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katharsys1/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:31 AM
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katharsys1/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:02 PM
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yeah. the only reason i'm "worried" is because he's the only male person she's communicating with. when I say worried, I mean that, by satisfying her and her having security in me, she doesn't look for those things in another guy, which this guy lacks, making it easier to branch swing. isn't that how it goes? It's a good band, when I say good it's good for the adolescent-level. Not even popular, but artsy. Noise rock.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:11 PM
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I don't want to separate because of a boundary.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:21 PM
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nah please dont make a story out of a post history, its a bunch of jumbled stuff, with unrelated stuff and different girls so that I would learn.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:06 PM
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thank you so much for this comment. I havent read Pook. I'm relatively new, having read the sidebar pdf twice and lurking here and asking questions. I'll get to work immediately.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:15 PM
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thank you for the insight!! the thing is i still dont have any quality male friends so she serves more functions. we dont text really its rare, we both prefer to see each other, but of course she can't just wait so she sends me things. and yeah i do still need emotional validation ... i dont know what to do about that. The more social I am, the more lonely and clingy I am when I´m alone. I don't know what to do about this. I see myself, for the first time in years, actively looking for someone t…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:45 PM
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dude, i genuinely enjoy sending my girl texts sometimes. ill do it if i want to and consider it to be okay. my first officer is a really clingy one, text just for logistics would be too much.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:31 PM
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wrong place to ask for advice i guess, if you judge this as blue pill behavior. this is not spinning plates, i'm looking for a first officer. first, speaking from strictly red pill plates perspective, you want a plate to break? read up on comfort tests please. second, being authentic is not being blue pill. if i want to text my girl ill fucking do it lol more rp than any rp
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:29 PM
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I dont chat over text, just when something comes up. Also, I never initiate. no worries. But using an iron rule to just do it for logistics, nah. I just don´t agree with that part. I love Rollo.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:07 PM
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she doesn't want to commit and is "poly" but she really gets jealous and angrily calling the other women in my life "whores"
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:12 AM
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am I not gonna smother her with my presence? Too much of a good thing is a bad thing. I´m inclined to think that I should limit myself with her.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:41 AM
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I'm not fucking other girls... eh. I don't want to fuck up and I don't know what I'm doing. How do I learn from others' mistakes? I've got oneitis of course but I'm trying to cultivate abundance. Oneitis is towards a being whom I love not only romantically, towards the closest person in my life and towards my best friend. Makes it all the harder. Abundance in this case means that I wouldn't kill myself or suffer way too much. Having to start it all from scratch and FINDING a person with whom you…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 10:00 PM
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If her attraction dies because you decided to spend time on your goals, then she isn’t a girl you want around. If she cares about you and is worthy, she’s supposed to be invested in your success just as much as you are. I didn't say this. I was asking whether the attraction would die if I spent A LOT or more time with her. good advice though. thank you
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:55 PM
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I was lazy to type it was a system of thai and kyokushin and jiu jitsu :)
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:22 AM
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First. It might be a plate. It's a way deeper emotional connection though. Even if I reduced to plate level, the sex is amazing so I don't want to drop. Second. I might be having unicornism and oneitis. She isn't that replaceable. Brb, gonna finish comment later.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:32 PM
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PS when I said "regret it" I meant her, it's a shame to hard next a teenager because she just simply can't see what crossing boundaries carries with it. Nobody is my sweet bebe gurl. And I don't need to take anybody back when they're already there. She's coming to get her ass rammed as we speak. I just need to impose myself some more and am asking for advice. Please help, thank you.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:16 PM
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I want to learn please don't give up hahahahahahaahaha!!!! /u/vandaalen /u/RedPill-BlackLotus
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:11 PM
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really? aren't there higher levels? bitch management hierarchy?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:09 PM
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How do I increase my value? How do I not overinvest? Of course I don't fight with her. It's a woman, lol. Game is game in it's essence. How is playing a game not manipulative? It's the rules, no? Why is being manipulative beta?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:08 PM
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So, do you then enforce boundaries that she will cross anyways when she wants to and then see what a pussy you are or if you hard next her then regret it entire life because she was too woman-like to see that what she does has consequences? You don't denounce your child if it misbehaves, you fucking show it that it can't do that. What does it mean to a child "My children don't eat dirt". That's why I'm against boundaries.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:05 PM
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What I wanted to say is that she doesn't get that I can and will walk away if I'm not satisfied and my expectations met.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:01 PM
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It's not fake bro. But I think she doesn't get it, because we have a looooong friendship behind us. It's not an usual bitch management.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:46 AM
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Please elaborate man!!!
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:31 PM
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it's a joke...
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:25 PM
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why :(
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:22 PM
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This is the first time in 2019. Did I fuck something up in the meantime? I haven't noticed any other red flags.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:05 PM
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No she doesn't, at least not today - she's literally going to see this dude in afternoon hours and then jump on my cock afterwards. I fuck her enough and good so she doesn't need others. I don't want her as my plate. She brings way more value to my life.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:03 PM
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Uh, I expressed what I won't tolerate, she knows. We've discussed LTR.,why should I commit yet?I feel she should push for it. Her N count is below 5, I'm her fifth. Might be that I'm having to deal with her slutty phase.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:01 PM
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I've read it a month ago. Would you please be kind to break my perceived bubble and redpill me? I would really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:21 PM
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Why would you project the size of my ego. I'm open for what you're saying. I'm asking for RP advice here, for my intergender knowledge, not for this particular girl. She hasn't asked me for a LTR because she's been jumping from monogamous relationships, one of 1 year and another of 2.5 with COHABITATION where the guys fucked her TWICE A WEEK. Having LTRs that way makes you vomit at the sound of the word. But if you call it something else, something you only have with one guy, companionship... I …
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:53 PM
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She and I can ALWAYS go and fuck someone bro :)
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:38 PM
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Rule here on TRP is never cohabitate.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:37 PM
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It's her talking about us in 8 years, etc. She's waaay more invested than I am.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:30 PM
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I do intend to, she makes my pee pee go woo woo, really my type. Why hoe though?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:29 PM
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Did you read the entire post - it's literally an LTR which isn't declared and it's good for me because I get the benefits without the obligations/expectations.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:28 PM
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nah no rape vibes just an autist who's annoying. i think she wanted to call me out on not "standing up" whence i haven't even felt threatened. physical safety she has got from me. I lift, am big and muscular and give the soft but "don't fuck with me" vibe, plus i know muay thai and jiu jitsu.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:18 PM
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I think I replied with "it's just an autistic retarded dude" like how can you feel threatened by that guy. I guess he was just annoying her in the past.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:16 PM
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uh, this wasn't even attacking to be needed to guard, yet she got trigord. Shouldn't you sprinkle some mateguarding? It's a deep emotional relationship, after all, not plating. I'd say I'm 70% alpha 30% beta in it.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:43 AM
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thank you!
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:19 AM
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nono dude that's not the thing. you both misunderstood. what im I'm talking about that mltrs give you the option to cheat and ofc i must behave in hard next way for that. and then you look at the statistics and ask yourself "why even put yourself in that situation?". on the other hand, oltr is cuckoldry. wtf do i do
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:15 PM
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I'm not talking about cheating, I'm talking about whether MLTRs are inherently flawed. I want my relationships to be the healthiest as possible, and any friendship above FWB is something I want it to last a lifetime.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:27 AM
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ehhhhhh. i meant journal...
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:52 AM
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i know i cant edit the title... i made a mistake :(
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:51 AM
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I understand now. Thank you brother. Today she was crying when I fucked her so after sex she told me some intimate things including that "I have great emotional capacity" and then "... how many times I watched her weep and moan and grieve and didn't break" and "... imagine that happening to your usual dude". So I guess in her eyes I'm good? eh. I really know how to be a good emotional support - when somebody's having a tough time, I just remove myself and become the support, even if I want to di…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:55 AM
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i just tried imitating his reply with "nigga" and "lul". he took a quote out of context and told me to read the sidebar. ps my thanks were sincere
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:14 PM
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If you were right, I'd do my best to cry alone. I only cried once because of her taking the steering wheel / her giving me shit and getting under my skin. Other times, it's something else and more edgy and tormented. I'd listen to you and read the sidebar too. What she often says that she likes the potential in men, which might be why she babysitted me. She claims that I have enormous potential. Hmm. I don't disagree with you anyways. How do I be the protector that I ought to be???
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:08 PM
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dude, I really appreciate your replies. I'll reread it, just please tell me which parts - I can't bother to read 400 pages again since I read it like 2 months ago. The oneitis parts, what else? I would say I do have oneitis. The problem is I'm the type of guy who had his fair share of sex and doesn't care about multiple bang options who are just for bangs and laughs anymore. And I upgraded a relationship with my closest friend who also happens to be a female. Of course I will be attached and int…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:01 PM
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yes thank you :)
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:51 PM
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The thing with this girl is that she saw me when I was spineless, afraid and at my lowest. And she stuck around??????????????????????? "I've been disillusioned with you through that period and I'm glad for it because now I only get enthralled over and over again and I can truly love you, better than to have been enchanted and then when I met you, disenchanted" she says (we started fucking after my crisis)
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:37 AM
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Hmmm. She was aware it was concerning other things. I slipped anyways, fuck. Didn't intend to.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:32 AM
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nigga good answer thank you read my entire post before appealing to the sidebar lul
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:31 AM
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I think she said that before I displayed any emotion. And when I'm stoic in tough times, she complains "how come you handle it so easily and I'm dying here"
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:30 AM
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crying in front of her is the dilemma here
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:29 AM
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it's always a genuine display of emotion no? what does making excuses and hiding it mean
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:54 AM
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uhhh i still cant agree with you. why is it better not to
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:54 AM
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ty for the great answer. so how do i cultivate abundance? i am aware i am capable of meeting a girl and banging her in one day. but i dont wanna fuck just any girl, or just considering her looks. and also how do i apply dread - i've read the sidebar, and Tomassi, and still am clueless. thank you my man.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:28 AM
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No dude, I'm just talking about how fake I would be if I acted like I could just replace her. It's like making a level 1 character after you've maxed out one and deleting it without batting an eye
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:10 AM
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How do you instill it into the girl's head? I'm talking about passive dread. I'm kind of weak at dread. Whenever she was jealous about other girls, she knew I would just fuck them, nothing more. Current girl understands the depth of our relationship and my attachment. She's waay more invested of course.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:08 AM
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Funny, her past 2 boyfriends (low n count) lived with her at some point and fucked her twice a week. She was so hungry for an actual cock lol. Now I give her what she wants whenever I see her (we're neighbors atm, so I fuck her a couple times a day :))) Idk if testosterone is the main libido factor... Many stories of infrequent sex complaints from women I banged
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:08 AM
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Because I didn't mold the woman not to fuck it up?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:02 AM
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of course but to reach that level and depth of a relationship starting from scratch. eh. Btw, is me having to hard next her, when you look at it truly, only my own mistake?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:57 AM
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wouldn't her dumping me my mistake? Plus in LTRs I try to "invest" only what makes me feel good - I mean the time, texts and dates. The relationship is a byproduct. I do tend to work more poorly on myself though... Thank you for the insight Need to fix that asap. Btw,my current girl has a greater need for sex (intimacy and pleasure) than me. its really nice to watch because i went months celibate in the past haha!
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:55 AM
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Yeah, that sounds like sunk cost. I guess I'd force myself to walk away if my boundaries are crossed, despite the bias. But within the relationship, how do you stay abundant? I wouldn't really care about plates, even though I'd be aware of my smv and options and ease of getting new pussy throughout the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:49 AM
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It's not sunk cost - deepening of a relationship takes time spent together. A relationship with an LTR will always be way more satisfying than a plate. About the "exclusivity is her frame" - isn't it the same for her???? im the only source of her intimacy. I've read plate theory. Plus a TRP LTR man would probably know how to get himself to have plates when and if he needs them with the other party staying exclusive.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:41 AM
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i pointed out that it was a joke
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:04 PM
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it was in a really playful language
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:03 PM
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i don't understand
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:31 AM
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the other girl is not a plate and it was a joke in playful language because I mentioned the girl several times ('oh ill have to cancel with this one')
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:29 AM
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no and not all red flags
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:31 AM
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good advice thanks
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:29 AM
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hmm. well it's a quality girl ltr material and I think I'd become a man if I moved out and stopped sucking on my mom's tit. from your comment (unless im projecting) it sounds like you're against that idea?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:13 AM
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could you give me advice instead
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:35 PM
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we're dating but i don't want to do the talk, she's gonna do it anytime soon. exclusively dating from her side.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:34 PM
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hmm. okay. what's better? exclude the dress up aspect, i like the leadership involved in 'be there at 8 i got everything planned, all u gotta do is sit back and enjoy
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:38 AM
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rly? i wouldn't agree. it felt like a natural thing to say... how is that associated with pick up lines?
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:20 AM
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uh. what about non-USA social dynamics. It's pretty different. ​ ps What about looks?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:24 PM
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i literally approached 2 girls yesterday lol
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:55 AM
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i feel like ltr'ing this so i don't wanna make a stupid mistake, i can experiment on other girls. do you think a warning is better or my way?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:31 AM
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i wanted to say "wear that x things i like but don't waste time on makeup" ​ yeah,you're right that it's not good. but a warning noticemakes my dick limp! i can assume the same for her
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:30 AM
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well i only got to know them a few weeks ago. uni freshman. not mutual but social circle friend. my question is how do you game with friends and not with acquaintances that you don't meet on a daily basis. the dynamics are really different and harder for me
/r/askTRP05/11/18 09:36 PM
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