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| – | CMV: Cuckoldry and Polygyny is the Future Which Redpillers Need to AcceptRagebait AI-generated drivel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have better emotional intelligence then men.Women don’t have better emotional intelligence THAN men. We definitely have more latent intelligence than some of you, at the very least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Title: Ever notice how feminist guys support sexually liberated women… but usually date “modest” ones.Personally, I think a large portion of liberal men who support choice feminism (I.e., the ‘sexually liberated’ woman who sleeps around) do so out of self-interest, consciously or not. Under a patriarchal lens they get the best of both worlds—they preach how forward thinking and progressive they are, ‘get in’ with a portion of women where openly conservative men are typically locked out of, are seemingly placed on a pedestal compared to other men that ascribe to the patriarchal lifestyle more fre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:49 AM |
| 3 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.How can we be the best version of ourselves without having our most ideal partner? I was 30 and then the stars suddenly aligned and my soulmate, crafted to perfection like something out of Practical Magic was dropped into my lap. Albeit I still made poor romantic choices along the way (several losers while I discovered true self-worth) but the important thing is that you don’t get stuck on them—by wasting years of life, an accidental pregnancy or marriage. That’s the case for both women /and/ me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 07:16 AM |
| 2 | What's opinion on women's getting a man's last name nowadays?My husband took my last name. He’s my biggest ally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 04:04 PM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeAn example of what I mean—someone said in reference to that line specifically, “I get my views from real feminists. Go to men’s rights sub and type ‘feminist’ and ‘circumcision’ you’ll see.” That’s not getting an idea of what feminists personally believe on average straight from the source; it’s from a men’s rights sub, which would obviously be biased. Learning what feminists typically believe ‘from the tap’ would involve actually talking to a woman who is a feminist, ideally in real life. Onlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:18 AM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegePersonally (as a radfem) I have more negative feelings about ‘free the nipple’ than positive ones. I’d rather not casually see tits in my day-to-day—female /or/ male. I wish men had the same stigmas that women have had with walking around shirtless on the street for the last few hundred years. Healthcare should be free, so I’m against charging anyone for it. Men are statistically more likely to get into car accidents however so unless we collectively decide car insurance is a mandatory human rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:01 AM |
| 3 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testSo in that same vein, is it offensive to ask your partner (for the sake of debate we’ll say husband) for routine STD screenings? Do you think it’d be offensive if your wife of ten years asked for an STD screening whenever she felt like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:45 PM |
| – | It's much harder for men to build a hot body than it is for women.Any rigorous male body standards in western society today you can thank men for. They’re born of the patriarchy. Only men think women actually need all those things in their partner to be attractive (barring the occasional braindead woman equally brainwashed by the patriarchy’s beauty standards). If you need proof just go to the grocery store, mall, etc during peak hours and look at the average couple. Studies have shown that while women ARE particular about what they’re attracted to, they’re al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:18 AM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.I HATE being starved for intimacy. Does that mean I’m a man now? That’s the problem with these generalized titles and ‘debates;’ they rely on anecdotal evidence. Do you have any statistics to back up how women turn sex in relationships into an “incentive/consequence” system? There are plenty of common blanket statements about men that can be immediately backed by statistical fact—like men are rapists. 97% of all rape cases are perpetrated by men. Does that mean you believe all men are rapists? A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.If you see that as victim blaming then /everything/ can be victim blamed; is it victim blaming to say someone shouldn’t have gotten in a vehicle drunk and getting in an accident, going to prison? That’s for things clearly outside a person’s control—like not going on a date with the woman who has 3 baby daddies and asks how much you make a year in the first week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.False. Either you have very little experience with women or a victim of your own choices (repeatedly low-value women). Regardless your generalizations come from a place of hurt. Source: my perfect husband who voices his feelings and all the women I know that have the same. And all the men in his family. And most of their friends. It’s a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:06 AM |
| 0 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardCan you give an example? Personally I think of women’s right to choose abortion—which, fun fact, the majority of female critters throughout the animal kingdom actually choose to abort (miscarry, technically, since there’s no tech intervention) their babies in utero when they sense the beginnings of drought our other stressors that may inhibit their ability to carry to term. If you’re referencing things like rape then we just have to defer back to the fact that our species, humans, have evolved b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 08:26 PM |
| -1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardI mean, you just outlined the analogy perfectly while disagreeing with it; men with 0 matches, 0 dates or 0 women are in a ‘desert’ of dating opportunity (as in it’s a dry ass desert, the lack of water equating to lack of potential partners) while “laser-left-swiping” women have ALL the water (analogous for dating opportunity) in a swamp, but it’s not potable. The fact that women have more opportunities and are wading through the ‘swamp’ is basic biology/evolution, as well. Look at any animal be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedMy husband is all those things—never give up on holding out for the total package | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedIt’s hard to debate when your rebuttals make so little sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Prostitution should be legalizedThat’s just the result of a weak man. A woman who sees herself with higher value would simply learn from mistakes (I.e., missing the red flags that the man was a loser, identifying what they were for future reference and why they were missed, etc.) and move on. Find a better one, they’re out there. Legalized prostitution would only make them harder to come by. If a man can’t see that as a possibility then it’s usually because they’re one of the lessers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Prostitution should be legalizedAll prostitution does is degrade the seller and consumer. It encourages low-value behavior on both sides and in turn damages future potential for a real relationship (just like OF/pornography does). At the end of the day women suffer most from sex work, too, and as a SWERF woman that’s important to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Why men who provide security are boring ?I’m sure it’s very easy for a low-value man to hook up with a low-value woman (I use these terms without the red pill definition in mind); high-value people don’t engage in that behavior, so in a way I think you are what you attract. A low value woman doesn’t want to stay with a high value man (I.e., one who provides security, along with all the other essentials of a fulfilling relationship) because her standards for a short term or long term relationship are few. Similarly, if you’re a low valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 10 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectiveIf it influences (Royal) you that much then you need to get offline. Being chronically online is when what you see on the internet influences you so much you drastically change your behavior in the real life, day-to-day. As you pose in your title, for example, do something violent against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 5 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectiveAs someone else said, then are they a good man? My husband is always receptive to my complaints, even if I say “men are the worst” and listens with disappointment for his gender. My boss, a gen X man, does the same. Good men can separate. Just like if I see a woman engaging in pick-me behavior or generally anti-feminist behavior I’ll say, “fucking women” and experience disappointment at my gender. The most productive thing to do afterward is contemplate /why/ random person X did such behavior, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 07:46 PM |
| 17 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectiveI’m hesitant to read OP’s ‘mocking, berating and taunting’ as their true definitions. His language is emotional and hostile, near ‘hysterical’ (as he uses it) on its own. And what is the nature of mocking, berating and taunting? I think there’s people online of all genders that act fools that deserve it. The internet isn’t a safe haven. It’s an unspoken social contract; if you use the internet it’s inevitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Are men really more emotionally resilient than women?I see men cry at my job once a week, minimum. I’ll often see it more. Emotional is also how short one’s fuse is, how likely they are to rage. That I see at least once a day. TBF I work in a strip club, but I see far more male tears/temper tantrums than I do from women (which definitely still happens, just not nearly as much). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | People who think two parent household automatically means a good one are very naive.It’s not that two-parent households are always GOOD, but statistically they are better than single parent homes. Personally, I had a two-parent home until I was a teen, then had one again quickly after. One of my parents was an abusive drunk that spent all our money to borderline poverty. Yeah, the abusive parent caused irreparable damage and strife throughout my childhood, but I also never had to TRULY go without in terms of food, clothing or shelter. Having two incomes, even if one is provided… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:33 AM |
| 34 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectiveOf course they feel emboldened by the safety of a screen? Statistically speaking the likelihood of some loser you flame online will doxx/track you down is incredibly low, so of course women are freer to vent frustrations. It’s far more dangerous in real life. Conversely I can’t walk in a suburban parking garage in a non-metro city and feel safe, period. If you defer to the argument of “women create more danger by ‘instigating’ online,” it doesn’t matter. Pretty sure awful people will do awful th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menIt IS be yourself, but it’s also “go to therapy (or /truly/ work on yourself, although the average bear lacks the skill set to do so effectively, myself includes) AND be the best version of yourself.” If being yourself results in constant failures spanning over years of dating then you need to better yourself. Not for prospective partners but for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Women live life on easy mode.Nearly 99% of all rapists are male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women live life on easy mode.Raped by men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Philophobia is every man's destiny - and curse - as a consequence of daring to trust women. I believe the remedy to this is to never fully trust women, just as women never fully trust men. Instead, take calculated risks. Be aware of the pitfalls, and plan accordingly: just as women do.It reads like “female derangement syndrome.” If you were interested in debate you’d answer the question—how do men love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Philophobia is every man's destiny - and curse - as a consequence of daring to trust women. I believe the remedy to this is to never fully trust women, just as women never fully trust men. Instead, take calculated risks. Be aware of the pitfalls, and plan accordingly: just as women do.For the sake of your ‘debate’—how do men love? You clearly outlined how you believe women love so I’m curious what the difference is. As for everything else you wrote, and I say this sincerely: you need therapy. Badly. Then you can work on IRL friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.It’s a misnomer to call it (brain development, specifically the prefrontal cortex) a ‘myth.’ I’d like to read the material you have to call it as such. Yes, the prefrontal cortex does not have a set ‘time’ to stop developing. It’s estimated to be mid-20s, but there are other agitating factors—genetics, traumatic events in developmental years, environment through childhood and even gestation—that can influence your PF-C to mature as early 20’s, into late 30’s or not at all. But it’s no myth that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 02:19 PM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsAriana Grande: She hits the conventional beauty standard boxes, has millions of dollars and reached a new pinnacle of success with Wicked. Still, she chose to homewreck the guy from Hamilton. Megan Fox: Obviously meets the beauty standards, had a large claim to fame and money on her own, yet hitched to MGK, who had far less net worth and notoriety when they met. JK Rowling: May not meet beauty standards but a veritable billionaire on her own, one of the richest self-made women of our time. She’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Why do women not enjoy helping their male friends, by being a wing woman for them?It’s platonic Women at the bar/game/wherever aren’t a commodity for you to ‘score’ Plenty of women are against casual hookup culture. If you feel differently you’re chronically online Many women LOVE playing matchmaker for both their male and female friends. If your lady friends don’t want to help you “wingman” it’s probably because they see how poorly it’d work. Women try to arrange relationships from the female perspective (how/when/where you approach, who’s the best fit for both people, etc.)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the super anti woke types of guys?As Andrea Dworkin said: “Conservative men view women as private property. Liberal men view women as public property.” So personally, I view them poorly, but I view super woke men just the same. Both sides live on a horseshoe and always meet in the middle. Look for people (men or women) that broke from the mold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Willingness to become a “second safe option” is a true sign of insecurityI completely disagree. I always like to keep an eye out for examples, and a recent one: JK Rowling and her husband. Her husband’s a doctor but doesn’t meet what many men view as the male ‘beauty standard.’ She’s a veritable billionaire so there’s no hypergamist element at play. She loves her husband fiercely and vice versa. Another, Ariana Grande—her latest beau was in a marriage with his pregnant wife when they started dating, and once again does not meet the ‘male beauty standard’ by any means… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 09:46 PM |
| – | Willingness to become a “second safe option” is a true sign of insecurityAgreed. This applies to everyone. To waste time being a second choice or choosing to be with said second choice is a disservice to your self-worth and life in general. We’re only on this planet for so long, so why not be with nothing but the best for you? To choose being alone over a (at best) half-fulfilling relationship is strength of character. While I despise the buzzword usage of the terms “low/high value” for individuals, it is low-value behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 08:37 PM |
| – | The Origins of Why Women Are Both Empowered and Weak, and Why They Blame Men for Their Own Limitations, and Why Merit Equals Privilege, Not True CapabilityI’m sure I’ve got plenty of gay relatives that I don’t even know about yet. I believe many men are likely gay and don’t even know it themselves yet, manifested instead in their actions, thoughts or comments toward women. Your post just seemed to fit the stock standard so I had to ask. Regardless, I couldn’t care less if they were. You bring it up repeatedly as if it’s supposed to wound me; perhaps because the notion wounds you to even imagine in your own life. You say in your aspirational thesis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:33 PM |
| – | The Origins of Why Women Are Both Empowered and Weak, and Why They Blame Men for Their Own Limitations, and Why Merit Equals Privilege, Not True CapabilityNever said anything about you hating women; in fact, I intentionally left it out. Gay men don’t hate women just because they believe other men to be the superior ‘partner.’ What ‘consequences’ and precipitating pushback are you insinuating? Do you have some examples? You dismiss the idea of superiority, but I see you’re a frequent visitor of indiaonex and similar cultural subs, and even believe in the caste system. Is that not based on superiority/inferiority? So clearly it’s a concept you’re st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Most marital problems happen because men love their wives.It reads as if you’re speaking from personal experience.. It may be a you problem. Men (adults in general) that have base level emotional IQ typically won’t sabotage their own relationship out of fear abandonment, which is what your hypothetical boils down to. That’s called a dysfunctional attachment style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 12:54 AM |
| 2 | The Origins of Why Women Are Both Empowered and Weak, and Why They Blame Men for Their Own Limitations, and Why Merit Equals Privilege, Not True CapabilitySo are you a male-attracted man? Asking because I’ve found that men with these opinion tend to prefer their own sex over ‘low-value’ women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 12:49 AM |
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