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| 1 | Mixed signals from brazillian girl | karimpii | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 11:51 PM |
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| 1 | Using seduction techniques in other parts of lifeOld time pua's were people who became leaders in persuasion and psychology and hypnosis just to make girls uncontrollably turned on. It's funny, but they became experts in their respective fields just to get good with girls, and then remarked later how amazed they were that they could apply these skills outside of their love life for their own gain (something mentioned in the game as well). Most of the content is great for closing sales, but there's a niche part of it that dives into getting ppl… | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Using seduction techniques in other parts of lifeA lot of the books that came out around the time of The Game. For example, the yes ladder mentioned in the book is used in closing sales. Ross Jeffries stuff is actually great for setting frame in any situation using psychological techniques. It's akin to self hypnosis or meditation. Really, lurk the old message boards, filter out the trash (there's a lot, but there's a lot on seddit too) and take what u will from it. Any time u take advice involving girls on the internet ur gonna get a decent h… | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Using seduction techniques in other parts of lifeYeah the old school stuff had way more use outside the field, as they were more like psychological routines. Can't really use much of the advice given on this thread outside of it with the same degree of effect, like take it from me, don't kino people when doing business. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Using seduction techniques in other parts of lifeI will say this, people in the pua community of old (pre 2006) actually wrote books on how to sell houses. Those books were later used for professional selling courses at different universities, and you'll see some things in there about how to close deals that should ring a bell (ie. The yes ladder). Source: took professional selling at college, mfw I knew half of what the book taught c: | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 05:50 PM |
| 3 | What is your favorite question to ask on a date? (And a small protip)So everyone's going to say "avoid asking questions" but usually those ppl end up just talking about their own interests. Others use the age old thing Where they turn it into a statement like "I bet you go surfing, you look like a surfer." Which is cool, but this shouldn't be the entirety of your conversation. I'm a firm believer in mixing it up. As for me, my questions usually go like this: Me: days like today really make me miss home. I know most people associate storms with indoor weather but … | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Efficiently taking a shower after you bring a girl back?Uuuuh. Soap=shampoo or body wash in 60% of the first world. The point is, use something like dove body wash for dudes. It barely leaves a scent behind, don't use something that is supposed to have an aroma, because as letsgetrandy kindly put it, they may prefer sweaty balls over old spice flavored dick | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Are there any safe ways of telling a friend I like her without ruining the relationship?Aaah this reminds me of a situation I was in. I told my ex coworker I liked her during one of our coffee dates and said "so if you're interested, we can both leave in the same car, go on a date, and I can give you a massage later maybe (prefaced earlier with "if u think I can make u feel good sitting down, u should try laying face down"). But, if you are not down, then we leave seperately and spare the discomfort of asking 20 questions as to why not, and go back to friends who simply get coffee … | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage multiple girls during valentines season?Well, I would probably save myself the turmoil and avoid bday for all of them. Just say u don't believe it but buy em flowers | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Efficiently taking a shower after you bring a girl back?Use a moist towelettes and lightly scented soap. If ur junk smells like axe body wash Itl suck | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 06:54 AM |
| 1 | I feel like getting laid is 10x easier if you have your own place...Yes. But not the way u think. Getting them there is the same, but at your own place you control all the factors. What you can't control is your hippy room mate barging into ur room mid Bj acting surprised a "girl was in here" to ask if I would like to smoke weed (I don't smoke weed). Personal experience. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 12:18 AM |
| 15 | So this is the power of a freeze out?High emotional states don't go away very quickly. What you saw was the raw energy of her jealousy repurposed for sexual desire. Pissing girls off and flipping their shit tests is kind of the only way to do it imo, but don't go around actively trying to piss her off. Just enjoy it when it works in your favor and curse it when it doesn't. In the long run, doing it on purpose will give u a very emotionally unstable relationships | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | hey im 17 m and im kinda lost on how to make my next moveits all gonna be up to the luck of your draw and how well u know her dude, best of luck. | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 07:27 AM |
| 1 | hey im 17 m and im kinda lost on how to make my next moveGame doesn't work on high schoolers, girls are too young usually to have a feel for the social aspects of real life, and often have varied reactions to even the most basic of material. It's all tribal, so a lot of the factors for/against you are already determined man. 80% situational luck, just go for it or wait. Not much else you can do. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I need help the girl who I want to date was in an go cart accident and her head was hurt bad. I still care about her but I don't even know how to approach her anymore.Yeah dude we specialize in getting girls who don't remember our names because of their attitudes or social stigma, not because of serious injuries. I'm morally obligated to tell you to really ask yourself if you want to pursue this (don't tell us) and whether or not you can handle waiting a looooong time before anything substantial happens between you two | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | What are your go to spots to meet girls for those of us under 21?Depends ur age. in the U.S., a large portion of game until you get absolute freedom (bars) is social circle game. It means less time cold approaching, more time expanding your network of friends. that doesn't mean no cold approaching however, every successful cold approach has potential for another untapped network of friends. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women.Honestly dude, call them out on it. About 80% of my friends are girls, but if they say shit like this I call them out on it. I establish myself as an authority figure, and simply say "that's fucked up." They don't ask details, and normally stop talking about it because I showed them that behavior like that disqualifies them in my eyes. I know someone is going to point out that the girls might be shit testing. You are right, but I'd rather be honest than pass a shit test, that behavior makes the … | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I ran some experiments.. Has anybody noticed College girls not very interested in dating?Definitely true. It's just as advantageous to just get invited to the same parties though. To most college girls, dates are like commitment. And they hate commitment. And being totes honest, if she only hangs with u to party, she wants free booze. She's just a poor college girl after all | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the shittest YOU personally get the most?I bet you say that to all the girls | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I(20F) make it clear that I actually really am looking for something casual?If you said u just wanted drinks and sex, and the guy thought u were leading him on, I got to question how clearly you worded your statement, or if the guy just didn't listen | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Just go travelling. [self improvement]Or get really good at improv lying stories. I mess with ppl by seeing how long it takes before they call bullshit, but most girls don't give a shit they just want an interesting story. I mean, do I really think the bar girl I just met really cares what I did last summer? FffffffFuck no. My opinion, is just once a week act like you are on vacation at your town, and do all the crazy shit you would do other places. It's a mental frame that keeps u thinking nothing cool is going on where you are | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Just Got The Classic "Im Not The Hookup-type"Shit test: just act like you would if she didn't say that. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Question about how to not seem too eager during kino.Keep ur touching her to being touched by her ratio to 2/3 | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes forever to reply to textSend that bitch a smiley face. Bitches love smiley faces | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I(22F) have never had a one night stand. I'm meeting a guy on Friday and I want to make it obvious that I want to sleep with him. Help???I don't see a danger in being too obvious, but I'm a manslut so idk. And if he doesn't suggest it, ask if he wants to watch a movie at his place, ie "Netflix and chill" | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you think pick up / seduction is creepy?yeah, give them a couple years. It's a shit eating way to qualify yourself to girls, but it doesn't get you far and does bite you in the cheeks later on with those same girls. | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Instant dated an Italian girl. What could go wrong, went wrong.Haha damn man. I probably would have responded with "whether you are a tool to me or the man you claim you're in an unhealthy relationship with, it doesn't matter. You're still the tool. good luck" It wouldn't have helped, but the truth hurts and she needs to face her fear of being out of a relationship/alone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | K close, cock block, a pt II.U haven't really said much about y'all's interaction except that u guys got physical. Do u have anything else? Put ur convos into text format? | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date...But for real, go service industry mode, get them to talk about themselves, crack a joke to assure them there's good vibes and that encourages them to tell their story. Bartenders and servers are good because they know how to get people out of their shell and talking non stop. Minimal effort, just listen, interject with San opinion to show u are also engaged, etc. hell, maybe she'll even too you | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date...Talk about food. Bitches love food | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder good at gauging attractiveness? It's destroying me but I haven't deleted it for one reason....Nah. | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | My mind is telling me no but my body is telling me yeahSo what I'm reading here is that you're scared to make a move, and your brain has come up with reasons why, and all the while your body is pissed off every time you see one of these girls get one step closer to being closed by other guys. Be honest man, you're just scared to try right? Nothing wrong with that, but it is an obstacle to overcome. I was in a similar position 3 years ago, freshman year college. Lots of cute girl friends, didn't want to close them. I'd get irked everyone and then whe… | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 04:57 PM |
| 2 | What's your trick when scared?Social momentum is a good one, being in the mood like ur on top is good too. Or put on the super calm and collected demeanor a of your favorite bartenders. If those don't work, I use the hypnosis excessive Ross Jeffries describes in the game, but I do it to myself. It works well enough to clear out any unwanted emotions, is simple, and can be done before going out. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Need Help, Best Friend Cock BlockI mean your friend is gonna get mad either way. Just do what you have to do to keep good terms with your conscious. Tell him ur going for it, or not. It's not his place to give consent or to take it away. But a little warning couldn't hurt. But be careful, nothing is more dangerous than a desperate person. You'll find even best friends plotting against you if they become desperate. Hell, he probably already has a feeling. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you think pick up / seduction is creepy?How old are ur friends? If they're still in college, just remember it's the popular thing to make fun of any guy that's chatting up strangers. I know because my friends do the same thing. Thing is, to them the difference between being creepy or not is how the girl receives it, which is a flawed way to look at it. But worst of all is knowing they only make fun of guys that do that because they don't have the balls to put themselves out there and get shutdown. If any of that seems familiar, I'm su… | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you.Haha yeah I see it. Iv had my share as well, but some of my girl friends are actually good wingmen. I think it takes some filtering of your friend group. I guess the lesson is, dont automatically assume your girl friends actually want to help you when it comes to pick up | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Going on an exchange semester to the US, got any tips?Just be chill and talk to ppl, no matter what you say it will sound interesting | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Female with a question about flirting."Just do it" -Shia | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do I seem to attract younger girls?Don't worry about it. In my experience, at every stage of life, girls are more attracted to the older guys in each stage. Do at the end of ur highschool years, you do get glomped by jailbait. Just wait till you hit 21, then freshman/sophomore girls become easy. But for the most part, ignore it and focus on your game | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Club game; does it exist?Lots of people fake having fun or being the life of the party. In day to day stuff, girls have a harder time telling the difference. In nightclubs, it becomes clear who's faking it to up their social approval and who's actually having/giving fun. Go to a club that plays music you like, have a few drinks with friends. in my experience, doing that has been a double edge sword for me. Il often refuse to risk throwing off my fun vibe by approaching anyone and getting shut down. So just don't get too… | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time you pick up girls on your own or with a friend on your back?You got two kinda of guys. Wingmen, and pack leaders. Wingmen, like me, get too preoccupied helping the rest of the group get laid. So I do my best when I'm alone, because I do t have to pick up after anyone's mess. Pack leaders excel in a group because they can focus on themselves and use the group to their advsntage. Example, my friend sucks at opening. I open, he slides in. But I never bring this guy because pack leaders have to be self centered, that's their game. If they're not feeling it, … | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | getting shy girls to meet againI usually stay out of kids stuff, because pick up techniques were made to work on people with fully developed minds and personalities, and I feel as though teenagers, especially girls, are far more fickle and random because of it. That being said, second girl is nervous. She's probably been told to avoid boys like you because she'll get her heart broken. That being said, id avoid taking advise anymore from this sub until u hit 18. The self improvement stuff is gold, but you don't want to get adv… | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Getting rid of insecurityHun, I wish there was a magic pill to solve insecurity fast, but there isn't. You gotta take a leap of faith and hope things fly. But most importantly, you gotta stop blaming yourself if it doesn't. No "I should have been more careful, maybe I wouldn't have gotten hurt." The only actions you are responsible for are your own, if he messes up, it's on him, not you. If you really think he deserves the trust, give it to him. be proud of yourself and invest time in yourself, and surely one day the in… | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 04:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Pride & Frustration. Hottest girl yet.I think the first opportunity u had was at the apartment before yall went out for the night | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 10:46 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Got a Highschool Sweetheart out on a Date with me after Four Years... No Dice, What Gives?Tldr dude, tldr | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up, lots of girls im dating all in the same placeYou can't control how theyl react, because in a situation like this there is no unreasonable reaction. But if you maintain a "no big deal" vibe, it can pressure them to at least behave at the party. Whether it gives rise to one (or all) of thems self esteem issues down the road is something you'll hardly have control of. Give us updates | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | The strong silent type that attracts women - Pure Hollywood fiction?Nah man, the biggest fallacy the pua community upholds is that with enough singular will power, you can get any girl. This holds true in a controlled setting, so in theory. But in real life, it takes two to court. Hollywood killed it by influencing the independent variable, something that remains relatively indifferent regardless of our input, women's pre conceived notions on relationship. Hollywood affected how girls saw relationships more than it affected guys, that's where it got us. Can we o… | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What to do when she cancels a date few hours before it?Well, if ur asking, it means ur considering pursuing still. If that's the case, ur fucked. ur in a position where u care more than the other person. Nothing wrong with caring, until u let it get the best of u. Like say wanting to keep pursuing someone that clearly flaked on u because she didn't see ur time as worth it | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Tips to lay off overtextingI always message someone else, usually a friend who I know will answer back. That way my thumbs keep moving | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | How do I build sexual tension with girls I have known for some time, when I didn't do it when I first met them?To be fair, you've already established that you're not that sexual with them, whether it be through lack of context or lack of kino. I'd recomend a soft reset, 2 weeks or so of non initiated contact. When you come back, be a little more flirty. Choose a more loose setting for wherever u meet up, escalate slowly with kino, but definitely escalate. People notice positive changes the longer it's been since they saw u and reaffirm their impression of you. It's why it's called a reset, you are "reset… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 12:58 AM |
| 3 | The strong silent type that attracts women - Pure Hollywood fiction?I mean I'm gonna state the obvious here when I say Hollywood killed it for guys to get girls. Girls who grew up watching smallville expect a superman like Clark who's also a pushover, but we all know that's not the kind of guy she wants to sleep with. That being said, on the guys side we notice that the quiet guy somehow gets the girls, or if the same guy ask on a date randomly theyl say yes. But girls are no where near as confident as they are on screen, and no matter how much attraction she ha… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 04:33 AM |
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