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How are you calling me brain dead when your “solution” is to force children onto women you describe as hateful and irresponsible? They’re not gonna change. And you cannot legislate morality and force people to change attitudes. I’m against banning abortion for any reason because the government doesn’t have right nor ability to make these choices for people, and bureaucrats attempting to makes it worse 🙄
/r/MensRights30/07/26 01:40 AM
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:(((( I relate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:12 AM
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Try asking an AI to summarize her perspectives. I’d take that allegation with a grain of salt bc criticism is “misandry” to these types
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:26 AM
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lol I see someone brought the twitter discourse over here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:19 AM
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But that’s not what he said, you’re doing a motte and Bailey. He said that lesbians are almost never bullied or attacked, which is retarded to say when corrective rape exists 🙄
/r/MensRights26/07/26 08:28 PM
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He literally said lesbians don’t get attacked or bullied 🙄🙄 And have yall heard of corrective rape??
/r/MensRights26/07/26 03:10 AM
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If he’s wrong about something so major and easily verifiable then I’m wondering if there’s even “baby” in this bathwater.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 01:29 AM
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Brutal 😢 I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:13 AM
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The second paragraph just invalidates you. There are literally several recent cases of lesbian couples being attacked in public, I remember cases in the UK and Canada.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 01:55 AM
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I don’t think you get my point, you’re really not refuting my point if that was your intention? Yes, there are studies proving that there are some essential characteristics in feminine beauty, such as waist-to-hip ratio (curves), cues of health, youth, and fertility, symmetry, etc, but anything more specific than that is cultural, and absolutely not particular to any race, as he and others ignorantly imply. This is why redpillers like the original responder are flat earth level reality deniers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:38 PM
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It definitively is common among men and idk why yall pretend otherwise. For centuries Chinese men fetishized mutilated feet and to this day many cultures, mostly African or Arabic or South Asian, promote mutilated genitals. And suddenly in Western culture, goth girls have become trendy when alternative subcultures were shunned and looked at as school shooter incubators. It’s funny you say that, my best friend (also black) does prefer Asian men, and I have met Asian men who prefer black women. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:10 AM
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Social clout influences sexual attraction, duh. Both for women and for men. You’re pointing to certain traits being universally preferred, which is true, but what’s also true is that cultural context creates preferences that otherwise wouldn’t exist. People also aren’t straightforward when it comes to “sexual dimorphism”, people don’t necessarily always prefer the most dimorphic features.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:32 PM
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Red pilled about the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:45 PM
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The word “barely” is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:41 PM
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Both are ridiculous to say that “attraction is non negotiable”. As the OP said, obviously that can’t be true or else beauty standards wouldn’t change at all, they’ve changed several times during my young lifetime. The blue pill women are wrong in moralizing their attraction and the red pill men are equally wrong in naturalizing theirs, the data supports neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:28 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:19 PM
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🙄 Why? The thing about abortion is that it’s a problem that solves itself. If women like this don’t want a male baby, using the state to force one on them won’t change their minds and will lead to the child growing up resented and unwanted. You’re just advocating for more invasive government bureaucracies over something that might not even be that common. How often do you think sex selective abortion against males even happens and why would you bother making policy over a scenario that is likely…
/r/MensRights22/07/26 06:11 PM
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If the women are bitter bc women make passes for ugly guys, then yeah same applies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:33 AM
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Is this rhetorical? Idk what this has to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:50 AM
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Is this what you see in the gay scene
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:19 AM
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Even marginally above average? I struggle to believe that. Also why be bitter at the women at all? It’s not their fault that they’re not held to standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:00 AM
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You can choose to make yourself ugly any time you want if it’s that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:50 AM
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Lmfaooo Anglerfishmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:09 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 AM
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Hahaha I feel pointed at. I’ve been talking to someone overseas on instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:55 AM
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Jeez yall are getting bogged down with semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:00 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:46 AM
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Why completely end the friendship? You can just take a break to work through your feelings. That’s what I do (I’ve been in this situation before)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:37 AM
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All preferences should be fair game to criticize
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:04 PM
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“(adult)” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:13 PM
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Tell your mate to hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:09 PM
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Yeah I think women have gotten comparably rude about short men. Idk about bald men though, they seem to be mostly just ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:08 PM
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Yeah I definitely notice this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:06 PM
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lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:27 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:11 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:10 PM
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Actually plenty of men make those memes. Women don’t even care about dick size as much as men do and studies show that women prefer only slightly above average.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 05:44 AM
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Girl get Ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:37 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:37 AM
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Self reported data is sus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:50 AM
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🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:40 PM
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Man I wish I knew :( I reliably finish from masturbation but have never gotten there during sex so far. I don’t blame them bc all but one of them did try, I think I have a mental blockage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:36 AM
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Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:28 PM
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I’m glad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:23 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 PM
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Being able to have pleasurable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:32 PM
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So you admit to being ignorant about gay culture. I didn’t address your “point” bc you’re virtually just admitting to being unknowledgeable with nothing to back your claim up. What’s asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 08:11 PM
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Ofc most men don’t use the term roast beef, just as most women don’t talk about dicks. They’re examples. It sounds like you’re just pulling shit out of your ass about gays and lesbians, have you ever interacted with the LGBT Community at all?? You’re doing mental gymnastics to avoid the obvious conclusion. Yes gay guys absolutely are bullied by other men for their bodies, they talk about this stuff all the time, Grindr is notorious for “no fats no fems no [insert race here]”. You don’t have to t…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 07:13 PM
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> If you will argue men talking to men is also wrong then women say similarly cruel things about penis size and height to other women in group convos. You seem to be mistaken. Men say these things publicly, that’s the problem. If they could keep it in their group chat that would be nice. It seems like you’re doing a whataboutism, I don’t deny women do equivalent chatter with dick size and height, you’re just capping and trying to make men innocent of theirs. You have no evidence either. You know…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:02 PM
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In my and a lot of women’s experience guys use their preference to body shame. Idk why you’re using clothes as an example for BODY shaming. For instance it’s not women making “roast beef” memes.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 05:27 PM
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Yes 😂
/r/MensRights05/07/26 07:54 PM
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Richard Ramirez: got a wife while on death row
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:57 PM
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Lmfao I’m neither. I just use my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:41 PM
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Based
/r/MensRights01/07/26 07:21 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:01 AM
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I left it here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:53 AM
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This doesn’t just apply to “objective” ugliness or the bottom percentiles, many traits deemed less desirable are constantly picked apart: age (ofc), weight, boob size, hair length, hair color, skin tone, etc. That’s why plenty of average or even attractive women have insecurities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:17 PM
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> My personality has never been suited for complete invisibility. I simply do not see a spotlight as negative. Ok, different personalities. I don’t care to have a spotlight. My problem here is that “undesirable” women actually aren’t invisible, they’re hypervisible in a negative rather than positive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:49 PM
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Then what happens when you get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:22 PM
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OP said that women are specifically jealous of men’s position wrt looks so women not taking on another male role is at best tangential to the point. It’s not a package deal, women approaching more wouldn’t somehow stop men from being so visual. I also have to say, there does appear to be evidence suggesting that men are more likely to engage in placeholder dating. And women are definitely less likely to settle. So yeah, this is still kind of gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:10 PM
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And what about my perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:37 PM
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My point is that even if women did move into men’s role here, it wouldn’t change anything that OP is talking about, so this isn’t really relevant. Personally I like the agency that comes with approaching but I’ve come to understand why a lot of women avoid it like the plague. Men being less selective means it’s easy to get used as a placeholder if he doesn’t actually want something serious or you’re not his type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:20 PM
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You were miserable when you were ugly though. What if you weren’t able to get out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:54 PM
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Why? Missing out on the attention of randos is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:27 AM
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> Men’s lust can be bothersome, but I don’t want to be seen as undesirable. I WAS an undesirable woman once. It’s not a good experience. Yeah that’s kind of the point OP seems to be getting at. This is the result of the pressure put on women’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:25 AM
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I do pursue people I’m attracted to and all of what OP says still stands. It doesn’t give me some sort of cloak of invisibility or exempt me from the negative attention or appearance based scrutiny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:22 AM
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Interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:14 AM
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Wow. This is some hot garbage. 😬 There should be gender neutral services across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:02 AM
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I really don’t want to be invalidating, I’ve just read this several times and I’m wondering how this could count as SA even under a gender neutral framework. Just asking isn’t coercion. Did this person know you were in a state of shock?
/r/MensRights29/06/26 03:32 AM
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Huhhh
/r/MensRights28/06/26 05:49 AM
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Islam itself is literally radical right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:27 AM
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The Nazis had a draft too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:20 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:37 AM
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That’s great for you then. Sadly, a lot of the Manosphere doesn’t get the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:49 AM
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I’ll accept that men have it harder when they stop attempting to punch down on women deemed less desirable (fat women, single moms, tattooed women, etc). Pick a lane to drive in fellas, can’t victimize yourselves while simultaneously looking down on any woman. But yes, I think women are “privileged” in dating by virtue of the simple fact that we don’t need it as much as men do, so we have the ultimate trump card of just opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:05 AM
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Good point. The draft is illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:37 AM
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Men sure as hell still distinguish between women according to how “cute” they find them though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:12 PM
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Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:54 PM
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Good point
/r/MensRights25/06/26 02:07 AM
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Youth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:24 PM
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Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:21 AM
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Did she commit violence against anyone?
/r/MensRights23/06/26 01:14 AM
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> Advocating against policies that would help sex workers have a safer, better experience helps whom, exactly? Blanket bans do nothing to fix serious issues with sex work, and sex work won't go away just because some people think it's yucky. So I think SWERFs cause a lot of damage to other women (and men, obviously) because of their persona hangups. It sounds like you haven’t done a shred of research on the policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:23 PM
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> The issue with SWERFs is that they often actively dismiss why women get into sex work and to me, it becomes more about being anti-sex work then looking at why such an industry exists, and what conditions drives one to do sex work. With all due respect homie you sound ignorant. The biggest critics of “sex work” are the women who survive it, you can listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:21 PM
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I can relate with regards to another area 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:31 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:04 PM
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Ruthless 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:56 PM
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Physical strength. Risk taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:52 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:45 AM
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My favorite stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:42 AM
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Immigration…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:37 AM
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Agreed, this is a realization I’ve recently come to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:34 AM
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You criticize “choice feminism” but attack “SWERFs”, which is ridiculous and hypocritical. If you can criticize tradwife LARPers there’s no reason why sex work isn’t fair game for scrutiny 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:30 AM
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That’s a modern construct though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:48 PM
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Right here on this sub, when I suggested that men make friends with each other, I got told that it’s about romantic loneliness and no amount of platonic friends will help. But then I also see other guys saying it has nothing to do with women and is about general social alienation. I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:44 PM
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lol, you stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:41 AM
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Wait I get mixed messages about the male loneliness epidemic, some guys swear it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:08 AM
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What are the issues and struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:29 AM
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2024 isn’t “recent” imo. But thanks, I’ll take a look
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:38 PM
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Reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:22 PM
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What was that case? I haven’t heard of it 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:20 PM
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Can you be more specific? What should women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:12 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:46 PM
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Sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:42 PM
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I agree
/r/MensRights18/06/26 01:30 AM
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👀 DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:39 AM
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Technically not mutually exclusive. Men scream from the rooftops about how fucking and dating are different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:52 PM
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Tell me when that happens and what you know about friendships between women and gay men
/r/MensRights15/06/26 01:53 PM
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> The study claiming lesbian dv rates where 70% is only because that study counted possible former male partners. So I point them to more r3cent studies that controlled for that variable by asking about same sex partners only with similar results. Where? I’ve asked AI and got nothing
/r/MensRights15/06/26 05:13 AM
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I don’t get responses like this. You can’t not “give anything” in a friendship, which is a two-way street by definition.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 04:40 AM
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🫨😮
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:46 AM
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Weee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:58 PM
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I wouldn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:37 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:21 PM
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Why do you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:09 PM
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🤦🏾‍♀️ These girls are so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:42 PM
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Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:15 AM
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Why’d you want to be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:10 AM
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A mathematician
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:53 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:37 AM
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Yeah absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:35 AM
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What if he’s exclusively interested in topping? I don’t get how simply being attracted to men or engaging in any gay sex act is incompatible with dominance and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:33 AM
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Lmfaooo tell em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:16 AM
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It clearly says that bisexual women are victimized the most, and bisexual women mainly date men 🙄 But this is irrelevant to the point. You use queer victims of DV as “evidence” that women don’t actually support queer people, so surely this same logic applies to men being silent about gay men.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 02:15 AM
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Oh and to add, are you one of those guys who doesn’t understand why unsolicited dick pics are wrong? 🙄
/r/MensRights11/06/26 06:46 PM
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Again, where is your source for these claims?
/r/MensRights11/06/26 06:44 PM
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Why do you not understand the difference between making an “attempt” and being inappropriately sexual? Other people aren’t obligated to respond positively to every expression of your sexuality. I even said that this same thing applies to WLW yet you have to pretend to ignore that part to keep your narrative intact.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 07:48 PM
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> I can make an educated guess about your experiences, based on your type of response and the fact that most women would similarly dismiss being cat called. It's not even uncommon to see women laugh off being grabbed by another woman and then claim they've never been touched inappropriately by other women. Except I said that I’ve actually experienced unwanted advances from another woman so your “educated guess” is irrelevant. You can’t make an “educated guess” about something I’ve actually exper…
/r/MensRights10/06/26 02:18 AM
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> You have probably been catcalled by women before but, because it came from women, you likely never made note of it or registered it as catcalling/offensive. You most likely just interpreted it as a compliment and moved on. No, how tf are you going to tell me about my own experience? I already said that I was “virtually catcalled” by a woman once and was very uncomfortable. > Of course it is. There is no reason to have a negative reaction to unsolicited advances, You cropped out the important w…
/r/MensRights09/06/26 05:06 PM
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> You know this because if another woman or a child catcalled you, you would laugh or take it in stride. Maybe even enjoy a compliment from it. You wouldn't have any kind of knee jerk reaction to be offended, or to take it as a threat. How do you know that? Do you even know what catcalling is? I’ve never been catcalled by another woman irl, but one time I was a bit sexually harassed by another woman online and I found it uncomfortable as hell. She kept making flirty comments after I said I wasn’…
/r/MensRights08/06/26 08:01 PM
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??? Ofc a straight man would see it as disrespectful to be catcalled by another man. Smfh “heterophobic” 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/MensRights08/06/26 06:12 AM
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Ohio RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:32 AM
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Yeehaw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:31 AM
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What a dumb response, this isn’t a source. You could turn this logic right back around and ask where’s the support for gay male victims of IPV, yall clearly only want to use lesbian victims as a gotcha.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 09:37 PM
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Prefer being muscular? Won’t that get in the way of passing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:08 PM
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> A compelling piece of evidence is that women do not show similar support towards lesbians. The support for the gay community is exclusively towards gay men. Where’s the source for this
/r/MensRights06/06/26 05:39 PM
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Idk, bisexuals still mostly settle with the opposite sex. Bisexual men in particular seem to not want anything deeper with men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:12 PM
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Woah you live in the Middle East
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:21 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:16 PM
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You should get into content creation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:50 PM
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Damn. You tried to offer him some sympathy and solidarity and he swatted it away. You just can’t with people like this. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:42 PM
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Are you on testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:36 PM
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🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:22 PM
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Sounds like we see eye to eye. I like neither side too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:18 PM
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I’m attracted to masculinity through and through. But I think I’m getting attached to a fem girl for once
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:14 PM
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Then if there’s no other data it can neither confirm nor refute social constructionism by itself. In order to declare something a human universal you need to provide proof of it existing across time and space. What on Earth makes you think that the behavior of European queens in the modern era applies to everyone from Amazonian tribes to African kingdoms? It is a fact that “WEIRD” culture and psychology is very unique and doesn’t provide a representative sample of the entire world. It could very…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 12:57 AM
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Tell me more! Also matrilineal doesn’t necessarily mean matriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:18 PM
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Homo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:32 PM
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there are no male equivalents of TERFs. Perhaps “TEHMs”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:36 AM
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Which country, I’m curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:30 AM
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8 inches 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:26 AM
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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:22 AM
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Based and bi pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:20 AM
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Hahahhahaha like men adhere to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:45 AM
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Which ones
/r/MensRights29/05/26 08:07 PM
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A working paper by political scientists Oeindrila Dube, of the University of Chicago, and S. P. Harish, of McGill University, analyzed a selection of mostly European kings and queens who reigned between 1480 AD and 1913 which covered 193 rulers in 18 countries. A Daily Mail article says the 400 years of European history included female rulers such as Catherine the Great, who made Russia a waring nation in the 18th century, Britain's Elizabeth I, who defeated the Spanish Armada in 1588, and Isabe…
/r/MensRights29/05/26 07:53 PM
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I think that sounds insecure as hell regardless of gender. I don’t understand dating someone you can’t trust.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 03:25 PM
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Why do they want to date biphobic homophobic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:28 AM
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Wdym? Many people on this sub argue that the franchise was historically tied to military duty.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 10:36 PM
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I didn’t say yall are, I’m saying that women not being able to vote was historically justified with their lack of military duty. So why didn’t that apply to disabled men?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 04:35 PM
1

That’s not an answer, can you please explain how? If women’s disenfranchisement was justified by them not having to risk their lives on battlefields then why were men who couldn’t do that not also stripped of their voting rights?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:42 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:16 PM
0

Wym
/r/MensRights26/05/26 03:14 PM
1

Daaaaaamn. Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:24 AM
-4

> The 'unfit for service' is interesting, it implies that a man's value is tied up with the provider role. Doesn’t this sub argue that men’s right to vote came with the responsibility of military service? If that’s the logic then yeah why were disabled men allowed to vote?
/r/MensRights25/05/26 07:33 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:32 AM
1

Yes Bruh I can’t imagine caring about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:27 AM
1

Yeahh. If straight men will stick their penises in pieces of plastic shaped like a human female, why not a Y-chromosome haver shaped like a human female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:12 AM
1

I can believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:55 PM
1

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:40 PM
2

Then what do you propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:42 PM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:50 AM
7

Lol real 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:17 PM
-9

Do you want people to be in an echo chamber?
/r/MensRights18/05/26 08:13 PM
1

Am I in your country?
/r/MensRights18/05/26 08:08 PM
0

> Ok, to be clear I'm not saying that women don't have specific issues, I'm saying they are not silenced the same way as men for advocating for themselves Oh no, we absolutely get silenced in other ways. > and don't get attacked if they say that they would much rather be born the opposite sex. Weird cutoff. Taylor Swift got a lot of flak for that song she made about being a man. > And let's be honest, the overwhelming majority of women would not want to trade their issues for being forced into t…
/r/MensRights18/05/26 01:01 AM
0

> I think it is related to the point that women's issues get taken seriously and that Most of what OP mentioned is interpersonal and has nothing to do systemic anything. > you're still insanely prviliged for being female. This is insanely presumptuous and condescending. Women have our own struggles and you’re disregarding them in a way I’m sure you complain about being done to you. I lurk here to understand different perspectives and it doesn’t sound like you return a shred of empathy. > You may…
/r/MensRights16/05/26 09:39 PM
0

None of this has anything to do with this post. You’re shifting the goalposts wildly.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 08:40 PM
0

And where’s my student fund from university? Are you implying that all women are your sister?
/r/MensRights16/05/26 06:42 PM
5

No, men will also moralize their own sexual selection and make up these self-righteous justifications for why they don’t prefer certain groups of women. Like tattooed women for example. Some will just admit they find that look ugly but others will make up shit about “daddy issues” and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:17 PM
1

Nah, men absolutely do moralize sexual selection too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:20 PM
3

Good point. Maybe the second point is believed due to men’s perspective being historically centered?
/r/MensRights15/05/26 11:38 PM
2

> Waking up to people complimenting you, checking on you, caring about your feelings, wanting to protect you, making you feel valued just for existing… it sounds nice. None of this comes free with having a vagina. That’s my point. > Being able to cry without being judged, being comforted instead of told to “man up,” being loved for who you are and not only for what you can provide. Women are not loved for “who we are” either. > Women should be thankful for the love, emotional support, and kindne…
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:42 PM
-1

If I said that men are all privileged and powerful, surely you’d say that’s not the average man right? You’re literally doing the exact same thing here
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:22 PM
1

No, bc the OP never established any basis for what he’s saying. I understand that I’m an outlier on a lot of things but I’m pretty sure that the average woman doesn’t have people flocking to her just for existing.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 04:50 PM
-1

As a female lurker, comments like these seem so tonedeaf and ignorant. I’m neurodivergent with a history of mental illness, I was socially isolated for years and had to put in effort to make friends. Nobody went out of their way for me except for my mom. Being black and alternative also gets me a fair bit of harassment and hatred from men who feel the need to wax about how undesirable they find me. Smfh.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 06:06 AM
-4

I have pointed out how aggressive the British Empire was during the Victorian Age to be told "it was a Patriarchy." Like ... the ruler is literally a woman. Bad retort. Obama was black.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 05:24 AM
2

Why don’t you want to change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:27 PM
18

Yeah, neither should be moralized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:51 AM
2

Who are they married to? Girls their age or grown women? Genuine question, this link didn’t specify
/r/MensRights12/05/26 01:32 AM
1

Good theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:07 AM
0

How are women stopping your friend from experimenting? It’s a free country.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 06:16 AM
-1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:40 AM
3

How old are you? I think I was around for the tail end of this era.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:38 AM
1

What’s the racial slur…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:51 PM
1

[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:02 PM
3

lol deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:44 PM
1

smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:27 PM
1

🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:21 PM
6

Geez. Where did you grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:33 AM
0

🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:28 AM
11

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:21 AM
-1

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:25 PM
3

Indeed. It fascinates me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:08 AM
3

I also consider myself straight but do bang dudes every now and then lol ??? Did testosterone turn you bi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:52 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:49 PM
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Where did I say people want to be celibate? I said that people’s genetic quality doesn’t hinge on who wants to fuck them. Me or most women not wanting those qualities isn’t an objective measure. As some of the pillers here will tell you, some women gladly fuck gangsters and psychopaths. Andrew Tate is bald, allegedly has a small dick (lol thanks Greta Thunberg), yet somehow has a harem of women and a brood of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:05 PM
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Sure, but all of life isn’t dating. Half of men have below average dick size and I’m pretty sure most men go bald eventually, they can’t all be “faulty” without that word becoming meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:47 PM
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Sure, but same could be said about many other traits. Whether or not genes are “faulty” has nothing to do with how romantically desirable they make people. Short men don’t have “faulty genes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:36 PM
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On what basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:32 PM
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Why are you implying that autistic people have “faulty genes”??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:23 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:53 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:50 PM
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True, but incomplete. Autistic men also just find it harder to perform male gender roles. Society could do with being more tolerant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:44 PM
1

Bruh it’s only you who brought “evil” into this. Women aren’t above this behavior either, it’s just ridiculous for men to pretend as if they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:05 PM
3

Pretty much. A guy I was talking to basically said he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to women who look like me bc it would ruin his “street cred”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:04 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:02 PM
4

My experiences suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:56 PM
3

Geez. I could imagine. I maybe dabbled a bit and I’m so glad I didn’t have to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:38 PM
3

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:29 PM
6

No, yall do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:28 PM
8

Hahahaha no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:27 PM
1

So why are you even in this sub? By this logic, you don’t believe men are oppressed?
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:21 PM
1

Sneako is this your burner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:57 PM
1

That’s an interesting mix
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:42 PM
3

Lizzo got clowned to infinity when those allegations against her came out
/r/MensRights14/04/26 01:06 PM
2

So he’s definitely autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:05 PM
1

The funny thing is I get called a “terf” but I’ve never had a problem with men dating trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:52 PM
1

Yeah that’s fucking gross and in the case of STIs should probably be a criminal offense. Starting a relationship on a lie is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:13 AM
1

I know what an analogy is, and this one sucks because it doesn’t represent what a relationship is. I’m not an inanimate object or a hustler optimizing for material gain. I don’t want to perform or put on a show for my most intimate connection. You’re free to disagree if you’ve found someone compatible with your approach, I don’t need your two cents disparaging my way by claiming I’m “limiting myself” by seeking someone I’m compatible with. Being practical in no way precludes enjoying the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:22 AM
2

Yup, fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:36 AM
1

I don’t think it’s my own personal interest to be with someone incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:33 AM
0

I’m not a car. People aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:24 AM
2

Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:20 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:18 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:10 AM
-1

Oh I see I’m level 1 and would love a fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:55 AM
-1

Damn why, did you have bad experiences with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:05 AM
1

Autistic women 🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:04 AM
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I’ll just have to repeat This seems like typical male solipsism and admitting that only “hot” women exist to you. Assuming that I must be “dishonest” is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:33 AM
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I don’t understand your “refutation” bc I’m not familiar with picking my friends based on how “hot” they are. This seems like typical male solipsism and admitting that only “hot” women exist to you. Assuming that I must be “dishonest” is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:18 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:18 PM
0

And often times there literally just fake, think about the avg male friend group, usaully a bunch of guys all shapes and sizes, whereas its not hard to find women where there all hot and that's becuase they dont actually like each other they just decided to be nice to each other and act like friends becuase they wanted to form a group of hot girls. This is a new one 🙄 I’m trying to follow the “logic” here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:16 PM
0

Shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:09 AM
0

Lmfao, yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:52 AM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:44 AM
1

Dang, your friend is cockblocking 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:28 AM
1

Who
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:26 AM
1

Do you also turn down straight men who do anal with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:24 AM
2

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 AM
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She’s right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:13 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:13 AM
9

Good point. That’s stupid too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:45 PM
0

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:41 PM
2

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:17 PM
0

As a black man this one gets to me so much because in the span of I'd say 2 years (especially on tiktok) black women (and pandering black men) have basically gave way to every other race to shit on black men. Reversal. It is the other way around and literally has been for decades if not centuries by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:44 AM
1

Sperg4Sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:15 AM
1

Lmfaooo I prefer tops
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:33 AM
3

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:22 AM
10

They wanna be gay basically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:18 AM
2

Goddamn Ok I’ll go through this one by one but you could’ve just told me the specific things you’re measuring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:16 AM
1

But what stats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:51 PM
2

lol Why the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:08 PM
7

Same 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:34 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:46 AM
2

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:48 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:40 AM
1

If a man says he is put off by a woman for some trait tied to prejudice, people are willing to examine the bias behind it. When women do it to bi men, suddenly everyone gets very nervous about calling it what it is. I agree with your general point, I just wanted to say that, as a black woman, no to this. It’s well documented that men are put off by dark skin and it regularly gets defended as “preference” or somehow natural or innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:41 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:24 AM
1

Do you like Scrabble? I’ve been playing it online with a newer guy friend of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:41 AM
2

Woah. Certified unc status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:38 AM
1

🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:29 AM
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Yeah, it’s odd to date someone you see as bigoted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:56 AM
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I would not mind dating a transphobic woman. i cannot imagine it leading to "constant conflict and hurt feelings". ???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:54 AM
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What about Megan Fox with a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:25 AM
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What this has to do with anything I said, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:30 PM
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You’re shifting the goalposts. You tried to deflect to muh white men at first. They very much all work together to oppress women, look at that photo with Clavicular, Myron Gaines, Nick Fuentes, the Tates, Sneako, and whoever tf else. Only difference is that “”bipoc men”” have been able to use their skin color as a shield for far too long, and you’re somehow claiming it’s the opposite. That Netflix show Adolescence was based on a true story, except the actual killer was black and his race just so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:37 AM
3

Upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:22 AM
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Except it’s literally a fact that the manosphere is disproportionately non-white. What reality are you living in? This fact isn’t talked about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:22 AM
-1

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:20 AM
3

The Meeks shall inherit the Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:20 AM
1

Agreed 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:16 AM
2

It’s pretty disrespectful both to bi women and lesbians to mislabel yourself like that, sexual orientation is based on attraction not action. There are terms specifically for bi women who only date women, such as febfem (see r/febwomen) and violet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:57 PM
2

Oh. Then why does it say lesbian in your bio
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:41 PM
2

If you only date women how would you find a trans guy attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:32 PM
2

Maybe and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:31 PM
2

How would you hook up with a trans guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:24 PM
8

A detransitioned man you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:14 PM
9

Geez. I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:00 AM
2

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:11 AM
8

Girl. I was understanding until the “forgive infidelity” part. 😐
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/26 08:49 AM
5

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:12 AM
2

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:05 AM
2

“there is no male equivalent of size” Try all of human history 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:01 AM
1

Not really? I’m iffy on this, idk if I’d find a trans body attractive bc of the genitals not “matching”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:17 AM
1

But the majority of hate crimers are men. It’s as though men revolve life around getting laid and therefore see willingness to fuck someone as a measure of decency, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:55 AM
0

I’m 6’3, I work out, I play guitar, sing, compose music, make about 140k, live in my own home, and sometimes I’m even a little bit funny. Allow me to shoot my shot. What music do you compose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:18 PM
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The amount of men in their DMs on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:39 PM
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Andrew Tate disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:37 PM
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Thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:33 PM
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Men ultimately don't give a flying fuck about what other men think. We do not police or manipulate each other like women do. We couldn't give less of a fuck about what other dudes think or "judge." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's actually what women envy about us, how we function completely independently from whatever the fuck "society says." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah no. Just a few weeks ago a RW male mutual I had been chatting with for months straight up told me that he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:24 PM
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This statement is so deeply ignorant of human nature. Guys such as yourself are the social science equivalent of Flat Earthers and Creationists. Ofc men’s sexualities are also influenced by social pressures, every aspect of life is. Quite frankly, the need for certain men to deny and pretend to be somehow above it, unlike those hive-minded women, is so ridiculous and arrogant. Ironically, acting like you are immune to propaganda only makes you even more susceptible to it bc you will unquestionin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:08 PM
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OP is a trans woman, that’s more than enough explanation. A lot more men would openly date trans women if not for the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:57 PM
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Yeah, but the difference is men like to act like they’re above it and such sigma alpha individualists compared to those sheep-brained herd-minded women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:50 PM
1

What would benevolent homophobia look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:32 AM
2

Who knew I needed to get paid for my time and companionship in order to be treated like a person of value by men. Yeah that’s fucking abysmal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:05 PM
8

Bruh That is so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:44 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:22 PM
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You: MEN do this also Indeed, because your “example” of women’s behavior doesn’t apply. You seem ignorant and aggressive. Looking for a reason to be argumentative. Obviously you’re the one who’s ignorant if you can’t read “Debate” in this sub name. From your history I can tell you’re unhappy with yourself and don’t know how to get men attention. It’s highly probably your bad attitude. Hopes this helps you. Good luck. Digging in someone’s history is a logical fallacy because that’s actually irrel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:34 PM
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I’m not “derailing”, I’m addressing what YOU said: Women will shame you for anything they feel is discriminatory in your dating choices. Chief, this entire subreddit and more is men complaining about women’s preferences being unfair. It is a gendered issue. Are women not a gender now? That specific comment absolutely is not gendered. Many women put pressure on each other to think like them. Look at you. Want me to fall in line with your mentality. Bye. Go find an appropriate topic for your issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:13 AM
1

You’re saying women do support each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:36 PM
0

You’re gendering something that arguably isn’t even exclusively female, which is something you have in common with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:49 PM
-1

Women will shame you for anything they feel is discriminatory in your dating choices. Literally your own words
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:36 PM
1

And men don’t shame women’s standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:18 AM
3

Yeah no, she’s stupid and snakey. I don’t get building a relationship on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:59 AM
8

But I thought you red pillers say that women all hate each other, choose a script and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:43 AM
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I think men really don’t like women having self worth in their own beauty, because they want the power to be able to give and take away whether they think you’re beautiful or not. Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:00 PM
-1

Hey
/r/MensRights27/02/26 03:15 AM
0

I know better, my mother was a monster. I also don't immediately assume the worst about men, my father was too gentle and sweet for his own good. That explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:59 AM
1

Still genuinely curious to hear how I uphold conservatism
/r/MensRights21/02/26 01:03 AM
1

This might be a crazy concept but, I lurk on many different communities so that I can understand issues that don’t directly affect me. I’m still waiting to hear how I uphold conservatism though.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 02:57 PM
2

Who is “you all”? How would you know that I, a complete stranger, “uphold conservatism”? I wasn’t even asking you to feel bad, I was inviting you to reflect on men’s hypocrisy, and you are only further proving my point. You rant and complain about women discriminating against you only to turn around and make assumptions treating me as a member of a hivemind.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 01:44 PM
1

LMFAO the absolute hypocrisy of “men’s rights” displaying such racist misogyny. Apply the same logic to the “Brothas” and don’t ever complain about police brutality then. Don’t comment complaining about “ableism” and “virtue signaling” then. Always amazing how people can complain about bigotry then turn around to enact it against others with no sense of self-awareness. Also this reply makes no sense considering that you’re directly contradicting your original comment, pick one narrative and stic…
/r/MensRights20/02/26 11:59 AM
2

Completely different from most guys who could care less what other men think of any particular woman or race of women, if she's hott & consenting that's usually all that matters to us... As a black woman this is literally false. Just last week a guy told me that he wouldn’t publicly express attraction to black women bc it would ruin his “street cred”
/r/MensRights19/02/26 08:27 AM
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Ignorant. Single motherhood isn’t “matriarchy”, maybe go look at the actual anthropological definition of these things and the few societies they count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:42 AM
3

Second.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:26 AM
3

OLD is ass, I did try it off and on before, and I have gone to local shows. At this point I’m just hoping to meet someone “organically” through my social media presence or friend network, that’s how it worked last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:11 AM
1

I’m 100lb, 5’1, and just turned 23. Chronically single bc my standards are very specific. First and foremost, he has to also be autistic and a metalhead, those are the types of people I relate to most and get along with best. He can’t be fat, and gets bonus points for going to the gym. I prefer at least average height but it’s not a requirement. I’m a size queen so I’d ideally like one of the three sixes. Ideally college educated, I think I’d have more in common with that crowd, but I’m fine wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:32 AM
1

Rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:06 PM
1

That doesn’t explain why they love dark skinned asian women. They don’t, this is actually so fucking ignorant, colorism is a MASSIVE problem in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:39 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:38 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 PM
1

Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:32 PM
1

It’s like Lauren Sanchez meeting Leo DiCaprio, edition 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:16 PM
0

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:36 AM
2

They still live in a society. There’s more to life than just dating. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:32 PM
2

😐 This is why, as an autistic woman, I’ve never been able to understand or relate to neurodivergent women who get along “better” with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:32 PM
3

Edit to add: you aren’t fucking purple pill if you’re a transphobe I’ve never been aware of this criteria. You’re trying to gatekeep a damn pill according to your own self-righteousness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:30 PM
1

But I also know that he has not felt emotionally fulfilled with men at all and I’m able to give him that. I see this a lot among bisexual men and I find it fascinating. Why do you think that is? Is it just that men aren’t socialized to be emotionally available?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:09 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:18 PM
1

I want a traditional relationship 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:14 PM
1

I can also orgasm from PIV with almost any guy. I’m just saying that a lot of women don’t. 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:12 PM
1

I’m fine with bi dudes but I’d feel insecure dating one who prefers men. How do you cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:09 PM
1

Omg, I did not need that visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:05 PM
1

Sighhh My day will come
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:35 PM
1

But you dated her 🧐 so you’re part of the problem by tolerating her beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:43 PM
2

I agree! I don’t really like the playing dumb about biphobia on this thread. Maybe I was just in a kweer lefty bubble but it was a bit of a culture shock to me to realize just how repelled even progressive women who identify as bisexual themselves are by bisexual men. My own best friend was shocked when I told her that I would date bisexual men and have in the past, she said, “you wouldn’t look at him differently?” In my experience, bisexual men tend to have the traits I value and prefer — openn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:41 PM
2

No, men regularly defend their prejudices against dark-skinned women as “preferences”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:06 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:23 PM
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Called out? The Tates are literally still free
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:30 AM
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CHANG LONGWANG 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:15 AM
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Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:09 AM
3

unless they in the close inner circle. There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:03 PM
3

Of course it does 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:40 PM
1

Did she ever praise dressing skimpy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:27 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:22 PM
1

You’re gonna love Heated Rivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:02 PM
7

The problem is, we all suffer the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:56 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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Obese, no, that’s a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:10 PM
1

You just watch gay male porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:31 AM
1

That’s a crazy visual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:55 AM
2

Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:08 PM
1

That does sound hot. Was he on top?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:01 AM
0

Yes actually. Sympathy, though, is another thing, because I don’t feel like men have it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:18 AM
1

Hmm well, I wait until the convo turns to sexting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:44 AM
2

lol I just watched and then read Heated Rivalry yesterday, I don’t have a habit of smutty media but really liked the spice scenes, esp in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:31 AM
2

lol girl let me tell you the story. A couple summers ago I had a really unfulfilling hookup with a guy I was talking to off of Tinder, so I DMed him on Instagram and explained to him what he did wrong (no foreplay, no pussy eating, etc) and I shit you not, this guy left me on read and never contacted me again 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 AM
1

Yeah…? Idk why this is so unbelievable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:04 PM
12

I said up there, I do straight up ask a guy for his size, with pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:50 AM
7

No LMFAO 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:48 AM
12

I generally don’t do hookups, and I almost certainly wouldn’t do a hookup with that guy in the first place. If I’m just hooking up then all of my physical preferences have to be met.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:09 AM
2

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:31 AM
17

I’m a size queen and don’t have to “hope”, I always explicitly ask for measurements and pics prior to taking things further lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:23 AM
3

Lord have mercy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:28 PM
3

Similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:00 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:37 AM
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Then why were there laws compelling this arrangement? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:50 PM
4

The victim’s family should be able to take the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:42 PM
0

Damn really lol? Role reversal in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:54 AM
1

I made my very first public, non-anon social media accounts like a year and a half ago and yeah, me being black and alternative gives certain fellas a lot to say. It doesn’t exactly hurt my feelings and I’ll never change the way I present for anybody but damn, it’s annoying as hell how men act like it’s women’s job to make their dicks tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:20 PM
2

I’m fangirling a bit. You’re so cool, I value you, regardless of whatever douchey men have to say about your external meatsuit 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:57 PM
7

🙄 no, none of those issues go away with decriminalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:37 PM
4

Kevin Samuels has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:47 PM
1

Based department? I like the poutine province
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:20 AM
2

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:40 AM
1

Never said that autistic boys aren’t bullied. As someone else here said, the adults in their lives often give them a pass for problematic tendencies instead of setting them straight. Autistic girls are forced to mask precisely because they often go undiagnosed and don’t get to use autism as a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:37 AM
4

I concur. I’d like to add that a lot of male spergs have a chip on their shoulder from their own mistreatment and don’t take the initiative to work it out. A couple years back I crossed paths with a guy exactly like this and I ended up going to therapy cuz he never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:08 AM
1

Two things can be true at once. I think it’s that autistic males are coddled as young children only for their bubble to get bursted when they turn into socially stunted young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:57 AM
1

Clock it lmao 🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:16 AM
2

Why were you even with her in the first place? Sounds materialistic and bitchy.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 08:51 AM
1

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:02 AM
1

But Hannah Pearl Davis is literally a pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:58 AM
1

Oh ok. That sounds perfectly fine imo. Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:56 AM
2

Geeeeez. I really wish dating etiquette would be socially enforced on both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:36 AM
2

I’ve never understood why so many women are allergic to taking some initiative. Back when I tried dating apps I preferred Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:29 AM
2

That is my dream. I’m glad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:20 AM
2

L
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:32 AM
1

Dogs eat kibble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:59 AM
6

lol last year on Twitter a male (now former) mutual of mine asked me what I want in a guy and then crashed out insinuating I’m a gold digger when I said I’d prefer him to have a college degree (optional) and a non-deadend job. Point is, women get flak for our preferences too. This narrative that men get scrutinized for anything while women get off scot free is self-victimizing BS that men push to make themselves feel righteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:59 AM
1

they will bully, gossip, and backstab each other. This is just regular human behavior so how and why is it gendered? It’s not like men are all saints to each other, otherwise the Male Loneliness Epidemic wouldn’t be a thing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:15 AM
3

I’m autistic too 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:07 AM
2

For example, how many Black men do you see spewing the "We're not all a monolith!!!" line? Literally every time I log onto Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:02 AM
2

Hahahah real. (Meanwhile, science shows that’s a myth…)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:00 AM
5

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:56 AM
2

Women are simply less likely to criticize other women, even ones they know are wrong and bad people, simply because a lot of you have the "hold the fort!" mentality with regards to your gender. Another example of women being collectivist while men are individualist. But I thought women all hated each other. I see the same people making both of these arguments simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:46 AM
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Pffff. I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:35 AM
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lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:10 AM
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I can’t control my skin color
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:40 AM
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Did they ask you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:38 AM
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Lmfao exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:36 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:33 PM
13

I’m something of a femcel myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:42 AM
2

Why can’t you get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:11 AM
1

On the very first day of this year, in Brazil, a lesbian couple was murdered by one of the women’s ex-bfs. Kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:26 AM
1

💀 WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:15 AM
1

Bruh 12 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:54 AM
2

🤦🏾‍♀️ Source: 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:52 AM
1

Guya What’s this new alternative to Goya?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:46 AM
1

Damn. Could you elaborate? This is why I’m sperg4sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:49 AM
1

Fellow traveler
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:00 AM
1

Hahah you watch Rehab Room
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:46 AM
2

Wheat Waffles is that you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:52 PM
1

I’m ngl as a skinny woman reading statements like this always strikes me as humblebragging 😔 it’s probably/definitely mostly me projecting :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:28 AM
5

The one time I got sexually assaulted happened to be when I was looking grungy as fuck. Baggy sweats, uncombed hair, dots of toothpaste on my face (to dry out some pimples) 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:35 AM
0

💀 TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:18 AM
-1

— > I chuckle at y’all’s lil stories. I’m a black/mixed women - I have had MUCH WORSE said to me, fam. They’re solipsistic or just plain ignorant asf on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:17 AM
1

Interesting 🧐 It’s always sad to hear about colorism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:14 AM
1

I never seen a man totally diminish all qualities of a woman just cause of looks They do all the time. YOU not seeing something doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, you are literally being as solipsistic as redpillers claim women are. Also, the halo effect applies, men very much will diminish women’s qualities bc of how (un)attractive they find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:22 AM
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On god. As a black alt girlie it’s astonishing how many men feel entitled to comment on my appearance unprovoked. I often see men complaining about “not being allowed to have standards” but obviously that’s not true. I bet that 9/10 times it’s just men bitching about being called out for being an ass in expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:42 PM
3

No, you do, stop fucking gaslighting me about what I see with my own eyes. I’ve never been vapid or overly concerned with my looks, but men have to constantly bring their contentions there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:31 PM
6

Preach that good word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yep :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:52 PM
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Holy shit, sorry that happened. I can relate :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:47 PM
1

You seem to be misunderstanding. I agree that the halo/horn effect is real, and I called it wrong for women to act that way 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:41 PM
4

Actually yall do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:38 PM
1

There are like three times the amount of bi women as lesbians. I’ve never understood why bi women care at all about L4L, just date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:35 PM
1

What’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:18 PM
1

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:09 PM
16

That’s also wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:04 PM
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Lmfao ten ways from Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:03 PM
1

Sperg separatism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:40 PM
4

I think you’re pretty based for the most part but I have to say, your take here is kind of an L. It’s useless to tell individual men to stop tying their worth to casual sex when the go-to insults for men (incel, virgin, etc) are all about inability to access sex. It’s a cultural construct, not a just a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:34 PM
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It doesn’t have to be talked about in real life for it to be a thing 🙄 ofc people aren’t going to explicitly label their negative actions like that. It’s not “purely online” bc there actually is data pointing to placeholder dating and starter wives being things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:47 PM
1

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:27 AM
2

🫩💀🤣 Yes, as if “starter girlfriends” aren’t a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:19 AM
1

:o How old could you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:11 AM
1

It is possible to change your genes by means of meditation and sound. Uh heavy citation needed
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 01:07 PM
1

I’m coming at you with honesty. Men themselves are large upholders of the idea that male loneliness is about not getting laid. A couple of times I’ve earnestly suggested that lonely men start with making friends only to be told by a guy that all the male friends in the world won’t help a straight guy’s romantic loneliness. Men really devalue platonic connections and put pussy on a pedestal, I find it hard to grasp.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:16 AM
1

Couldn’t literally the exact same thing be said for socialism and Marxism too? That’s what right wingers constantly say.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:12 AM
1

Actually there are studies suggesting that unwanted celibacy leads to misogyny in men. Just saying
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/26 02:10 AM
1

That just means you’ve learned to mask. That’s actually a typical autistic experience.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 01:52 AM
1

I’m curious, what do you mean by ex-autistic
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 10:52 PM
-1

Poland
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 10:43 PM
4

Autists on suicide watch 😵
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:06 PM
1

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:02 PM
3

Aren’t you doing exactly what you’re complaining about women doing? I bet you think all women live life like Stacies 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:58 PM
1

Which is an absolutely pathetic stance likely coloured by your own bias. I love how my own personal experience is “pathetic” and “biased” bc it doesn’t fit your narrative. I never said women aren’t bigoted, I’m saying it’s a lot less compared to men, and there are studies backing up my own observations. For every bigoted woman I’ve seen a thousand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:46 PM
3

Femboys are “straight up men”, presentation =/= gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:22 PM
0

Then retvrn to Monke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
0

She’s talking about her own feelings tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
1

You should feel flattered!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:58 PM
-3

Probably, but men are even more cruel to those they don’t “like”, they act as if women they don’t find attractive are committing some sin just by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:49 PM
1

I honestly struggle to recall experiencing discrimination from women. I’ve experienced even more discrimination from men of my own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:37 PM
14

Yep, I know exactly what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:27 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:15 PM
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I like it when my love interests talk about their previous sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:05 PM
3

Both are controlling and toxic. Just be with someone you can trust
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:44 AM
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Lollll 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:00 AM
1

Male sexuality tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:19 AM
1

I’m pegging that man at the back of the bus 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:11 AM
5

Not really. For example, Ancient Greece and Rome only stigmatized taking the bottom role during gay sex, not same-sex desire itself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:07 AM
1

Ancient Greece/Rome has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:03 AM
1

Apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:59 PM
7

I am much more into alternative bisexual girls myself, they're hotter, sluttier and more fun and open-minded, and I value all of this. Based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:56 PM
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Well I’m also neurodivergent and introverted and often feel misunderstood, which is why I love to talk with those who get it. I also cherish my long distance internet friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:36 PM
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Interesting. I figured the Eurofolks would be more sexually open. I tell my closest friends everything (if they want to know) and I hear everything they want to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:20 PM
1

Hey you’re back It’s January again 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:02 PM
1

Thanks for poking a hole in the myth that men are “less emotional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:48 AM
1

Not all women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:39 AM
1

Hi fellow sperg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:37 AM
1

I do, I’m consistent 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:27 AM
1

Cardi B(lackpilled)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:22 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:10 AM
1

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:09 AM
3

I’m 5’1 as well and ngl this is exactly why I worry about having sons, it will be brutal if they inherit my height
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:56 AM
2

My point is that everyone hide something, no single person is exactly like another person. Those are two completely different presuppositions you’re tacking together. Not being like someone doesn’t mean hiding anything tf. No one said couples need to have everything in common 🙄 now you’re setting up strawmen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:16 AM
1

I agree, I like bi men bc they tend to be more progressive minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:03 PM
3

Except hiding (lying by omission or just straight up lying) is unsustainable and will be exposed eventually, which is something that doesn’t happen when your partner is actually aligned with you. Just take the L chief
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:36 PM
2

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:31 PM
4

🙄 Research shows that relationships between more similar people are more stable and successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:22 PM
1

I’m pretty sure this actually is just a gendered thing though, the replies from the other women here are making my point. And it makes perfect sense that would be true for men bc romantic relationships are the only acceptable emotional outlet for y’all. I don’t get how saying that in fewer words is “snarky” when it’s an accurate observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:53 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:46 PM
3

I’m confused at the dislikes and snark. I can’t relate to this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:32 AM
-2

Sounds like a guy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:02 AM
0

You seem like a cool dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:10 AM
0

I find that men often conflate having a preference with expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:34 AM
3

Woah autoandrophiles are real?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:25 AM
1

lol, radmascs 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:24 AM
8

I’m jealous 😿
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:21 AM
1

Anecdotes are not evidence. You don’t know this woman or any of the men who bought her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:31 AM
1

Yeah what a stupid and insensitive comment. As if underage boys even have the disposable income to pay for sex 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:43 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:29 AM
1

Right back at ya male genital
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:47 AM
2

No, her johns did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:35 AM
0

Calling a woman a bitch is misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:56 PM
1

Yes necessarily, by definition any prostitution of a minor is SEX TRAFFICKING due to them being incapable of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:52 PM
7

Bad example to use bro. The term “gold digger” exists just to describe women who seek men for money. What’s the equivalent insult for men liking women for superficial reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:45 PM
2

My god, these men are just disgusting. If she started hooking when she was a TEEN she’s literally a sex trafficking victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:01 PM
2

You’re not the only woman not dying on that hill, I had blankslatism beaten out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:49 AM
3

Deez nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:30 AM
1

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:30 AM
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We wuz builders n shiet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:22 AM
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Basedddd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:22 AM
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I agree It just will be a lot harder to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:03 AM
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Are you aromantic or traumatized
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:19 PM
1

But go on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:41 PM
1

The stolen valor is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:13 AM
1

Again, irrelevant. Also you’re being solipsistic, (average or below) men are not the only ones who have struggles or even the only ones treated poorly by the opposite sex. On a personal level, as a neurodivergent woman, I’ve struggled with reoccurring depression and suicidal ideation that has robbed me of many of my “best years” and could’ve left me dead from an antidepressant overdose. I also retain a level of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria from how I see women, especially those of my eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:23 AM
2

2) yep probably, but “lashing out in anger” in no way justifies or absolves them of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:57 PM
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A) I’m using the term literally lol. I identify as somewhat of a femcel B) Dang
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:55 PM
1

I’d have more in common with Eugene so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:40 AM
1

No, autism is just the biggest contributor to inceldom. In your case, go to the gym bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:32 AM
1

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:24 AM
2

Oh no, I could imagine :( How bad was the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:08 AM
1

Then how are you a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:02 AM
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You have absolutely no empirical evidence on “apology” And for every instance women don’t take accountability there’s a counterpoint. So no reason to make it gendered
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:00 AM
1

Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:38 AM
1

Consider that there are problems apart from not getting sex 🙄 You’re centering your male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:20 AM
2

And I see men dehumanizing women who aren’t their preference on the reg. Far more often probably 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:17 AM
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Is there anything that men do "better" than women do in interpersonal relationships? Absolutely. And, could any of those things that women are worse at be what men are trying to communicate? Lmao then men really do need to learn how to communicate bc this is a completely different topic than “accountability”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:47 AM
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Well you’re proving my point about misogyny. Who are you to diagnose what a “valid” reason to apologize is? If it were the other way around and men apologized more I know you’d be singing a different tune. Also, men have been saying for eons that they can’t help but harass or assault skimpily dressed women. Your point? Both sexes have equivalents
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:45 AM
1

Wondering where tf “extremism” comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:33 AM
1

Lmfao chief weren’t you the one telling me just last month that you disregard autistic people’s dating advice just by virtue of their neurodivergence? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:18 AM
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🐀🐀🐀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:55 AM
1

Aw hi elder 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:54 AM
1

Damn there are no incels in the Netherlands and Germany?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:40 AM
0

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:36 AM
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Is there any evidence of this? As in studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:01 AM
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Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:01 AM
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Stupid misogyny. There’s not a shred of evidence for this. Studies show that women apologize more than men and men tend to externalize their negative feelings (which can include blaming others) while women tend to internalize theirs (blame themselves). On what basis do women not take accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:59 AM
1

Put the strawman back in the barn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:43 AM
7

💯 that’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:12 AM
2

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:36 PM
1

Oh hey, I PMed you a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:11 PM
2

Your cooking is so great 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:43 PM
1

Wowwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:17 AM
-1

I don’t think those are the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:07 AM
1

Would men like “role reversal” romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:53 AM
1

I’m blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:46 AM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:14 AM
0

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:50 AM
1

I feel like such a femcel reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:09 AM
1

Exactly what I thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:48 AM
0

From what my friends have told me, I’m not surprised to read that the distracted boyfriend picture was staged in Spain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:29 AM
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Receipts, smoke em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:26 AM
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Tbf I said “pioneered” precisely, but you haven’t provided any evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:51 AM
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Women pioneered computer science. A woman invented WiFi. Women have always been “computer people”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:41 AM
3

Yes. A couple years ago I came across a guy who was almost twice my age, very physically attractive to me, in great shape, decently nice and fun, but had a party boy lifestyle that doesn’t match my personality or interests at all. I got bored of casuals real quickly though, after a couple of experiences I’m not interested in sex outside of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:32 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:28 AM
3

Don’t throw shade on Louise Perry like that, when has she said this “thousand cock stare” crap ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:22 AM
1

Ok, point taken. I didn’t do my due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:57 AM
1

Yeh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:47 AM
1

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:45 AM
0

Damn sis got receipts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:43 AM
4

Interesting, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:42 AM
2

This sounds like something a political lesbian separatist feminist would say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:37 AM
4

Wow, horseshoe theory in action lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:15 PM
0

People definitely do gaslight certain groups of women. But point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:47 AM
1

? All I did was point out that she ignored an important part of that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:58 AM
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All facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:09 AM
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She did say “in the US”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:53 AM
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Do you think that the Netherlands has abolished inceldom? lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:06 AM
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How often do you see an oppressed group doing better than the non-oppressed group? Jews
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:42 AM
1

The guy above is literally talking like an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:49 PM
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Moids 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:10 PM
2

Neuromatched 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:08 AM
2

Why is eye contact such a big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:03 AM
5

Tell it to Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:58 AM
-1

No, as a black woman I think you can’t, black men already talk too damn much about black women’s hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:58 AM
6

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:25 AM
2

I’m curious how some queer men still center women? Do you mean bisexual men feeling like they need a female long term partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:15 AM
3

For the 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:11 PM
2

I’m glad for you 👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:09 PM
3

I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:12 AM
3

Here’s why I ask. As a man, when I hang out with other men, their looks just don’t matter in how I see them. If one of my buddies is ugly, it has zero effect on whether I respect him, help him, or defend him. His value as a person and as a friend isn’t tied to appearance. If only men extended this same grace to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:31 AM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:54 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:07 AM
1

It’s you again It’s been a while
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:44 AM
1

Indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:07 AM
2

I hope you have a great cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:05 AM
5

Nice hair system bro, you look like a real Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:55 AM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:43 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:41 AM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:53 AM
0

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:58 AM
0

Yeah, I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:36 AM
1

they don’t mistreat unattractive women unprompted bc the social consequences are often severe. lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:09 AM
1

That’s preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:49 AM
1

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:48 AM
6

The coochie carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:06 AM
3

Oo oo ah ah 🐵🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:04 AM
2

Deserving of being called out yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:12 AM
2

Yeah bc it’s more common
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:53 PM
5

Neither should be “lionized” and I don’t think anyone even celebrates gold diggers. Neither I nor the OP said it’s “more noble”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:24 PM
4

No, that’s obviously not true because of the amount of conservative men trying to finesse progressive women into dates. Men sleep with women they hate all the time. You’re just hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:22 PM
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lol sex diggers don’t gaf about the chick either, men are the ones saying all the time that they can separate attraction from emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:30 PM
1

Nobody implied otherwise, adults make decisions based on incentives. Again, do you disagree that men are influenced by women’s preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:50 AM
1

Please point to where I said “men force women to slut shame”. I explicitly said “incentive”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:49 AM
1

Again, please point to where this was said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:47 AM
2

Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:26 AM
1

Point to where anyone said that or stop writing fanfic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 AM
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In general, I’m just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:24 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:14 AM
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New Religious Movement I assume 🎵 oh Mr Crowley, did you talk to the dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:13 AM
2

Wow 😮 That is sad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:21 PM
1

I’m about to ask my long-distance crush out 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:19 PM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:13 PM
2

Then don’t complain about women wanting tall rich guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:06 PM
2

You are not Kenough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:53 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:53 PM
1

I said please point to where. I said that this behavior in women is rooted in the incentives created by men. When red pillers talk about how men do XYZ to impress women, do you also disagree with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:50 PM
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Right on brother But I’m kind of blackpilled about that ngl Tech might be the trump card
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:47 PM
2

Are you stupid? It’s not taking away people’s agency to discuss their motivations and incentives for acting a certain way, that is kind of the entire field of psychology. I hope you keep the same energy when the red pillers on here talk about how men only do XYZ to get laid. Nor did I “condone” anything, please point to where I said “unethical abusive behavior” is good, obviously I think that being a pickme is bad. These also aren’t “fictitious men”, this is the most stupid thing to say, as if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:33 PM
1

I never said that women don’t slut shame more, you didn’t “teach” me anything. Please point to where I said otherwise. What you need to learn about is incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:27 PM
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What part is “unaccountablity”, where exactly did I say that women have no control over their own thoughts and words? When you follow the incentive it leads back to intrasexual competition based on the standards set by men, which the evopsych crowd would actually be very quick to tell you. “Women bully women because men want women” is exactly what studies have found, such as that infamous one about intrasexually competitive women chopping more hair off of women close to their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:51 PM
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No duh, that’s literally exactly what I said, read again soup brain. Women slut-shame & looks-shame because those are the things men have made valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:47 PM
0

Maybe you should’ve been told that women aren’t a hivemind. We live in a society, opinions trickle down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:46 PM
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There’s no point in arguing with men over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:57 AM
2

Don’t like travel, gossip, or even watch TV, and it’s hard for me to find someone to share my hobbies. What inane misogynistic nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:31 AM
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Bro you kinda contradicted yourself. If men don’t volunteer cuz it won’t raise their social status, they also care about how society perceives them. Career climbing is the equivalent of “virtue signaling”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:24 AM
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No, she means men. It’s like slut-shaming. Why exactly do you think women bully each other based on “purity” or looks? Because that’s what men value and what they have centered women’s worth around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:14 AM
2

I’m a femcel so yeah I took the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:56 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:50 PM
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I’m also into crafting, plant care, cooking, and engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:57 PM
1

🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:03 PM
0

Oh excuse me, here I thought being masculine was independence and individualism, guess the red pillers were wrong. You only need one other person for a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:40 PM
1

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:37 PM
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What “overlords agenda”? It’s pretty straightforward, depressed men can’t date. If the goal is to help men in the “SMP” it would be productive to address that huge roadblock. Don’t listen to me, feel free to go look up any of the research on mental illness/neurodivergence and male sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
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Hi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:22 AM
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It’s not ridiculous, those topics are very interconnected. Mental illness especially taxes a man’s dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:11 AM
1

Urban monoculture Fellow Based Camp watcher?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:18 AM
0

True, but you could always defy the expectations. It’s not “masculine” to be led around by what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:16 AM
2

Agreed actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:29 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:39 AM
0

That makes no fucking sense. As you said, men FUCK everything, it doesn’t mean men would date everything. Men become almost as picky as women when it comes to long term. You are a sexist hypocrite trying to rationalize the very same Just World fallacy you criticize women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:07 AM
-2

That mindset is such a cope. Andrew Tate exists 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:29 PM
-2

Men do too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:28 PM
2

Other people can have preferences on your preferences, acting like others’ opinions have power over yours is whiny and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:24 PM
2

How does it not contradict it? No one put a gun to his head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:58 AM
8

The first paragraph needs to be pinned to this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:21 AM
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Hi again Nothing but facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:35 AM
1

I’m glad for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:20 AM
1

Buying for sure, it’s hurting another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:43 PM
0

…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:37 PM
1

Yeah, as if only “Chads” are cads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:31 PM
3

How do you not get blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:20 PM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:06 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:56 AM
2

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:40 AM
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He’s a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:38 AM
1

Everything is bigger in Texas 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:21 AM
3

Girl… 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:18 AM
1

Ohhh interesting observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:09 AM
2

Reporting live from New York metro area. I had no social life for basically my entire teen years, only internet people to talk to. I try to take it as bait but reading shit like this is so frustrating and quite frankly dehumanizing. It’s denying women a claim to large swaths of the human experience, and erasing so many of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:33 AM
5

My sister in Christ, I have to dismiss this guy as a troll for my own sanity. I could go through this line by line too but what’s the point 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:25 AM
1

What contradictory opinions to feminism do you have, your entire life sounds really radicalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:19 AM
2

Holy shit :( I can empathize I’m a decade younger and I have my own problems
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 10:31 PM
5

Good analogy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:06 PM
1

Wait till she links the studies 🤷🏾‍♀️ or you could look it up easily, this is why girls are less diagnosed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:23 AM
0

It’s both. They’re not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:13 AM
1

Dang 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:11 AM
1

What kind of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:09 AM
1

Do you have any sources on this? I’d like to do some research
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:26 AM
-2

It’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:11 AM
1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:10 AM
2

Respond to the statistics you lied about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:20 AM
1

Clearly they’re not less desperate if they’re continuing to hassle civilian women for sex, idk what part of basic logic eludes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:04 PM
0

Actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:44 PM
0

And yet, men having wayyyy more options and being able get sex anytime and anywhere doesn’t stop desperation like you claimed 🙄 I lowkey kind of wish it did, at least I wouldn’t be hassled by these types. But that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:43 PM
0

This is completely irrelevant to my point. Also, correlation =/= causation, this is probably bc they have strict gun control 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:44 PM
0

How are you gonna tell me about my experience? Don’t just take my word for it, make an account on a dating app. I said, there’s still an abundance of desperate thirsty men trying to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:43 PM
1

Lmfaoooo bro I got back from Europe last year and that’s false, why won’t this myth die? There’s just as many desperate men flooding dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:51 AM
3

I’m glad for you, but sister you are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:31 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:16 AM
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Being able to orgasm every time is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:53 PM
1

I’m “focusing on that one line” because it’s fucking false lmao. It’s not about what you would rather have, no one asked for a comparison. As a woman who’s used dating apps, mostly average, normal-looking guys. You’re assuming it’s all the same 10%, that it’s the “top”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:33 PM
1

Brother why are you playing dumb, reread your last sentence Also most of the women you are “seeing” getting bad conversations and bad dates are women punching above their league and trying to lock down a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:46 PM
3

How are you gonna say she doesn’t know about the male dating experience while you spew your ignorance about the female dating experience? NO, it’s not just “Chads” who give bad conversations, men all over the attractiveness spectrum do BS like this. It’s fit guys, hot guys, mid guys, short guys, ugly guys, yes all of them. This is a delusional fantasy yall feed yourselves to dismiss women and feel morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:01 PM
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I see. Have a good day sir
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:34 AM
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“Unconditional love” (conditions apply) Attractive appearance is a condition, by no means is a given, and fades away eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:31 AM
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Idk what you’re arguing with him about. He’s right, us size queens exist 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 PM
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Lmfao your problem is that you’re making assumptions and projecting a whole fanfic onto me, a complete stranger. Instead of choosing to “shut him out sexually”, I would simply not be in a relationship with someone who isn’t good enough sexually (and is too egotistical to bother learning), because I want a relationship for sex. Please shove your screed up your ass and stop being arrogant enough to act like you know me, you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:53 PM
2

I am really a sexual person, unfortunately 😣 but I’d still rather just buy a vibrator than let myself get used in this way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:16 PM
-1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:00 PM
1

I’ll be your friend 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:50 PM
0

Good analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:44 PM
4

Yuh exactly. This type of shit scares me far more than just dying with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:41 PM
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And there are women who like small dicks and short men. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:33 PM
1

Chief, you don’t need to tell me about the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:29 PM
2

I don’t wish that on any poor girl 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:09 AM
3

It’s pretty offputting ngl. Feels impersonal. I’d like to be seen and valued as a unique individual. Having standards that low just reads as carelessly searching to fill a generic woman-shaped hole rather than appreciating a partner as their own person. You have standards for all the other people you let into your life right? You have standards for your friends? And employers and business associates? So why would a romantic partner warrant lower rather than higher standards, when they’re gonna b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:09 AM
2

Well, PIV has been very hard for me. I have to use a lot of lube
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:02 AM
10

I’m 5’1 and they’re for me 👺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:32 AM
-3

Yes 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:29 AM
1

😢
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:17 AM
2

Respond to the statistics you ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:06 AM
9

Bruh “overwhelming majority”? 🧢 delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:39 PM
2

For casual sex, absolutely. But the above paragraph did NOT specify “casual sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:34 PM
1

The latter. Men themselves always say so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:02 PM
1

Not physically 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:37 PM
1

lol dating “today”? No it’s always been like that, which is precisely why the red pill (and its derivatives) even exists in the first place. I don’t listen to K pop but I guess I’m blackpink pilled 😎 lmao. The evopsych and evobio posit that, across the animal kingdom, male and female mating strategies are adversarial bc what suits the reproductive interests of one sex comes at the expense of the other. Certain bedbugs practice “traumatic insemination” in which the male stabs the female’s stomach…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 12:23 PM
2

I’m glad for you. But for me personally, stuff like this is part of why I don’t actively date and question if I ever will at all. It feels like my body is a battlefield and I hate it. It feels disgusting that we even have to worry about being “used”, as we can’t just expect men to be honest and decent human beings. The “dating market” just feels so… adversarial, I don’t feel like such a low-trust environment is conducive to loving relationships. It’s like trying to grow a rose in concrete.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 01:18 AM
1

Similar boat here, also around nyc, though I’m not actively looking. Let me know when you find the answer
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 12:44 AM
1

Similar boat. But I’ve learned my lesson after guy 2-4 (depending on how you count).
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 09:57 PM
1

👋🏾 I’m out here, I’d like to hear more about what you’re looking for
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 09:37 PM
2

Damn you’re strangely pressed by this. If you don’t want the company of such women, pay them no mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:26 PM
1

Women of any age sure as hell need strategies and cheat codes to vet a man, and that’s the point. Do you go with just any random Joe who hits on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:15 PM
2

Pink and purplish, guess I’m magenta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:10 PM
1

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:35 PM
1

That’s the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:31 PM
-2

Just jerk off
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:34 AM
1

👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:13 PM
3

Truth. This “explanation” has always baffled me, it’s like saying 2 + 2 = 5. What I want and value is about me and my needs, not any external conditions. I “don’t want sex as much” because sex for me as a woman is high risk low reward, this holds true regardless of how easily available it is. Just abundance/scarcity doesn’t dictate value, it doesn’t matter how scarce you make a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:11 PM
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I don’t believe so, no. I also dislike cold approaches for this exact reason. But I do think it’s a reach to say that being asked out, even in that context, is only ever about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:21 AM
1

lol yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:57 AM
1

This is kinda a reach sis I’m sorry 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:45 AM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:31 AM
1

Colorado
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:24 AM
1

📠
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:13 AM
1

Similar boat here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:11 AM
1

To be fair re: BDSM. They probably mean that being a sub is what’s degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:04 AM
2

🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:00 AM
5

Exactlyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:39 AM
1

Respond to the statistics that I cited and you ignored. I won’t stop until you repent for accusing me of “lying” about facts that I provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:56 PM
2

I don’t see lesbians making these boomer ass jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:01 AM
6

where’s a female comedian who said the equivalent? …these boomer “I hate my wife” jokes… Sorry you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:00 PM
1

Address the statistics that disproved you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:53 PM
2

That’s so funny, just seconds ago I commented the same about men making “I hate my wife” boomer jokes. I guess what’s good for the goose is good for the gander isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:45 PM
2

You’re shifting the goalposts. Nothing here said “make fun of (wo)men”, I specifically asked about “I hate my nagging b*tch wife” type “jokes”. If a woman was making similar “jokes” about her husband, I’d tell her to divorce and pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:43 PM
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Clearly I did have to chase you around the sub, bc you won’t take your L and admit your faults, you keep projecting lies onto me. No, my stats didn’t contradict themselves, are you illiterate or innumerate? https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ So, it looks like the data validates my intuition: most single women choose celibacy; As opposed to the only other option, which is hookups. A majority, 62%, of single women aren’t looking for anything at all.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:38 PM
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Lolololol So much disproves this, but I’ll start with where’s a female comedian who said the equivalent? This isn’t an isolated case either, these boomer “I hate my wife” jokes have been so culturally ingrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:30 PM
3

The male equivalent is all of fucking history 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:27 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:33 AM
11

Why do straight men even bother with relationships if they hate women so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:07 AM
3

You’d know a lot about lying and miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:59 AM
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I’m so confused, where and when did I mention fuckboys and lying? Hit dogs hollering? And where did I say there aren’t women who like casual sex? I’m friends with them. They’re just not the norm, and for a good reason. One of my friends who was promiscuous until recently mentioned that one of her hookups sexually assaulted her after consensual sex. And another one of them accidentally impregnated her. And another one of my friends told me that she got an STD from a hookup. That is three of sever…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:57 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:30 PM
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Maybe it’s bc all dating apps have to offer is looks. No duh that’s all anyone can judge based on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:53 AM
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I said, stop projecting your male mindset onto women, I’m tired of men telling us how our bodies work. Your “basic math” is not mathing, casual sex isn’t pleasurable (in general), which is precisely why many (most?) single women just choose celibacy, including me. Nobody said anything about “not liking sex”, you just inserted that because, again, you are projecting your male mindset onto women and can’t grasp that we aren’t the same and it’s not all the same to us. Any sex is not “a cookie”, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:32 AM
1

It’s either/or, for different women, because women are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:51 AM
3

Wow “hypocrisy” is a buzzword now? Crack open a dictionary. I could say the exact same about you throwing out a list of talking points every time hoping something sticks, it’s pathetic. Do tell why you brought up felon fetishists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:50 AM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:38 AM
4

If they’re playing the same game, they are literally your competitors by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:22 AM
0

No it’s not inherently so, stop projecting your male mindset onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:16 AM
1

I took that literally, I thought you meant a surgeon 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:15 AM
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Who said anything about feminists? Why else would you bring these women up, if not to scrape for some hypocrisy where there is none
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:13 AM
2

Maybe that’s why “women object”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:11 AM
1

Dang, what a description 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:06 AM
1

Is there a reason you think this has to do with all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:52 AM
-1

Women are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:49 AM
2

Sex isn’t just about physical pleasure 🗿 what a terrible way to think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:00 AM
1

Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:10 PM
2

I envy you. I wish sex was more pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:10 PM
1

I don’t have no man 🤣🤣🤣 nice try. Go ask the red pillers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:02 PM
1

Lmfao learn some biology, you’re putting the cart before the horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:14 PM
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Lmfaoooo what is it with this ignorant, delusional assumption that it’s only “Chads” who act like cads? I’ll have you know that the most mid, unremarkable men tried this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:18 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:15 PM
1

Yes. And
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:14 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:09 PM
1

Good analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:34 PM
2

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:11 PM
1

Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:05 PM
3

lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:04 PM
1

Keep the same energy for men complaining about the women they settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:55 PM
1

Reality says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:08 PM
1

Ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:01 PM
3

Can’t tell you, I haven’t gotten one 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:57 PM
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As a bi woman, me and another bi woman friend of mine were recently talking about exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:42 PM
2

Jfc, where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:26 PM
1

Do you think fat or ugly or mid women already get “the same amount of work” as supermodels 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:21 PM
1

Are you applying the same logic for short broke men? No raw passion and anal and kinky stuff for them, only starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:42 AM
1

🤦🏾‍♀️ you sure you’re not red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:52 AM
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Smfh. It’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:31 AM
1

I just said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:29 AM
1

*their People judge based on surface level information, more news at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:22 AM
1

You’re probably correct. I’m reactive and couldn’t let that shit slide when directly commented to me. But, also, as a certain someone said, if you’re silent about your pain, they’ll kill you and say you enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:02 AM
4

Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:41 AM
5

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:39 AM
3

Someone’s career won’t tell you a person’s intelligence Depending on which it is, it absolutely will. There are no stupid neurosurgeons or midwit physicists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:38 AM
1

I do like people with matching personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:36 AM
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You’re clearly completely detached from reality. I’m not talking about socialization between genders, I clearly mean socialization within. Women have our girls to fill our social cravings, not thirsty randos in the streets or DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:05 AM
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Girl dw I don’t consume F&F content lol. I’m just responding to what the lady above said that they said. I’ll have to take her word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:50 AM
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I agree. Having some basic standards cuts that down quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:09 PM
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Not my cup of tea but you do you. I just hope you’re not talking about literal gang members.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:05 PM
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Don’t spout bs on how you know that “one guy” who’s homeless and 4ft but drowns in pussy through his awesome “personality” Bro are you mistaking me for someone else I mean that men say shit like “women can’t handle the truth” when their honesty doesn’t get them the outcome they want. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:02 PM
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Being homeless and shunned from economic stability is also societal pressure. Being nudged by carrot or stick is pressure, not the artificially narrow definition you’re attempting to make into a thing. Pressure - “the use of persuasion, influence, or intimidation to make someone do something”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:00 PM
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This isn’t refuting what I said at all. Contrary to PPD belief, these are two different concepts that you’re conflating. Being shallow isn’t having high standards, being shallow is having superficial standards. If a man’s only criteria is appearance, he’s absolutely still shallow regardless of how many women fit his requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:56 PM
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It’s the same thing. If this is what society rewards with cash prizes, that’s society placing pressure. wtf do you think “pressure” is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:53 PM
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Brother in Christ, boy oh boy do I have an expert to prove you wrong. “Women don’t reward honesty” https://youtube.com/shorts/7zIte59O-18?si=_BRNgahJD15hF77M
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:51 PM
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Do you expect me to disagree Also I think a catchier phrase would be “men are competitive because women are hypergamous”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:43 PM
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Then why the shade at short-haired women? Why do you assume they’re listening to other women or care about your two cents?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:42 PM
2

Hopium 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:05 PM
1

I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:03 PM
1

How could my significant other not be my best friend? Ofc your life partner should be your best friend. But definitely not the only friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:56 PM
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hair length (please stop listening to other women who tell you short hair looks nice) I’m confused, are you willing to compromise on this or not? Why the shade?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:47 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:21 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:20 PM
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We’re gonna age, why should women even date men then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:18 PM
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Unrequited love =/= Solitude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:48 PM
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Wowww, women stopped being rewarded for looking hot? What world are you living in 😆 0nlyFans exists for that sole reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:45 PM
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Women are vapid cuz men are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:44 PM
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How did she excuse women’s choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:37 PM
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Wym by “bad boys”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:22 PM
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Tell that to men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:12 PM
3

~And ofc, here comes ignorant nonblacks to speak on what they don’t know and launder blatant bigotry. Why would you think that I don’t think about the “community” I was born into, I have no choice. I do not need to be lectured from the outside looking in, that comes off condescending.~ Have you thought about why black females are this way? Can you empathize with our predicament? Have you spoken to any black femcels or females in general? Lmfao, your opinion of us is based on rap music and social…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:22 AM
7

What’s your point? This isn’t about you bro, we women were asked why we don’t use apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:00 AM
2

I’m so glad for you 👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:21 AM
5

Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:13 AM
10

Ok? We women are talking about how that behavior repels us 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:12 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:22 PM
1

It’s not magic, it takes fucking EFFORT. Three years ago I was a free radical, and I busted my ass to build an irl social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:21 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:43 PM
4

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:25 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:22 PM
9

Same. It’s frustrating that no one reads bios!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:18 PM
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Not when the option is to suffer a lonely miserable existence. Again, men have agency, no one put a gun to your head. Take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:15 PM
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Men are adults with agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:30 PM
1

Sex isn’t a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:16 PM
4

Invent anti-viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:13 PM
1

Lmfao, thirsty men are not our source of “socialization”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:59 PM
0

And most men seem to have some crazy bitch ex And?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:26 AM
2

If that were true, most fictional wouldn’t sell. The only reason that they sell I because they are relatable to a big part of their audience lol, allow me to introduce you to Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Star Trek, Doctor Who, and the entire genres of fantasy and science fiction. What a stupid response. I’m not pressed, I wrote that with a good cheekish smirk on my face, don’t worry. Then just take your L and admit you’re wrong. I mean what women are attracted to seem to tell a different sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:07 AM
2

I wish you luck. This is why me and my best friend have just given up on them period. This makes me want to start some sort of advocacy project for (like-minded) black women specifically. It’s crazy how blatant hatred towards us is so normalized. I bet it’s bc it’s mostly black males bashing us, and they have their own race card to hide behind, so they never get checked on their BS. Anyone from outside the “community” trying to intervene gets (ironically) hit with the R word and/or told to mind …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:02 AM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:59 AM
3

We need anti-viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:54 AM
3

Not to mention fresh and fit called black women “cattle” to be used for recreation only… How hateful black males are towards us is part of why I’m scared to have a son negl. Imagining being so dehumanizing towards the creatures who create you 💔 Idec if the mods flag this, needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:25 AM
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I guess anecdotes and tropes don’t always reflect reality. And it’s strange asf how pressed you are about being proven wrong, is it an ego thing or? I never wanna hear that women are less logical…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:11 AM
3

No need for anonymous anecdotes when we have anonymous data: The results showed that the percentage of friends-first romantic couples varied from 40% to 73%. Friends-first initiation was even higher among married couples and homosexual relationships. https://www.zmescience.com/science/news-science/reverse-friend-zone-relationships/#:~:text=The%20results%20showed%20that%20the,married%20couples%20and%20homosexual%20relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:50 AM
3

Damn the admissions from this thread are a representative sample?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:43 AM
1

Him being average doesn’t mean balding is average..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:43 AM
1

Average men of what age lmfao? That’s not rare for youngish guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:57 PM
1

Please learn to read a biology book, you haven’t ADjuStEd anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:39 PM
1

It’s not an equal situation, dicks and pussies aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:36 PM
2

I’m Twitter mutuals with a couple like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:20 PM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:19 PM
1

I’d like to think that being friends with your partner is actually a good recipe for a relationship but since I’m not a woman, I guess I wouldn’t know. I think like that. But, women are individuals with different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:08 PM
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Also, women can and do get rejected by their male friends. The difference is, only the most socially inept women will admit this publicly. The idea that “men are easy” and “men will fuck everyone” makes it socially unacceptable for a woman to talk about not being desirable. Can confirm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:56 PM
5

It’s not that deep, women are just more picky as a whole. And Gen Z women are actually more likely to be dating someone who was first known as a friend, so there goes your theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:55 PM
2

Women in general want men their own age, this is a documented fact. Your anecdotes aren’t evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:47 PM
-8

Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:42 PM
1

You’re not refuting what I said at all. The younger women who date older obviously aren’t the ones criticizing age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:34 PM
1

How tf is this an analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:33 PM
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Idk, I hear that’s a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:33 PM
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Working out doesn’t change your fat distribution 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:50 AM
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Imagine the following, you will have sex with a man, you won’t do nothing but touch his glan until he cum and when he do he will give you the “privilege” of riding him until you cum. This is how women sounds when they complain about “orgasm gap”. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:49 AM
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Younger women are more likely to oppose age gaps, get a new talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:42 AM
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Ffs go outside, that’s already what’s happening. Most sex is within relationships, look at actual data.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:35 AM
-1

Why not a head full of hair ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:28 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:21 AM
5

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:34 PM
1

Seems pretty clear to me. Men have to stop being so self-pitying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:31 PM
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You said it’s very sad how women are being taught to treat good men who just want to love them with hatred, hostility, and contempt. Which? How do these men “just want to love them”, by this context it looks like you’re talking about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:29 PM
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I’m so confused, what was the point of your comment then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:24 PM
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What’s interesting? People get along better with others who are similar to them, that’s just common knowledge. Friend groups tend to be similar too. The condition doesn’t need to “affect us all the same”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:10 PM
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Obviously but you said “no trouble”, as opposed to less trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:23 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:23 PM
-4

Women are not “judged individually” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:05 PM
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That men will be more successful if they go for women who are equally yoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:58 PM
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We definitely still have trouble lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:38 PM
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Smfh, that story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:37 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:07 AM
2

Where’d you see that happening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:04 AM
2

I’ll hope that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:47 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:11 AM
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lol no he’s not good with people, the entire White House is already sick of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:24 PM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:09 AM
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Believe me 💀 it’s not only “top 20%” men who act piggish like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:00 AM
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lol I’m sitting next to my MENSA software engineer friend rn, don’t make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:39 AM
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I personally don’t know a single woman under the age of 23 whose goal is to date for marriage and find a husband, 100% of them are concerned with having as much fun as possible, husband hunting is what they do when they get to their mid and late twenties. i just turned 22, hi 👋🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:40 PM
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Getting famous it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:15 PM
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Men don’t upgrade because they value the second part more than the first part. X to doubt But regardless, I’m not arguing about what “men” as some monolith do. I’m saying that men definitely aren’t better than women when it comes to shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:57 PM
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One time I was listening to a YouTube video of a new technology being presented. I was playing in background so I wasn’t looking at it, I was like “wow this guy sucks”, I went back to the YouTube tab and saw that the speaker was Musky himself 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:48 PM
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Whether they want to en can’t or don’t want to the results are the same. So what? In relationships especially, it’s not just results that matter, intentions certainly do. Would you keep your girlfriend if you caught her sexting with other men, as long as it didn’t go any further than words? 🙄 Upgrading is just not common, that should solve your issue. It doesn’t. An attempted murder is also a crime, you’re not in the clear just because you lack the ability to achieve your aims. There are also ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:47 PM
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L Cope History the world over is filled with instances of bitchy vapid hot girls having men falling at their feet. Both sexes are shallow and illogical with their preferences and priorities, stop tryna turn it into some gender war to feign moral superiority over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:41 PM
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lol nvm, I saw your post history. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:04 PM
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Brother you said right up there: “Men don’t care because men typically don’t date women for their abilities in society, they date women for their attractiveness and potential service to him.“ So you’re agreeing with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:12 PM
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If he’s really awkward, it’s unlikely for him to run a company or to be seen as the main prize. Elongated Muskrat has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:09 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:23 PM
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Upgrading is not super common in the men’s world simply because most don’t have options to do so. There we go, thanks for proving my point. Not being able to act on your desires doesn’t negate them lol, stop mistaking your desperation for virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:30 AM
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And men would rather have stuck-up Stacy than basic Becky 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:14 AM
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Guess I’m a chubby chaser 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:11 AM
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My ninja I’m asking for a study. Your anecdote is not evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:50 AM
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And how do tattoos specifically relate to emotional intelligence? I am aware that tattoos are correlated with openness. And I’d guess that muscles predict consciousness. And what does that have to do with what was said here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:28 AM
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Your evidence is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:25 AM
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Deadass. And it’s so out of touch with reality. So every guy with a gf is “bad”? There are no nice men who are sexually successful? Not accounting for different types of women liking different types of men? Ime, most sex partners and romantic couples consist of just normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:22 PM
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Why not both? It’s shallow bc it’s judging character from appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:05 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:21 PM
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lol how do tattoos and muscles preclude a man from being in touch with his feelings? That’s a shallow way to think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:16 PM
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Who Deebo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:05 AM
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Yup, can agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:00 AM
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This just looks overdramatic and reaching. Who’s pretending that it’s only guys who misspeak? In the context of this convo, we’re talking about guys. And no one is lacking “grace”, being “harsh”, or denying “empathy” for not understanding unintelligible speech. Someone can have the best intentions with you ever, and they won’t understand what you’re saying if you don’t make yourself understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:38 AM
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I’m 22 and still single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:41 PM
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And people make their morality and ethical judgments off of our evolved psychology, which includes experiencing sex as special. You cannot rationalize away human nature, everyone isn’t like you, most people aren’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:40 AM
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We’re not having a philosophical debate, we’re talking about real life. That’s what matters, not endless rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:29 AM
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Wow I’ve never agreed with a TRPer so much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:29 AM
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I hate poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:25 AM
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Agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:22 AM
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And most people make the decision to treat sex as special.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:20 AM
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It’s over for me ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:16 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:15 AM
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Well, “sex work is work” already led to that logic. OP is just taking it to the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:10 AM
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Pregnancy is pretty unique to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:05 AM
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Then, respectfully, you’re not normal and shouldn’t be speaking for all of humanity. Upwards of 99% of humans since the dawn of time have thought that sex is “special”. No, it’s not just due to religious repression, it’s something engrained in our biology. I’ve been secular and anti-theist since 12 years old, and I tell you, it was viscerally viscerally REPULSIVE to even so much as kiss men I wasn’t into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:03 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:54 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:52 PM
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Lmfaooo community pogo stick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:22 PM
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Lorde 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:56 PM
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Ok, I mostly already have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:53 PM
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There is hope for me yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:52 PM
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One of my girls just mailed me a handmade pair of pants for my birthday a week ago, guess we are lesbians 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:27 PM
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lol, funny. Here’s a gold🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:18 AM
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OP is a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:10 AM
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Men only want Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:01 AM
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Mods 🗣️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:00 AM
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They don’t. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:56 AM
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Because heteronormativity is a thing and gay people are under a lot more pressure to be straight than straight people are to “experiment” 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:55 AM
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I didn’t like it. It’s glitchy as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:53 AM
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Do you even like women? It’s just looking like you typed this whole screed to air out your own grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:45 AM
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Oh k
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:22 AM
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Bro again, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:18 AM
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:(( girl I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:17 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:14 AM
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Lmfao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:09 AM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:06 AM
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I studied there a year ago and I indeed felt more sane
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:54 AM
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lol nun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:24 AM
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Guys gotta read some more books
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:12 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:16 PM
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Y
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:16 PM
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🤦🏾‍♀️ you’re probably missing her point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:05 AM
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That’s oxymoronic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:48 AM
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Then use the correct word. Words have meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:47 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:46 AM
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👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:45 AM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:45 AM
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Autists can easily befriend other autists so that’s not a “good reason” either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:44 AM
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I agree with your logic. Another woman would be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:44 AM
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I meant cook something (preferably new and nice) together and bake something beautiful and themed — heart shaped sugar cookies, macarons, cakes, etc. You are not a woman so how can you speak on “most women”? You don’t need to concern yourself with “a lot of” women anyway, you only need to worry about one. Don’t go for girls that are so shallow and materialistic and herd-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:27 PM
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No one is ok being “lonely” by definition. Some people are ok being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:40 AM
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Cook? Bake? Make something yourself? DIY a gift?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:22 AM
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BS 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:12 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:22 AM
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That’s literally my worst nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:20 AM
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But porn is bad tho, no need to be “sexually conservative” to see that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:12 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:29 PM
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“All feminists support sex work…” Ignorant as hell, read some Dworkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:28 PM
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We need reverse viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:44 PM
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If these men are desperate then how would their attention be validating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:39 PM
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Yup and yup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:58 AM
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💯 love to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:45 AM
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Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:42 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:42 AM
1

Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:40 AM
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Yup yup yup, you get it. And being picky isn’t the same thing as shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:33 AM
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I’m weird and niche and want a partner like me. Having any standards cuts those options down quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:06 AM
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Deadass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:29 AM
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I think your hobby is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:47 AM
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I could only imagine how stupid the comment was, too bad it was deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:35 AM
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Yeah, and it really irritated me. What’s even the point in having the bio feature then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:27 AM
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🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:14 AM
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Nichemaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:10 AM
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I just got diagnosed with ASD this week 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:55 AM
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I’ve never hooked up from tinder, but I have hooked up with someone I met on this app 😅 I was lurking on a sub specifically for… the well endowed and I had to stake my claim 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:32 PM
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Wow you’re showing your age 😅 We have pics for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah ikr lol. Being introverted in no way entails half the shit he listed. It’s definitely correlated, but not in the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:59 PM
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So, you have no real response, don’t want to admit fault, and just resort to condescension
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:18 PM
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And you know it’s true because all men share a single brain cell?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:51 PM
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No, I’m not. I am both. This definitely applies way more to autists, especially #3 about “beating around the bush”. That has nothing to do with introversion per se, that’s definitely an autistic thing. Getting energized by alone time doesn’t entail being socially uncalibrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:49 PM
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I’m lucky and privileged enough to have rarely been exposed to the imminent threat of violence in my life. So physical abuse is not what I’m worried about. I’m terrified of getting “pumped and dumped” or running into men who view women in these disgusting degrading ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:47 PM
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It looks like you’re talking more about autists than “introverts”. Yeah, they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:39 PM
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Oh my goodness 😢 Where is this? Edit: nvm, I’m assuming Tea Kingdom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:24 PM
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*affects
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:15 PM
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Tbh the men commenting here ain’t doing a lot to refute that notion 🤷🏾‍♀️ But if I truly believed that all men were incapable of feeling love and only want to hurt women, I’d chemically castrate myself or just go gay. Why even bother with men at all in that case ? I think the truth in between the extremes is that a lot of men are selfish and have interests that are diametrically opposed to ours. It’s hard to separate the wheat from the chaff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:14 PM
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You should be ashamed of paying women for sex, prostitution is disgusting and johns lack empathy. Otherwise good response bro, far beyond what I’d expect from this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:41 PM
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Why do you feel qualified to speak for half of the human race? I sure hope you’re not the type to say “not all men” in other contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:34 PM
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But I thought easy sex was only for Chads and most men had no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:22 PM
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Yup can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:09 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:49 AM
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🤦🏾‍♀️ this shit is killing the black community worse than crack
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:19 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:17 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:15 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:08 AM
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Then it sounds like you’re just speaking for yourself. It’s not normal for men to have no friends either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:39 AM
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YouTubers? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:47 PM
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That agrees with what I said. Friendship is the bare minimum for compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:33 PM
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Then check on your bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:06 PM
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I absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:05 PM
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