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kawaiibutpsycho/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 05:02 PM
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I think it can be due to woman getting annoyed by men trying to protect them because they say "they can protect themselves" but I'd assume that OP described to be less common in eastern Europe because it's more traditional there, isn't it? I remember in Spain trying to carry a huge luggage and the guys just walking past, then I visited Morocco and after 5 minutes 2 guys helped me carry my bag but again it's probably related to the idea that "women are weak" so men feel that they need to "help" b…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 07:32 PM
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I wonder where this happened. In the place I live or where I'm from this could never happen. Drunk people are already frowned upon let alone one that's saying those things to a woman. Ofc it's not perfect here either, most kinds of assault come from close people (friends, relatives, husbands) I've witnessed multiple times men trying to harass women in public transportation being beaten up by other men.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 11:37 AM
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Maybe try staying away from fiction and read non-fiction instead? And ofc like everyone here said, hang out with actual women.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:11 PM
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As a woman I can definitely say "anticipation" is a HUGE plus and most of the time overlooked. The smartest thing to do for a guy is to say for example "if you keep doing ...... I'm just gonna kiss you" in a playful way and if she keeps doing it, you can be like "you want that kiss, ha?" and approach her slowly or if she stops doing it, you won't kiss her. Because it's extremely uncomfortable for a woman to reject a kiss and end up questioning her behavior to figure out if she gave any wrong sig…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 05:56 PM
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I disagree. I have seen so many guys in their 20s making fun of guys who refuse casual sex, even joking "just make her turn away if she is unattractive" this isn't uncommon at all.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 05:42 PM
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That's not even a lot of men that you've slept with though. I have a lot of European friends (and live there a while) and I'm pretty sure you'd be considered a virgin there lol Just stay away from people who care about that kind of stuff, nothing wrong with sleeping with someone you like, it's just an idea of a bunch of losers trying to control what women do with their bodies. Who cares about them?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/20 06:48 AM
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You have to really dig deep into why you think that. What would happen if you can do that? What would it mean to make her interested when she is currently not? What stops you from moving on to someone else?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 11:31 AM
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As a woman, 1 and 2 is exactly how I react to nice guys. Nobody is perfect, if he finds everything about me perfect and does whatever I want from him, it just feels unnatural. Honestly you gotta be a narcissist to think you deserve to be treated that way. What you want from a relationship is to become a better person and someone who never challenges you can't give you that. You you may even push them to criticize you or challenge you (which may look like you're sabotaging the relationship) but y…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 11:23 AM
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You aren't a cave men, don't buy into that shit. Don't base your value on the amount of women you get. Trust me, all those men are miserable inside.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 11:19 AM
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Exactly! It's about balance.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 11:16 AM
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It is impossible to be someone that agrees about everything with the person you like. It's not just possible. It's okay if the guy decides to stay with a girl instead of watching your favorite team, that's very loving and romantic UNTIL he holds it up against her later, saying she should appreciate him more because he didn't even watch his favorite game to be with her. The issue is to make the niceness somehow something she has to pay back. About the thug stuff, just stay away from girls who are…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 08:34 PM
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Let me try to simplify. We just don't like man who are always trying to please us while losing themselves in the process. Just find out who you are and mature on your own and then when you like a woman she will just be your partner. Not something you feel like you need in order to feel value. That puts a lot of pressure on us and I have been with a nice guy, I always felt guilty criticizing anything he did because he was "trying his best" "doing everything for me" and "always being nice" but he …
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 07:59 PM
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Click and read the full post.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 05:04 PM
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Good bot
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 08:38 PM
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What is black pill?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 08:26 PM
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That depends on who you're trying to attract. If you want a Kim Kardashian type woman, then you need to be a millionaire. But if you want a regular woman who values personality, kindness, responsibility and effort, then you're totally fine with your job. I've seen many posts for example from disabled men who tell men to stop victimizing themselves and become confident because if you don't love yourself, how do you expect other people to love you? And even statistics show women prefer hardworking…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 12:28 PM
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Fragile ego.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 10:57 PM
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There is though: https://goodmenproject.com/
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 10:50 PM
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Really, there are people whose lives improve with TRP?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 10:48 PM
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This article about hypergamy is epic! Thanks a lot for sharing it.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/20 09:24 AM
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This is extremely extremely true. They are either a people-pleaser or an asshole and neither is attactive. Actually, any men who behave in a certain way to attract a woman (or women in general) is extremely unattractive because it never feels natural.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/20 09:11 AM
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Actually women over 30 significantly lower their standards of they want to get married. Because the best guys are already taken at that point. And also, when women are in their 20s, they have many men interested in them so they have more options and can afford to have higher standards. (As a 24 year-old women you can't imagine how many standards I have, even though I don't consider them high currently I can stand less than I would probably be able to stand after a couple more unsuccessful relati…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/20 08:32 AM
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What you should keep in mind: every girl is different, and just like the fact that same sexual stuff doesn't have the same reaction from all the girls, you have to read the girl and try to understand her. You will never find an answer that will fit all girls. Just say something romantic and minor (not like "what are you wearing?) something personal and romantic and see how she reacts. If she is in the mood she will keep going, if not she will try to change the topic. Always observe her behavior …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 09:09 AM
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Exactly, don't change for one woman. You have to be happy with your own self and choices, be an independent adult so that women won't feel like you are desperate for them. Pick up hobbies YOU actually like (don't try to do gym or play the piano if you don't enjoy it) read more about topics YOU are interested in (don't watch documentaries if you don't like them), and just take care of your appearance (your hair, beard, clothing items etc.) When you are happy and enjoying your life as yourself, wo…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/20 01:12 PM
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It's very strange that something soooo simple is so hard to get for many people.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 12:53 PM
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I don't think getting relationship advice from YouTubers is the best way. Every individual is different and have different preferences, needs. You should find out what you like and don't like in a woman and how you want your relationship to be, and find someone who thinks and wants the same things.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/20 06:11 PM
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What is it then?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:46 PM
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It will change when the culture that sees men as breadwinners and economy power sources change. When it becomes easier for women to become rich rather than marry rich.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 08:53 AM
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Ahahahahah, if Angelina Jolie was into you, tell me you would choose an ugly woman who cares for you. What a stupid example. https://www.cnbc.com/2019/08/13/money-stress-traps-many-women-into-staying-in-unhappy-marriages.html "A large number of American women stay in marriages that are unhealthy and even border on dysfunctional due to financial insecurity and stress, and the ongoing gender pay gap." The solution is women becoming richer than men. Then, they will be happy enough economically in t…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 07:39 AM
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After women are given equal right in education (in secular countries at least) hypogamy is on the rise when it comes to education. So don't worry, when the day comes when women earn as much as men in all sectors and can afford to have children without worrying about money, hypogamy will also rise when it comes to income. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/310658818_The_End_of_Hypergamy_Global_Trends_and_Implications
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 07:27 AM
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You have to read history about why hypergamy exists. If women had the financial power and stability men had for centuries, they wouldn't have to select probably abusive men just because they earn enough money to support the family. This is a direct result of a culture who likes passive and submissive women. A lot of men don't even want to marry up. Men feel inferior with a partner who earns more than them or has higher class than them. Just like men not wanting women who are sexually more experi…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 07:11 AM
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No. It's caused by being confident, funny, knowledgable, social , romantic etc. I know many girls who fell for ugly guys who had these qualities, but you shouldn't look desperate. It's the biggest turn-off.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 06:52 AM
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There can be 3 reasons in my opinion; 1) You're afraid of being not enough for a women with more experience. You want to feel the better one in bed, the one in charge. But you don't know, maybe you would love a woman who took control and thought you amazing stuff about sex. 2) You are thinking in a possessive way and can't except the fact that other men were intimidate with her, because you see her as an object that only you can use. 3) You have a sexist idea that women who sleep with many men a…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 05:53 PM
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In ever single statistics, men cheat more than women, and regret less.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 05:41 PM
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Another really important tip, nobody likes sad and miserable people. Of you are comfortable with yourself, funny, and have good energy, you will charm people. You don't have to be handsome, you have to be charming. And that can only happen if you become happy with yourself. If you try to use women to feel better about yourself, they will see right through it.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 05:35 PM
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About looks, it's not that complicated. If you hit on a woman who is in your own league in terms of looks, you have no problem. But if you are a 4 hitting on only women above 7, you're gonna end up very sad. This is true for both genders (actually as a man, you can have other stuff like status or good sense of humor that can charm a woman even if you're ugly)
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 05:32 PM
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As a woman, in my own personal experience, I have seen men having a fraction of the standards that women have. If you are pretty enough, that's it. (Ofc I'm talking about stable adults, not manipulative people) but I have many standards, and I think instead of women having less standards, men need to have more, as it's very boring to realize this guy who likes me doesn't care about my personality whatsoever and would also like any woman who looks like me. (Once a friend of mine ask me to hook hi…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 05:22 PM
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