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Please avoid click-bait titles in future, but great post.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 12:53 PM
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I just "reconnected" with 3 girls that asked to hang out with me this week just because I sent a simple "happy new year, sweet". Yep, fully agree and have had the same thing happen. There's no reason to overthink it. Like anything, it depends how you do it and where it comes from. A quick message with some flirtatious teasing can work pretty well... there's a lot more to her perception of you than what you write in a text message.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:18 AM
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Ok ok max one website plug per thread please
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:16 PM
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understanding women rather than being angry This is a key point. Actually learning about female psychology rather than just how to pick up women is critical for good personal development as well as better success with women.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:09 PM
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And few are 6'4" naturally. This is where frame and other features come into play. NB not all women necessarily want especially tall guys, either. The things you can control with your lifestyle are always most important, like lifting and diet, as you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 09:31 PM
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Haha, deflecting responsibility. Classic.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 09:28 PM
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Here are my thoughts on the issue: Humans did not evolve to be depressed. It would make absolutely no sense if humans had some inherent adaptation that would make us depressed, because that would drastically decrease our chances of survival. Although I appreciate much of the advice in your post, it is irresponsible and dangerous to give medical advice to someone based on your personal opinions and feelings about the human brain. Many people strongly benefit from antidepressants. You do not have …
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:44 AM
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Next time, simply call yourself with her phone after entering your number.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:30 AM
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Life is full of risks... in everything you do. You can't control everything, but you do the best that you possibly can.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:11 AM
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I'd suggest that the problem people have with fapping is porn and not so much the fapping itself. Learn to use your imagination and don't go overboard is fine and healthy, IMO, if you aren't using porn with it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:52 PM
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He knows how good it was, too, the smug bastard. I'd be tempted to try and knock his ego down a peg, but... Almost sounds like a guy wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:47 PM
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How do you avoid the interview frame while withholding information about yourself? Lots of teasing?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:43 PM
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Interesting. Could you describe?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:28 AM
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If he was so incredibly BB, how did she feel attraction like that, enough to cheat on her boyfriend for the summer? It's possible, but it makes me wonder if she ever had a strong connection to her BF in the first place, or if other stuff was already going on. If she'd gone with Chad, maybe, but a super beta loser? It just seems less likely. But shit, anything is possible.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:48 PM
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The only thing about jerking off is that gets rid of a bunch of nervous energy that you could otherwise turn towards doing something productive. Fucking women has the same effect but at least you had that nervous energy to invest in getting them into bed in the first place. Honestly this sums it up
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:38 PM
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I think that porn is the problem but masturbation usually is not--unless it's done to porn. Porn addicts: try masturbating with only your imagination, and without imagining scenes from your computer. I bet it won't be easy. But give up porn, decondition yourself from needing that, and you'll start imagining things that get you very turned on again. For me at least, that helped me be able to get aroused without computer stimulation, which helped with women. Just don't make masturbation too regula…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:35 PM
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This was very good. By the way, it takes some serious balls to watch a loved one go through cancer and keep your shit together. I'm impressed that you managed it well. I'd be curious to know more about how you got through it, including what (if any) mistakes you made and how you bounced back, etc. But of course if you don't feel like reflecting on what was probably one of the hardest times of your life, I totally understand. Thanks a lot for the great post either way.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:39 PM
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Excellent post. I used to look for girls who were the opposite of that: wild, experimental, spontaneous, yet somehow also good with money and responsible. A bit unrealistic. Of course, I'd attract them through flashy game, lots of flirting, strong ups and downs, get laid a lot, but never want to keep them around long-term. Your post and others have got me realizing that someone like you're describing might really be the better ones to spend time with (if looking for a relationship and not a plat…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:32 PM
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My last LTR totally changed after I met her parents. Her dad was kind of lost in life and acted like a child, and her mother was depressed and very overweight. It gradually affected me. When I met the parents of my current LTR, my attraction for her actually increased a lot: they're in great shape, healthy, successful, motivated, in a strong relationship, and occasionally climb mountains. I could immediately see why my girl is who she is. Also knowing that she'd age well counts for something, to…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:24 PM
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I also recommend The Red Queen, if you're interested in this stuff, it was excellent. Different author.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 12:39 PM
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Hillary has proven to be one hell of a Machiavellian (like the vast majority of politicians), but she doesn't seem to get away with it as often as others do.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:21 PM
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This is high up on the list of things I need to internalize. Thanks for the post. This, as well as "don't talk about TRP concepts," (especially with women, even if you think they'd understand) is very important.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:00 PM
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And boom goes the dynamite
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:55 AM
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Why should he forgive her for this? It's a huge betrayal. If this is how he runs his relationship, this might not have even been the only incident. And on his birthday? Who knows, she could have been fucking other guys for months. Or maybe not, but he did leave his incredibly drunk girlfriend at a bar, alone, with strangers and acquaintances--what kind of leadership does that demonstrate to you? The fault isn't all his, but there's a lot of it there. Considering the guy's behavior and his hamste…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 02:41 PM
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Congrats, you were very, very smart about all this.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 08:12 PM
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They came, but once they arrived they quickly realized she was full of shit and so they didn't blow the man's head off. That's very fortunate. A lot of cops tend to white knight, which makes things even worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 08:09 PM
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That's true, depending on your normal way of communicating it could sound passive-aggressive or confidently dismissive. I definitely agree that going with your gut and not overthinking a situation is a great approach, as long as you have the requisite experience to make the right decision. For those who are new at this, it does help to have some default responses until you develop the confidence, abundance, and wit to be creative and say the right thing in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 12:00 AM
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Exactly. To make a general point here for everyone: you need to be the guy who makes it "just happen." You need to be the guy to give her that story for herself. No girl will tell her friends, "yeah I just went over to his place so we could fuck for hours, the usual, how was your night?" It's always more subtle than that, and there's always less responsibility. "He's just irresistible, I don't know how he does it," etc. Minimal responsibility, even for the booty call. That's how women are. She n…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 04:08 PM
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"K" just means, "I'm not your girlfriend, I'm not playing your games, this doesn't bother me and I don't even care about it," and cut that thread right there. I think it's the perfect response, and I'm betting you the girl (since she already has some investment) would come back chasing a day later and inviting him to things after having a day to hamster out why he's not reacting like a normal beta. What's the goal here anyway? Be her psychotherapist/girlfriend/ex-BF victim? No. In fact it's a go…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:58 PM
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You validated her by giving her that much attention over text. Exactly, this. Even though he didn't outright react emotionally to it, he did entertain the fantasy and allow himself to passively accept her lack of responsibility. Cutting it off from the beginning would have taken the spotlight off of her, and maybe even made her start pursuing him. She'd definitely start wondering why this guy isn't interested in something that would wrench the hearts of most betas. I'd argue that even participat…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:46 PM
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They are like kids, you can't take it personally. QFT. Remember this, gentlemen. But depending on how much she plays a role in your life, you do have the option to lay down hard boundaries. Or eject her from your life altogether. Understand why women do things, but on the flip side, don't you yourself become her victim by excusing her actions.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:40 PM
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Yeah this could destroy a career Beta
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:38 PM
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I came here to berate an angry beta who was mad at a girl because he wasn't enough of a man. I'm not OP obviously, but I'm glad you didn't do that. Your post is much more valuable than it likely would have been had you berated him for coming here to try to learn--in fact you might have just encouraged him to stick around and try to make a better life for himself. There's sometimes a bit too much negativity here, although I understand the frustration. We should remember that many of us came from …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:02 PM
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This is a good post. It's always nice to see good examples of these concepts laid out in different ways.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:56 PM
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That's a great story. Also, the fact is that you went out at all--you weren't initially wanting to go that much, but showing up and sticking around just a few minutes longer altered a big part of your life for years. The sum of many good choices, including being sober, which is something I'd like to do more often, although I love to drink when I go out. But I don't really get drunk anymore for basically the reasons you described.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:39 AM
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This has totally transformed my perspective on Uber and alternative transportation models. You have a damn good idea that could work well for some types of people. Very efficient and sensible.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:35 AM
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I see alcohol as a money maker. That's it. I want to sell it or be involved with those selling it. Heh heh, I had a drug dealer friend years ago who would say the same thing. Sold lots of stuff, basically never partook. He was sharp.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:32 AM
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Goddamn that's real. It's posts like this that made me stop reading TRP before bed. The shit's scarier than a horror film.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:13 AM
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This was a terrific post. Does anyone have a link to this interview yet? Definitely interested in watching it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:43 PM
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I understand your point; the wording and rhythm in OP's examples wouldn't really fit my personality and communication style. But it's the subtext that counts. Look at everything he said between the examples--those are the key ideas. You can incorporate those ideas into language that fits your personality while still communicating essentially the same things.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:37 PM
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That was an amazing example. All the usual SJW tools are in there. I'll paraphrase the conclusion: "ok I get that science says it and the explanation makes sense, but I still don't care because my comfort and my space is more important than anyone else's." If that isn't solipsism for you...
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:30 PM
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Yeah, I had to deny my girlfriend access to my phone the other day because there was a chance she'd see confirmation messages about the surprise gift I bought her. It's sometimes innocent, sometimes not, for both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:27 PM
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Write about it. Would love to hear how you've had a had a successful LTR without regressing into BB mode over time, which is something that happens all too often in LTRs (myself included). Relationships are fucking challenging. I'm always looking for advice on these things and I know I'm not the only one.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:23 PM
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We all start somewhere, but not always in the same place. My history was 0 in high school, 4 in college, and then within the two years after graduating college: almost 30 girls. What changed? I went through an 8-month transformation just like what you read about here on TRP, fueled by my frustration about feeling beta and not in control of my life, and feeling powerless with women. Started lifting, rock climbing, learning yoga (seriously, I love yoga and it's a big part of my life these days), s…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:21 AM
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Maybe we're in different fields, but in mine, women and men are almost equally represented and a reputation for promiscuity can sew distrust and seriously jeopardize a career. That doesn't mean that people aren't hooking up at various levels of the hierarchy, because of course people will be people, but it's more common in some occupations and less common in others. At least that's been my experience. I appreciate your point and am not dismissing it outright.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:56 PM
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The phrase, "enjoying the decline" made it sound at first like you were giving up, in some aspects, and just accepting the situation that women have constructed. But by how you're elaborating it here it sounds more like you're making choices for yourself and doing exactly what feels best and healthy to you right now. I agree that that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:30 PM
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I like what you're saying but I do not agree that the ruthless businessman will "outperform" the smarter academic in life. How do you measure performance? Money? Ha! Most of us in academia are here because we'd rather do nothing else--we love the fulfillment that research gives us, the prestige of being a world expert with incredible influence in our field, and the potential to be be an important part of history. We're obsessed with discovering monumental things about history, psychology, scienc…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:27 PM
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I'd take a 7 or 8 as my life partner over a 9/10 hands down! They're almost always better people.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:06 PM
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I wish more people would say this. We shouldn't just swing to the other polarity, even if the situation seems to call for it. We have to live better, and not leave the world to shit. Anything else is hedonistic, but don't let me stop you.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:03 PM
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Is this the solution, or does it exacerbate the central dysfunction? I mean, it can be your solution and that's fine, whatever you want to do. But I just don't see how this is any different than what women are doing now. Doesn't this contribute to the problem--happiness in slavery?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:58 PM
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Exactly. It's rare enough that it's just safer to tell most people, especially beginners: AWALT. And it's usually true. But yes, there are absolutely exceptions, and although those gems are hard to find, they're out there. To be with one of them, though, you have to be one hell of a self-actualized man, and IMO most men aren't up to it, either. Well, that's why we're here. In some professions and areas of life more than others, these types of high-power, successful, and committed relationships a…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:52 PM
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In most cases yes, for the average guy it would be beta, but here it is different: he read the situation carefully, took into account the huge forceful personality of the blonde and slightly shy demeanor of the brunette, and decided to go a little indirect this time. It was a clever way to do it, and it came from a place of value. Unlike most guys, he wasn't looking for approval in the gesture. He wanted to poke the hornet's nest and let it sort itself out without being too close. Also no one wa…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:32 PM
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I think that RedPill is more about product development and seduction/pua is more about sales. That's a good way to put it--I totally agree. Here the attraction comes from what you have inside, so what you say is not as important--who you are (have made yourself) is much louder than words, and she can feel it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:26 PM
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Read the power of now by Eckhart Tolle. If my three lines on awareness got you intrigued, you will be fascinated by what that book has in store for you. 100% agree. It is the most important book I have ever read. Nothing else has made more of an impact on my life.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:21 PM
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To me that equals "man,"as in, you're not actually talking to a woman, but a dude with a physical penis. Or not, but either way, no text = GTFO and don't waste your time, in my mind.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:28 PM
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You need to post more, my friend. This was a terrific piece of writing, full of great points. What you mention about class distinctions is huge, in my opinion, and often overlooked. I do agree with AWALT, but when we're talking about highly educated, long-term planning, successful upper-middle/upper class people from strong families and parents who raised them well, etc., things must look a bit different. My feeling is that those people are more likely to have a "successful" marriage. But since …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:48 PM
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Someone here brought up the point of having a very good prenup if you choose to get married. Can anyone with experience describe whether or not a prenup is truly helpful when shit hits the fan?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:32 PM
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This post is so important--please sticky this!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 02:16 PM
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Negging is simply a form of teasing/flirting This, this, and this! People take negging way too far or do it with a mean face too often--wtf is the point of that? /u/AmericanHistoryAFBB nailed it right in the first sentence: teasing is a much better way to think about it. Personally I dislike the word "negging" because of how much baggage it carries these days, and the word itself confuses people. Instead, yes, try teasing: you are simply having fun and demonstrating through physical and verbal p…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 06:55 PM
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I'm not even kidding, that bodybuilding.com thread you posted has just lit a fire in me like none other. I've been lazy the last 3 weeks, and not been taking enough care of myself physically (by my personal standards). I'm going to the gym right the fuck now. Funny what little things can set you off sometimes, in a good way.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 05:46 PM
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Save those texts and all her correspondence with you, just in case she pulls some crazy shit or cries foul. You'll have written records to back you up. Borderline type girls are unpredictable and can do insane hurtful stuff when you least expect it. Don't be paranoid about it, but do cover your ass. These are the girls who make false rape accusations and injure themselves and then claim that you did it. Why? Because you were a fucking man about it and didn't allow yourself to be manipulated. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:31 PM
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Save those texts and all her correspondence with you, just in case she pulls some crazy shit or cries foul. You'll have written records to back you up. Borderline type girls are unpredictable and can do insane hurtful stuff when you least expect it. Don't be paranoid about it, but do cover your ass. These are the girls who make false rape accusations and injure themselves and then claim that you did it. Why? Because you were a fucking man about it and didn't allow yourself to be manipulated. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:30 PM
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Sure, would be interesting to know what your experience of stress was like, whether you were keyed up and on edge the whole time, or deeply unconscious about your actions and "stressed" on a much deeper level. There's so much that factors into these things, but it's definitely interesting to see how our thoughts so directly influence our biology and vice versa. Anyway a good message to avoid burnout, but it can be hard for some people to spot it!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:23 PM
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Agreed, I think he needs to write a thread addressing this specific subject!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:21 PM
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"Rapist" has become to the 21st century what "witch" was to the 15th century. Holy shit I had not thought of it this way but that makes perfect sense
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 12:12 AM
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Terrific post. I would love to see more about LTRs and sustaining a good relationship without turning beta.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 08:47 PM
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This is an excellent demonstration of the foolish contemporary notion that women and men have the same interests, motivations, and capabilities.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:57 PM
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Recording makes perfect sense, but it's pretty creeper :/ could backfire if she was having fun and then found out you were videoing... hmm.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:34 PM
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Ugh this is my nightmare. The odds are so stacked against the man in this situation, it's crazy. Can anyone recommend some posts or articles about WTF a person is supposed to do in this situation? It's a "your word against her's (and Team Girl)" situation... makes me want to hide and not even look at people, but fearing these situations just lets shitty people run amok and continue to oppresses men. It's an awful predicament for men.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:55 PM
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How did you have the self control not to absolutely crush him in a reply? I'm impressed. Better not to respond to these things on Facebook, obviously, but sometimes you just want to publicly bitch slap someone who says ridiculous shit like this. Good job having self control and sharing it with us instead. This is all just a perfect example of why I can't stand Facebook with all the "progressive" posturing and white knighting that goes on there these days.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:10 PM
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It depends on the girl and how social she is, but yeah I do think a good fraction of the women out there truly are that oblivious. They just live in such a different world.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:35 AM
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It depends on the girl and how social she is, but yeah I do think a good fraction of the women out there truly are that oblivious. They just live in such a different world.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:33 AM
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You throw in an important caveat here that I totally agree with. At the same time, it's definitely a good idea to learn about other cultures and peoples background; the more nuanced understanding of different cultures shows enormous social intelligence and can help you spot things faster. That being said, you are correct: you can't just depend on that exclusively.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:49 PM
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This is a very good collection of strategies to look out for so as not to get trapped in their game. Some of these are tough to deal with, and I'd love to see a follow up post by someone to show examples of how to deal with these strategies when confronted by them.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:39 PM
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Words of wisdom right there
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:29 PM
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This Dark Triad Ruling Class is something I've always intuitively understood but have had difficulty explaining to people in a way that's remotely approachable, without sounding like a cynical paranoid anarchist--because the notion is so far outside most people's Happy World Fantasy and their comprehension that they lash out against these ideas immediately and hate you for it. Granted I now keep my mouth shut and only talk about stuff like this with my most trusted friends who are on the same pa…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:16 AM
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I don't know what to say other than this is one of the best things I've read in a very long time.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 08:17 PM
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Cops are insane, power hungry and scared little White Knights way too often. Look up "Don't Talk to Police" on YouTube and prepare to nod your head in agreement while also learning some lifesaving shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 05:07 AM
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I actually always text her the next morning after our first night out, if it went well, just so she can hear herself say it and feel good about it. Me: "I had fun last night, <cute nickname>" Her: "Me too :)" Gets her thinking about you more, if that's where you want to go. Never thought about that in the see-I-didn't-rape-her context, but it makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 05:04 AM
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Excellent perspective and spot on. It can always be worse. Yet OP got off his ass and did something about the situation rather than be a victim of it. Man, that's progress. He should be proud of himself, and if he keeps it up it will lead to many more good things.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:39 AM
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Wow, this I did not realize
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:35 AM
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This was a terrific post, a clean and well-written example with good lessons. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:29 AM
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I wish people would say this more often, because it's totally true. At least for me, it's easy to hear all the RP stuff and totally distrust women because of that while over generalizing. There is always the potential to cheat, but there are quality women out there who are much less likely to do that. Don't worship them or be subservient to them, but we shouldn't always be paranoid about cheating and deception--just aware.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:24 PM
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Yep. It's amazing, but it does require a rooted phone. If you don't know what that means, maybe look into another strategy. It can take a bit of work.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 12:12 PM
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I had been wondering the same thing. It's a pretty admirable response. I might have snapped on him, but you're right that would only have escalated the situation, and could even cast more blame on the boyfriend by proxy if you (the other man in the scene) looks violent, too. You made the right choice in just ignoring him--and I've learned something from this story, so thank you
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:49 PM
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Yes, that is all true, of course, but the point he's making isn't about transitioning. It's about getting over approach anxiety and just doing it, that whatever comes out of your mouth is fine if you're simply comfortable with it. Transitioning is another subject, but yes, you do have to follow up that "hi" with something.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:37 AM
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You clever bastard. That's amazing.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:59 PM
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Excellent post. Looking at the other perspective, how about you're playing the Suit Guy this time: what would you do if suddenly there's some random dude dancing with your girlfriend? Let's say you walked away for a few minutes and came back to see that happening.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:07 PM
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Could you prove more information about cold showers? Any hard evidence or is this primarily anecdotal? Not doubting your experience with, just curious about the source of this practice.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 03:23 PM
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Same thing as getting a personal trainer at the gym, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 03:19 PM
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Trolling?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:37 PM
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i honestly believe that these girls 100% meant what they said. They do mean what they said. But they can't control their behavior nearly as well as a man can.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:37 PM
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heavy social costs A scorned woman is the most dangerous thing alive. It's better not to invite further bullshit upon yourself by creating drama--I agree that it should be done firmly, but without excessive malice, or you invite the other person to be vengeful.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:33 PM
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I agree with this. How do you respond to someone when, for example, you've accomplished something excellent and the person says, "wow, that's really lucky"? Even said with genuine admiration, a comment like that clearly demonstrates the other person's world view (up to chance, no control, no responsibility), and they credit you with the same faulty perspective, not maliciously. What do you think of that?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 07:43 PM
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This should be at the top. I see so many people go through this exact cycle, sometimes even in order, and I'm willing to bet 99% of us have been there at one time or another. The key is whether you let that control you, or whether you become conscious of your behavior and start making real choices for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:51 PM
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And in many cases, the personality traits that make a woman successful also make her more masculine, and thereby less attractive. Couldn't agree more. I think there is such a thing as having a female partner who is "too smart/successful"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:41 AM
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Also she was a doctor but believed that gender and race were social constructs. What the fuck are they teaching in med school!!? ugh, unfortunately that is way too common in educated women from small liberal arts colleges
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:38 AM
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Nice, that's exactly what I do. She loves it. Start with fewer deep thrusts, alternate some very deep ones, then starting doing more of those as she warms up. Kind of a tease at first, maybe some biting the neck or holding her hands behind her head, then deeper, harder, and more dominant as you go on. And yes some women are more sensitive to "cervix pounding" (lol) or whatever than others, you have to be conscious of this and find the right position that feels best and doesn't cause discomfort. …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:24 PM
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Try to let the energy build up kiss and tease and go do something else. Repeat until she can't take it. Yes! Always a great strategy. Remember this on dates when you've taken her back to your place, for the single folks out there as well.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:34 PM
3

I honestly don't think it's necessary to "take over" a conversation, only to contribute what you want but draw a line or turn it on the other guy in a funny way if you're being repeatedly disrespected.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 01:27 PM
3

I only use Tinder for my own validation. Knowing I'm getting likes is all I want, they don't get a message out of me. Are you really comfortable with that? You're telling me that you need external validation and you seek it from women. That's not going to help you in the long run and is not a great habit to form around women, even in a digital space. I had to learn that too.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:50 PM
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They tried to begin your interaction based on a lie. This is an excellent thing to keep in mind. It makes leaving a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:44 PM
7

Couldn't agree more and I'm glad someone is saying something about this. "Students" of TRP should be very careful not to swing to the other pole while trying to distinguish themselves from the 'average beta.' It is not to your advantage to go into every LTR expecting the other woman to cheat. You have to trust her, too. Women do cheat, of course, but there are plenty of loyal and devoted wives out there who only want to please their husbands, as long as their man can supply sufficient physical a…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 12:59 PM
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I've only been on TRP for a short while, but I definitely don't see this as a "hate sub" by any stretch of imagination. This is a sub for self-improvement. It's about about changing our interactions and relationship with ourselves and with others, and the fact that what makes people happy and fulfilled isn't always intuitive or obvious these days. Subs like "FatPeopleHate" aren't even remotely in the same category.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:23 PM
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