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| 1 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?What many men define as "wife material" is a woman who is overly compliant and has no real life of her own. Men say they want this but deep down they want a woman who has her own thing going on and has had an eventful past with plenty of life experience. It's a backhanded compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!I can see that. It just sucks for several truly progressive guys that they feel the need to be someone they're not. They'd be able to be their more true selves in places like Portland and the Bay Area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!It's hard to. Basedfishing is a pretty niche phenomenon compared to wokefishing but it does exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 03:29 PM |
| 12 | Women aren't attracted to feminist men, they are attracted to hot men!1!On the other hand, in red states like Louisiana, there are genuinely feminist ally (the type who aren't vocal or card-carrying about it) progressive guys who will cosplay as "based redpillers" because there's a part of their subconscious that believes it's more carnally attractive to women. For instance, if they're an electrical engineer, they'll say they're an electrician. Their logic is that even though the engineer gets paid more, the electrician does "real, hands-on" work and is therefore mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:33 PM |
| – | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?It's just what sounds good. As a guy, I can openly admit I want the tattooed, heavy party girl type even though I'm not a heavy partier myself and don't see myself ever getting a tattoo. We as men breadcrumb the "good girls" while baking the entire loaf from scratch for the "bad girls." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 08:18 PM |
| -1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesMost of the unhappy, lonely, post-menopausal cat ladies never had a "hoe phase." If they do somehow end up married, they get cheated on all the time. Women who have a "hoe phase" end up either in a fulfilling marriage or happily single and don't get cheated on. These women also do better in their careers and teach their children important, feminist values. They stop their kids from falling into the manosphere/tradwife algorithm. As a 29-year-old autistic male virgin who's never been on a date, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.Millennial women love men who have a soft, sensitive side and aren't ashamed to wear pink & drink specialty coffees. Gen Z has been poisoned by the manosphere/tradwife algorithm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingDoes part of you believe progressive men pretend to be traditionally masculine/conservative/blue-collar to seem more carnally attractive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?Do you not similarly dislike women who go out of their way to scream stuff “men are trash” or “the bar is on the floor” or “men don’t bring anything to the table” or “(your race/nationality/whatever) men are worthless”? I love these type of women. I'd wife this type of woman up in an instant. I'd never go for a try-hard pick-me traddie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthWhat's bad about a woman having lots of hookups? It means she's had the chance to refine her tastes. If anything, a woman being a virgin at 30+ is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthExactly. There's a strong overlap between 30+ virgin men and men who made having the "wife & kids" life their ultimate goal instead of career aspirations. Men who don't go balls to the wall to make it happen are usually the men it happens for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonFor many right-wing voters, it's more about social issues than economic issues. They're willing to kneecap themselves financially if it means oppressing anyone they think is "cringe." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 11:49 PM |
| – | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Pot belly or not, those men tend to be physically stronger & more go-with-the-flow than their white-collar counterparts, who can be overly analytical & overthinking at times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:11 PM |
| – | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Most of the men who make society run (the rough & tumble blue-collar workers who may not have done as well academically in school but generally have better street smarts & social skills) have traits that overlap with what women find biologically attractive; they're more likely to be able to survive if a Charlemagne-level solar flare knocked out the global power grid. It's the book-smart white-collar men who aren't really as biologically attractive to women; Newton & Tesla died virgins for a reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:33 PM |
| 28 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?This is the reality of it. Modern women will generally not marry men they wouldn't hook up with. Women only settled in the past because patriarchal systems forced them to marry or else they'd drown financially. Thanks to movements like women's suffrage, women are now free to choose who they end up with based on genuine desire. Bad for the previously artificially-boosted mediocre men, but overall good for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.If anything, liberal men tend to masquerade as conservative in order to seem more rugged/masculine/attractive to women. I find that conservative men are better at getting hookups while liberal men are better at healthy long-term relationships. Also, coastal liberal empathetic men tend to be attracted to tatted conservative southern sorority girl types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 05:26 PM |
| – | Men arent rewarding bad men, women areIf anything, men reward bad women. Attractive toxic girls get treated the best, but I actually think men treat the 7/10 toxic girl better than the 10/10 nice girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Looking through the wrong lense: Which issues do men and women get wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them?Men believe that women like bad boys and overlook nice guys. In reality, men like mean girls and overlook good girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayDisagree with the former. Being a female extremist is actually the best way to attract men. Deep down, men are attracted to disagreeable women. Most of the women who end up lonely cat ladies were aspiring tradwives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Deep down, these are the women we want. The "good girl" types are ones we settle for while still fantasizing about the woman described in the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a SAHM is easily one of the hardest jobs in the worldThis just shows that marriage disproportionately benefits men. We get an in-house emotional therapist, event scheduler, appointment reminder, etc. Either she's a SAHM with no pay or she's juggling all those duties in addition to her full-time job. Makes "ball-and-chain" comments by males even more mind-boggling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:55 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on woman's "expiration date"?Men hit the wall sooner than women do. Men peak in their 20s while women peak in their 30s. It's absolutely crucial that a man is settled down by 30 or so while a woman pretty much has until menopause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?Low value pick-me behavior. Women should choose, not chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenIf I had a choice between 2 women of similar attractiveness, I'd pick the crazy one over the sweet one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenWho then cheat on them with hot bitches. In fact, they're not just attracted to the hotness, but the bitchiness as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menFeminism has enabled women to pick men based on desire rather than financial necessity (which IMO is a good thing). Ironically, I feel it's actually the liberal feminist career women who are more likely to give the rich dev underdog a chance; the traditional women who are either SAHMs or have traditionally feminine career jobs like estheticians, dental assistants, nurses, secretaries, etc. that are more likely to compromise on a man's salary if his job has more perceived masculine prestige (like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menHow much more money would the software dev have to earn to beat out the roughneck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWhat about a blue collar worker like a refinery man/welder/plumber/electrician vs a software dev who commutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menwomen generally prefer to date men in more traditionally masculine jobs So women prefer the offshore oil rig roughneck to the software developer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 18 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Pick-me women wanting to appease to the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:20 PM |
| 21 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Modern woman. Not only is it clearly the smarter of the two, but I believe it's what more men are attracted to (myself included). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell between "High Value Women" and "Low value Women"?HVW: Can put pretty much any man in his place Physically active Curvy Large social circle High body count (contrary to what many think, there's many women that men in general wouldn't want to sleep with) Takes charge in and out of the bedroom, especially mentally Has taken at least one man's virginity and can teach in the bedroom well "Girlboss" personality Tattoos (shouldn't be too overboard, but a few gives girls an edge that I find attractive) Feminist Enjoys nightlife Has a career (bonus poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:40 PM |
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