a strict evangelical home and I’ve never heard of this sooo lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 60 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startseriously. I wish I could somehow message this woman and tell her to gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 104 | Anyone else feel significantly less attracted to men because of the existence of porn?Oh my god you put it into words. This is exactly how I feel. Idk how to find men who don’t watch porn they literally all do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 531 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startI’m going to start anyways: 1. Age gap 2. Deferring to mommy 3. Humiliating your wife by announcing her sexual history at the wedding and essentially calling her a whore Edited to add: 4. Hyper religion 5. Calling her his wife already? so many red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 60 | Which of you saved this girl?I instantly thought of my FDS ladies when I saw this tweet lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:07 AM |
| 70 | Being single is okay!wow this just made me emotional, I didn't realize that I needed this today. thank you op <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 16 | Okay do these posts piss anyone else off? The same couple of incidents are reposted to make it seem like it happens all the time, and everyone in the comments are more pissed off than if an actual rape occurred.I feel the same way about all the Johnny Depp stuff too tbh. Obviously he went through something awful and I don’t want to disparage that. But watching every one stand up for him on the internet when I’ve NEVER seen these motherfuckers even lift a finger when women are abused and murdered everyday... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 42 | Preach 🙌🏼I have one friend, ONE, who has a HVM bf I can tolerate. The rest....oh honey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 153 | Oh Holy HellI hope she never does anything for him again 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:34 AM |
| 42 | Oh Holy Hellthankfully the comments on the original post are also roasting him instead of praising....whatever the fuck this is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 36 | Honestly nicer than most places I’ve been for dates (Waffle House and then Walmart)exactly, that or Veep lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 434 | men like this are why I’m happy being singleimagine telling the love of your life, the man who is going to be the father of your children, that you’re pregnant with your planned child and he runs away like a little fucking kid how pathetic edit: ty for the gold fellow queen ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 49 | Guess the subevery time I start to feel a little sad about having been single for a couple years, I read posts like this and instantly feel relieved again lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 03:11 PM |
| 4 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???I also enjoy Wine and Crime — female besties drinking and talking about murder? Sign me up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 35 | FDS has ruined my lifeI feel this so hard. Just last night, my friend was telling me a story about her boyfriend and she was so happy about him engaging in some bare minimum bullshit and it was all I could to not roll my eyes at it !!!! FDS has totally changed my outlook and it’s inescapable lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | I thought this belonged here.IIRC, he said something in the comments about how he thought her motherly instincts were going to kick in...boy how stupid do you have to believe that a woman who is actively telling you she wants to abort is going to develop motherly instincts imho this scrote got everything he deserved but I feel bad for the kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 9 | FDS got me likeAs a current single female law student, this is badass as hell and totally inspiring. So hyped to see women like you living the badass dream I hope to have for myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 130 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️So true. My ex bf was a total “nice guy” — quiet, shy, artistic, played guitar, etc. but in reality he was an ass who demanded I engage in super gross BDSM and had a raging porn addiction and frequently talked about how “entitled” women were and overall just a major 🚩. Appearances are often misleading, so my general approach is to trust no man at first. Sucks, but it’s the way it has to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 15 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellPREACH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 27 | This is absolutely amazing, and a great way to deal with such.not OP, but this article discusses several studies and is a decent starting point https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/09/police-officers-who-hit-their-wives-or-girlfriends/380329/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:57 AM |
| 109 | “Don’t You Miss Sex??”This is a perfect way of putting it. The fantasy I have of sex in my head? Hell yeah, I want that!!! But translating the theory into practice...99.9% of the time is entirely unsatisfying and honestly makes me feel gross afterwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 97 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏when a man says no offense, 100% chance something offensive is coming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 71 | When men say they wish women would ask them out...they really have no idea the effort that goes into dating as a woman and they complain about having to do the simple task of growing a pair and asking smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 21 | Sharing a drink and wanting her to buy him bubblegumgood lord. this reminds me of a friend from high school. when we were 18, she went on a date with this 22yo who showed up to pick her up thirty minutes late, high out of his mind. they get to the movie theater and he doesn’t have his wallet so she buys them everything. this high dumbass orders like $30 of movie food (popcorn, large drink, all that shit) and proceeds to eat all of it. he then fell asleep when the movie STARTED. and slept the whole time. AND YET she gave him another chance. seven … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 31 | Lazy, low-effort "date" suggestions got me like...This is a really good way of putting it. I’d way rather “chill and watch Netflix” with myself lmfao what makes you think I would do it with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 167 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂I always wonder what goes through their mind before posting this shit, like was this scrote so narcissistic he thought ppl were going to agree with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Looking for FDS Friendly Song Recommendations to Add to My PlaylistGood as hell - lizzo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:04 AM |
| 21 | I joined this subreddit not because I'm looking for a HVM, but because this is a safe space for women calling men out on their bullshit unapologetically.fucking preach sister. if only there were more spaces like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)erectile dysfunction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 74 | Why do some men seem to put out no effort in themselves in pursuit of a relationship?I think it’s because historically they didn’t have to. Women were so conditioned to “FIND HUSBAND OR BE WORTHLESS” that men didn’t really have to try. And now that women are realizing our worth comes from outside of husbands, the scrotes still haven’t adapted and think having a hot woman by their side is something they deserve rather than something they have to work for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 74 | This is what pickmeishas and LVM do to families. I am so glad I don't have any brothersI love my mother more than anything in the world. If she ever did this shit, I would call the cops and be halfway across the world away from her so freaking fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 6 | It’s not worth it in the long runthis is one of my favorite books that completely changed my view on the sex industry! I used to be a liberal feminist “woohoo bondage is empowering I love BDSM and porn hehe” and that book was part of my journey towards rejecting all of those that of ideas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:09 PM |
| 19 | Dude...electric. chair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:13 AM |
| 22 | The sheriff fired her because she’s a lesbian so she ran for his office. She demolished him.a sliver of hope in these dark times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:12 AM |
| 11 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandthe worst part is the pickmes in the replies defending him as being “cute and caring” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 24 | This is actually quite sad. her husband has a fur kink addictionimagine finding out the father of your child was fucking a stuffed animal...wtfff this poor woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:31 AM |
| 15 | The ultimate pickmeisha storywow, what an ass, that is so awful. I’m glad you’re out of that situation, proud of you for leveling up ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:30 PM |
| 25 | When people ask me why I’m single, I show them this screenshot.oof his misogyny jumped out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:28 PM |
| 13 | Keep your standards high, ladies!This is the best piece of philosophy that FDS has brought into my life lol, no more settling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 42 | I don’t even know where to start; the threesome fantasy, the ‘conversion’ fantasy and her thanking him for making her day with his gross comment on her marriage... Just shows how they view women reallyThis ^ That’s the first thing men say when I tell them I’m bisexual, it sucks that it discourages me from being open and upfront about who I am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:59 PM |
| 101 | You are under ZERO obligation to be the “cool girlfriend”This just gave me horrible flashbacks to when I was a Pickmeisha who did the same thing. I thought it would be “cool” and “fun” and instead I just felt sick watching my ex rub all over those poor women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 72 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?Constant posting about relationships is an automatic red flag to me lol, can’t really explain why it just is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend is kept secret and only ever referred to as a "friend" by her boyfriend of three years. Apologises to boyfriend for being "petty and needy".Wow this reminds me of a friend I had. Her bf refused to let her meet his family OR friends for two years and lied about her existence (he had a good relationship with his family and got along well with his parents, who I knew through working in the same field), and she always said "he's just private like that." Girl, you've been living together for a year, dating for two, and you think that it's normal that he has completely hidden you from his family and friends and never told anyone you exist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:19 PM |
| 26 | Man repeatedly misses work because of porn binges.why tf do the men in our society act like this is normal behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Fellow Intimidating Women, How Do You Navigate?I'm glad I found this sub because I think about this all the time and feel crazy lol. Like how come I'm only attracted to 0.2% of men??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 08:37 PM |
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