karljobst Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	[Infield Video] Easy and simple approach to overcome Approach Anxiety	karljobst	/r/seduction	13/09/15 01:51 PM
5	Approach Anxiety is just like Bad Posture	karljobst	/r/seduction	11/09/15 10:32 AM
1	[Approach Anxiety] Why most men will never approach women	karljobst	/r/seduction	06/09/15 03:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Walking eye contact I wouldn't worry about eye contact at all. Just approach. I don't understand where you got the impression you need eye contact before you approach.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 11:32 PM
1	Texted her and she texted back but kind of confused... I'm just messin, but I know your situation because a long time ago there was a girl who I thought was really awesome (not just a girl I wanted to bang, but a lot more). She was young though and wanted to wait. But every time we got into a bedroom alone I'd get physical and try to push it. Didn't end well because of that. My advice for the future, if a chick says she wants to wait and you dig her a lot. Don't push the physical shit. Let her control it for the most part or you seem like a needy de…	/r/seduction	16/09/15 09:06 AM
3	Texted her and she texted back but kind of confused... "I start telling her I'm sorry and that I was more than just some horny dude. She didn't believe me." I'm just imagining this fantasy world where chicks just blindly believe what we say... You: I'm more than a horny dude Her: Oh really? Cause all we did was make out and there wasn't really any substance to what was going on, or any attempt to do anything with me except try to grope me. You: Yeah I know right, but it's true. Her: Wow nice! That's so refreshing to hear :) You: Also, I'm really att…	/r/seduction	16/09/15 09:00 AM
2	Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that? I don't understand why daygame is the 'key'. I'm pretty sure you can get laid by going to bars and clubs (me and a couple of others guys have achieved this before). Hell, you can even get laid AT bars and clubs.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 06:24 AM
1	Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that? aaahhhhhh in your original posted you said 'offer girls alcohol', kinda gave the impression they weren't paying for it. All's good then. Glad we had this chat lol	/r/seduction	16/09/15 06:16 AM
1	Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that? Providing alcohol to younger girls may give him a ticket to social gatherings or parties or whatever. I hope he wouldn't buy shit like that and expect the girls to want to fuck him just for that. He'd need to work on kino etc once in that position.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 06:07 AM
1	I just want to scream Yeah we don't know anything about you. Could be a million reasons why they blew you off. Get good at meeting new women and you won't be so depressed and needy.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 06:01 AM
1	Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that? I must admit I don't know the american college scene. So I don't know if buying alcohol for women and being vague in your responses will get you laid by sluts. What I do know though is that being generally more attractive (having ambition, goals) etc work pretty well. In the end though it will come down to his ability to close either way.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 05:40 AM
5	Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that? Don't tell them you're studying? Buy them alcohol/weed? Sorry but I have to respectfully disagree. Any decent girl will find a guy who is studying hard and trying to build a career attractive. Seriously, if you're busy studying (so that it's kinda hard to fit them into your schedule) you are a good catch and girls will know it. If they ask what you've up to, tell them you've been studying a lot trying to get good grades. Buying girls alcohol is the same as buying a girl a drink in a club, which …	/r/seduction	16/09/15 05:30 AM
1	If looks don't matter, why does everyone tell me to go to the gym? I doubt anyone is saying looks dont matter. A lot of new guys confuse 'you dont need to be good looking' with 'it doesnt matter what you look like'. Btw, you should go to the gym or at least work out/exercise for reasons that are too obvious and well known to list.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 03:50 AM
1	Where does someone with severe general anxiety even start? If you are struggling to leave the house, go see a professional psychologist.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:08 PM
4	[Infield Video] Easy and simple approach to overcome Approach Anxiety The advice of 'push until you get blown out' is why a lot people dont approach at all. If you can have that mentality and actually do it thats great. This is for people with high AA. Yes you can continue the the conversation when you are ready. But dont feel the pressure of HAVING to do that every set. Also as i mentioned, this is not a video on how to pick up. It is a demonstration of how to correctly deal with high levels of anxiety.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:27 PM
1	[Infield Video] Easy and simple approach to overcome Approach Anxiety Yeah definitely. If you can do more, do more. But if you cant, dont let the pressure of having to do more stop you from doing anything. And youre right its great to do for the first few sets to warm up.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:21 PM
1	Pickup free information vs paid Like anything, there are good products and bad products. The tried and true products like 'Blueprint' for example are worth the money. Ive done the naughty and downloaded some stuff for free, but ive also spent a couple thousand for products too. Why? Because i believe its not worth the risk to not master this area. Seriously, do whatever the fuck you can (even if it means paying money) to get this area handled. Its WORTH IT :) Just do research first before buying.	/r/seduction	12/09/15 11:45 PM
8	I don't get it. My 2 cents - from my own experience. I used to have the same problem, girls (some fucking hot) would casual with me a few times and then bail hard and unexpectedly. Nothing would stick. You said you were hot, fit and active. These things might make a woman want to fuck you, but these aren't the things women will want to be in a relationship with you for. For a woman to commit to you a lot of it has to do with being able to rationalise to herself why she should be with you. Telling herself, 'he's…	/r/seduction	12/09/15 07:20 AM
3	Approach Anxiety is just like Bad Posture Bad posture, if left unchecked, starts to mess the body up. Eventually it gets to the point where even if you want to have good posture it's not really possible because the muscles and bones have changed structure. So even if you make a decision to sit up straight for example, it's not really possible. What you'd need to do is specific exercises in order to realign the muscles and bones. The same thing happens with fear. If you've experienced approach anxiety for a long time eventually your brai…	/r/seduction	11/09/15 10:41 AM
1	What do you think about lying during PU? A completely honest 'you' would say "I only had one", the rest of the sentence had nothing to do with what she asked. 80% of your response was you ranting about your problems for no reason. Try to answer the questions people are actually asking instead of dumping your own shit on top of it.	/r/seduction	10/09/15 05:46 AM
2	[Approach Anxiety] Why most men will never approach women Hey guys, I'm creating a new youtube channel to specifically help men overcome approach anxiety. Looking for feedback/opinions on the content so I can make it as helpful as possible. Sorry about the shitty set up I'll improve that over time :) About me: doing pick up/game for 9 years. But I don't teach pick up (or claim to), I focus on building confidence.	/r/seduction	06/09/15 03:24 PM