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Depends on who you're trying to attract ... this works for screening women that like arrogance. I feel like we should be asking ourselves what we want and do that inner-work as well.
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:37 PM
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You're welcome. I want sex to be fulfilling at this point. Two bad relationships, I feel I'm the issue hah! I'm working through them as we speak. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out my man.
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:22 AM
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An early childhood experience with abandonment involving my stepmom dropping me off at a daycare when I was 5, only to never see her again. I became emotionally connected with this only after working very hard to get sex at the ripe age of 31! Secondly, emotional neglect from my dad, which led to this experience of abandonment being normalized. I found my attachment type is fearful-avoidant, sometimes disorganized; ultimately, I don't trust others, and I've looked for women that weren't interest…
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:13 AM
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OP is correct. Sex doesn't solve problems. Source: I went into life carrying an insecurity that because I lacked sexual experience, that I was worthless. Eventually, after trying very hard, I had two sexual relationships. Sex wasn't worth the trouble, and on the other hand, it was worth the trouble. I found deeper issues, including the source of that insecurity.
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:42 AM
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That's the really shitty part of all of this. As children, our world told us we were unlovable. And then we carried that into adulthood, only to see the end result - we are unlovable. Fuckin' parents man haha. I'm learning though, and I'm working through the issues with self-parenting. I'm also learning how to open up about my issues so that they can be dealt with. Folks with these issues need to learn self-awareness. Then, they need to develop empathy for themselves. And then for others. We nee…
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:12 AM
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Same, but now I feel that if I'm starving for romantic affection, there's a problem I'm shying away from that is far worse than a lack of romantic affection. My mind simply focuses on what's missing to avoid the larger issue.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:35 PM
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You don't?
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:08 PM
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I know you were wanting to inspire those around you here, and I feel you are sincere about wanting to grow. My take? You didn't list one thing about her in here. It came off as this big time. Why are you marrying her, for example? What made you fall for her, other than, "she didn't like me at first," and, "I tried to have sex, she said no." First-and-foremost, your journey is ongoing. I hope you see that. Disregard the insults here from others, but there are legitimate criticisms here others are…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:00 AM
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This is going to end badly. She may sleep with you, but she'll regret it. It will be months before you regret it, and trust me ... you'll regret it. I feel for you though. I've been there myself.
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:21 PM
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I'm sorry dude. The girl I liked played with my feelings as she enjoyed the attention. She even admitted this to me after-the-fact. And as I continued to pursue, that's when I had realized how stupid I was for doing so. Her entire friends group pegged me as a creep, including her. It was so bad that it reached my friend group. I was so invested as well. I know it's not exactly the same. But the pain is similar. I felt alone ... as I always had. Depression is real, and it is here as well. You did…
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:53 PM
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