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be calm when you talk to them. when people are caught in a lie they can get very defensive, so being calm helps. tell him you know he went to whatever it was, and ask why he felt like he needed to lie to you. if he doubles down take it as a warning sign. if he admits to it, have a talk about honest within your relationship. for you guys to work you both need to be honest, especially when it comes to the things you think you need to hide from your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 08:44 AM
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ugh. it's so sad how difficult it can be just to protect yourself from pregnancy. you would think that by now science would've found a way to do so with less risks. birth control is great at preventing pregnancy but we should really have more options than the ones we do.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:31 AM
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interesting. i didn't start taking the pill until i started seeing my boyfriend and it's been such a positive experience. overall i have felt better than i ever have. for me, the pill has done more than just protect me from pregnancy. it's brought me so many positive changes. it's interesting how hormonal birth control can wreck some people but bring multiple positives to others. i stopped taking it for a while for reasons that don't need to be shared, but didn't experience any changes besides m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:18 AM
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how so?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:00 AM
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it's also just better to learn how to please a woman by learning what your girlfriend likes. there's no reason to turn to a book if you have a partner. if you're in a relationship where you're comfortable enough to have oral sex there's no reason for you to not be comfortable sharing what you do and don't like. there's no need to turn to a book after being eaten out ONE time. the first few times probably won't be perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 03:58 PM
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tbh the better thing to do is to teach him what she likes (if she even knows what she likes!) it's better to learn what your partner likes from your partner than from a book. learning new techniques together is also a great way to bond and strengthen your connection.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 03:54 PM
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thaaank you for building on some of what i've said. both things you've said are very important to keep in mind as well
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 09:28 PM
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it's not wrong and it's not sexist lol our society absolutely encourages men to have tons of sex and pushes the idea that real men are having sex regularly. that doesn't mean all men are dirty sluts or that women don't act that way too, though. and it doesn't mean you're not a man if you're not having sex all the time. generally speaking, men tend to have higher body counts than women. those higher counts are reflective of how society views and treats sex when it comes to men and women. when a m…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 07:45 PM
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exactly. it's totally okay and normal to feel hurt when your partner doesn't share an important belief with you. it sucks when the person you're with isn't always on the same page as you. but if the differences are things that are really important to you - things you can't let go, things you've believed your entire life - you have to learn to accept those differences or you have to accept that you shouldn't be with that person. if you hold strong beliefs and it's important your partner holds tho…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 07:32 PM
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emphasis on that last little paragraph. communication is, to me, the most important part of a relationship. communicating can be hard - especially when it comes to subjects that make you feel vulnerable. but if you're not being transparent with your partner about how certain things make you feel you're almost guaranteeing your feelings won't change. the best way to navigate your feelings is to talk about them. proper communication relieves anxiety and helps keep you from letting your thoughts sp…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 07:28 PM
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well, you guys just have different beliefs and feelings regarding virginity and that's totally okay in a general sense. but are YOU okay with it? truly? you said you don't think he's done anything wrong by having sex but you've also said it hurts knowing he didn't wait. virginity seems special and important to you. are you 100% certain you don't mind being with someone who isn't a virgin and doesn't hold the same values regarding sex and virginity as you do? there's plenty of virgin men out ther…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 07:13 PM
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i do think OP has an insecure boyfriend just based off the fact that he's saying all this to his girlfriend. people who aren't insecure don't constantly tell their partner about being hit on or whatever. but in general true confidence isn't always quiet. there's so many people who are cocky and full of it BECAUSE they're so confident. what leads me to think he's insecure is him saying all this to his partner but it is definitely possible he's just full of himself. 🤷🏻‍♀️ i get lots of male attent…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 04:19 PM
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he sounds insecure, tbh. it's like he's trying to prove he's attractive by talking about it. you should talk to him about how it makes you feel AND try to find out why he's like this. ask him why he keeps telling you these things and have an open and raw talk about it. don't fight or get loud, just express your feelings and let him express his. proper communication is important.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 04:09 PM
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i'm sure a lot of men do but my boyfriend doesn't. he's super cuddly, and initiates it all the time. i love it and think it's so sweet when he asks to cuddle and snuggles up to me. it has no relevancy to how much of a man he is or isn't. some men have a more fragile masculinity than others and those who are on the more fragile side tend to find cuddling effeminate.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 04:32 PM
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plan the next date ASAP. me and my boyfriend met in an app and tbh our texts, even now, are dry af most of the time and mainly consist of us just checking in throughout the day and sending a goodmorning/night text but our relationship is pretty perfect. awkward texting isn't always a bad sign, especially if you got on well in person. when our first date was over we made plans for a set time and day the following week and just kept up our small talk in texts in between. whenever we spend time tog…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/23 07:39 PM
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your count will be undesirable to some men and a non issue for others. be honest, always. the men who don't want you because of your body count are not the men you want to spend your life with, anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 05:27 PM
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dude. op didn't HAVE to cheat. period. 🤷🏻‍♀️ staying with someone for financial reasons? it's kinda shitty but it's what you have to do sometimes. but financial struggles don't mean you have to cheat on your partner for 6 months... especially if you're staying with them for financial reasons. it says a LOT about you to cheat for 6 months on your boyfriend you're living with. op just sucks.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 10:33 AM
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you don't want to be with your ex but took half a year to move out and end things? lol why did you stay for 6 months? why didn't you end things when you developed feelings for your new boyfriend? why did you actively date someone while you were LIVING with your ex boyfriend? gross.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 10:31 AM
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newsflash: your new boyfriend that you spent 6 months cheating with is NEVER going to trust you 100%. there's always going to be a part of him that thinks you're going to cheat because you spent 6 months cheating when you were living with another man. he wants you out of there because he doesn't trust you around your ex. and he isn't going to trust you around most guys you know either. there's no excuse for 6 months of cheating. you suck and you don't deserve to be trusted. your new bf is a tota…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 10:28 AM
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i'm just gonna say family is VERY important for some people. my boyfriend's family really didn't like his ex wife (valid. bc she was horrible) but my boyfriend wanted to stand by his wife, ya know? they never liked her but he stayed with her, proposed, married her, and got a house with her. his wife slowly pulled him from his family and his relationship with his family was destroyed and almost non existent because of her. and then he found out she was cheating. he left his wife, obv, and his fam…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 12:56 PM
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what was the argument 3 months ago about? it feels like that was a bigger problem for him than you realize and that that is the key factor in him ending things. we can't really help without knowing the full story. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 12:44 PM
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if you're tight when you're a virgin you're gonna be just as tight when you're not. the vagina doesn't get loose and stay loose. if you're not tight it's not because you're not a virgin, it's just because that's how you were born. 🤷🏻‍♀️ it's a fact that virginity and tightness don't go hand in hand.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 03:59 AM
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i'm not looking for reasons to be offended. you can easily look this up... it's a myth that virginity plays a part in tightness.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 01:16 AM
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oh. well being upset he couldn't come is fair but it's not fair to react the way you did considering everything. when you're upset with who you're dating the right reaction is definitely not talking to other guys. 🤷🏻‍♀️ leave him alone, move on, and learn from the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 12:16 AM
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why did you invite him so last minute?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 11:52 PM
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don't message him. leave him alone. you hurt him and lost his trust. you knew he was cheated on and when he couldn't spend time with you your reaction was to talk to other guys.... you're childish and you're an asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 11:50 PM
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wym virgins are tight and non virgins aren't? having sex doesn't loosen your coochie. how tight you are isn't based off if your a virgin or not. please educate yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 11:40 PM
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well, it could be as simple as him having given you signs he wanted more than a friendship and deciding to clear up that he's not into you like that i wouldn't give this too much thought. sounds like you were both caught up in the moment (his actions and you allowing them) & then ending the night exchanging numbers clearly gave the impression there was dome sort of romantic interest he thought it over and he's not into you and he's making sure that's clear. that's all.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:56 PM
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well it sounds like you're taking steps in the right direction! once you've smoothed out these issues it'll make things a lot easier! even when you do everything right online dating can still be tiring and difficult because dating in general is tiring and difficult. take note of the things you don't like about people you have dates with and look for those bad qualities in other men (to keep from wasting any time) if you put yourself out there and are your authentic self on apps and on dates you'…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:35 PM
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online dating, much like regular dating, is a game of luck except there's a huge difference in numbers that makes online dating a lot harder (it's also super easy to just ghost someone you're talking to but haven't gone on a date with yet) my trick was not swiping right so much, i just became a little pickier to cut down the numbers - most people never reply anyway i met my boyfriend online a few months ago and i've known plenty of people who found their partner through an app as well. again, it…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:28 PM
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honestly? don't take so long to have that first date & don't swipe right on so many people. be picky. i matched with my boyfriend on a sunday and our first date was that week on friday. we spoke daily leading up to the date and we've spoken every single day since then. it's better to have that first date sooner than you're having them - you'll waste a lot less time, especially if you don't talk to multiple people at once if your looks aren't the problem, what about you could be the problem? you …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:20 PM
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what do album or song titles have to do with either? dangerous woman is about a man making her feel dangerous & "wanna do things that i shouldn't" in a sexual way, & giaw is about her being so good in bed her man will think she's godly. big deal? mac's od wasn't on her and pete's situation now isn't on her. both has issues before her and pete will continue to have them after her. you're slut shaming her based off 0 evidence she's slept to the top or with other men while in a relationship.
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