kawumm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	I really don't know what to talk about i would certainly not consider myself an expert on the matter, in fact i am rather introverted. However, probably due to being introverted or the other way around, i consider myself a very reflected person and have had more success when i: Was slightly drunk and/or stoned (EMPHASIS ON SLIGHTLY ESPECIALLY FOR THE STONED PART) - pretty much boils down to being in the zone, having a good time, being relaxed, and most importantly, NOT thinking about how you would go about getting that women into you…	/r/seduction	19/09/14 03:48 PM
3	“You are really nice and that scares me.” I don't think people get the right idea about OP. I had very similar experiences. I had to do an DUI and be sober for a year. The counsellor told me to NOT move in with my friends that i have known for 10 years. I was like, what the fuck, you can't expect me to ditch them just like that. 2 years and a lot of booze later, i don't see them anymore. Those 2 years were often hard, those friends had very problematic drinking behavior, and i cursed myself countless times for moving on with them. Becau…	/r/seduction	15/09/14 03:45 PM
2	Is anyone else... tired of it? OP is anything but whining. And the relationship sub sucks, nor does he touch on how to get into one.	/r/seduction	10/09/14 05:51 PM
4	Some very basic tips & observations for beginners, from my experience: Don't automatically assume there is someone better around - "better" is incredibly subjective in that context, with physical fitness being the most objective part of it. Why are they better? Just because you think they are. And that makes you automatically think you're worse, you won't stand a chance anyway. try to pull that stick out of your ass. That seems hard, but it really is not that hard. The hardest part is feeling comfortable with being yourself around people. No one is perfect. Share f…	/r/seduction	09/09/14 09:13 PM
2	You're not the centre of the universe Am too!	/r/seduction	30/08/14 11:13 AM
1	how to initiate convo with girls for shy guy don't focus that much on the goal, i'd say. get some lady-friends, maybe some you do not feel the immediate urge to bang. i mean, it's fine if you end up banging, it should just not be the focus with those gals. hang out with them. realize they're just. fucking. people. who ACTUALLY want sex as well, even though they might not be as adamant about it as guys. just... be friends with them. be normal around them. you say you're great around guys, so just treat them like guys. except for, you know, …	/r/seduction	21/08/14 10:20 PM
1	How to deal with tipsy/drunk girls you know what they say though... drunks and children speak the truth. or suck at hiding it. perspective thing.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 11:08 AM
4	An article on the perspective of the hot girl. Just curious what you guys think. think?	/r/seduction	28/07/14 08:59 PM
9	John Cooper Introduces: "Reverse Pick-Up" funny idea but ultimately this seems to be nothing more than a substitute for a pick-up line.	/r/seduction	27/07/14 11:24 AM
1	What do I do? The way you describe your situation makes it sound like joining them is the only option relevant to this subreddit. That or calling a cab and trying your luck alone. This sub doesn't really do well as a step-by-step guide on what to do, but rather HOW to do it. You'll have to be confident enough to decide what you are going to do with your evening. I personally really would not spend it sitting there waiting for them to finish up.	/r/seduction	27/07/14 10:15 AM
-6	There isn't a large community of women wanting to learn how to pick up guys is there? obligatory Hiii, how YOU doin? Disclaimer: You might have to cross an ocean for that to work out ;)	/r/seduction	04/07/14 04:26 PM
1	How to deepen my voice? It is beyond me how you got an upvote for failing at being a grammar nazi; Unless you are referring to the "you", but i was under the impression that this is OK in a colloquial setting, which i assume i am in, which the "gonna" is indicating. In which case that would make you the worst kind of grammar nazi, a nitpicking one. And, paradoxically, you claim not fapping will make you any smarter. By all means, educate me if i am actually in the wrong here, as I am not a native speaker and love the E…	/r/seduction	24/06/14 08:52 PM
1	How to deepen my voice? Next thing you gonna tell us fapping will make your hands rot from your living body. It's not the solution to everything.	/r/seduction	24/06/14 03:45 PM
2	How to deepen my voice? Nice try, tobacco lobbyist.	/r/seduction	24/06/14 03:42 PM
1	What's the seddit consensus on mirroring? well if you consciously try to "pull it off", it certainly is hard to do... but i am pretty sure it WILL get you laid if you succeed. if you're doing it right, that is. my main point was that it is something that -usually- just happens anyway, assuming you can relate to the person you're talking to. i wouldn't call it tip for rookies, but it just goes a lot deeper than PUA tbh. and it WILL get you laid a 100%, because this is probably the number 1 way to build rapport. i mean i guess you can sub…	/r/seduction	28/05/14 11:56 PM
3	What's the seddit consensus on mirroring? Yes. It is basically communicating that you understand what the other person is telling you - also by non-verbal communication. Example: she's telling you herr cat died and that it made her sad, sitting at home watching the spot where it used to sit. Mirroring this would include making a sad face, saying something that show her that you understood what she said and what it meant to her on a emotional level... Maybe "Gosh, that must've been tough to deal with, i hope you had someone to keep you c…	/r/seduction	28/05/14 05:39 PM
9	Unable to figure out when girls are checking me out. How to work on my attraction radar? Grow eyes in the back of your head. Honestly, it sounds like you're a little caught up in looking good. So you didn't notice every chick that gave you a glance. Probably because most glances are supposed to not be seen. I mean i guess you could train your periphal vision to notice that more, but in the end, what do you gain from that. You're not gonna hit all 25 of them. And not all glances need to mean girls are into ya. I mean... If there's a drag queen walking by, i'd most likely look at her.…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 09:35 AM
1	What should I do? No social life and feeling quite low now... german figure of speech: "jump over your shadow". go out of your comfort zone. just ask anyone what they're doing on the weekend, and tell em your interested. what is the worst that can happen? that you don't have fun. that you sit/stand there, being uncomfortable. that people will know you're socially awkward. so what? there's tons of people. if you really screw it up that bad or just can't connect at all, there's still others. they might think you suck or something. but really, if you don't ca…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 12:42 AM
3	A piece of advice on eye contact It can be crap if it's wrong. Which is what he is saying. Which i am going to assume because of your reading apprehension skills and the lack of sources in this thread.	/r/seduction	22/05/14 12:14 PM
2	What are some good flirting games? Technically, when she answers the 4th question with "3", she is lying.	/r/seduction	10/05/14 11:32 AM
1	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." It's all about perception. Glass is half full, not half empty. And when you manage to think like that, actual negative circumstances lose a lot of their impact.	/r/seduction	10/05/14 09:15 AM
1	Going on a date with a girl who has very basic English. Pointers? i'm german albeit fluent in english, however i have/had troubles when people talk too fast, or when they use complicated sentence structures (although that's not too big of a problem in english IMO), or with weird pronounciations. That being said, don't keep it too simple, or she will feel like you think she's an idiot or something. remember that figures of speech and sayings are different from language to language, but i always deemed it interesting (for example, i always thought it's hilarious…	/r/seduction	07/05/14 07:33 PM
3	Lurker, have somewhat of a... complex situation. Any advice? well, you're really making this more complicated than it is. sounds to me like you both are into each other, so why not just have fun. And to be honest, I am not trying to take advantage of her drunk There is tipsy-drunk and black-out-drunk and a lot of drunk in between. i can totally understand when you do not want to make a move on someone who basically passed out, but i really don't understand why you wouldn't want to make a move in other scenarios... "betrunkene und kinder sagen die wahrheit…	/r/seduction	07/05/14 05:36 PM
1	Be Relaxed, when talking with beautiful girls. Wait, half-naked, oiled up girls are strolling through malls, 3 at a time, waiting for me to take a picture with them? Are... Are those the girls in my area that keep bothering me on the internet?	/r/seduction	15/02/14 02:14 PM
6	Be bold when texting meh. context is everything, as can be seen above. light (warning: perception of the weight of the joke may vary!) jokes on her = profit	/r/seduction	27/01/14 09:22 PM
2	This insanely hot girl started talking to me out of the blue, only one problem... she's taken. Got any tips? Just don't actively pursue her until you're sure she's interested. Also, make sure to call her out about her relationship status before anything happens. If she broke up, cool. If she wants to break up because of you, you might consider just waiting til she actually is single. She could still make up her mind again. If she just wants sex while staying with her BF... That is tricky. I'm not gonna ramble over the fact that it's morally wrong. You also need to realize that it's not that easy treati…	/r/seduction	18/01/14 10:03 AM