get more in touch with things in/of the home and be less about things outside of the home aka the harsh cold world that gives you anxiety because it's unnatural to your feminine nature. to be feminine is to be internal thus "inside" of the outside. pay attention and take care of your home/heart space
IMO if you live in an apartment complex or some type of condo building it is safe for them to pick you up because they can't really narrow down which one you live in. But if it's a single family home where they can walk up to your front door, then meet them out.
