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| 0 | Women have total control of the dating marketEven 1/10's? What women? You see the issue of your blanket proclamation? 10/10 bro's reading this post: lol 8/10's: haha 6/10's: You have a point 5/10 and lower: YA! DOWN WITH WOMEN! UNFAIR! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?What's the difference between her and housekeeper? She got paid to do all this work did she not? Free clothing? Shelter? Benefits? Food? Perks? I mean if we want to be stoic about it, she basically lost here job. Expecting alimony is akin to a severance package for being laid off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?I see the logic of it. But it just goes to show what a sham marriage is to begin with. Marriage is a legal binding contract with the government. If that contract says you need to support your spouse in the event of a divorce, then that's the way it is. Either the law changes or you don't get married. Outside of the legal rules.... people should be able to do what they want. If the bread winner doesn't want to give money to someone they used to be married to, then that's their choice. Morality as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | what do men really think of female virgins?There isn't much to think about here. Men are built with an internal desire to seek out the best female they can. Best, also includes, untouched. Why? Because you will be the father of the offspring. This is the mechanics of it. This innate instinct we have is not because of cultural or societal influence. We perceive value in a virgin the same way you'd perceive value in fresh meat as opposed to old or rotting. Don't ask why. This is just how the organism (male) has been built and evolved. For … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.lol they do? Curious. And at what age, based on your extensive research and experience, does that ticking clock run out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:52 AM |
| 2 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexSounds like OP has never been used for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.95% of the opinions in this sub are from people who have little to no experience dating above their paygrade at a significant level. It's dreg logic for other dregs. None of this is factual or even remotely close to being true. Especially if you have dated successfully long enough. OP how much hands on experience did you have before you came to this conclusion? I already know... Always a popcorn eating time here though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:36 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.This is why you don't put yourself in that position to begin with. Most top tier men know how to game the system. This old outdated ritual of warped courtship only favors women. I guarantee you that you've paid for a girl, didn't get any, and a top tier rolled in the next time and she paid for him and got laid. This isn't about red pill or blue pill or purple pill. It's about adapting and/or accepting that if you are bottom tier, paying is all you have to offer. Top tiers only have to be good lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Does being feminine put you at risk of being taken advantage of?Feminine women are even more selective than "non fem". Non fems think they're in control when they're not. Feminine women won't even look at you if you look unworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeAgreed. This is the reason women aren't built the same for "hook up" culture. A man will have sex with a woman on the street in front of homeless people. A woman just has more to lose from any sexual encounter which is why trust is such a big part AND why slut shaming is justified. Only the bottom tier plebs don't get this concept. That said, it's fairly easy for a women to clear that trust and safety hurdle if she's of average intelligence. So overall the access is easier, the risk is just high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:10 AM |
| 5 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Your hypothetical is dead on arrival. If women were better at making decisions and were more suited to be in power..... they would have been/would be. Reality extinguishes your premise. If women were better (more suited because of their lack of aggression and sexual motivation), they would have managed to be (historically and presently) in the majority of positions of "power and influence". They are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:17 AM |
| 0 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.Men already do this and it doesn't work. Are you new to humanity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:57 AM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsThere's a reason that we (some...most) don't. If you don't know that reason, you probably don't want to hear or accept it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:30 AM |
| 7 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC"Sorry I'm late, my wives wanted to know where I was going" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Describe the "modern man"Why exactly is this the "modern" man? According to who? lol So any man without these "traits" is not modern? Ok bubbles. This sub is a reality show on TLC I swear lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?You're asking if there is such a thing as platonic cuddles with a woman? Are you a Mennonite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:58 AM |
| 16 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipWhen someone lacks life experience they need terms to define everything they discover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:49 AM |
| 1 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipThis isn't anything new. A "term" doesn't magically make something come into existence. You're just discovering it because well, you don't know something exists until you do. Someone coined a cute term for something that has been around since the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:48 AM |
| – | The amount of confidence, personality, game etc needed to attract women is GREATLY overstatedAgreed. You only need game if you don't excel on other levels. For example, playing Tinder. I can match, use lame small talk and lead the girl into doing most of the effort, she'll flirt, I'll flirt back, she'll ask to meet, I'll invite and done. No game needed. Same works out in town. If you can attract physically, 90% of the word is already done. Game is what the guys in the middle need in order to separate themselves from each other. Top 20% even Top 30% don't have need for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:40 AM |
| – | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they agelol no one needs to change your view. If you're a loser in your 20's and are one in your 30's and beyond, nothing changes except that you are fatter, balder, older, less educated and behind the curve. This view is perfectly fine. The rest of us have taken time to build wealth, stay fit, practice optimal hygenie, avoid marriage, children, lifestyle habits, avoid vices that make you stupider, unhealthier and more likely to fail. Once again, the hyperbolic 80/20 rule applies. Keep your view. Life i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menAgreed with the premise. Most men don't have many options if any. Having porn sedate the majority of men into becoming docile, dopamine-less otaku, works in my favor and favor of those men who are busy pipelining harems and dating aggressively. In order for me (us) to enjoy the spoils of hedonism with multiple women, lesser men need an outlet. Modern open relationships, FWB, polyamorous dating and harem forming behavior is possible because men addicted to porn have willfully accepted their posit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.If a key opens a door, that's not a special key. If a key opens many doors, it's a special key. If a door is only opened by one key, it's a special door. If a door is opened by any key, it's not a special door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 07:51 PM |
| 5 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.This is why being a Fkboy is so satisfying. It's constant validation that you are "Prime Meat" in her eyes. Being a piece of meat in the eyes of women is the epitome of success. Something men have no qualms about (unlike women who feel "objectified"). Not only do you have control but you get to experience the strongest desire she'll ever have for a man. It's winning, without ever worrying about losing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:55 AM |
| – | Why aren't men hypergamous?This experiment has been done ad nauseum. Line up women based on their "accomplishments" and let men choose partners based on their own preferences. 9 out of 10 men will choose the young, kind, sweet and beautiful poor girl as long as they are capable themselves. The 1 % of men who choose to "upgrade" are the lazy ones looking for an easy life, knowing full well they will cheat on her with the young, kind, sweet and beautiful poor girl eventually. This speaks to the bottom 80. The top 20 do what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?I am ok with the hierarchy of things in the mating world. In order for me and the top 20 to have our harems, there have to be dregs that lose. Same reason economy can't find balance between poor and rice. There have to be poor if we are to have rich. The incentive to be better than average has to exist. Incels are a net benefit to me and therefore I am glad they exist. No hostility. Simple appreciation for what they allow me to do as a top 20. I'm thankful everyday I was born with a solid frame … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:31 PM |
| -1 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Jeff Bezos is a dork. He wouldn't know what to do with a 21 year old and deep down inside he's still a man and intimidated by beauty. So guys like him go for the has been women who are easier to connect with because they know they're past their prime and he isn't as intimidated because she's not a 21 year 10/10. Laws of attraction still apply no matter how rich a man is. Jeff is a dork. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What relationship advice would you give to people aged 18-25?Paper relationships always pan out different. And thos experiences are even more obscured when you're an outside observer looking in. Everything you said can and will be manipulated emotions (love, lust, jealously, insecurity etc etc). Especially for young people. Some adults can't even master this. You don't even have your wings little bird. Experience is how you fly, not by watching other people do it. The reality is that some people aren't meant to be partnered up, no amount of words or "advi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:10 PM |
| – | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".No one believes this donkey logic anyway. This is only a trope for old bitter women (most of whom have had husbands leave them for younger women) to cope with the fact that they have zero power anymore. I say again, no one, believes this. Not even the bitter old women that started this nonsense to begin with. Gaslighting 101. Nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men should pursue serial monogamy, not casual sex.I won't argue. Once I got a nice little harem going of about 10-15 bunnies, there is enough variety to keep me interested as long as the rotations are far apart. As bunnies leave, I stay in a constant state of recruitment so that new bunnies replace the old ones. Loyal bunnies hang around, less interested/interesting ones hop off and the cycle repeats. This is suitable because A) the bunnies know (most of them) that I am not available to be exclusive B) zero effort sex (local harem only) C) new … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women would be happier if they quit using dating apps.Nah, I'm happy with an effortless harem building digital tool that lets me market my wares and meet women that I can filter through and make sure they are 110% already into me, closing the deal, before I waste time meeting for coffee/drinks. But you do you, happy boys and girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Approximately how much or often do you agree with the takes of posters of your gender here?The problem with subs, websites, blogs etc etc that let anonymous people give relationship advice is that you never know where they and their perspective stand on the spectrum of mating. Let's assume the 80/20 rule. 80% of the people here giving advice on love, dating and game are to varying degrees at different levels. You have 1/10's, 2/10's .... 6/10's giving advice from their perspective that doesn't apply to the top 20 and vice versa. If I'm an 8.7 male telling a bunch of 4/10's how to "get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.This is 101. The most interesting part of this is that the bottom 80 will never EVER learn this. No matter how many times it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:42 PM |
| 17 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.How do people in this sub take anything serious. Half the posts and comments are from angsty teenagers and college kids with zero life experience trying to sound like they have all the answers. Almost every post here reeks of half ass logic, straw man theory and straight up zero applicable experience. People tossing around "studies" about this and that lol Studies never give you the true picture of dating dynamics. Things are also skewed by how attractive people are. Ugly people posting about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:33 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates"Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex," yes because, bottom dwellers in the 80% percentile have no choice. Either they downgrade for easy sex or upgrade and need to wait until they are granted permission. Top 20% dating is extremely different. Not only do you not have to do this dance, but the woman usually initiate and/or allow sex immediately regardless of desired outcome. Most times sex is promised even before meeting. Dating only exists because people fail to seal the deal befo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manlol op looking for the head nods that will never come. Sorry guy, you're out in left field with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:14 PM |
| -5 | Polygyny is unlikely to be a reasonable solution for women in the futureCurrently running this mode as we speak. Don't discount reality based on your own anecdotal mindset. This is real and it's happening. The amount of women that are open to this would shock you. It shocked me... The key linchpin in OP's theory is "chad" or top 20 males. So yes, a fantasy for the less desirable men of the world. Not so much for the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.As a top 18 percentile male, I agree. Love the use of "soft harem" as this is exactly what i have at the moment. I have a reliable inner harem and a semi-reliable outer harem. Every single one has been given the talk and about only 1/4 object outright because they are "looking for something serious". The rest accept it and prefer a "don't ask, don't tell" arrangement. The kicker is that they generally say "I don't want to sleep with anyone else" or something to that effect. I believe them and am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 08:42 PM |
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