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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 11:00 PM
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I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 10:55 PM
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I don’t get this. I’ve wanted to fuck (male and female) friends of mine. Doesn’t impact my care for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:15 PM
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You tend to have such reasonable takes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 06:59 PM
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Jfc 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 03:52 PM
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Yes. I actually am a size queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 07:16 PM
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Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:51 PM
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Lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:34 PM
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Vagina-seeking penis missile lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 04:12 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:57 PM
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Um are you sure? Studies show that women are more likely to fall in love with their affair partners, which makes sense bc men can more easily separate emotions from sex. Why would your experience be more relevant?
/r/MensRights17/08/26 12:00 AM
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Point 5 was really enlightening
/r/MensRights16/08/26 11:51 PM
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> If men built society for the benefit of men, then why are women living so much longer? Biology…
/r/MensRights16/08/26 11:30 PM
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Like, the entire distinguishing characteristic of “violence” is the physical component. That’s what distinguishes it from “insults” or other forms of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:02 PM
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> "It's not that I don't care at all, it's just that I care exactly enough to show up when people discuss men's issues and make an ignorant annoyance of myself!" is not the win you think it is. I’m not trying to “win”, I’m accurately answering your question. > Seriously, people who care don't say otherwise this often, This just looks like a Kafka trap. So saying you’re wrong is just proving your point? Illogical. > You outright said that you think we should be glad you show up (to be a nuisance)…
/r/MensRights15/08/26 08:59 PM
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🙄🙄🙄 You’re robbing straight men of agency. If most straight dudes couldn’t care less then they couldn’t be “manipulated” into gay bashing.
/r/MensRights15/08/26 06:44 PM
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But you specifically used the example of “men are more logical”. It’s not automatically “blank slate nonsense” to question specific gender roles. Seems like you should think a bit harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:05 PM
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Hold up Your first paragraph is disingenuous as hell You mean the Dhimmi system that forces non-Muslims to pay special tax? Keeping other faiths in subjugation is supposed to be sooo much better than plain exclusion? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:49 PM
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> Meanwhile, the Christian nationalists you support aren't in that position. They aren't an oppressed or occupied population responding to horrific material conditions. They just want to be oppressive shitheads. Isn’t this reductive? Couldn’t the same argument be made for many of them too? JD Vance for example grew up in poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:35 PM
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Wym “white Christian” nationalist ideology? Traditionalists from all over the world converge here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:27 PM
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That’s kind of a reach. You’re assuming that the existence of sexual dimorphism must mean that every gender stereotype is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:21 PM
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I’ve recently discovered Britney Simon, coincidentally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:33 AM
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Dude we’re in a sex recession. What seeking out one night stands are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:17 AM
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Interesting addition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:10 AM
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Lmao exactly 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:08 AM
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Dude and here I was thinking you were making some points. Using social media as a source to call others “emotional” is comical and no duh people are emotional in dating, that’s kind of the point… 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:06 AM
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Yeah :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:42 AM
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That sounds like an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:42 AM
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> Never going to happen... with people like you who find the idea of caring about issues that don't directly affect you just far too much work, I keep telling you to quote where I said this or stop putting words in my mouth. I already said that if I didn’t care I just would not bother engaging at all and then you went on some salty rant about how I must think I’m doing yall a favor and I’m actually better off staying away. Pick a lane to drive in please. > you'd rather repeatedly claim those iss…
/r/MensRights15/08/26 06:13 AM
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I don’t get these types of responses. If you don’t think it matters you don’t even need to engage with this discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:56 AM
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Then it’s just not my problem if you like to complain. I said once more, you can copypaste and quote where I said what you’re putting on me. I don’t think any particular individual is obligated to care about every issue or class of people equally, that’s never going to happen and that’s unreasonable. It’s also rich to accuse me of minimizing men’s issues when I commented on posts minimizing women’s issues or calling for women to be stripped of autonomy to prevent a hypothetical that has no impac…
/r/MensRights13/08/26 09:23 PM
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Something being a choice doesn’t preclude it from being bigoted, people are free to make bigoted choices 🙄 This line of reasoning is so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:08 PM
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> Do you think swearing is required to be condescending? Oh no, it’s just the cherry on top. This is it: > but I was kind enough to speak to you and correct your misinformation anyway. You're welcome! > Eh, engaging with people who are here in bad-faith kills time as well as anything else. Then stop complaining about it. > Your throwing a fit was quite annoying too, Again, then you can pack it up. > Your belief that society should see men as expendable, and their issues as less important than wo…
/r/MensRights13/08/26 04:36 AM
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This is kind of annoying. How am I giving “condescending lectures” when you’re the one who was consistently throwing in snide remarks and curses? The issue here is you thinking that you can determine a stranger’s intent through interpreting their comments. I’ve already said that if you don’t think I’m engaging in good faith you’re free to not bother speaking to me. Again, if they’re my words then please quote me where I said this. I also never said I’m society, that’s my belief on how society sh…
/r/MensRights13/08/26 02:43 AM
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Attempting to engage is commenting. You not liking the way I engage doesn’t change that. The point of a public forum is to discuss. If I’m making a ruckus and bothering people, that’s why mods have the power to delete and ban. Take it up with them. Please quote where I “said outright” that men’s issues don’t matter enough to care? This is just you putting words in my mouth. Society can’t ignore half of the population. Your constant flinging of bigotry is what’s annoying when I’m actually attempt…
/r/MensRights13/08/26 12:59 AM
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So whenever the source doesn’t fit your narrative, you can dismiss it as biased? There are plenty of other studies across a variety of topics showing that males are more prone to externalizing behavior, everything from violence to drug abuse falls into that pattern. Anyone who interacts with kids will find this.
/r/MensRights13/08/26 12:37 AM
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If I were a “selfish prick” I just wouldn’t bother with this at all. Please point and cite where I said you have to be grateful? You’re criticizing me for selfishness yet at the same time also upset I attempt to engage with issues that don’t affect me? If you’re better off without me then why are you mad I’d rather focus on women?
/r/MensRights13/08/26 12:31 AM
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“Source cited: deep-seated personal belief in your own inalienable victimhood due to your gender in all circumstances.” I provided a source. Your explanation isn’t excluding anything I’ve said. Your source even included the exact same thing I’ve been saying, boys externalize more.
/r/MensRights13/08/26 12:25 AM
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Well no, men can advocate for their own side Source cited: Large Swedish population study (BMJ, 2026): Researchers tracked ~2.7 million people born 1985–2020. Boys were diagnosed 3–4 times more often under age 10. By age 20, the male-to-female ratio approached ~1:1 (or projected parity around 2024). Girls were diagnosed later on average (median ~15.9 years vs. ~13.1 for boys), with a clear “catch-up” in adolescence. This suggests many girls are missed early rather than truly having much lower ra…
/r/MensRights12/08/26 11:30 PM
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> People are not "natrually" quote so sexist as you claim buddy, don't blame your bigotry on nature, it's no less silly when you do it compared to the conservatives 🤭 Now you say “Of course” when you denied it just up there. I can’t answer spurious accusations. You seem to not realize that even being here at all is an attempt to gain empathy for the male perspective, so you’re squandering it.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 11:27 PM
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I called myself not an egalitarian and said I care more about women, all of this other stuff about “nearly as much” is you putting words in my mouth. No, the bias hasn’t been fully addressed, plenty of people including even professionals still hold ignorant beliefs on the matter and women will get turned away from a diagnosis.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 11:05 PM
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Please point to where I wrote that. More women are deciding to bring themselves in for testing because this bias is being addressed. I am supporting the point, you’re just choosing to miss it.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 10:13 PM
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I don’t care to push back on that, they can stay mad. You’re not really arguing against my point. I said that some discrimination is valid. It’s right for anyone to discriminate based on beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:10 PM
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Self-interest is a well documented phenomenon in psychology. I didn’t even specify “sexism”, I said what affects them personally, across an infinite amount of characteristics. I also can’t answer an open-ended question
/r/MensRights12/08/26 09:59 PM
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My bad! But the paragraph just above validates what I was saying too: > At the biological level, boys are at higher risk for inattention, hyperactivity, and externalizing behaviors (Tuvblad, C., et al., Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, Vol. 37, 2009 opens in new window ). > Classrooms, meanwhile, typically require students to sit quietly and self-regulate—what some call the “sit and get” approach to education. When boys struggle with that, getting out of their seat or ignoring a teacher’s i…
/r/MensRights12/08/26 09:55 PM
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Then that’s your opinion, but other people are going to think differently. You can’t tell other people what to frown upon or stop them from criticizing whatever. Hell, the entire Manosphere has been nonstop bitching about women not fucking average men, that’s not my problem. If merit is tied to a class, yeah that’s discrimination. The same can be applied to socializing, friendships, and any social interaction at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:50 PM
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Yes, I do care more about women because I am a woman. People naturally care more about what affects them personally, I don’t think that’s necessarily a moral failing or “bigotry”. They should just be willing to extend empathy outside of their in-group, because that’s in the best interests of everyone.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 09:41 PM
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Your sources are about grades. This doesn’t prove anything about misbehavior.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 09:36 PM
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This conversation isn’t about the legal sense because this isn’t a legal conversation, as you said it’s about personal preferences. People already do discriminate in all social interactions. People just frown upon, or shall we say, discriminate, against certain forms of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:34 PM
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This conversation isn’t about the legal sense because this isn’t a legal conversation, as you said it’s about personal preferences. People already do discriminate in all social interactions. People just frown upon, or shall we say, discriminate, against certain forms of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:33 PM
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What part of “discrimination” didn’t you get? Yes, that’s discrimination by definition, discrimination is treating people differently. In this case it’s discrimination against pedophiles, which is completely justified. Not all discrimination is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:20 PM
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This is a slippery slope fallacy and now you’re acting like a condescending douche. People have always criticized others for their conduct because people are always gonna have an opinion, that’s not government force.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:19 PM
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The definition of discrimination has always meant treating people differently. Society just made laws against certain types of discrimination in certain contexts — which is also wrong from a libertarian standpoint because that’s going against freedom of association. What an ignorant leap to bring Marxism into it, and a reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:15 PM
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What histrionic whining. No, it’s not where this leads, people having criticism isn’t a government charge, you’re free to just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:12 PM
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Yeah, because what you said was superfluous. Friendship and socializing and business are all inherently discriminatory too. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:09 PM
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Yes, all of that is literally discrimination. Discrimination is treating people differently, that’s all it is. Society just frowns upon certain types of discrimination. I said that people have a right to be discriminatory, so I don’t know where you got “arguing against consent”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:08 PM
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What part of “and it’s ok” did you miss? None of all this melodramatic babble you’re talking is implied. These “witch hunts” aren’t leading to shit because I can act on my preferences regardless of what anyone thinks. Idek what that second paragraph is supposed to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:01 PM
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People have the right to be discriminatory with their body. It still is discrimination by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:53 PM
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We live in a society, everyone is critiqued for everything because people are always gonna put in their two cents. If I say that mustard gross, people will reply with their opinion. If you have such a problem with that, just don’t make such public statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:41 PM
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It is age discrimination by definition, and it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:15 PM
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That’s a dumb thing to say. If you choose to publicly announce your preference then people will have opinions. If you don’t want to provide a reason then just stay quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:50 PM
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And “no fats no fems” But all of that gets pushback too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:46 PM
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Muslim and trans? Chief what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:43 PM
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It quite literally is discrimination. Making a distinction between people is discrimination. People have a right to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:37 PM
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This talking point is a nothingburger. All social interaction is inherently discriminatory. But society recognizes that not all discrimination is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:30 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:52 PM
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I’m not responsible for your assumptions about me though. I have complex opinions but you’ve already made up your mind about me and what I supposedly stand for so why should I bother elaborating? My point is that this isn’t past disadvantages, it is current discrimination and the evidence is in the diagnostic ratio changing as this is addressed.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 04:15 AM
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You said “women” twice… I assume you meant men for one of them Well then that’s great for you, but I’m not obliged to actively defend every group equally and very few people actually do.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 04:08 AM
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Except “egalitarianism” doesn’t specifically pertain to gender, it’s a broader outlook on society, so your “definition” is wrong.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 04:04 AM
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If Grok made a mistake feel free to point it out. This conversation was about whether or not the problem even exists at all, why are you asking for a solution now? That’s not the point. Girls are “given slack” for autistic traits bc they externalize and disrupt less, not bc teachers are more tolerant of their bad behavior.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 04:01 AM
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I’m actually not a feminist for several reasons. I asked what the double standard is, you haven’t explained the once I’m practicing.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 03:40 AM
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Ignoring the typo up there 👆🏾 Let me ask, do you defend women as much as men?
/r/MensRights12/08/26 03:36 AM
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Your issue is assuming that boys and girls exhibit the same behavior when research says they don’t 🙄 Grok: Girls (and women) are underdiagnosed with autism primarily because diagnostic criteria, assessment tools, and clinical expectations were developed mainly around male presentations, combined with sex-based differences in how autism traits are expressed and compensated for. Large-scale studies and reviews (including work by researchers such as Meng-Chuan Lai, Francesca Happé, and others) docu…
/r/MensRights12/08/26 03:31 AM
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This is literally the same trick feminists use to say that anyone who isn’t a feminist must be misogynistic. Maybe stop trying to force ideological labels onto me. I didn’t say I “don’t believe in the concept of gendered equality”, I declined a label. Question answered: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/n81ncnyz4L
/r/MensRights12/08/26 03:24 AM
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Who tf is “you people” and what is the “double standard”? Surely you understand that beliefs can linger in society? The establishment has only just now realized that autism presents differently in girls, which is part of why diagnosis is up.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 03:17 AM
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> By posting to this sub at all, and pretending you weren't the bigot that your history obviously shows you to be. Please keep up. Oh no, that’s just you putting words in my mouth. I’m not responsible for the assumptions you make about me. This issue is about women and not men, I’m not not being “consistent” for not defending men in an issue that’s not about them. That’s you practicing whataboutism.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:38 AM
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Sure Your broader point is that this is actually the result of girls being given slack for displaying the same traits, but I see no evidence for that. Girls mask better and are more prone to internalizing. My G, you’re free to do something more enriching with your time. I appreciate finally having my genius appreciated at least
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:35 AM
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How am I a bigot for not focusing on men? Again, this is a deflection from the question that I’ve already answered.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:25 AM
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Well yeah, bc the establishment used to believe that autism couldn’t even exist in women.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:23 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/p7lc6NIY0X Up there you admitted you were wrong about what “underdiagnosis” means 🙄🙄 so what exactly are you “correcting”? If you think I’m a bad faith actor then you can and should just not bother with this discourse.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:19 AM
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Where did I ever claim to be “egalitarian”? Why am I obliged to analyze misogynistic men? That’s not how “consistency” works. Everyone isn’t entitled to an equal share of anyone’s attention. I’m not gonna ask are slash Men’s Rights to run coverage of women’s issues. Apparently, a wildlife sanctuary is “hypocritical” for not taking in cats and dogs according to this logic 🙄
/r/MensRights12/08/26 01:03 AM
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I did respond in good faith, you ended up conceding that your entire point about “under diagnosis” was wrong after all because you were using that word wrong. You responded in a rather “bull-headedly ignorant” manner to that correction. Yk it’s really annoying and presumptuous to think that you can weigh in on the intentions of a complete stranger.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 12:31 AM
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> It was originally classified as "too mean" by the system, and thus deleted with no notification to me. Lmfaooooo I rest my case, so I’m not just being sensitive after all. That’s your cue to reflect on your rhetoric.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 12:06 AM
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> my correcting you also seems to have generated some huffiness on your end. No, it’s purely you acting like a douche. You’re just telling yourself this to avoid confronting that. > I talk to people I have no respect for all the time. Not my damn problem > You could always listen rather than discard my points and fail to read my comments. Just a suggestion 🫶 You could always approach me with respect if you want me to listen to you, “just a suggestion”. Why on God’s green Earth do you a completel…
/r/MensRights12/08/26 12:05 AM
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Yes, it quite literally is the definition of whataboutism. You tried to bring up a hypothetical in order to “trap” me in hypocrisy and then when that didn’t work you had to shift the goalposts to my comment history. I never bother attempting to make people answer for their previous comments on a different post, so I’m being consistent.
/r/MensRights12/08/26 12:02 AM
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Also my G, I can see in my notifs that you typed a response that you had to delete. Maybe try keeping your facts straight.
/r/MensRights11/08/26 11:55 PM
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Yeah, you listing out my “various privileges” when they’re irrelevant to this conversation is what gives resentment. And if you think I’m not worthy of respect then you just shouldn’t be talking to me. I thought I could mediate this but I’m just tired of your attitude and discarding everything you say.
/r/MensRights11/08/26 11:54 PM
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Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/jZz0iDED61 > You being priced by the educational system is no assumption, just simple fact. Same as you being privileged by having no threat of government-backed combat slavery, and the privilege of being protected from IGM while your male peers have their bodily autonomy violated habitually by a medical system that you claim disadvantages women (if you live in the US). > Objectively speaking though, you were almost certainly treated better than…
/r/MensRights11/08/26 11:18 PM
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Oh also, I’d like to point out that your entire post is faulty bc you’re equating disparity with discrimination as well as cherrypicking outcomes in which men have it worse. So by this logic, I can argue that there is no discrimination against men and boys in school and work because men are still the majority of CEOs and elite academics right?
/r/MensRights11/08/26 06:40 PM
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I don’t care enough about a stranger’s opinions to stalk their history, that’s the thing. And unless you provide specific discussions with my comments your whataboutism is irrelevant
/r/MensRights11/08/26 12:25 AM
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Soooo you’re just an all around rude and unpleasant person and it’s not personal at least. And what do the draft and circumcision have to do with autism exactly? Yeah, that’s what I’m asking. You bringing up “women” as a class in the educational system to make inferences about my own performance is the bigotry and stereotyping. When on Earth did I oppose support for men? Chief, looks like you need to reread yourself. Digging in my comments on other posts is a deflection from your own conduct her…
/r/MensRights11/08/26 12:22 AM
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But this discussion wasn’t about bad men, as men can’t give birth. It’s also really obsessive and creepy for you to get a new app to get into my comment history but that’s neither here nor there.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 10:01 PM
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Then why were you spending paragraphs telling me that underdiagnosis isn’t a thing? And no, your explanation is wrong, teachers and parents do not “overlook” behavior from autistic girls, they view it as deviation rather than disability and pressure girls to mask. No, I am being honest. The accusation of resentment comes from you being nasty and rude unprovoked, listing out the privileges you perceive women as having when it’s not relevant to this discourse, and layered with you constantly accus…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 09:52 PM
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What part of explanations are not excuses do you not get? I’m talking about cause and effect, not assigning moral culpability. Your gotcha failed since I said in the last sentence, very clearly, that misogynistic men are shaped by culture too. Different incentives produce different outcomes, that simple fact doesn’t stop being true.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 09:12 PM
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So, once again, you do agree that it is underdiagnosed, which was my point. You’re just adding that it’s actually due to discrimination against boys, which is reductive. Gender norms hurt everyone in different ways. My guy, I’ve been trying to dance around this elephant in the room but it’s clear as day that you have some resentment towards women that you’re displacing onto me and it’s annoying as fuck. I’m not an avatar for your gender animus. I don’t have to be more specific, you’re engaging i…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 09:06 PM
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There’s plenty backing it up, I just didn’t think I’d have to provide something really accessible. > https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/understanding-undiagnosed-autism-adult-females > Traditional estimates find that boys are four times as likely as girls to receive an autism diagnosis. But experts are realizing that almost as many females as males may have autism — recent research shows that nearly 80% of autistic females are undiagnosed as of age 18. > https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/article…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 08:28 PM
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It’s not an “excuse”, it’s an explanation. Are you implying that Chinese women just randomly decided they don’t want daughters? Misogynistic men also come from cultures that encourage their values so idk why you think that’s a gotcha.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 08:15 PM
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> piss poor conversational literacy You botched the meaning of “under diagnosis” to argue with me over a factual statement 🙄 If “you’re above me” then stop playing dumb. The derogatory part is stereotyping me and making inferences on my character based on my demographic, which I thought is what this sub constantly complains about.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 07:31 PM
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No duh those women wanted boys? Because of this culture. Of course you’re allowed to criticize those women who don’t want boys, you just can’t call for government bureaucrats to try to force morality onto people 🙄
/r/MensRights10/08/26 07:27 PM
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Man you have an ego the size of the sun and are hypocritical as hell. Please answer me this, how am I bigoted when you are here making derogatory comments towards “my demographic” whereas I’ve done no such thing? And how are you claiming that education has failed me as an individual when you’ve used a nonsense word on top of failing to grasp the definition you’ve spent pages sperging about? Your entire performance here just looks like one giant projection.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 07:10 PM
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> Ah, so the only issue is because it hurt the demographics? Not because people were choosing that they didn't want daughters? Exactly. That’s why it’s a social issue, it’s affecting society. > Also lmao that you're oh so convinced someone forced those poor defenseless ladies to tell their doctors what they wanted. Feel free to look up sex-selective abortion and female infanticide and son preference in China. They are pressured by their families to produce male heirs bc boys are more valued, thi…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 07:04 PM
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Yes, you do have to answer for how you treat me, because if you believe I “deserve” to be treated this way then I’ll decide that you just don’t deserve my time. You using the word “minorly” (not even a word btw) wrong actually undercuts your entire argument and vindicates mine. So you agree that women are underdiagnosed with autism, which was my claim. This entire exchange would be like saying no it’s not raining cuz I have an umbrella. 🙄 If you’re genuinely curious, I’ll gladly answer your ques…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 06:38 PM
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It’s funny how you know nothing about me but decided to stalk my comments somehow. In China women were pressured to abort girls and now it’s led to a population crisis where men can’t find partners. That’s why it’s a social issue. Is there any epidemic of women aborting baby boys anywhere in the world? With that said, I still don’t think the government should force women to have certain kinds of children
/r/MensRights10/08/26 05:33 PM
1

Yes, and I explained why up there. I’ll gladly answer your questions once you answer for your attitude towards me. I’m genuinely wondering how your mind works. Plus, as a freebie, you failed to grasp a simple definition. In every dictionary I check, “underdiagnosed” means that a condition is diagnosed less than its actual prevalence in the world, it has nothing to do with who comes in for testing. So no, I’m not wrong in my core claim of women being underdiagnosed. M-W: > to diagnose (a conditio…
/r/MensRights10/08/26 05:13 PM
1

I don’t want to respond because you’ve been nothing but rude and hostile to me completely unwarranted. You definitely have autism worse than me if I need to explain to you that people don’t want to cooperate with those who treat them poorly and write them off. I’m just waiting for you to realize that, then I can respond.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 04:41 PM
0

I mean, sure you don’t need to care about what I “want”, but then you’re just defeating the purpose of demanding I respond. If “I’m beyond anything like reason” then why are you even bothering to “correct my misinformation”? By your logic it’s futile, and tbh your tone makes me not even want to listen to you. Sooo you’re just flapping your gums for no reason, hope that helps.
/r/MensRights10/08/26 02:05 AM
1

Yk, idk why you think calling me names would make me want to respond to your point or even engage with you at all. I can point out the problems I see with your line of reasoning once you stop being hostile and rude to me when I didn’t start that energy.
/r/MensRights09/08/26 09:17 PM
1

^^^ it’s up there. I gave you a reply. Would you engage with it?
/r/MensRights09/08/26 08:58 PM
1

Again, you’re not actually “debunking” anything I’ve said, you’re just offering an interpretation. Which is debatable, but not reflective of my being “under-informed”. If anything you sound rather ignorant about the struggles of autistic girls and the fact that we don’t have our “poor behavior” “excused” in the slightest. Autistic girls are still expected to perform their social role and treated like the problem for failing.
/r/MensRights09/08/26 08:49 PM
-1

Ok this is ridiculous. Little kids have no agency to get themselves tested. Surely you understand that there are layers of societal bias influencing who gets noticed? 🙄
/r/MensRights09/08/26 02:37 AM
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> You’ve kind of deflected. So you agree that under diagnosis of women is a thing. Your point is that men also have problems, which I’m not arguing against This is a response, what point did I dodge? You just don’t find it acceptable. And yeah, now you’re just shifting the goalposts and putting words in my mouth, as well as doubling down on being hostile and rude for no reason. Please quote where I said it’s the fault of the medical field. All I said was that under diagnosis of women is a thing,…
/r/MensRights09/08/26 02:11 AM
0

Can you please explain what “ideology” I’m adhering to?? It is a fact that women are under diagnosed here.
/r/MensRights09/08/26 01:51 AM
2

I am diagnosed as autistic and did two years of research before getting diagnosed, don’t tell me what I’m “under-informed” on. I just didn’t feel like fetching the links, but you have conceded that the evidence is there. I did respond to that, but your rude and arrogant tone makes me not feel like it. You’ve explained why the under diagnosis exists in certain terms, you didn’t refute the fact that it does exist.
/r/MensRights09/08/26 01:51 AM
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You’ve kind of deflected. So you agree that under diagnosis of women is a thing. Your point is that men also have problems, which I’m not arguing against
/r/MensRights09/08/26 01:10 AM
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Autism is underdiagnosed in women, feel free to prove me wrong.
/r/MensRights09/08/26 12:54 AM
1

See follow up polls. As I said, fake stats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:52 AM
1

Fake stat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:28 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:07 PM
1

But the answer is equally oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:06 PM
1

lol what did you discover
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:04 PM
1

How would you feel if you didn’t have breakfast this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:52 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:40 PM
2

They’re failing the breakfast question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:29 PM
2

Are all men incels now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:13 PM
3

No, incels for example say both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:48 PM
-5

Autism
/r/MensRights08/08/26 03:05 PM
1

Sorry for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:02 PM
4

Everyone can see that, why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:02 PM
1

I myself don’t have ADHD, I have autism with depression sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:59 AM
1

I don’t get how it’s rude, I see gender nonconformity and disliking chores commonly among neurodivergent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:33 AM
1

Do you have ADHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:03 AM
7

Men are constantly saying both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:44 AM
4

Wdym? Twilight has constantly been clowned
/r/MensRights04/08/26 07:30 PM
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Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:32 AM
2

I ethno-guessed Ireland 🎯
/r/MensRights02/08/26 03:36 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:04 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:59 PM
2

Isn’t that the entire point of this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:48 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:47 PM
2

Exactly. And it wouldn’t be 100,000, more like 55,000. Only like 5% of the population is same-sex attracted men. “Double the options” is a common misconception because the majority of the same sex is straight and can’t be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:27 PM
1

What a long thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:23 PM
1

Well, I have to say, good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:15 PM
1

Damn really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:09 PM
1

A lot of bi women do have the experience of being fetishized for threesomes. I just saw a post on r/bi about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:04 PM
1

I’m curious why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:59 AM
2

Why can’t you be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:52 AM
1

What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:39 AM
1

In lesbian dating, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:38 AM
1

Ohhhhhh lol good point. I’m not trans so I can’t join your gang
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:25 AM
1

Men already do that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:06 AM
1

How are you a trans redpiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:05 AM
2

Also bi and I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:23 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:23 AM
1

How are you calling me brain dead when your “solution” is to force children onto women you describe as hateful and irresponsible? They’re not gonna change. And you cannot legislate morality and force people to change attitudes. I’m against banning abortion for any reason because the government doesn’t have right nor ability to make these choices for people, and bureaucrats attempting to makes it worse 🙄
/r/MensRights30/07/26 01:40 AM
2

:(((( I relate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:12 AM
4

Try asking an AI to summarize her perspectives. I’d take that allegation with a grain of salt bc criticism is “misandry” to these types
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:26 AM
4

lol I see someone brought the twitter discourse over here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:19 AM
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But that’s not what he said, you’re doing a motte and Bailey. He said that lesbians are almost never bullied or attacked, which is retarded to say when corrective rape exists 🙄
/r/MensRights26/07/26 08:28 PM
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He literally said lesbians don’t get attacked or bullied 🙄🙄 And have yall heard of corrective rape??
/r/MensRights26/07/26 03:10 AM
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If he’s wrong about something so major and easily verifiable then I’m wondering if there’s even “baby” in this bathwater.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 01:29 AM
4

Brutal 😢 I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:13 AM
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The second paragraph just invalidates you. There are literally several recent cases of lesbian couples being attacked in public, I remember cases in the UK and Canada.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 01:55 AM
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I don’t think you get my point, you’re really not refuting my point if that was your intention? Yes, there are studies proving that there are some essential characteristics in feminine beauty, such as waist-to-hip ratio (curves), cues of health, youth, and fertility, symmetry, etc, but anything more specific than that is cultural, and absolutely not particular to any race, as he and others ignorantly imply. This is why redpillers like the original responder are flat earth level reality deniers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:38 PM
1

It definitively is common among men and idk why yall pretend otherwise. For centuries Chinese men fetishized mutilated feet and to this day many cultures, mostly African or Arabic or South Asian, promote mutilated genitals. And suddenly in Western culture, goth girls have become trendy when alternative subcultures were shunned and looked at as school shooter incubators. It’s funny you say that, my best friend (also black) does prefer Asian men, and I have met Asian men who prefer black women. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:10 AM
1

Social clout influences sexual attraction, duh. Both for women and for men. You’re pointing to certain traits being universally preferred, which is true, but what’s also true is that cultural context creates preferences that otherwise wouldn’t exist. People also aren’t straightforward when it comes to “sexual dimorphism”, people don’t necessarily always prefer the most dimorphic features.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:32 PM
1

Really interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:26 PM
1

Red pilled about the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:45 PM
2

The word “barely” is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:41 PM
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Both are ridiculous to say that “attraction is non negotiable”. As the OP said, obviously that can’t be true or else beauty standards wouldn’t change at all, they’ve changed several times during my young lifetime. The blue pill women are wrong in moralizing their attraction and the red pill men are equally wrong in naturalizing theirs, the data supports neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:28 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:19 PM
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🙄 Why? The thing about abortion is that it’s a problem that solves itself. If women like this don’t want a male baby, using the state to force one on them won’t change their minds and will lead to the child growing up resented and unwanted. You’re just advocating for more invasive government bureaucracies over something that might not even be that common. How often do you think sex selective abortion against males even happens and why would you bother making policy over a scenario that is likely…
/r/MensRights22/07/26 06:11 PM
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If the women are bitter bc women make passes for ugly guys, then yeah same applies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:33 AM
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Is this rhetorical? Idk what this has to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:50 AM
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Is this what you see in the gay scene
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:19 AM
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Even marginally above average? I struggle to believe that. Also why be bitter at the women at all? It’s not their fault that they’re not held to standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:00 AM
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You can choose to make yourself ugly any time you want if it’s that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:50 AM
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Lmfaooo Anglerfishmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:09 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 AM
1

Hahaha I feel pointed at. I’ve been talking to someone overseas on instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:55 AM
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Jeez yall are getting bogged down with semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:00 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:46 AM
2

Why completely end the friendship? You can just take a break to work through your feelings. That’s what I do (I’ve been in this situation before)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:37 AM
0

All preferences should be fair game to criticize
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:04 PM
0

“(adult)” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:13 PM
2

Tell your mate to hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:09 PM
1

Yeah I think women have gotten comparably rude about short men. Idk about bald men though, they seem to be mostly just ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:08 PM
1

Yeah I definitely notice this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:06 PM
2

Eat hot chip and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:27 AM
1

lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:27 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:11 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:10 PM
1

Actually plenty of men make those memes. Women don’t even care about dick size as much as men do and studies show that women prefer only slightly above average.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 05:44 AM
6

Girl get Ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:37 AM
0

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:37 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:31 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:10 AM
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Self reported data is sus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:50 AM
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🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:40 PM
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Man I wish I knew :( I reliably finish from masturbation but have never gotten there during sex so far. I don’t blame them bc all but one of them did try, I think I have a mental blockage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:36 AM
2

Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:28 PM
3

I’m glad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:23 PM
3

🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 PM
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Being able to have pleasurable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:32 PM
1

but the overall topic has been since the beginning that women are a bigger cause of issues with women’s self esteem than men which you seem to just hover around not not address lmao. Except I did address it. How can it possibly be more women’s fault given that men who are attracted to men have it worse while women attracted to women have it better? The common denominator there is men and you don’t seem to want to address that. what you are calling the male gaze is just people’s desire to feel wa…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 11:15 PM
1

Again, then how does this explain gay men? It’s like you’re doing everything to avoid implicating the male gaze.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 10:32 PM
1

You haven’t established that they use social media more. Where is your evidence?
/r/MensRights07/07/26 09:30 PM
1

And you’re still dodging why this technology somehow hits people attracted to men harder than people attracted to women.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 08:58 PM
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“I have not interacted with the parts of the gay community that are more into hook up culture so I am not aware of their nuances.” That’s literally what you said. How am I arguing in bad faith, I cited research and invited you to look it up yourself. Meanwhile what evidence have you produced?
/r/MensRights07/07/26 08:30 PM
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So you admit to being ignorant about gay culture. I didn’t address your “point” bc you’re virtually just admitting to being unknowledgeable with nothing to back your claim up. What’s asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 08:11 PM
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Ofc most men don’t use the term roast beef, just as most women don’t talk about dicks. They’re examples. It sounds like you’re just pulling shit out of your ass about gays and lesbians, have you ever interacted with the LGBT Community at all?? You’re doing mental gymnastics to avoid the obvious conclusion. Yes gay guys absolutely are bullied by other men for their bodies, they talk about this stuff all the time, Grindr is notorious for “no fats no fems no [insert race here]”. You don’t have to t…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 07:13 PM
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> If you will argue men talking to men is also wrong then women say similarly cruel things about penis size and height to other women in group convos. You seem to be mistaken. Men say these things publicly, that’s the problem. If they could keep it in their group chat that would be nice. It seems like you’re doing a whataboutism, I don’t deny women do equivalent chatter with dick size and height, you’re just capping and trying to make men innocent of theirs. You have no evidence either. You know…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:02 PM
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In my and a lot of women’s experience guys use their preference to body shame. Idk why you’re using clothes as an example for BODY shaming. For instance it’s not women making “roast beef” memes.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 05:27 PM
0

Yes 😂
/r/MensRights05/07/26 07:54 PM
2

This is absurd cope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:12 PM
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Richard Ramirez: got a wife while on death row
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:57 PM
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Lmfao I’m neither. I just use my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:41 PM
-1

Based
/r/MensRights01/07/26 07:21 PM
1

Oh ok Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:12 AM
1

Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:01 AM
1

I left it here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:53 AM
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I see. As I alluded to before, it just comes down to different personalities and perspectives. I’ve never been in any relationship. I’m not necessarily chopped, I’m just picky and have had bad luck having my interest reciprocated. I’m also ok with making the first move. I’ve made peace with being single indefinitely, but have struggled immensely with depression, insecurity, body dysmorphia, and low self esteem, so women’s desirability constantly being of discourse is hounding me even when I take…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:00 PM
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But you seem to have an inaccurate view of this dynamic. That’s why I’m saying, no woman actually gets to be “invisible”, including non conventionally attractive women. It’s either mostly positive attention or negative attention, with none of the neutrality of invisibility. That’s why Lizzo was clowned for being fat before she got on Ozempic while all the fat guys in the entertainment industry just get to exist. It’s not a binary between invisibility and universal praise, it’s more like invisibi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:48 PM
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Why do you think I’m “riding” you, have I been rude or aggressive? I’m just trying to clarify why other women might feel differently. It’s one thing for people to think you’re ugly, that will always happen, but people feeling the need to vocalize it or mistreat you over it is what makes it socially taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:27 PM
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This doesn’t just apply to “objective” ugliness or the bottom percentiles, many traits deemed less desirable are constantly picked apart: age (ofc), weight, boob size, hair length, hair color, skin tone, etc. That’s why plenty of average or even attractive women have insecurities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:17 PM
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> My personality has never been suited for complete invisibility. I simply do not see a spotlight as negative. Ok, different personalities. I don’t care to have a spotlight. My problem here is that “undesirable” women actually aren’t invisible, they’re hypervisible in a negative rather than positive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:49 PM
1

Then what happens when you get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:22 PM
1

OP said that women are specifically jealous of men’s position wrt looks so women not taking on another male role is at best tangential to the point. It’s not a package deal, women approaching more wouldn’t somehow stop men from being so visual. I also have to say, there does appear to be evidence suggesting that men are more likely to engage in placeholder dating. And women are definitely less likely to settle. So yeah, this is still kind of gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:10 PM
1

And what about my perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:37 PM
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My point is that even if women did move into men’s role here, it wouldn’t change anything that OP is talking about, so this isn’t really relevant. Personally I like the agency that comes with approaching but I’ve come to understand why a lot of women avoid it like the plague. Men being less selective means it’s easy to get used as a placeholder if he doesn’t actually want something serious or you’re not his type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:20 PM
2

You were miserable when you were ugly though. What if you weren’t able to get out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:54 PM
0

Why? Missing out on the attention of randos is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:27 AM
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> Men’s lust can be bothersome, but I don’t want to be seen as undesirable. I WAS an undesirable woman once. It’s not a good experience. Yeah that’s kind of the point OP seems to be getting at. This is the result of the pressure put on women’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:25 AM
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I do pursue people I’m attracted to and all of what OP says still stands. It doesn’t give me some sort of cloak of invisibility or exempt me from the negative attention or appearance based scrutiny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:22 AM
0

Interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:14 AM
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Wow. This is some hot garbage. 😬 There should be gender neutral services across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:02 AM
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I really don’t want to be invalidating, I’ve just read this several times and I’m wondering how this could count as SA even under a gender neutral framework. Just asking isn’t coercion. Did this person know you were in a state of shock?
/r/MensRights29/06/26 03:32 AM
0

Huhhh
/r/MensRights28/06/26 05:49 AM
7

Islam itself is literally radical right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:27 AM
3

The Nazis had a draft too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:20 AM
2

???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:37 AM
4

That’s great for you then. Sadly, a lot of the Manosphere doesn’t get the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:49 AM
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I’ll accept that men have it harder when they stop attempting to punch down on women deemed less desirable (fat women, single moms, tattooed women, etc). Pick a lane to drive in fellas, can’t victimize yourselves while simultaneously looking down on any woman. But yes, I think women are “privileged” in dating by virtue of the simple fact that we don’t need it as much as men do, so we have the ultimate trump card of just opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:05 AM
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Good point. The draft is illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:37 AM
4

Men sure as hell still distinguish between women according to how “cute” they find them though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:12 PM
2

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:54 PM
1

Good point
/r/MensRights25/06/26 02:07 AM
3

Youth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:24 PM
1

Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:21 AM
0

I think the pies de resistance of women simply not minding their fkin business, is when a black guy is dating a white woman. Granted the white woman in the scenario does suffer from friendly fire, but the way black women will drag a black man for dating a white woman, it's actually nuts. Simply the racialized equivalent of the common misogynistic talking point that older women are so bothered by older men dating younger women and the same projection. Studies show that mate-guarding is more commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:17 AM
1

Did she commit violence against anyone?
/r/MensRights23/06/26 01:14 AM
1

> Advocating against policies that would help sex workers have a safer, better experience helps whom, exactly? Blanket bans do nothing to fix serious issues with sex work, and sex work won't go away just because some people think it's yucky. So I think SWERFs cause a lot of damage to other women (and men, obviously) because of their persona hangups. It sounds like you haven’t done a shred of research on the policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:23 PM
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> The issue with SWERFs is that they often actively dismiss why women get into sex work and to me, it becomes more about being anti-sex work then looking at why such an industry exists, and what conditions drives one to do sex work. With all due respect homie you sound ignorant. The biggest critics of “sex work” are the women who survive it, you can listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:21 PM
1

I can relate with regards to another area 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:31 PM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:04 PM
8

Ruthless 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:56 PM
1

Physical strength. Risk taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:52 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:45 AM
0

My favorite stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:42 AM
3

Immigration…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:37 AM
3

Agreed, this is a realization I’ve recently come to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:34 AM
14

You criticize “choice feminism” but attack “SWERFs”, which is ridiculous and hypocritical. If you can criticize tradwife LARPers there’s no reason why sex work isn’t fair game for scrutiny 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:30 AM
3

That’s a modern construct though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:48 PM
1

Right here on this sub, when I suggested that men make friends with each other, I got told that it’s about romantic loneliness and no amount of platonic friends will help. But then I also see other guys saying it has nothing to do with women and is about general social alienation. I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:44 PM
1

lol, you stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:41 AM
0

Wait I get mixed messages about the male loneliness epidemic, some guys swear it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:08 AM
0

What are the issues and struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:29 AM
1

2024 isn’t “recent” imo. But thanks, I’ll take a look
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:38 PM
2

Reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:22 PM
1

What was that case? I haven’t heard of it 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:20 PM
0

Can you be more specific? What should women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:12 PM
0

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:46 PM
6

Sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:42 PM
3

I agree
/r/MensRights18/06/26 01:30 AM
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👀 DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:39 AM
5

Technically not mutually exclusive. Men scream from the rooftops about how fucking and dating are different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:52 PM
1

Tell me when that happens and what you know about friendships between women and gay men
/r/MensRights15/06/26 01:53 PM
1

Tell me when that happens and what you know about friendships between women and gay men
/r/MensRights15/06/26 01:53 PM
1

> The study claiming lesbian dv rates where 70% is only because that study counted possible former male partners. So I point them to more r3cent studies that controlled for that variable by asking about same sex partners only with similar results. Where? I’ve asked AI and got nothing
/r/MensRights15/06/26 05:13 AM
1

I don’t get responses like this. You can’t not “give anything” in a friendship, which is a two-way street by definition.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 04:40 AM
1

🫨😮
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:46 AM
1

Weee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:58 PM
1

I understand how it might be difficult for someone to challenge their world view. You are patronizing asf, that’s literally what you keep doing. just that it's a disproportionate amount of outrage for something, simply because it is done by men. You can see that this is the case because, again, the reaction would be completely different for a woman. Again, as I keep telling you, the reaction isn’t “completely different” for women, women of any sexual orientation do not like or appreciate inappro…
/r/MensRights14/06/26 06:47 PM
1

I understand how it might be difficult for someone to challenge their world view. You are patronizing asf, that’s literally what you keep doing. just that it's a disproportionate amount of outrage for something, simply because it is done by men. You can see that this is the case because, again, the reaction would be completely different for a woman. Again, as I keep telling you, the reaction isn’t “completely different” for women, women of any sexual orientation do not like or appreciate inappro…
/r/MensRights14/06/26 05:52 PM
1

:( I’m sorry about that. I could imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:53 PM
1

I wouldn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:37 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:21 PM
2

Why do you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:09 PM
1

🤦🏾‍♀️ These girls are so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:42 PM
1

Of course unsolicited dick pics are never appropriate, showing people pictures of your genitals without consent is cyber-flashing. “Oh and to add, are you one of those guys who doesn’t understand why unsolicited dick pics are wrong? 🙄” Learn to read, this isn’t accusing you of sending unsolicited dick pics. It’s asking whether you understand why it’s wrong. And it doesn’t look like it. The problem isn’t “how you want to depict yourself”, the problem is respecting other people’s boundaries. Why i…
/r/MensRights12/06/26 06:32 PM
1

“To attack or resent someone's attempt, even when you are not attracted to them, is to deny them their right to be attracted to you.” Yes, it’s an extension of logic. Dick pics are an “attempt”. So you can understand that all attempts aren’t appropriate. You should also learn up on your fallacies so you don’t sound stupid, this is not an “adhominem” bc it’s about logic and nothing to do with personal character. And, no, virtually no woman would have the same kind of reaction to unsolicited pictu…
/r/MensRights12/06/26 05:25 PM
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Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:15 AM
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Why’d you want to be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:10 AM
3

A mathematician
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:53 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:37 AM
1

Yeah absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:35 AM
1

What if he’s exclusively interested in topping? I don’t get how simply being attracted to men or engaging in any gay sex act is incompatible with dominance and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:33 AM
1

Lmfaooo tell em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:16 AM
1

That's a weird jump. Kind of seems like you're just grasping at straws. No, it’s just extending basic logic. So you can understand that getting explicit with strangers is wrong. And again, as a bi woman, women definitely do feel like victims when they’re sent unsolicited nudes from other women. You just don’t want to acknowledge this bc it undermines your persecution narrative.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 02:26 AM
1

It clearly says that bisexual women are victimized the most, and bisexual women mainly date men 🙄 But this is irrelevant to the point. You use queer victims of DV as “evidence” that women don’t actually support queer people, so surely this same logic applies to men being silent about gay men.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 02:15 AM
1

Oh and to add, are you one of those guys who doesn’t understand why unsolicited dick pics are wrong? 🙄
/r/MensRights11/06/26 06:46 PM
1

Again, where is your source for these claims?
/r/MensRights11/06/26 06:44 PM
1

Why do you not understand the difference between making an “attempt” and being inappropriately sexual? Other people aren’t obligated to respond positively to every expression of your sexuality. I even said that this same thing applies to WLW yet you have to pretend to ignore that part to keep your narrative intact.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 07:48 PM
1

> I can make an educated guess about your experiences, based on your type of response and the fact that most women would similarly dismiss being cat called. It's not even uncommon to see women laugh off being grabbed by another woman and then claim they've never been touched inappropriately by other women. Except I said that I’ve actually experienced unwanted advances from another woman so your “educated guess” is irrelevant. You can’t make an “educated guess” about something I’ve actually exper…
/r/MensRights10/06/26 02:18 AM
1

> You have probably been catcalled by women before but, because it came from women, you likely never made note of it or registered it as catcalling/offensive. You most likely just interpreted it as a compliment and moved on. No, how tf are you going to tell me about my own experience? I already said that I was “virtually catcalled” by a woman once and was very uncomfortable. > Of course it is. There is no reason to have a negative reaction to unsolicited advances, You cropped out the important w…
/r/MensRights09/06/26 05:06 PM
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> You know this because if another woman or a child catcalled you, you would laugh or take it in stride. Maybe even enjoy a compliment from it. You wouldn't have any kind of knee jerk reaction to be offended, or to take it as a threat. How do you know that? Do you even know what catcalling is? I’ve never been catcalled by another woman irl, but one time I was a bit sexually harassed by another woman online and I found it uncomfortable as hell. She kept making flirty comments after I said I wasn’…
/r/MensRights08/06/26 08:01 PM
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??? Ofc a straight man would see it as disrespectful to be catcalled by another man. Smfh “heterophobic” 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/MensRights08/06/26 06:12 AM
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Ohio RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:32 AM
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Yeehaw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:31 AM
0

What a dumb response, this isn’t a source. You could turn this logic right back around and ask where’s the support for gay male victims of IPV, yall clearly only want to use lesbian victims as a gotcha.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 09:37 PM
1

because men are competitive and hostile to each other, Oh really? I thought women all hated each other and secretly constantly compete. consider minority men ugly and low status, So do men. women can also consider gay men useless because they don't pursuit and provide, ??? Where or objectify them with "you're not like the other ones because you don't have heterosexual icky disgusting male sexuality, That’s the exact opposite of objectification if anything and also TERFS exist because they hate m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:23 PM
1

Prefer being muscular? Won’t that get in the way of passing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:08 PM
2

> A compelling piece of evidence is that women do not show similar support towards lesbians. The support for the gay community is exclusively towards gay men. Where’s the source for this
/r/MensRights06/06/26 05:39 PM
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Idk, bisexuals still mostly settle with the opposite sex. Bisexual men in particular seem to not want anything deeper with men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:12 PM
1

Woah you live in the Middle East
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:21 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:16 PM
2

You should get into content creation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:50 PM
2

Damn. You tried to offer him some sympathy and solidarity and he swatted it away. You just can’t with people like this. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:42 PM
1

Are you on testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:36 PM
1

🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:22 PM
2

Sounds like we see eye to eye. I like neither side too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:18 PM
1

I’m attracted to masculinity through and through. But I think I’m getting attached to a fem girl for once
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:14 PM
1

And your anectdotal experience with your male peers doesn't change the fact that women are straight up allowed to hit men and NO feminist wants to change that. Your experience is anecdotal too, where are women casually going around beating on men? 🥴 And you're the one bringing up issues that don't affect the overwhelming majority of western women. And by opportunities I mean things like childcare positions and similar roles are often reserved for women only whereas in many parts of the world the…
/r/MensRights02/06/26 02:27 AM
1

Then if there’s no other data it can neither confirm nor refute social constructionism by itself. In order to declare something a human universal you need to provide proof of it existing across time and space. What on Earth makes you think that the behavior of European queens in the modern era applies to everyone from Amazonian tribes to African kingdoms? It is a fact that “WEIRD” culture and psychology is very unique and doesn’t provide a representative sample of the entire world. It could very…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 12:57 AM
5

Tell me more! Also matrilineal doesn’t necessarily mean matriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:18 PM
1

Homo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:32 PM
1

there are no male equivalents of TERFs. Perhaps “TEHMs”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:36 AM
1

Which country, I’m curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:30 AM
2

8 inches 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:26 AM
1

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:22 AM
1

Based and bi pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:20 AM
1

How don’t you fit the gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:11 AM
8

Hahahhahaha like men adhere to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:45 AM
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It’s not “irony”, the entire point is making a comparison. Male circumcision doesn’t affect the overwhelming majority of the Western world yet you brought it up to complain about. And even though America has a draft, it hasn’t actually been used since last century. You’re also being vague about “opportunities”. And bro, it looks like you just live in a violent place, none of my male neighbors, relatives, or friends are being casually physically attacked by women. The “don’t hit women” narrative …
/r/MensRights30/05/26 01:42 AM
1

Which ones
/r/MensRights29/05/26 08:07 PM
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A working paper by political scientists Oeindrila Dube, of the University of Chicago, and S. P. Harish, of McGill University, analyzed a selection of mostly European kings and queens who reigned between 1480 AD and 1913 which covered 193 rulers in 18 countries. A Daily Mail article says the 400 years of European history included female rulers such as Catherine the Great, who made Russia a waring nation in the 18th century, Britain's Elizabeth I, who defeated the Spanish Armada in 1588, and Isabe…
/r/MensRights29/05/26 07:53 PM
2

I think that sounds insecure as hell regardless of gender. I don’t understand dating someone you can’t trust.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 03:25 PM
1

Why do they want to date biphobic homophobic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:28 AM
1

Sure, but my question this whole time has been, what was their reason for not disenfranchising disabled men.
/r/MensRights27/05/26 04:46 PM
1

Wdym? Many people on this sub argue that the franchise was historically tied to military duty.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 10:36 PM
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I didn’t say yall are, I’m saying that women not being able to vote was historically justified with their lack of military duty. So why didn’t that apply to disabled men?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 04:35 PM
1

That’s not an answer, can you please explain how? If women’s disenfranchisement was justified by them not having to risk their lives on battlefields then why were men who couldn’t do that not also stripped of their voting rights?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:42 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:16 PM
0

Wym
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:14 PM
1

Daaaaaamn. Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:24 AM
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> The 'unfit for service' is interesting, it implies that a man's value is tied up with the provider role. Doesn’t this sub argue that men’s right to vote came with the responsibility of military service? If that’s the logic then yeah why were disabled men allowed to vote?
/r/MensRights25/05/26 07:33 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:32 AM
1

Yes Bruh I can’t imagine caring about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:27 AM
1

Yeahh. If straight men will stick their penises in pieces of plastic shaped like a human female, why not a Y-chromosome haver shaped like a human female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:12 AM
1

Interesting. Did they have bottom surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:58 PM
1

I can believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:55 PM
1

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:40 PM
2

Then what do you propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:42 PM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:50 AM
1

You keep shifting the goalposts. You accused ME, an individual, of “enjoying these privileges” and now you’re moving it back to “averages”. If you want to complain to me choose something actually relevant.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 03:44 PM
1

If I’m not in your fucking country I can’t be “enjoying unfair privileges”, America doesn’t have this. You’re quite literally acting dishonest
/r/MensRights21/05/26 02:36 PM
2

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:57 AM
2

Damn 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:55 AM
7

Lol real 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:17 PM
1

If you’re comparing like to like then why are you even bringing up circumcision and conscription when they don’t affect the vast majority of men in the Western world? Are you Ukrainian? Or American? Germany seems to be moving towards reintroducing the draft but there’s plenty of pushback. Chief, suffragettes were literally imprisoned and force fed for demanding the right to vote. Nobody who is actually challenging society is received with open arms. But say more about why you view women as so pr…
/r/MensRights18/05/26 10:17 PM
-9

Do you want people to be in an echo chamber?
/r/MensRights18/05/26 08:13 PM
1

Am I in your country?
/r/MensRights18/05/26 08:08 PM
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> Ok, to be clear I'm not saying that women don't have specific issues, I'm saying they are not silenced the same way as men for advocating for themselves Oh no, we absolutely get silenced in other ways. > and don't get attacked if they say that they would much rather be born the opposite sex. Weird cutoff. Taylor Swift got a lot of flak for that song she made about being a man. > And let's be honest, the overwhelming majority of women would not want to trade their issues for being forced into t…
/r/MensRights18/05/26 01:01 AM
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> I think it is related to the point that women's issues get taken seriously and that Most of what OP mentioned is interpersonal and has nothing to do systemic anything. > you're still insanely prviliged for being female. This is insanely presumptuous and condescending. Women have our own struggles and you’re disregarding them in a way I’m sure you complain about being done to you. I lurk here to understand different perspectives and it doesn’t sound like you return a shred of empathy. > You may…
/r/MensRights16/05/26 09:39 PM
0

None of this has anything to do with this post. You’re shifting the goalposts wildly.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 08:40 PM
0

And where’s my student fund from university? Are you implying that all women are your sister?
/r/MensRights16/05/26 06:42 PM
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No, men will also moralize their own sexual selection and make up these self-righteous justifications for why they don’t prefer certain groups of women. Like tattooed women for example. Some will just admit they find that look ugly but others will make up shit about “daddy issues” and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:17 PM
2

You seem reasonable, this guy seems disingenuous as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:25 PM
1

Nah, men absolutely do moralize sexual selection too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:20 PM
3

Good point. Maybe the second point is believed due to men’s perspective being historically centered?
/r/MensRights15/05/26 11:38 PM
2

> Waking up to people complimenting you, checking on you, caring about your feelings, wanting to protect you, making you feel valued just for existing… it sounds nice. None of this comes free with having a vagina. That’s my point. > Being able to cry without being judged, being comforted instead of told to “man up,” being loved for who you are and not only for what you can provide. Women are not loved for “who we are” either. > Women should be thankful for the love, emotional support, and kindne…
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:42 PM
-1

If I said that men are all privileged and powerful, surely you’d say that’s not the average man right? You’re literally doing the exact same thing here
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:22 PM
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No, bc the OP never established any basis for what he’s saying. I understand that I’m an outlier on a lot of things but I’m pretty sure that the average woman doesn’t have people flocking to her just for existing.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 04:50 PM
-1

As a female lurker, comments like these seem so tonedeaf and ignorant. I’m neurodivergent with a history of mental illness, I was socially isolated for years and had to put in effort to make friends. Nobody went out of their way for me except for my mom. Being black and alternative also gets me a fair bit of harassment and hatred from men who feel the need to wax about how undesirable they find me. Smfh.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 06:06 AM
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I have pointed out how aggressive the British Empire was during the Victorian Age to be told "it was a Patriarchy." Like ... the ruler is literally a woman. Bad retort. Obama was black.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:24 AM
2

Why don’t you want to change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:27 PM
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Yeah, neither should be moralized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:51 AM
2

Who are they married to? Girls their age or grown women? Genuine question, this link didn’t specify
/r/MensRights12/05/26 01:32 AM
1

Good theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:07 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:02 AM
3

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:44 AM
0

How are women stopping your friend from experimenting? It’s a free country.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 06:16 AM
-1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:40 AM
1

Tuna melts are disgusting. I find this reference cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:51 AM
3

How old are you? I think I was around for the tail end of this era.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:38 AM
1

What’s the racial slur…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:51 PM
1

[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:02 PM
3

lol deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:44 PM
1

smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:27 PM
1

🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:21 PM
6

Geez. Where did you grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:33 AM
0

🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:28 AM
11

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:21 AM
-1

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:25 PM
3

Indeed. It fascinates me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:08 AM
3

I also consider myself straight but do bang dudes every now and then lol ??? Did testosterone turn you bi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:52 AM
1

No, bc again, women’s preferences aren’t an objective measurement. Even from that perspective, most women do not prioritize dick size
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:02 AM
1

Most women aren’t size queens. I am tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:58 PM
1

Not necessarily. Pygmies exist bc in certain parts of the world, a bigger body was a liability and got naturally selected out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:55 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:49 PM
2

Thank you for getting my point 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:30 PM
2

Do you seriously think that a retarded thug is better than a shy engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:51 PM
2

My entire point is that what the opposite sex desires doesn’t determine which genes are “better”. There was a species of deer that literally went extinct bc the females kept selecting males with stupidly large and heavy antlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:54 PM
2

Logical arguments dont account for outliers, Yes they do. You can’t make a claim about humanity while excluding those that are inconvenient. because thats what they are: outliers. They don't speak for the majority of people. Your logic has to account for them. Is the 85IQ hood booger a high value man just bc he passes on his genes, yes or no? So you agree with me then, that a chad is comprised of genetical physical attributes? Didn’t say otherwise, it’s just not necessary objective. Then why exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:30 PM
2

You're thinking in extremes. No, this is just basic logic. If your framework can’t account for everyone then you’re just wrong. This is just the logical conclusion of your argument. Also, Intelligence isnt even something thats been proven to be passed down. False, IQ is like at least half heritable. Genetical physical attributes are, however, and those are what makes a man a chad. They all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:24 PM
2

Statistically, men that are gifted are less likely to fuck than men who are retarded. Smarter and more affluent people are basically selecting themselves out of the gene pool. Idiocracy might be real. You’re arguing that an 85IQ gangster with 6 baby mommas is superior to a virgin MIT math nerd? Nick Cannon and Elon Musk are both ubermenschen bc they’ve both convinced many women to carry their seed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:09 PM
2

?? Can you read? This isn’t about my opinion. You also shifted the goalposts radically to “populations getting better over time” when you were just talking about making everyone Chad, which would be impossible. I never said most women do want an autistic man, I said what women want isn’t an objective measure of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:59 PM
2

?? Can you read? This isn’t about my opinion. You also shifted the goalposts radically to “populations getting better over time” when you were just talking about making everyone Chad, which would be impossible. I never said most women do want an autistic man, I said what women want isn’t an objective measure of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:59 PM
1

? Lmfaooo what “chad bf” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:53 PM
1

When did I talk about my standards? It’s no one’s “fault”, just the nature of reality. As you said, “eugenics” has already been happening via sexual selection, yet still everyone isn’t Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:48 PM
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No, idk wym. If every man has the 6’s then the goalposts would just shift to the 7’s. Everyone can’t be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:43 PM
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"Gangsters and psychos" are a small percentage of the population so I dont know where you're getting this data from. From the blackpillers who constantly post studies about it 💀 My point is noone wants to have bad genes and that is objective. My point is that social or sexual desirability, in and of itself, isn’t a measure of “bad genes”. This logic leads to terrible conclusions. So all of the Jews in 1930s Germany had “bad genes” bc that’s what society believed? Being short, bald, autistic, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:31 PM
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Except the gangsters and psychopaths are the most sexually and reproductively successful. That’s exactly why this “objective measure” is dumb, popping out kids isn’t a measure of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:13 PM
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Where did I say people want to be celibate? I said that people’s genetic quality doesn’t hinge on who wants to fuck them. Me or most women not wanting those qualities isn’t an objective measure. As some of the pillers here will tell you, some women gladly fuck gangsters and psychopaths. Andrew Tate is bald, allegedly has a small dick (lol thanks Greta Thunberg), yet somehow has a harem of women and a brood of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:05 PM
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Sure, but all of life isn’t dating. Half of men have below average dick size and I’m pretty sure most men go bald eventually, they can’t all be “faulty” without that word becoming meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:47 PM
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Sure, but same could be said about many other traits. Whether or not genes are “faulty” has nothing to do with how romantically desirable they make people. Short men don’t have “faulty genes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:36 PM
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On what basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:32 PM
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Why are you implying that autistic people have “faulty genes”??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:23 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:53 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:50 PM
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True, but incomplete. Autistic men also just find it harder to perform male gender roles. Society could do with being more tolerant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:44 PM
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You’re the one who tried to make this about all men 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:55 PM
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Bruh it’s only you who brought “evil” into this. Women aren’t above this behavior either, it’s just ridiculous for men to pretend as if they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:05 PM
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Yeah https://x.com/simsimmaaz/status/2040975379230265778?s=46&t=u1g_5fR3YGp28bQ5RGZX1A
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:13 PM
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Pretty much. A guy I was talking to basically said he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to women who look like me bc it would ruin his “street cred”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:04 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:02 PM
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My experiences suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:56 PM
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Geez. I could imagine. I maybe dabbled a bit and I’m so glad I didn’t have to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:38 PM
3

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:29 PM
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No, yall do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:28 PM
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Hahahaha no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:27 PM
1

So why are you even in this sub? By this logic, you don’t believe men are oppressed?
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:21 PM
1

Sneako is this your burner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:57 PM
1

That’s an interesting mix
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:42 PM
1

…kind of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:08 PM
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Lizzo got clowned to infinity when those allegations against her came out
/r/MensRights14/04/26 01:06 PM
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So he’s definitely autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:05 PM
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The funny thing is I get called a “terf” but I’ve never had a problem with men dating trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:52 PM
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Yeah that’s fucking gross and in the case of STIs should probably be a criminal offense. Starting a relationship on a lie is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:13 AM
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I know what an analogy is, and this one sucks because it doesn’t represent what a relationship is. I’m not an inanimate object or a hustler optimizing for material gain. I don’t want to perform or put on a show for my most intimate connection. You’re free to disagree if you’ve found someone compatible with your approach, I don’t need your two cents disparaging my way by claiming I’m “limiting myself” by seeking someone I’m compatible with. Being practical in no way precludes enjoying the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:22 AM
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Yup, fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:36 AM
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I don’t think it’s my own personal interest to be with someone incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:33 AM
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I’m not a car. People aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:24 AM
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Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:20 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:18 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:10 AM
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What is the evidence that women are shooting above their “league”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:39 PM
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Mind you, you haven’t even established this is actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:08 PM
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It’s not “fine”, it’s just the way freedom works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:56 AM
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Oh I see I’m level 1 and would love a fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:55 AM
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Damn why, did you have bad experiences with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:05 AM
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Autistic women 🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:04 AM
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You're welcome if you wish to do so. K I agree that bad experiences are a valid reason for the way you form your preferences, but I am talking about women (and men) who inherently shoot above their league, or above what would be their "match". Their “match” and “league” is whatever they can get, nobody is obligated to date someone similar to them. My brother doesn't do any of these things out of his own initiative - it's because everybody tells him to have hobbies in order to be attractive or me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:39 AM
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I’ll just have to repeat This seems like typical male solipsism and admitting that only “hot” women exist to you. Assuming that I must be “dishonest” is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:33 AM
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That's not what I meant. Treating relationships as the norm leads to people being annoying to those who wanna be single. But it does give a big helping hand when it comes to those who can't get a relationship on their own do to many factors. If being single is the norm, then it's harder to ask for some help when it comes to dating, without looking desperate or looking up to bad role models. Oh ok then My experiences are the other way around, though, like I said, assholes are everywhere. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:33 PM
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I don’t understand your “refutation” bc I’m not familiar with picking my friends based on how “hot” they are. This seems like typical male solipsism and admitting that only “hot” women exist to you. Assuming that I must be “dishonest” is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:18 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:18 PM
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And often times there literally just fake, think about the avg male friend group, usaully a bunch of guys all shapes and sizes, whereas its not hard to find women where there all hot and that's becuase they dont actually like each other they just decided to be nice to each other and act like friends becuase they wanted to form a group of hot girls. This is a new one 🙄 I’m trying to follow the “logic” here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:16 PM
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It's not for men, it doesn't make sense to expect men to not care about dating and how the lack of it affects them if that's what they want. Yet men whine about being settled for. I also don’t expect men to “not care” about dating, just try to build a life outside of it. Let me rephrase it: Women still value and treat marriage as the goal of adulthood, so is the media, and men are fine with that. More precisely, it is more common to be in a relationship that to be single. K Which...I think it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:39 PM
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Shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:09 AM
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Lmfao, yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:52 AM
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Autistic goth cis woman here, I get exactly what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:49 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:44 AM
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I assumed you were referring to relationships, my bad. Both, you’ve kind of muddled the waters. But....that's not what men want. They don't want ways to navigate the single life, they don't want to be single. It looks like you’re being more prescriptive while I’m trying to be more descriptive. It doesn’t matter what men “want”, we don’t get to have whatever we want in life. As for decentering: Globally, that is not true. Um no duh, I assumed we’re talking about the West. The biggest majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:21 AM
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Except I never said “stop caring about that”. I also didn’t say or even imply that all of the above is from “social conditioning”, the primacy that society puts on them certainly is. Feminism has been able to largely destigmatize singlehood for women, similar can be done for men. A lot of the practical advantages offered by relationships can be outsourced. For example, live with family, friends, or just get roommates. Whether or not men like it, women already have decentered relationships, so th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:28 PM
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Dang, your friend is cockblocking 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:28 AM
1

Who
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:26 AM
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Do you also turn down straight men who do anal with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:24 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 AM
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She’s right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:13 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:13 AM
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Good point. That’s stupid too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:45 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:41 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:17 PM
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As a black man this one gets to me so much because in the span of I'd say 2 years (especially on tiktok) black women (and pandering black men) have basically gave way to every other race to shit on black men. Reversal. It is the other way around and literally has been for decades if not centuries by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:44 AM
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I think that society can do better by de-emphasizing sexual/romantic success and not using it as a barometer of worth. That’s beyond an individual’s control but apart from that, what is stopping men from unlearning their conditioning? Being neurodivergent and mentally ill, I had and still have a lot of shit to unpack, but I’ve made progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:48 AM
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Sperg4Sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:15 AM
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Lmfaooo I prefer tops
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:33 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:22 AM
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They wanna be gay basically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:18 AM
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Ok so How does this mean men have it worse? Can’t men choose to build a support system? Women aren’t gifted one from the sky, I myself as an autistic mentally ill woman had to basically build a social network from scratch in new adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:09 AM
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Goddamn Ok I’ll go through this one by one but you could’ve just told me the specific things you’re measuring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:16 AM
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But what stats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:51 PM
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lol Why the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:08 PM
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Same 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:34 AM
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I’m glad for you. You seem like a cool person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:57 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:46 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:48 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:40 AM
1

What impact has HRT had on you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:38 AM
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If a man says he is put off by a woman for some trait tied to prejudice, people are willing to examine the bias behind it. When women do it to bi men, suddenly everyone gets very nervous about calling it what it is. I agree with your general point, I just wanted to say that, as a black woman, no to this. It’s well documented that men are put off by dark skin and it regularly gets defended as “preference” or somehow natural or innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:41 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:24 AM
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Do you like Scrabble? I’ve been playing it online with a newer guy friend of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:41 AM
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Woah. Certified unc status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:38 AM
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🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:29 AM
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Yeah, it’s odd to date someone you see as bigoted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:56 AM
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I would not mind dating a transphobic woman. i cannot imagine it leading to "constant conflict and hurt feelings". ???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:54 AM
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…why am I not surprised you’re based in Austin. Aella is this your burner account 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:51 AM
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What about Megan Fox with a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:25 AM
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What this has to do with anything I said, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:30 PM
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You’re shifting the goalposts. You tried to deflect to muh white men at first. They very much all work together to oppress women, look at that photo with Clavicular, Myron Gaines, Nick Fuentes, the Tates, Sneako, and whoever tf else. Only difference is that “”bipoc men”” have been able to use their skin color as a shield for far too long, and you’re somehow claiming it’s the opposite. That Netflix show Adolescence was based on a true story, except the actual killer was black and his race just so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:37 AM
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Upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:22 AM
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Except it’s literally a fact that the manosphere is disproportionately non-white. What reality are you living in? This fact isn’t talked about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:22 AM
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Myron
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:21 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:20 AM
3

The Meeks shall inherit the Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:20 AM
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Agreed 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:16 AM
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It’s pretty disrespectful both to bi women and lesbians to mislabel yourself like that, sexual orientation is based on attraction not action. There are terms specifically for bi women who only date women, such as febfem (see r/febwomen) and violet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:57 PM
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Oh. Then why does it say lesbian in your bio
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:41 PM
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If you only date women how would you find a trans guy attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:32 PM
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Maybe and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:31 PM
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How would you hook up with a trans guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:24 PM
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A detransitioned man you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:14 PM
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Geez. I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:00 AM
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young men are being indoctrinated with this bullshit to increase racial tensions Yes indeed. The irony is that they’re cucking themselves with their complaining, they make BM/WW couples seem a lot more common than they actually are bc people naturally assume that the outrage matches the prevalence. Streisand Effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:51 AM
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lol no need to thank me. As a black woman this shit has really started to grind my gears, this (fake and gay) narrative that the virile black mandingo is coming for all da wyte wimmens is also used to put us down and triangulate us. More people need to know the truth. Out of curiosity I’ve searched your post history. I’m here for your sister if she still needs it 🫂 it makes me so sad to hear about mixed people having identity issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:29 AM
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My least favorite is “misogynists are gay”… as if straight men can’t hurt and harm women 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:02 AM
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You’re stronger than me. I’d be dying of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:50 AM
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I get what you’re saying. Yeah it’s toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:48 AM
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Dude you’ve fallen for the psyop. White women are the demographic least likely to date outside of their own race. The demand for that “Blacked” stuff is driven by white men with cuck fetishes. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:13 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:11 AM
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Girl. I was understanding until the “forgive infidelity” part. 😐
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/26 08:49 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:12 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:05 AM
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“there is no male equivalent of size” Try all of human history 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:01 AM
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😭 degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:46 AM
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Then you may as well just not date any men at all tbh. Straight men would act the same as gay and bi men if they had the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:22 AM
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Not really? I’m iffy on this, idk if I’d find a trans body attractive bc of the genitals not “matching”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:17 AM
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But the majority of hate crimers are men. It’s as though men revolve life around getting laid and therefore see willingness to fuck someone as a measure of decency, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:55 AM
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I’m 6’3, I work out, I play guitar, sing, compose music, make about 140k, live in my own home, and sometimes I’m even a little bit funny. Allow me to shoot my shot. What music do you compose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:18 PM
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The amount of men in their DMs on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:39 PM
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Andrew Tate disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:37 PM
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Thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:33 PM
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Men ultimately don't give a flying fuck about what other men think. We do not police or manipulate each other like women do. We couldn't give less of a fuck about what other dudes think or "judge." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's actually what women envy about us, how we function completely independently from whatever the fuck "society says." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah no. Just a few weeks ago a RW male mutual I had been chatting with for months straight up told me that he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:24 PM
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This statement is so deeply ignorant of human nature. Guys such as yourself are the social science equivalent of Flat Earthers and Creationists. Ofc men’s sexualities are also influenced by social pressures, every aspect of life is. Quite frankly, the need for certain men to deny and pretend to be somehow above it, unlike those hive-minded women, is so ridiculous and arrogant. Ironically, acting like you are immune to propaganda only makes you even more susceptible to it bc you will unquestionin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:08 PM
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OP is a trans woman, that’s more than enough explanation. A lot more men would openly date trans women if not for the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:57 PM
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Yeah, but the difference is men like to act like they’re above it and such sigma alpha individualists compared to those sheep-brained herd-minded women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:50 PM
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What would benevolent homophobia look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:32 AM
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Who knew I needed to get paid for my time and companionship in order to be treated like a person of value by men. Yeah that’s fucking abysmal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:05 PM
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Bruh That is so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:44 PM
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Lmfao as if the average guy is some philosopher-king.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:34 PM
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You’re projecting your label of a “pick’me” onto me just because I have what many women dream of, kids and a wonderful husband. I’m unashamed of it. Oh no, you’re a pickme for attempting to reduce women to the traditional role of wife and mother and shaming women who live outside of it. It’s not a hard concept, you were the one who brought in relationship status not me. There are other married moms on this sub so you’re not special nor being singled-out. I’m unashamed of being single no matter h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:54 AM
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Get help. It’s never too late. Once again, you’re trying to act like you know me and single women are miserable. Stop projecting your pickme mindset onto me, I already have all the connections I need. Also you are doing exactly what you claimed I did in bringing up something wholly irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:59 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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What? Insecure? Why are you projecting your issues on me? Your internalized misogyny has nothing to do with me. Oh nope, you’re trying to do a “no u”. You’re a cliche, follow the crowns type. Try thinking for yourself. And you know this how? It’s so weird. As if only single women can form a community. Oh nope, you tried to act as if single women can only be lonely. Which is extra funny considering the research showing that women cope pretty well with singledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:00 PM
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I don’t actually have loneliness, I have amazing friends and a community I’ve built from scratch. Imagine in 2026 trying to shame women over male attention, I don’t hinge my life on male validation bc I’m not a pick me with internalized misogyny. You’re actually acting mad insecure for someone who has been picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:30 PM
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I hope you get picked “sweetheart”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:14 PM
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You: MEN do this also Indeed, because your “example” of women’s behavior doesn’t apply. You seem ignorant and aggressive. Looking for a reason to be argumentative. Obviously you’re the one who’s ignorant if you can’t read “Debate” in this sub name. From your history I can tell you’re unhappy with yourself and don’t know how to get men attention. It’s highly probably your bad attitude. Hopes this helps you. Good luck. Digging in someone’s history is a logical fallacy because that’s actually irrel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:34 PM
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I’m not “derailing”, I’m addressing what YOU said: Women will shame you for anything they feel is discriminatory in your dating choices. Chief, this entire subreddit and more is men complaining about women’s preferences being unfair. It is a gendered issue. Are women not a gender now? That specific comment absolutely is not gendered. Many women put pressure on each other to think like them. Look at you. Want me to fall in line with your mentality. Bye. Go find an appropriate topic for your issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:13 AM
1

You’re saying women do support each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:36 PM
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You’re gendering something that arguably isn’t even exclusively female, which is something you have in common with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:49 PM
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Women will shame you for anything they feel is discriminatory in your dating choices. Literally your own words
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:36 PM
1

And men don’t shame women’s standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:18 AM
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Yeah no, she’s stupid and snakey. I don’t get building a relationship on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:59 AM
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But I thought you red pillers say that women all hate each other, choose a script and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:43 AM
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I think men really don’t like women having self worth in their own beauty, because they want the power to be able to give and take away whether they think you’re beautiful or not. Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:00 PM
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Hey
/r/MensRights27/02/26 03:15 AM
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I know better, my mother was a monster. I also don't immediately assume the worst about men, my father was too gentle and sweet for his own good. That explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:59 AM
1

Still genuinely curious to hear how I uphold conservatism
/r/MensRights21/02/26 01:03 AM
1

This might be a crazy concept but, I lurk on many different communities so that I can understand issues that don’t directly affect me. I’m still waiting to hear how I uphold conservatism though.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 02:57 PM
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Who is “you all”? How would you know that I, a complete stranger, “uphold conservatism”? I wasn’t even asking you to feel bad, I was inviting you to reflect on men’s hypocrisy, and you are only further proving my point. You rant and complain about women discriminating against you only to turn around and make assumptions treating me as a member of a hivemind.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 01:44 PM
1

LMFAO the absolute hypocrisy of “men’s rights” displaying such racist misogyny. Apply the same logic to the “Brothas” and don’t ever complain about police brutality then. Don’t comment complaining about “ableism” and “virtue signaling” then. Always amazing how people can complain about bigotry then turn around to enact it against others with no sense of self-awareness. Also this reply makes no sense considering that you’re directly contradicting your original comment, pick one narrative and stic…
/r/MensRights20/02/26 11:59 AM
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Completely different from most guys who could care less what other men think of any particular woman or race of women, if she's hott & consenting that's usually all that matters to us... As a black woman this is literally false. Just last week a guy told me that he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to black women bc it would ruin his “street cred”
/r/MensRights19/02/26 08:27 AM
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Ignorant. Single motherhood isn’t “matriarchy”, maybe go look at the actual anthropological definition of these things and the few societies they count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:42 AM
3

Second.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:26 AM
3

OLD is ass, I did try it off and on before, and I have gone to local shows. At this point I’m just hoping to meet someone “organically” through my social media presence or friend network, that’s how it worked last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:11 AM
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I’m 100lb, 5’1, and just turned 23. Chronically single bc my standards are very specific. First and foremost, he has to also be autistic and a metalhead, those are the types of people I relate to most and get along with best. He can’t be fat, and gets bonus points for going to the gym. I prefer at least average height but it’s not a requirement. I’m a size queen so I’d ideally like one of the three sixes. Ideally college educated, I think I’d have more in common with that crowd, but I’m fine wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:32 AM
1

Rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:06 PM
1

That doesn’t explain why they love dark skinned asian women. They don’t, this is actually so fucking ignorant, colorism is a MASSIVE problem in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:39 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:38 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 PM
1

Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:32 PM
1

It’s like Lauren Sanchez meeting Leo DiCaprio, edition 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:16 PM
0

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:36 AM
1

Yeah, purple pill is neither red nor blue, how tf do YOU as a flared “Blue Pill Man” think you get to stipulate what Purple Pill is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:48 PM
1

Theres nothing progressive or blue pill about transphobia, Good thing they’re something else then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:37 PM
2

They still live in a society. There’s more to life than just dating. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:32 PM
2

😐 This is why, as an autistic woman, I’ve never been able to understand or relate to neurodivergent women who get along “better” with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:32 PM
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Edit to add: you aren’t fucking purple pill if you’re a transphobe I’ve never been aware of this criteria. You’re trying to gatekeep a damn pill according to your own self-righteousness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:30 PM
1

But I also know that he has not felt emotionally fulfilled with men at all and I’m able to give him that. I see this a lot among bisexual men and I find it fascinating. Why do you think that is? Is it just that men aren’t socialized to be emotionally available?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:09 AM
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I want a burger too but I’m not going to forsake myself to get it 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:39 AM
1

No one to talk to, Friends? no one to hold at night, I cope with teddies tbh no one that cares about you Again, friends? and no one to poor that amount of care into. Pets? Community? A large part of why I wake up is for other people, so I assume another person in my life would make me feel more motivated than ever. It has in the past. Same but I make my own motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:59 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:35 PM
1

What’s so bad about being alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:24 PM
1

I’ve always felt the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:24 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:18 PM
1

I want a traditional relationship 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:14 PM
1

I can also orgasm from PIV with almost any guy. I’m just saying that a lot of women don’t. 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:12 PM
1

I’m fine with bi dudes but I’d feel insecure dating one who prefers men. How do you cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:09 PM
1

Omg, I did not need that visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:05 PM
1

Sighhh My day will come
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:35 PM
1

But you dated her 🧐 so you’re part of the problem by tolerating her beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:43 PM
2

I agree! I don’t really like the playing dumb about biphobia on this thread. Maybe I was just in a kweer lefty bubble but it was a bit of a culture shock to me to realize just how repelled even progressive women who identify as bisexual themselves are by bisexual men. My own best friend was shocked when I told her that I would date bisexual men and have in the past, she said, “you wouldn’t look at him differently?” In my experience, bisexual men tend to have the traits I value and prefer — openn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:41 PM
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No, men regularly defend their prejudices against dark-skinned women as “preferences”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:06 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:23 PM
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I’ve just turned 23, maybe you could set us up on a playdate 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:57 PM
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Called out? The Tates are literally still free
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:30 AM
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CHANG LONGWANG 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:15 AM
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Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:09 AM
1

Haha, it’s a Napalm Death reference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:18 PM
0

You suffer but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:31 PM
3

unless they in the close inner circle. There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:03 PM
3

Of course it does 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:40 PM
1

Did she ever praise dressing skimpy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:27 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:22 PM
1

You’re gonna love Heated Rivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:02 PM
7

The problem is, we all suffer the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:56 PM
3

In what world???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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Obese, no, that’s a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:10 PM
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It’s mostly other men praising it though 🤦🏾‍♀️ That’s why I stopped caring about male victims of statutory rape tbh. Men themselves don’t even care, so how should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:52 PM
1

You just watch gay male porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:31 AM
1

That’s a crazy visual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:55 AM
2

Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:08 PM
1

😟😟😟
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:08 AM
1

I thought you had a gf? Is this a poly thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:12 AM
1

That does sound hot. Was he on top?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:01 AM
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Yes actually. Sympathy, though, is another thing, because I don’t feel like men have it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:18 AM
1

Hmm well, I wait until the convo turns to sexting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:44 AM
2

lol I just watched and then read Heated Rivalry yesterday, I don’t have a habit of smutty media but really liked the spice scenes, esp in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:31 AM
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lol girl let me tell you the story. A couple summers ago I had a really unfulfilling hookup with a guy I was talking to off of Tinder, so I DMed him on Instagram and explained to him what he did wrong (no foreplay, no pussy eating, etc) and I shit you not, this guy left me on read and never contacted me again 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 AM
1

Yeah…? Idk why this is so unbelievable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:04 PM
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I said up there, I do straight up ask a guy for his size, with pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:50 AM
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No LMFAO 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:48 AM
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I generally don’t do hookups, and I almost certainly wouldn’t do a hookup with that guy in the first place. If I’m just hooking up then all of my physical preferences have to be met.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:09 AM
2

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:31 AM
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I’m a size queen and don’t have to “hope”, I always explicitly ask for measurements and pics prior to taking things further lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:23 AM
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Lord have mercy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:28 PM
3

Similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:00 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:37 AM
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Then why were there laws compelling this arrangement? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:50 PM
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The victim’s family should be able to take the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:42 PM
0

Damn really lol? Role reversal in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:54 AM
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I’d love to get back to science someday, rn I’m taking a detour through media and the arts. I’m down to talk about whatever, I also love fibers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:32 PM
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I made my very first public, non-anon social media accounts like a year and a half ago and yeah, me being black and alternative gives certain fellas a lot to say. It doesn’t exactly hurt my feelings and I’ll never change the way I present for anybody but damn, it’s annoying as hell how men act like it’s women’s job to make their dicks tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:20 PM
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I’m fangirling a bit. You’re so cool, I value you, regardless of whatever douchey men have to say about your external meatsuit 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:57 PM
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🙄 no, none of those issues go away with decriminalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:37 PM
4

Kevin Samuels has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:47 PM
1

Based department? I like the poutine province
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:20 AM
2

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:40 AM
1

Never said that autistic boys aren’t bullied. As someone else here said, the adults in their lives often give them a pass for problematic tendencies instead of setting them straight. Autistic girls are forced to mask precisely because they often go undiagnosed and don’t get to use autism as a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:37 AM
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I concur. I’d like to add that a lot of male spergs have a chip on their shoulder from their own mistreatment and don’t take the initiative to work it out. A couple years back I crossed paths with a guy exactly like this and I ended up going to therapy cuz he never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:08 AM
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Two things can be true at once. I think it’s that autistic males are coddled as young children only for their bubble to get bursted when they turn into socially stunted young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:57 AM
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Clock it lmao 🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:16 AM
2

Why were you even with her in the first place? Sounds materialistic and bitchy.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 08:51 AM
1

Lmfaooooo I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:09 AM
1

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:02 AM
1

But Hannah Pearl Davis is literally a pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:58 AM
1

Oh ok. That sounds perfectly fine imo. Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:56 AM
2

Geeeeez. I really wish dating etiquette would be socially enforced on both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:36 AM
2

I’ve never understood why so many women are allergic to taking some initiative. Back when I tried dating apps I preferred Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:29 AM
2

That is my dream. I’m glad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:20 AM
2

L
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:32 AM
1

Dogs eat kibble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:59 AM
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lol last year on Twitter a male (now former) mutual of mine asked me what I want in a guy and then crashed out insinuating I’m a gold digger when I said I’d prefer him to have a college degree (optional) and a non-deadend job. Point is, women get flak for our preferences too. This narrative that men get scrutinized for anything while women get off scot free is self-victimizing BS that men push to make themselves feel righteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:59 AM
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they will bully, gossip, and backstab each other. This is just regular human behavior so how and why is it gendered? It’s not like men are all saints to each other, otherwise the Male Loneliness Epidemic wouldn’t be a thing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:15 AM
3

I’m autistic too 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:07 AM
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For example, how many Black men do you see spewing the "We're not all a monolith!!!" line? Literally every time I log onto Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:02 AM
2

Hahahah real. (Meanwhile, science shows that’s a myth…)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:00 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:56 AM
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Women are simply less likely to criticize other women, even ones they know are wrong and bad people, simply because a lot of you have the "hold the fort!" mentality with regards to your gender. Another example of women being collectivist while men are individualist. But I thought women all hated each other. I see the same people making both of these arguments simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:46 AM
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Pffff. I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:35 AM
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lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:10 AM
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I can’t control my skin color
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:40 AM
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Did they ask you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:38 AM
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Lmfao exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:36 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:33 PM
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I’m something of a femcel myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:42 AM
2

Why can’t you get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:11 AM
1

On the very first day of this year, in Brazil, a lesbian couple was murdered by one of the women’s ex-bfs. Kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:26 AM
1

💀 WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:15 AM
1

Bruh 12 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:54 AM
2

🤦🏾‍♀️ Source: 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:52 AM
1

Guya What’s this new alternative to Goya?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:46 AM
1

Damn. Could you elaborate? This is why I’m sperg4sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:49 AM
1

Damn spill the tea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:35 AM
1

Fellow traveler
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:00 AM
1

Hahah you watch Rehab Room
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:46 AM
2

Wheat Waffles is that you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:52 PM
1

I’m ngl as a skinny woman reading statements like this always strikes me as humblebragging 😔 it’s probably/definitely mostly me projecting :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:28 AM
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The one time I got sexually assaulted happened to be when I was looking grungy as fuck. Baggy sweats, uncombed hair, dots of toothpaste on my face (to dry out some pimples) 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:35 AM
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💀 TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:18 AM
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— > I chuckle at y’all’s lil stories. I’m a black/mixed women - I have had MUCH WORSE said to me, fam. They’re solipsistic or just plain ignorant asf on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:17 AM
1

Interesting 🧐 It’s always sad to hear about colorism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:14 AM
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I never seen a man totally diminish all qualities of a woman just cause of looks They do all the time. YOU not seeing something doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, you are literally being as solipsistic as redpillers claim women are. Also, the halo effect applies, men very much will diminish women’s qualities bc of how (un)attractive they find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:22 AM
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On god. As a black alt girlie it’s astonishing how many men feel entitled to comment on my appearance unprovoked. I often see men complaining about “not being allowed to have standards” but obviously that’s not true. I bet that 9/10 times it’s just men bitching about being called out for being an ass in expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:42 PM
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No, you do, stop fucking gaslighting me about what I see with my own eyes. I’ve never been vapid or overly concerned with my looks, but men have to constantly bring their contentions there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:31 PM
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Preach that good word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yep :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:52 PM
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Holy shit, sorry that happened. I can relate :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:47 PM
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You seem to be misunderstanding. I agree that the halo/horn effect is real, and I called it wrong for women to act that way 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:41 PM
4

Actually yall do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:38 PM
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There are like three times the amount of bi women as lesbians. I’ve never understood why bi women care at all about L4L, just date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:35 PM
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Lmfao real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:27 PM
1

What’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:18 PM
1

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:09 PM
16

That’s also wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:04 PM
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Lmfao ten ways from Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:03 PM
1

Sperg separatism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:40 PM
4

I think you’re pretty based for the most part but I have to say, your take here is kind of an L. It’s useless to tell individual men to stop tying their worth to casual sex when the go-to insults for men (incel, virgin, etc) are all about inability to access sex. It’s a cultural construct, not a just a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:34 PM
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It doesn’t have to be talked about in real life for it to be a thing 🙄 ofc people aren’t going to explicitly label their negative actions like that. It’s not “purely online” bc there actually is data pointing to placeholder dating and starter wives being things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:47 PM
1

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:27 AM
2

The way men act about these topics 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:23 AM
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🫩💀🤣 Yes, as if “starter girlfriends” aren’t a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:19 AM
1

:o How old could you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:11 AM
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Based scrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:29 PM
1

It is possible to change your genes by means of meditation and sound. Uh heavy citation needed
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 01:07 PM
1

I’m coming at you with honesty. Men themselves are large upholders of the idea that male loneliness is about not getting laid. A couple of times I’ve earnestly suggested that lonely men start with making friends only to be told by a guy that all the male friends in the world won’t help a straight guy’s romantic loneliness. Men really devalue platonic connections and put pussy on a pedestal, I find it hard to grasp.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:16 AM
1

Couldn’t literally the exact same thing be said for socialism and Marxism too? That’s what right wingers constantly say.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:12 AM
1

Actually there are studies suggesting that unwanted celibacy leads to misogyny in men. Just saying
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:10 AM
1

That just means you’ve learned to mask. That’s actually a typical autistic experience.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 01:52 AM
1

I’m curious, what do you mean by ex-autistic
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 10:52 PM
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Poland
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 10:43 PM
4

Autists on suicide watch 😵
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:06 PM
1

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:02 PM
3

Aren’t you doing exactly what you’re complaining about women doing? I bet you think all women live life like Stacies 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:58 PM
1

Which is an absolutely pathetic stance likely coloured by your own bias. I love how my own personal experience is “pathetic” and “biased” bc it doesn’t fit your narrative. I never said women aren’t bigoted, I’m saying it’s a lot less compared to men, and there are studies backing up my own observations. For every bigoted woman I’ve seen a thousand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:46 PM
3

Femboys are “straight up men”, presentation =/= gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:22 PM
0

Then retvrn to Monke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
0

She’s talking about her own feelings tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
1

You should feel flattered!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:58 PM
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Probably, but men are even more cruel to those they don’t “like”, they act as if women they don’t find attractive are committing some sin just by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:49 PM
1

I honestly struggle to recall experiencing discrimination from women. I’ve experienced even more discrimination from men of my own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:37 PM
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Yep, I know exactly what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:27 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:15 PM
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I like it when my love interests talk about their previous sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:05 PM
2

He’s obsessed 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:56 AM
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Both are controlling and toxic. Just be with someone you can trust
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:44 AM
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Lollll 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:00 AM
5

It disproves gay = repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:55 AM
1

What is it about attraction to men that is so powerful? This. Comparing sexual attraction to cooking was pretty [redacted] ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:29 AM
1

Male sexuality tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:19 AM
3

lol based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:17 AM
1

I’m pegging that man at the back of the bus 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:11 AM
5

Not really. For example, Ancient Greece and Rome only stigmatized taking the bottom role during gay sex, not same-sex desire itself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:07 AM
1

Ancient Greece/Rome has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:03 AM
1

Apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:59 PM
1

I’m a bisexual woman and he’s absolutely right. The repulsion towards bisexual men is absolutely rooted in gendered biphobia. Accusing him of being some self-serving incel for acknowledging that fact is gross and a shut-down tactic. A lot of people (both men and women) see having gay sex as a violation of masculinity and many women will just backwards rationalize it as concern over STDs or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:07 PM
7

I am much more into alternative bisexual girls myself, they're hotter, sluttier and more fun and open-minded, and I value all of this. Based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:56 PM
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Well I’m also neurodivergent and introverted and often feel misunderstood, which is why I love to talk with those who get it. I also cherish my long distance internet friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:36 PM
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Interesting. I figured the Eurofolks would be more sexually open. I tell my closest friends everything (if they want to know) and I hear everything they want to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:20 PM
1

Hey you’re back It’s January again 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:02 PM
1

Thanks for poking a hole in the myth that men are “less emotional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:48 AM
1

Not all women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:39 AM
1

Hi fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:37 AM
1

I do, I’m consistent 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:27 AM
1

Cardi B(lackpilled)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:22 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:10 AM
1

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:09 AM
3

I’m 5’1 as well and ngl this is exactly why I worry about having sons, it will be brutal if they inherit my height
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:56 AM
2

My point is that everyone hide something, no single person is exactly like another person. Those are two completely different presuppositions you’re tacking together. Not being like someone doesn’t mean hiding anything tf. No one said couples need to have everything in common 🙄 now you’re setting up strawmen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:16 AM
1

I agree, I like bi men bc they tend to be more progressive minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:03 PM
3

Except hiding (lying by omission or just straight up lying) is unsustainable and will be exposed eventually, which is something that doesn’t happen when your partner is actually aligned with you. Just take the L chief
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:36 PM
2

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:31 PM
4

🙄 Research shows that relationships between more similar people are more stable and successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:22 PM
1

This is just cope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:38 PM
1

I’m pretty sure this actually is just a gendered thing though, the replies from the other women here are making my point. And it makes perfect sense that would be true for men bc romantic relationships are the only acceptable emotional outlet for y’all. I don’t get how saying that in fewer words is “snarky” when it’s an accurate observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:53 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:46 PM
3

I’m confused at the dislikes and snark. I can’t relate to this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:32 AM
-2

Sounds like a guy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:02 AM
0

You seem like a cool dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:10 AM
1

At this point are you trolling for some weird reason?? Or do you just so happen to personally know this random lady and all of her clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:46 AM
0

I find that men often conflate having a preference with expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:34 AM
3

Woah autoandrophiles are real?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:25 AM
1

lol, radmascs 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:24 AM
8

I’m jealous 😿
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:21 AM
1

You have no evidence that “sex was being sold to underage kids”, and it’s not “according to me”, it’s a settled fact that there’s an age of consent 🙄 and sex trafficking is being sold for sex through coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:20 AM
1

You’re just a rape apologist and a pedophile at this point, anyone underage has no “agency” to consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:41 AM
1

No, even when the age of consent was lower the johns were older men 🤦🏾‍♀️ So weird to die on this hill just to victim-blame a child sex trafficking victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:33 AM
1

I’m pretty sure statistics show that johns tend to be grown men 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:26 PM
1

Anecdotes are not evidence. You don’t know this woman or any of the men who bought her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:31 AM
1

Yeah what a stupid and insensitive comment. As if underage boys even have the disposable income to pay for sex 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:43 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:29 AM
1

Right back at ya male genital
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:47 AM
2

No, her johns did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:35 AM
0

Calling a woman a bitch is misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:56 PM
1

Yes necessarily, by definition any prostitution of a minor is SEX TRAFFICKING due to them being incapable of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:52 PM
7

Bad example to use bro. The term “gold digger” exists just to describe women who seek men for money. What’s the equivalent insult for men liking women for superficial reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:45 PM
2

My god, these men are just disgusting. If she started hooking when she was a TEEN she’s literally a sex trafficking victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:01 PM
2

You’re not the only woman not dying on that hill, I had blankslatism beaten out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:49 AM
3

Deez nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:30 AM
1

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:30 AM
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We wuz builders n shiet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:22 AM
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Basedddd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:22 AM
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I agree It just will be a lot harder to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:03 AM
2

Well I admire your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:44 PM
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Are you aromantic or traumatized
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:19 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:03 PM
1

Why do you think we care about attention from random men? My female friends are whose attention I value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:51 PM
1

But go on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:41 PM
1

The stolen valor is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:13 AM
1

Again, irrelevant. Also you’re being solipsistic, (average or below) men are not the only ones who have struggles or even the only ones treated poorly by the opposite sex. On a personal level, as a neurodivergent woman, I’ve struggled with reoccurring depression and suicidal ideation that has robbed me of many of my “best years” and could’ve left me dead from an antidepressant overdose. I also retain a level of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria from how I see women, especially those of my eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:23 AM
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2) yep probably, but “lashing out in anger” in no way justifies or absolves them of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:57 PM
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A) I’m using the term literally lol. I identify as somewhat of a femcel B) Dang
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:55 PM
1

I’d have more in common with Eugene so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:40 AM
1

No, autism is just the biggest contributor to inceldom. In your case, go to the gym bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:32 AM
1

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:24 AM
2

Oh no, I could imagine :( How bad was the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:08 AM
1

Then how are you a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:02 AM
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You have absolutely no empirical evidence on “apology” And for every instance women don’t take accountability there’s a counterpoint. So no reason to make it gendered
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:00 AM
1

Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:38 AM
1

Consider that there are problems apart from not getting sex 🙄 You’re centering your male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:20 AM
2

And I see men dehumanizing women who aren’t their preference on the reg. Far more often probably 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:17 AM
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Is there anything that men do "better" than women do in interpersonal relationships? Absolutely. And, could any of those things that women are worse at be what men are trying to communicate? Lmao then men really do need to learn how to communicate bc this is a completely different topic than “accountability”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:47 AM
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Well you’re proving my point about misogyny. Who are you to diagnose what a “valid” reason to apologize is? If it were the other way around and men apologized more I know you’d be singing a different tune. Also, men have been saying for eons that they can’t help but harass or assault skimpily dressed women. Your point? Both sexes have equivalents
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:45 AM
1

Wondering where tf “extremism” comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:33 AM
1

Lmfao chief weren’t you the one telling me just last month that you disregard autistic people’s dating advice just by virtue of their neurodivergence? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:18 AM
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🐀🐀🐀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:55 AM
1

Aw hi elder 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:54 AM
1

Damn there are no incels in the Netherlands and Germany?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:40 AM
0

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:36 AM
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Is there any evidence of this? As in studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:01 AM
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Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:01 AM
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Stupid misogyny. There’s not a shred of evidence for this. Studies show that women apologize more than men and men tend to externalize their negative feelings (which can include blaming others) while women tend to internalize theirs (blame themselves). On what basis do women not take accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:59 AM
1

Put the strawman back in the barn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:43 AM
7

💯 that’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:12 AM
2

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:36 PM
1

Oh hey, I PMed you a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:11 PM
2

Your cooking is so great 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:43 PM
1

Wowwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:17 AM
1

How far does this logic extend? Depressed people can’t contribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:27 AM
-1

I don’t think those are the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:07 AM
1

Would men like “role reversal” romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:53 AM
1

I’m blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:46 AM
1

Similar
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:45 AM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:14 AM
0

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:50 AM
2

Feels bad man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:44 AM
1

Lmfao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:35 AM
1

That’s actually ableist and dehumanizing as fuck. You don’t think spergs experience normal fundamental human emotions like love, heartbreak, loneliness, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:29 AM
3

Aw, I’m sperg4sperg too for the same reason. Can’t stand NTs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:27 AM
1

I feel like such a femcel reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:09 AM
1

Exactly what I thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:48 AM
0

From what my friends have told me, I’m not surprised to read that the distracted boyfriend picture was staged in Spain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:29 AM
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Receipts, smoke em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:26 AM
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Tbf I said “pioneered” precisely, but you haven’t provided any evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:51 AM
4

Women pioneered computer science. A woman invented WiFi. Women have always been “computer people”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:41 AM
3

Yes. A couple years ago I came across a guy who was almost twice my age, very physically attractive to me, in great shape, decently nice and fun, but had a party boy lifestyle that doesn’t match my personality or interests at all. I got bored of casuals real quickly though, after a couple of experiences I’m not interested in sex outside of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:32 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:28 AM
3

Don’t throw shade on Louise Perry like that, when has she said this “thousand cock stare” crap ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:22 AM
1

Ok, point taken. I didn’t do my due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:57 AM
1

Yeh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:47 AM
1

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:45 AM
0

Damn sis got receipts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:43 AM
4

Interesting, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:42 AM
2

This sounds like something a political lesbian separatist feminist would say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:37 AM
4

Wow, horseshoe theory in action lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:15 PM
0

People definitely do gaslight certain groups of women. But point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:47 AM
1

? All I did was point out that she ignored an important part of that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:58 AM
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All facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:09 AM
0

She did say “in the US”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:53 AM
6

Do you think that the Netherlands has abolished inceldom? lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:06 AM
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How often do you see an oppressed group doing better than the non-oppressed group? Jews
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:42 AM
1

The guy above is literally talking like an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:49 PM
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Moids 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:10 PM
2

Neuromatched 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:08 AM
2

Why is eye contact such a big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:03 AM
5

Tell it to Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:58 AM
-1

No, as a black woman I think you can’t, black men already talk too damn much about black women’s hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:58 AM
3

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:25 AM
6

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:25 AM
2

I’m curious how some queer men still center women? Do you mean bisexual men feeling like they need a female long term partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:15 AM
3

For the 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:11 PM
2

I’m glad for you 👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:09 PM
3

I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:12 AM
3

Here’s why I ask. As a man, when I hang out with other men, their looks just don’t matter in how I see them. If one of my buddies is ugly, it has zero effect on whether I respect him, help him, or defend him. His value as a person and as a friend isn’t tied to appearance. If only men extended this same grace to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:31 AM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:54 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:07 AM
1

It’s you again It’s been a while
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:44 AM
1

Indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:07 AM
2

I hope you have a great cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:05 AM
5

Nice hair system bro, you look like a real Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:55 AM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:43 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:41 AM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:53 AM
3

Wow. How is that possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:33 AM
1

Ijbolmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:23 AM
0

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:58 AM
0

Yeah, I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:36 AM
1

No, I’m arguing with others on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:35 AM
1

they don’t mistreat unattractive women unprompted bc the social consequences are often severe. lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:09 AM
1

That’s preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:49 AM
1

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:48 AM
1

Can you read? Where did I claim otherwise? In my own anecdotal experience, I haven’t seen it though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:29 AM
6

The coochie carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:06 AM
3

Oo oo ah ah 🐵🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:04 AM
1

People make decisions based on incentives, like how men choose where to work based on who pays what. Maybe you should up your reading comprehension if you insist on inserting “implications”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:57 AM
2

Deserving of being called out yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:12 AM
2

Yeah bc it’s more common
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:53 PM
5

Neither should be “lionized” and I don’t think anyone even celebrates gold diggers. Neither I nor the OP said it’s “more noble”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:24 PM
4

No, that’s obviously not true because of the amount of conservative men trying to finesse progressive women into dates. Men sleep with women they hate all the time. You’re just hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:22 PM
14

lol sex diggers don’t gaf about the chick either, men are the ones saying all the time that they can separate attraction from emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:30 PM
1

Nobody implied otherwise, adults make decisions based on incentives. Again, do you disagree that men are influenced by women’s preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:50 AM
1

Please point to where I said “men force women to slut shame”. I explicitly said “incentive”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:49 AM
1

Again, please point to where this was said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:47 AM
2

Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:26 AM
1

Point to where anyone said that or stop writing fanfic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 AM
-2

In general, I’m just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:24 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:14 AM
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New Religious Movement I assume 🎵 oh Mr Crowley, did you talk to the dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:13 AM
2

Bro, you can't stop being an autist. The game is to engineer yourself into an outlier, not to mope because the general statistic (which includes retarded guys and ones with leftism and other comorbid mental illnesses, thanks to the joy of having one "ASD" for five fucking things) implies failure. 😭 this took me out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:39 AM
2

Wow 😮 That is sad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:21 PM
1

I’m about to ask my long-distance crush out 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:19 PM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:13 PM
2

Then don’t complain about women wanting tall rich guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:06 PM
2

You are not Kenough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:53 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:53 PM
1

I said please point to where. I said that this behavior in women is rooted in the incentives created by men. When red pillers talk about how men do XYZ to impress women, do you also disagree with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:50 PM
11

Right on brother But I’m kind of blackpilled about that ngl Tech might be the trump card
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:47 PM
2

Are you stupid? It’s not taking away people’s agency to discuss their motivations and incentives for acting a certain way, that is kind of the entire field of psychology. I hope you keep the same energy when the red pillers on here talk about how men only do XYZ to get laid. Nor did I “condone” anything, please point to where I said “unethical abusive behavior” is good, obviously I think that being a pickme is bad. These also aren’t “fictitious men”, this is the most stupid thing to say, as if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:33 PM
1

I never said that women don’t slut shame more, you didn’t “teach” me anything. Please point to where I said otherwise. What you need to learn about is incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:27 PM
-1

What part is “unaccountablity”, where exactly did I say that women have no control over their own thoughts and words? When you follow the incentive it leads back to intrasexual competition based on the standards set by men, which the evopsych crowd would actually be very quick to tell you. “Women bully women because men want women” is exactly what studies have found, such as that infamous one about intrasexually competitive women chopping more hair off of women close to their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:51 PM
0

No duh, that’s literally exactly what I said, read again soup brain. Women slut-shame & looks-shame because those are the things men have made valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:47 PM
0

Maybe you should’ve been told that women aren’t a hivemind. We live in a society, opinions trickle down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:46 PM
2

There’s no point in arguing with men over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:57 AM
2

Don’t like travel, gossip, or even watch TV, and it’s hard for me to find someone to share my hobbies. What inane misogynistic nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:31 AM
1

Bro you kinda contradicted yourself. If men don’t volunteer cuz it won’t raise their social status, they also care about how society perceives them. Career climbing is the equivalent of “virtue signaling”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:24 AM
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No, she means men. It’s like slut-shaming. Why exactly do you think women bully each other based on “purity” or looks? Because that’s what men value and what they have centered women’s worth around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:14 AM
1

Hmm. Elaborate please. How would dressing metal give people “the wrong impression”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:48 PM
2

I’m a femcel so yeah I took the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:56 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:50 PM
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I’m also into crafting, plant care, cooking, and engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:57 PM
1

🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:03 PM
0

Oh excuse me, here I thought being masculine was independence and individualism, guess the red pillers were wrong. You only need one other person for a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:40 PM
1

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:37 PM
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What “overlords agenda”? It’s pretty straightforward, depressed men can’t date. If the goal is to help men in the “SMP” it would be productive to address that huge roadblock. Don’t listen to me, feel free to go look up any of the research on mental illness/neurodivergence and male sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
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Hi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:22 AM
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It’s not ridiculous, those topics are very interconnected. Mental illness especially taxes a man’s dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:11 AM
1

Urban monoculture Fellow Based Camp watcher?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:18 AM
0

True, but you could always defy the expectations. It’s not “masculine” to be led around by what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:16 AM
2

Agreed actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:29 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:39 AM
1

Brutal 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:42 AM
0

That makes no fucking sense. As you said, men FUCK everything, it doesn’t mean men would date everything. Men become almost as picky as women when it comes to long term. You are a sexist hypocrite trying to rationalize the very same Just World fallacy you criticize women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:07 AM
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That mindset is such a cope. Andrew Tate exists 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:29 PM
-2

Men do too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:28 PM
2

Other people can have preferences on your preferences, acting like others’ opinions have power over yours is whiny and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:24 PM
2

How does it not contradict it? No one put a gun to his head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:58 AM
8

The first paragraph needs to be pinned to this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:21 AM
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Hi again Nothing but facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:35 AM
1

I’m glad for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:20 AM
1

First Second is easily refuted
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:18 AM
1

Buying for sure, it’s hurting another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:43 PM
0

…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:37 PM
1

Yeah, as if only “Chads” are cads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:31 PM
3

How do you not get blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:20 PM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:06 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:56 AM
2

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:40 AM
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He’s a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:38 AM
1

Everything is bigger in Texas 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:21 AM
3

Girl… 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:18 AM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:12 AM
1

Ohhh interesting observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:09 AM
2

Reporting live from New York metro area. I had no social life for basically my entire teen years, only internet people to talk to. I try to take it as bait but reading shit like this is so frustrating and quite frankly dehumanizing. It’s denying women a claim to large swaths of the human experience, and erasing so many of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:33 AM
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My sister in Christ, I have to dismiss this guy as a troll for my own sanity. I could go through this line by line too but what’s the point 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:25 AM
1

What contradictory opinions to feminism do you have, your entire life sounds really radicalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:19 AM
2

Holy shit :( I can empathize I’m a decade younger and I have my own problems
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 10:31 PM
5

Good analogy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:06 PM
1

Wait till she links the studies 🤷🏾‍♀️ or you could look it up easily, this is why girls are less diagnosed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:23 AM
0

It’s both. They’re not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:13 AM
1

Dang 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:11 AM
1

What kind of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:09 AM
1

Do you have any sources on this? I’d like to do some research
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:26 AM
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It’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:11 AM
1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:10 AM
1

Are most women single moms? Again, you’re putting words in my mouth. These dudes not being attractive to me doesn’t make me “too good” for them. They could be great as people, but not as partners. ~Which btw~ you have no idea what I’m looking for. Once more, shove your assumptions and stop trying to play armchair guru.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:09 AM
2

Respond to the statistics you lied about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:20 AM
1

Did you even read past that segment you quoted, or do you just want to be salty for no reason? I didn’t ask you to have sympathy for women. What I said is precisely that women don’t even have to practice discipline bc most of these options aren’t enticing in the slightest. What I’m getting from your words is that you want any excuse to bitch and moan. Am I speaking Chinese? Idk how you got all of that from me just saying that I choose celibacy and I don’t complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:16 AM
3

And it’s not a “privilege” for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:12 AM
1

Clearly they’re not less desperate if they’re continuing to hassle civilian women for sex, idk what part of basic logic eludes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:04 PM
1

You seem to be missing the point. I’m not saying that volcel is the same as incel. I’m saying that (choosing) celibacy isn’t made any “easier” by the presence of (unwanted) options. You wouldn’t rather be celibate, you’d rather have your cake and eat it, which— you can if you worked on yourself and took some initiative. It’s crazy how so many women, despite having this privilege, continuously mess it up bc they have no accountability or drive to improve themselves. It’s crazy how so many men wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:03 PM
0

Actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:44 PM
0

And yet, men having wayyyy more options and being able get sex anytime and anywhere doesn’t stop desperation like you claimed 🙄 I lowkey kind of wish it did, at least I wouldn’t be hassled by these types. But that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:43 PM
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This is completely irrelevant to my point. Also, correlation =/= causation, this is probably bc they have strict gun control 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:44 PM
0

How are you gonna tell me about my experience? Don’t just take my word for it, make an account on a dating app. I said, there’s still an abundance of desperate thirsty men trying to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:43 PM
3

Imagine you have a fierce allergy to most apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:26 PM
1

I also doubt your last statement, women don’t experience true deprivation in that regard so it’s very easy to say you’d rather just be celibate. You will never experience what that’s truly like. This makes no sense. What difference does having options I don’t want make? I’d rather just be celibate based on my desires, it has nothing to do with external constraints.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:23 PM
1

You mean higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:20 PM
1

Lmfaoooo bro I got back from Europe last year and that’s false, why won’t this myth die? There’s just as many desperate men flooding dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:51 AM
3

I’m glad for you, but sister you are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:31 AM
6

They’re right and you’re just coping
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:19 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:16 AM
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Being able to orgasm every time is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:53 PM
1

I’m “focusing on that one line” because it’s fucking false lmao. It’s not about what you would rather have, no one asked for a comparison. As a woman who’s used dating apps, mostly average, normal-looking guys. You’re assuming it’s all the same 10%, that it’s the “top”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:33 PM
1

Brother why are you playing dumb, reread your last sentence Also most of the women you are “seeing” getting bad conversations and bad dates are women punching above their league and trying to lock down a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:46 PM
3

How are you gonna say she doesn’t know about the male dating experience while you spew your ignorance about the female dating experience? NO, it’s not just “Chads” who give bad conversations, men all over the attractiveness spectrum do BS like this. It’s fit guys, hot guys, mid guys, short guys, ugly guys, yes all of them. This is a delusional fantasy yall feed yourselves to dismiss women and feel morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:01 PM
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I see. Have a good day sir
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:34 AM
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“Unconditional love” (conditions apply) Attractive appearance is a condition, by no means is a given, and fades away eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:31 AM
1

I also like the challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:15 PM
2

Well yes, most women are not size queens (thank god, more for me!).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:35 AM
1

I haven’t had 8 inches (yet) 😔 “only” 7. A lot of lube was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:37 PM
1

What is then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:18 PM
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Idk what you’re arguing with him about. He’s right, us size queens exist 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 PM
2

Lmfao your problem is that you’re making assumptions and projecting a whole fanfic onto me, a complete stranger. Instead of choosing to “shut him out sexually”, I would simply not be in a relationship with someone who isn’t good enough sexually (and is too egotistical to bother learning), because I want a relationship for sex. Please shove your screed up your ass and stop being arrogant enough to act like you know me, you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:53 PM
2

I am really a sexual person, unfortunately 😣 but I’d still rather just buy a vibrator than let myself get used in this way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:16 PM
-1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:00 PM
1

I’ll be your friend 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:50 PM
0

Good analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:44 PM
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