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2	Please help...Am I missing something?? People will call you out if you judge something before you try it. If you had said "I've taken a few salsa classes but decided that community wasn't for me" then no one would harp on it. The answer is that you give the stretch activities a try (and I mean 3-5 good attempts, not just try it once) and then draw the line from an informed place. In the meantime, there are meetups and Facebook groups and communities springing up all the time around common hobbies. I suspect you can find more than jus…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 08:54 PM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? Most hobbies could be done alone at home AND could be done socially. Start by taking your existing hobbies and look for the social/community experiences it has to offer. I think you got some great suggestions on this thread already. If you want a stretch goal, you can further supplement that with generic social activities - salsa/swing dancing, taking classes (cooking, art, writing, etc), join a co-ed sport club, etc. Out of the suggestions given to you on this thread - what are you planning to …	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 04:23 PM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? Great! There are some things you can do within your existing set of hobbies that people have mentioned - join book clubs, discord/gaming communities, your gym might have some community events you can explore. In addition, consider stretching into just one or two social hobbies - trivia night, social dancing salsa/swing, runner's club, etc. Really consider joining a coed intramural sport - it's a great workout and camaraderie at the same time. Lastly, remember even if these groups don't produce a…	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 05:35 PM
5	Please help...Am I missing something?? "Key (to the common interest approach) is to not make finding someone the main goal - keeps the pressure and creep-factor out." You missed the point already. Start with what hobbies YOU are interested in, independent of whether you can meet women through them. People can tell if you're faking a hobby just so you can hook up with women and it comes off really skeevy. What interests do you actually have? Maybe this thread can weigh in on how to use your interest to open up your social circles.	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 04:55 AM
6	Average looking male slipping back into redpill Are you even in the right sub? OP posted in exredpill because he's self aware that his thinking is problematic. The fact that he posted here meant he was looking for an exredpill who has "been there" to mentor him back to healthy thinking. The helpful approach would be to show empathy, give a different perspective to the problematic narratives/assumptions, and guide him back to a healthy mindset. You however, just saw this as an excuse to get self-righteous, and that makes your comment incredibl…	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 04:47 AM
1	Something happened at my school. I need advice. Did i do the right thing? You fucked up in your execution. If your intentions were you help her avoid embarrassment and the reality of your actions is that you actually embarrassed her even more - why the heck are you being so righteous? You failed at your own intentions. You also forced help on her that she didn't ask for, and in the process botched that help and made a bigger scene. Of course she didn't appreciate it. No one owes you thanks. If you had good intentions, you wouldn't be so defensive. A person who was tru…	/r/askTRP	18/11/19 06:09 PM
1	Something happened at my school. I need advice. Did i do the right thing? You've posted this in 4 different subreddits and the majority consensus seems clear in each one, you fucked up. Hundreds of people have given you advice, some of them even wrote out a script on how to apologize to the girl and fix your relationship with her. People took time to help you. You've ignored all of them, instead ditching the thread and asking yet another group to validate your actions. It's human to fuck up every once in awhile. We all do it. You are probably not even the first and wo…	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 06:16 PM
0	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. I thought so.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/04/17 03:39 AM
0	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. Look it's my fault for continuing to engage in this argument with you. Are you in your teens? Twenties?	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/04/17 03:28 AM
1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. Take a tour around the US and hit a Left leaning college in each state you go through. She is a prefect example of the average Left leaning Feminist describing themselves as "Liberals". Perfect representation of her generation and party. Your assertion is that claims must be backed by examples OP made a claim that wasn't backed by example My counter-claim was to point out that he couldn't generalize that the woman in the video is representative of "the average" liberal feminist (aka pointing out…	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/04/17 03:07 AM
1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. Dismissing the women's march attendees with your own hypothesis on what they believe is bull. Your musings that the women there don't believe in equal parenting, treating all persons with respect, is your own projections. The strawman you've built is rather insulting to all the women and men who I know marched that day. I hear your request for 'rational voices' but honestly it's a lot of work to put in for someone who is pushing a (now clear) anti-feminist agenda. I'd rather not.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/04/17 02:17 AM
0	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. Not true. He made his claim first so why is my second claim the one that requires proof? The burden of proof should be on him, and then secondly on me.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/04/17 02:07 AM
-1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. There were 3-4 million people who self-identified as feminist during the women's march. Let's aggressively err on the side of caution and claim that at least half of those feminists were also liberals (in reality, a majority were likely liberals). Is at least 1.5-2 million peaceful liberal feminist considered enough of a 'mass' to provide the counter point to OP's claim? If you keep insisting on mischaracterizing the average liberal feminist then I don't think we'll agree on anything here. Right…	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 10:05 PM
2	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. I'm a woman, 30s, liberal feminist. Most of my friends are in the same age range you mentioned and I know a fair number of older women as well. I have never personally encountered any feminist who acts like the woman does in the video. I don't doubt that these "Antifa" types exist, but they hardly represent the average liberal feminist. Millions of feminists marched in the Women's March with pride and non-violence. Do you similarly think that neonazis represent the average white male? If every f…	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 09:00 PM
3	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. So you're sticking to it that the average liberal feminist is exactly like the woman in the video who crashed a protest in order to be violent? Why aren't we seeing more in the news then? All these angry violent liberal feminists who like to punch things must just be hiding out somewhere. We're talking the average liberal feminist right? They ought to number in the tens of thousands!	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 08:47 PM
-1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. She is a prefect example of the average Left leaning Feminist describing themselves as "Liberals". It's his job to admit that he has sensationalized his claim and to also admit that "Antifa girl" is not a representative sample of the average liberal feminist, as he claims. Because I bet he can look towards the "average" women around him who are liberals AND feminists and see that they don't look or act like the "Antifa girl"	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 07:17 PM
2	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. Why do you keep sending me photos? What was the last one about?	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 07:12 PM
-1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. It's not a representation of the liberal party or of feminists. You really can't pull out a single feminist or liberal who are more centrist in their beliefs?	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 06:36 PM
2	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. You've profiled her on her hair?	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 06:35 PM
1	Antifa girl goes on CBS claiming she is a victim. Redditors are slamming the comments with video evidence of her throwing glass bottles and punching people with her weighted gloves. Also, turns out she is a fetish dreadlock porn model and her entire family now knows. What? This is what you choose to label a "liberal" "feminist" issue? She's none of that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/04/17 03:42 PM
2	Uber bans rider for life over threat to accuse driver of rape You copied a post I created saying reusable pads are great to claim that I'm a false rape apologist? Lmao WUT?	/r/MensRights	09/04/17 08:16 AM
0	Uber bans rider for life over threat to accuse driver of rape Oh ok.	/r/MensRights	08/04/17 01:07 AM
2	Uber bans rider for life over threat to accuse driver of rape This is not an obvious point. This is the circle jerk point. And what is this point contributing? What is the call to action?	/r/MensRights	07/04/17 11:44 PM
1	Uber bans rider for life over threat to accuse driver of rape What's the male version of a Debbie Downer called?	/r/MensRights	07/04/17 06:26 PM
0	"beside" them? I had to say something. You didn't answer the question. Did you open the link?	/r/MensRights	26/01/17 02:58 PM
0	"beside" them? I had to say something. It's an expression. Do... do you know the expression?	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 10:47 PM
1	"beside" them? I had to say something. Mens right is not opposed to feminism. Feminism is not opposed to mens rights. Wage gap is a dumb issue that doesn't suppress mens wages. Out of the ones you've listed these are legitimate concerns for me (sources on these?): continuously blocks the introduction of male-support shelters for sexual/domestic abuse ignores female pedophiles actively fights against equal custody rights Now, none of these concerning moves are in the spirit of feminism. Your anecdotal evidence is just as persuasive (o…	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 05:46 PM
2	"beside" them? I had to say something. I don't consider feminists to be anti-mens rights. Feminism is about equal rights and are very welcoming of men into their ranks. There are of course factions that take things too far (you're probably referring to "femi-nazis"). Let's take the women's march unity principles as an example. Which of these directly oppress mens rights? Most of the arguments I hear against feminism isn't that it directly treads on mens rights but that men have it worse so women should shut up. In which case we're in…	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 05:37 PM
1	"beside" them? I had to say something. The movie is about mens rights. I looked it up as part of this discussion. It's unfortunate that she chose the name The Red Pill because it definitely conflates the two. Not sure if it's an attempt to put forward a new definition for Red Pill or just riding the controversial wave. I'll concede that point, but the other concerning posts and comments I've listed still stand. Mens right need not be anti-feminist. So what I'm telling you is... none of the things you just said.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 05:06 PM
0	"beside" them? I had to say something. Are you against dropping the anti-feminist flag? Why must mens right be anti-feminist?	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 05:04 PM
2	"beside" them? I had to say something. You're right. I haven't been on mens rights extensively because of all the hate towards women and women rights. However, in browsing the sub today, I see promotions for a red pill movie, belittlement of the service women provided during the great wars, memes tearing down women who are celebrating female role models, and more red pill (at least 4 mentions in the mens right front page) I can get behind men rights over male rape, divorce settlements, custody, and in fighting a hyper-masculine socie…	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 04:24 PM
1	"beside" them? I had to say something. This is the akin to dragging someone back into the ditch with you because you're salty that they're progressing faster. Because Men Rights hasn't gained as much traction means that no one else gets to march for their rights? That's pretty petty if that's the case. Or, you can recruit women in support of men rights. The Women's march had plenty of male feminists in their midst. It's possible to make Men Rights a cross-gender platform so long as you stop positioning yourselves as anti-feminists.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 04:17 PM
1	"beside" them? I had to say something. I'm in support of Mens rights in divorce, in custody battles, etc. But the majority of the posts on this sub are about anti-feminism, not equality. It seems like the general sentiment here is because men have it worse in some regards, women should shut up. Y'all ought to join sides rather than alienating the women who care about women rights. There is room for both men and women rights - it's called equality.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 04:14 PM
-2	"beside" them? I had to say something. MensRights looks more like a foil for The Red Pill.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 04:12 PM
0	"beside" them? I had to say something. Yes, women were able to work before then, how else did the textile industry boom during the industrial revolution? However during the war they took on the factory work in munitions plants, aircraft factories, and other war production plants. Yes, today women are allowed to go into service, what about it? I won't defend the white feather campaign, but argue that feather campaign was a result of a patriarchal society and a definition of what 'manhood' was. Now in our more equal society, moves like…	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 04:05 PM
-2	"beside" them? I had to say something. Man, you want us to engage in a race to the bottom. Not as many women died in the war, women suck! Forget the good service that they provided America during the war in the capacity that they were allowed to work. You expect the women to protest and boycott during the war?? When their services were needed in factories and hospitals to serve their boys? Get out of town.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 02:43 PM
-1	"beside" them? I had to say something. This is misleading, especially in the historical context. Women were not allowed to serve as armed forces. However they came out in numbers to work as nurses or in factories, for the first time ever (a major cultural shift from the stay at home wife) in order to serve their country. If they had been allowed to do more to save their husbands, brothers, and sons, I bet you they would have.	/r/MensRights	25/01/17 02:39 PM
-2	Equality in a nutshell [Facebook bullshit] I'm sure both sides feel this way, and I am also sure that there are scores of reasonable feminists and manists who don't resort to victimizing themselves to get the upper hand in argument. In my view, the gender advantages that women argue for do not produce the same disadvantage that men complain about. Men are more likely to suffer workplace injuries <> women would like to get paid the same for the same work. The exception is custody. What are other oppositions that you see between men/women …	/r/MensRights	10/01/17 06:03 PM
0	Equality in a nutshell [Facebook bullshit] I think it's unreasonable for men/(manists?) to bring up their own gender discrepancies as a repudiation of the woman's point. A valid counter point to an argument should be "your claims may not be true because of XYZ reasons", not "well, someone else has it bad too". Men's rights aren't necessarily the opposite of women's rights. It's a shame that Manists (ok, I'll embrace the term) position themselves that way. This almost goes back to communication 101 rather than being something about the ge…	/r/MensRights	10/01/17 03:45 PM
1	Male privilege. Excellent - and I would argue that this is the foundation of feminism. I'm curious what this new definition is that you're arguing against and who has hijacked it? And yes, women don't negotiate. No one has ever shown/told them how to. Fortunately, with additional professional programs they're now patching in the skills they missed out on as girls and learning how to promote themselves for equal consideration in the workplace. And that, to me, are the benefits of the feminism movement that I kno…	/r/MensRights	10/01/17 06:00 AM
2	Male privilege. Lots of points here. Just to get on the same page for a moment, I argue that Women don't need to do the same job that men do. If women do well at desk jobs or nursing than say heavily physical work such as construction or hauling garbage, that's totally fine. Women aren't men and that isn't at all the argument for gender equality. However for the jobs that women are in, they need to get rewarded on the same merits as men. Meaning, same job, same results, same pay. Do we agree on that?	/r/MensRights	10/01/17 12:43 AM
14	Male privilege. Barring the last sentence, I think Salt_Mines makes good points. Do you disagree with how to define feminism?	/r/MensRights	09/01/17 06:37 PM