kayakr1194 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections? "The only winning move is not to play."	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 04:24 AM
1	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think "People are more often a product of their choices, as opposed to a victim of their circumstances."	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 06:54 AM
2	What do you think about the Mario Batali case and false rape allegations against men ? Look at the Oxindental College case. A girl and a guy communicated about having sex, they had text messages, phone calls, friend witnesses to their intentions. But they were both drunk and she regretted it the next day and said she was raped. The guy was expelled from school and ended up suing the college and won. I am not saying that women do not get raped and that is absolutely terrible, sincerely it is, but you can't have it both ways. You can't cry wolf, and then be upset when no one comes t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:12 PM
1	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Destroying a man's life in a divorce when the woman initiated the divorce is so fucking cringe it makes me want to vomit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:04 PM
2	I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false. My bad, if he's a pig then yeah f*** him. I just mean that the married person should be the one trying not to be unfaithful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 07:44 PM
4	I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false. In his defense, the married person has the greater duty of care not to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 03:42 PM
1	What issues do you actually feel for women about? Periods. As a man, feeling like someone kicked you in the balls once a month... Nope!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 04:22 AM
1	Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidence The balanced position is a phrase I have always liked which is "do not mistake my kindness for weakness." Being kind is a good thing, but being a doormat is bad. Here is an example. I have a coworker who wanted my help with her computer. She explained the issue and I advised how I can fix it in no time or inconvenience to her. She then dug her heels in and said it was fine and she would just learn to live with it. Rather than argue with her I told her if she wants my help I am happy to give it, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/22 10:23 PM
3	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread From Canada.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 08:20 PM
21	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread As a non-American, I find it hard for the Unites States to be seen as a leader in freedom and choice in the developed world. Given the direction of the US Supreme Court and the tone of the right, I feel like the eventual stage is the United States becoming the Republic of Gilead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 08:11 PM
2	Through a red or blue pill perspective, how should this scenario be handled? I agree with you. It's moving the goal post way too often. It's also the carrot on a stick to keep the good guy in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 03:40 AM
1	Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards? I feel like it's an easy shot. There are many people who don't date or don't have success in many aspects of life and yet are not basement dwelling beards of the necktable. I spend a lot of time in my basement, because it's where my computer is in the house that I own... Strange coincidence. But I have education, a career, hobbies, friends etc. Ultimately, this is reddit and if someone wants to call someone else a basement dweller, do you really want to that person in your life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 04:44 PM
2	Do single mothers get a bad rap? I believe that the gains outweigh the losses in dating a single mother. While single mothers are not inherently bad, the idea of raising someone's children just feels like settling. If men who enter these relationships has some kind of guarantee that the bio dad couldn't come back into their life then maybe, but I have this gut feeling that the new guy will always be a silver metal to the single mom, no matter what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 09:06 PM
1	Why hate mgtow? are you referring to the tennessee babysitter rape case?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:32 AM
3	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? 100%. I see it as trivial as rejecting someone for their eye color. Additionally, rejecting someone because they are a virgin just seems lazy and mean-spirited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 09:29 AM
1	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? You make a very going point, you would communicate what you like or do not like anyways, and a new partner is always a new experience so why not laugh at the first time, and be super excited for the 2nd time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:23 AM
2	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? You make really good points. I believe someone would be eager to please and want to create a positive experience, so they would likely be attentive, communicative, and respectful. Also, a virgin has limited emotional sexual baggage, no STIs, and a more adult attitude towards it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:19 AM
1	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? I hear you, 34 male virgin here. I truly believe that the right person isn't going to care, or at least I really hope that is the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:18 AM
1	What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship? My belief that in spite of having metrics of success in life, career, education, family etc, that to a romantic partner I am not good enough. The battle we fight against the person staring back at us in the mirror is often the greatest villian.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 04:31 AM
1	Q4M: Why do you want a relationship? To have someone who supports me through listening, compassion and teamwork. Someone who I can support in the same way, and be a witness to each other's lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 06:52 AM
3	The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life. I never bought the video games are a time-waster argument. You do get valuable experiences and skills out of playing video games such as teamwork, goal orientation, community, success, lasting friendships, and drive. While the end result may not be as tangible as a new car, I have felt tremendous satisfaction from playing video games with other people and working towards common goals. Furthermore I have friendships that have lasted over 10 years from people who I met through video gaming. Finall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 08:02 AM
3	Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk. I think you illustrate a very good point, it's not that men are so much afraid of rejection (although we are) the bigger issue is the shame of it. Men feel shameful and that is what really stings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/21 06:41 PM
1	What are good purposeful questions for dates? A good method past the first couple of obvious ones such as where you from, etcetera are "why" questions. Why are you interested in that activity? Why do you feel passionate about that cause? It gives the other person a chance to just talk and give it deeper answer. Another method is the OAS method: Observe, Ask, Share. Observe something about them, ask them about it, share something similar.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 05:50 PM