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| 2 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)it would be weird, especially if there was no indication of attraction ever before, but if i did find him attractive and wanted something, i'd go with it. if you want to know whether or not she'd be into it, make a joke about sex. it's advice i hear given to guys a lot, and some say it doesn't work, but it does for me. i don't like talking about sex with people i find sexually repulsive. if that was said to me, i would first think what the hell is that supposed to mean? did i say something that … | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)absolutely be honest with her. that heart to heart conversation can change everything, especially if admit that it's a personal confession (she'll feel close to you because you're opening up) and if you confess how you really feel, it should change things. tell her you'll try to tell her how much you appreciate her, but it'll be slow. now, only say this if you actually mean you'll try to do these things, because 0 progress is worse than what it was like before sometimes. most women will be able … | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)yes. if we are in a relationship now, you eventually need to start proving that you care about me. i dont want a cling monster like i think you feel you are expected to be, but i do want a certain level of obvious commitment from you. i don't like flirting outside a relationship, but that is up to the other person, of course. if your girl feels unappreciated, you aren't saying or showing that you appreciate her. i've been in this position. my ex was pretty emotionally cold, we never kissed or hu… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)no. unless i want you contacting me, you're not getting my number. it's like taking home a pocket sized version of you in a sense. try changing your text/phone game if you're having a low success rate. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)i know the edit wasn't a cat call perse, i just had to include it because it made me so happy and what i didn't include was that i was on my way to get lunch for my boss and i walked by him again, but no other approach was made. and that was okay, i have a boyfriend after all, it was just interesting, whereas frat guy tried to get me to go out that night. which i took it all as a joke and im sure it was, but other girls might not. and yes, i know r/seduction doesn't think cat calls are legitimat… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)i get mom drama, no worries, and other girls will too. haha no, i understand there is a fair amount of ease of use because of the internet here. capitalizing takes time, so does writing because. and i over capitalize because... i think because of being a TA. students don't read emails but red capitals always get their attention :D so little shortcuts aren't bothersome to anyone i think unless grammar is a big, big issue. which it is for english majors, but not so much for say art majors. (i'm an… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)i'm lucky enough to live in the area they are from, and to have worked at a venue they played a lot of shows in. best shows to work, they're all so nice. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)just make sure you go somewhere accessible by public transportation, and suggest her place. if she's not okay with either, you need to move on. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)how men look at women, what they want from relationships and courting, and just the emotion behind some of the posts. you guys can get so stressed, it's cute. also reading about the "techniques" you guys use, and then seeing them being used on me. it's funny. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)nothing too clingy, but: the day you know she is going home, text her that night and ask if she got home safe and wish her a good night. wait for her to initiate contact after that. then feel it out. definitely send a merry christmas text, of course, even if there is no contact. if you have a flirty relationship, send her cute flirty texts once in a while. edit: this is coming from a girl who now is in a completely amazing relationship that pretty much start with texting. very successful texting… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)does it match with the rest of you? it's really not that big of deal. but don't desperately hold onto your hair. whatever you end up with, be confident. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)lean back. who the fuck are you and why are you trying to kiss me? and that's me if i'm single. i have a boyfriend right now, so you could end up on the floor. unless we have established something previously where you know kissing me wouldn't be so much of a gamble. then it would be more of a "FINALLY" situation. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)just talk to her like you would anyone else. have a conversation about something around you, something light. ask about her. people love talking about themselves. this is a business trick. ask them about themselves and you don't have to say a word but all of a sudden they love you. however if they ask you questions, give genuine, honest answers. and there's this whole "kino" thing here, but don't start that too early, it can be pushy. but it does work. this one guy started with touching my shoul… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)invite her to hang out in groups. don't just say "okay we can be friends" - a lot will think you're just going to try again later or be insufferably clingy. your edit: i prefer neat and closely trimmed. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)if they're WAY too active on facebook, i know they must not have too many other hobbies. if they have a TON of female activity, that's a little questionable if i want something more long term with them, depending on what i see. someone with a lot of self pics seems narcissistic. i definitely judge on grammar. your statuses. if you complain constantly about trivial things, we probably aren't going to work. i have two jobs and full credit hours, and you're complaining about having to take out the … | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)giving a little more attention to you than others. some get it, but others are just "what she isn't like this with everyone?" no dude, how much time do you think i have in a day? remembering very specific things about you. again, i have one brain and i see hundreds of people a day, you're pretty special if i just so happen to remember what you got for lunch three days ago. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)going to just give links because it's late but i want to respond: anywhere from this: mike armine mike armine 2 to this garret dillahunt mike armine is very skinny, but his body is incredibly hot. garret (who i know as burt chance from raising hope) has a little more bulk. but both are hot. burt reminds me more of a husband type who can rake leaves and fix things and hold babies and thats awesome. mike is the vocalist of a band and part of going to their shows is to drool over him. ideally, i li… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)1) if i'm very busy. if you see that you interrupted me and i look annoyed and you don't give up, no chance. but if you wish me well and come back later, that's welcome. make me laugh if i look stressed, but keep it quick. OR: when i am work and you are not one of my coworkers. it puts me in a really awkward position, especially if i have never seen you before. if it was a regular it might be different, but i've never been in that situation. 2) cat calling me from a stoop; via email; aggressive … | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)it matters to an extent, only in that you have to follow up with it. if you asked me the dinosaur question, i'd answer, and if you then got all embarrassed and socially awkward and basically had no follow through, i'd think "what a weirdo" whereas if you had something to follow it up with, a reason you asked me about dinosaurs (don't just start a dinosaur conversation with me and then leave. that's still weird), it could go somewhere. basically, your opener doesn't matter if it gets my attention… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some good 'pet' names to use that are cute without being too creepy?love this idea - have to leave this comment (same girl who was called pookie here) because i'm not a nickname hater, i do really love them, and my current SO calls me velcro because i'm an extreme cuddler. its personal, original, makes me laugh at myself, and anytime i see anything with velcro i think of him. | /r/seduction | 12/11/11 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some good 'pet' names to use that are cute without being too creepy?go with that instinct. don't use pookie. a guy (female, here) started calling me that out of absolutely nowhere and i dealt with it for two weeks before i had to tell him to stop. it's weird, strange sounding, and was in no way related to me so it felt impersonal. we didn't last long. | /r/seduction | 12/11/11 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.this is possibly true. but men who get less women tend to be clingy and suffocating, and thus, worse boyfriends. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix itthank you for perfectly explaining why i have rejected every single (self-proclaimed) "nice guy" who has pursued me. show me you're a "nice guy" by treating me and others with respect. do not do this by making your life about me. that's possession of my existence to validate yours. and that is definitely not a "nice" thing to do. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Flaked, but still interested?from the female perspective: you invited her to the party on friday. it would be your job then to contact her about it day of. however, she should have texted and if she was really interested, she would have. don't send her a text asking when she's free. that gives room for a wishywashy answer. give a specific day, specific activity, and even a specific time. if she flakes again, move on. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Don't ever waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you.true, and if it happens don't show it as much, because then you get clingy and as or as calibration said, you want it too bad. which you think would be flattering, but it gets annoying. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Is r/seddit for real?putting myself out on a bit of a limb here but: i'm a woman who lurks a bit here, and as far as it being "real", there is solid advice on attracting women to be found here. along with that, there is advice given sometimes that would make me RUN from a guy, but nothing can be perfect. it might seem predatory, and some of it (the RUN!! advice bits i see) is. but as is often said here, you can't look at it as just picking up chicks. it's about being a better man. and bettering yourself isn't weak, … | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Where do you pick up smart girls?student organizations. go to their events often if you don't want to join the club. go for the ones from the specific departments (ex: biology society, entrepreneurial student association, etc) or ones with a definite cause/"theme" like a community garden club, political groups, etc. you'll find women who dedicate their time to something other than the beach and have enough drive to join and remain active in a student org. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 05:24 PM |
| 1 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"awesome. that's what i'd like to think which is why i didn't originally. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 12:10 PM |
| 4 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"ha yes i am a girl, i probably should have specified. yes, absolutely. i have a spectacular thing going with someone who after a bit of flirting, asked for my phone number for "professional contact reasons" (we work in the same office). very non professional contact ensued. fun flirting with very slight ulterior motive that entices me but doesn't push it: guaranteed you're going to be on my mind all night. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 02:18 AM |
| 5 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"exactly, she will put forth the effort to make things happen. although you need to show some interest too of course. ive turned my heel on many guys i didn't think cared only to find out the opposite later. too little, too late. but being pushy and aggressive and sulky is still far worse. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 01:14 AM |
| 9 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"valid points, but don't let the "assumption of attraction" cause you to be insanely pushy to the point of highschool-esque peer pressure to hang out. this is on par with the sulking thing. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 10:08 PM |
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