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Yeah that was my point. If you are intellectually curious it means you are most likely very high in openness to experience. And if you are intelligent AND open then statistically speaking you won't have a lot of potential mating opportunities because most people are average and take certain facts for granted. To be honest I am kind of like you - I am also very intellectually curious and I consider myself above in intelligence. Personally I don't mind if a guy has "basic" interest like watching s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:16 AM
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I am very introverted and I consider myself well-read. I've gone on a handful of dates and I don't think my idiosyncrasies make men more attracted to me. Actually I think it actually makes dating harder because not many people like to read for pleasure OR think about random esoteric topics very deeply so it's not easy to build rapport. To be honest I think men are more attracted to extroverted women because they tend to be warm, open, and gregarious and I am way more reserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:44 AM
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I think you attract who you are. The more idiosyncratic you are, the harder it will be to find someone who is compatible. If you are an intelligent woman AND intellectually curious it will be very hard to find someone suitable especially as most women date up and men date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:40 AM
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Yes. I actually had one guy who showed up like this. It was one of the best first dates I've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:41 AM
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I don't know your attitude sounds pretty immature I'm sure you will fit in just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:31 AM
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I am 29F. I do not find any of this attractive. I prefer men to wear a nice button-down shirt, dress pants or semi-formal trousers, and dress shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:27 AM
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I am not forcing anything. What I mean is, if you only want casual then you should just be upfront about it. OP only wants casual so he should just say so. It avoids wasting everyone's time.
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:16 PM
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Noooo. I am looking for a serious relationship when I date. I'm female btw. I appreciate when the guy is upfront and just tell me that he's not looking for anything serious so we don't waste each others' time.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:28 AM
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I feel like you have unrealistic expectations of what relationships are. Some women just won't be attracted to you, no matter what you do. You must have met nice women in your life that you are not attracted to? Objectively there might be nothing wrong with them; you just don't feel it for some reason.. It's the same thing. Also if you've women make the first move then you're definitely attractive to some women. I guess you've also rejected some women as well? It happens. It's not always persona…
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:37 PM
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Well you were in a relationship once, so maybe you haven't met the right person yet? Tbh I think it's most likely that you just didn't meet the right person yet so there was no chemistry. The other thing is that I can't get a read of your personality in your post. Most of your self descriptions focus on your outward image. But what makes you interesting as a person? Being clean, hygienic and well-groomed are just basic adult things so they don't give you bonus points.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:32 PM
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What are your hobbies? IMO most women can tell if you're only doing a hobby to meet women and it can be kind of a turn off. Lots of women do yoga but it can be weird if a guy only joins the local yoga club because he wants to meet women.
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:35 AM
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Some thoughts: - Not everyone has the same touch threshold. Personally I would be VERY turned off if a guy gets touchy when he first met me, even if I WERE interested in him in the first place. Be careful about making blanket statements like this because you can come off as too creepy. - Sometimes it is luck. I mean, I bet you've met girls that aren't ugly but you don't just feel it for some reason. It happens. It might be nothing wrong with you. - You have a blindspot about your social skills o…
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:29 PM
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Then have something to offer. Sorry dude but at 26 I would be more worried about moving out and getting a career than dating. I assume that you are probably dating girls around your age. Not having a life direction might be ok at 26 but you will be 27 next year and not having a life planned out is VERY bad when you're getting close to 30. Start working on your life first.
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:39 AM
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Your ex is right. Every girl has different taste. However it's good to cover the basics - make sure your clothes fit you. Get a haircut that brings out your best features (if you don't know what suit you, ask your hairdresser for advice). Take pride in your appearance but don't obsess over it. Personally I find it really attractive if a guy is intelligent, articulate, and has a good sensor of humor. A guy who looks 5 or 6 out of 10 can easily become 10/10 if he is intelligent and demonstrates tr…
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:48 AM
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No you don't. If you are honest with yourself and observant you can suss out if someone is marriage material within 6 months. I can tell, within 10 minutes of conversation, whether someone is of substance or they're all talk and no walk. I have almost never experienced immediate attraction based on looks alone. I only really become attracted once a man demonstrates character, intelligence, and a sense of humour - the latter of which you can assess within the first ten minutes of meeting.
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:24 AM
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Yeaaaaah. Not so. I have to add that your two examples may be the women just being polite or friendly. I've made small talk with male strangers before to be friendly. Absolutely no intention of hitting on them. Just bored. Men have high standards for who they would date for LTR or marry. Having a skinny and toned body is not enough. I would say I have an average face, is thin, and have a hourglass figure and men still ignore me.
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:17 AM
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To be honest she might have only been polite.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:24 AM
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They were being polite and/or friendly.
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:43 AM
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Obviously you've never worked that hard if this is an actual issue. I know people who juggled two or three jobs who have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:09 AM
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Play stupid games win stupid prizes. I promise if you see woman as the whole package instead of a point on a 10 point scale your world will CHANGE. Free advice. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:19 AM
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Hahahahaha. I know you're not interested in getting to know how I really think. Here is the magic trick: If I tell you that all of my friends are attractive, you will say "See! A woman only dates chads!" If I say all my friends are ugly, then you will say "See! A woman has high standards and won't date anyone less than a 9.9!" I'm sorry that you think the entire world revolves on a 10-point rating system. If you are able to see beyond looks the dating game is not really such a bad place. Unfortu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:51 AM
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Duh, because you didn't understand my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:38 AM
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So you think friendship is based on looks and not personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:35 AM
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Dumb definition of "relationship". Marriage is different from cohabitation, which is different from a romantic relationship and casual date. The difference is HUGE in terms of commitment. I think it's pretty hilarious that you think the common denominator is regular sexual contact and not commitment. If that's your barometer, then yes your average young man isn't getting any BECAUSE he doesn't want the concurrent commitment! What 24-year-old man is begging to get on one knee and propose to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:54 AM
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It's because most female attraction is not heavily skewed toward visual appearance. I would say a man's looks only account for 30% of attraction trigger for me. What triggers "wow this guy is attractive!" is a multitude of factors: the way he speaks, how he carries himself, how he resolves problems and whether he is able to take the initiative and responsibility for tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:50 AM
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Obviously you have moral convictions against it, or else you won't be posting on Reddit about it. You would be doing it right now. The reason you aren't doing it is because you are afraid of social repercussions. Hence why you are posting here for opinions. Btw there WILL be social repercussions. It might not happen in two months, two years, but it will come.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:56 AM
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Emotionally unstable people attract each other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:54 AM
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Nah. The only thing "off" is that men want casual sex (more than women) and women want relationships (more than men). Women don't have to work to provide what men want? Lol. Why do you think women spend so much money on their looks/clothes/grooming? Because men are visual creatures. A woman can be 10/10 in personality but a man will not pay her a second glance if she's ugly. The struggle goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:12 AM
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People see the world as they are. If someone is super horny they will interpret friendly flirting as sexual interest. If someone is not super horny they will interpret friendly flirting as friendly flirting or just friendly small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 02:25 AM
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