kaylesta Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	FDS response to this? Interested to hear how you ladies formulate it	NICE FOR WHAT?	kaylesta	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 04:37 AM

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8	Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynists You can get a real sense of the disdain he has for women. Well, unless he plans on starting a romantic relationship with his friends, he shouldn’t be basing his expectations for a relationship on what he does with his friends. Men are always making this mistake. Notice how it’s never women doing this? Men/boys expect their gf to hang with their mates, adjust to their standards, their humour etc. then you just become one of ThE BoYs + bang maid and these things are never reciprocated. I wasted al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 10:41 AM
28	Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens. Nearly vomited reading this. What an absolute colossal scrote. I truly didn’t know he was this bad. However, I always had suspicions he never truly loved and valued her from the outset of their relationship. He treats her like a pretty puppet that he carries around and makes her perform. This post reads like a five year writing list of all their new birthdays toys that they won’t be sharing. Translation - “honey, your birthday present will be looking back at this post reminding you that you are …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 12:06 PM
382	The Ick Trying to “out-intellectualise” me or see how much the could squeeze out of my brain on certain subjects. The former was done under the thin veil of ‘banter’ and just made it obvious they were threatened. The second made me feel like a circus animal. It all just screamed arrogance, but conversely insecurity. ICK x100	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/21 01:35 PM
10	Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page? It’s always to disappointing and frustrating to see the poison spewed out about FDS in the comments. The couple of people that tried to explain that FDS isn’t about what people believe it is get downvoted to hell	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/21 09:27 PM
7	What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14? What benevolent sexism is	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 10:49 PM
155	Invalidation in Friendships As a psychologist, I hear a lot of my patients tell me about the rubbish advice that their friends have given them. Worryingly, only some of the them know it’s not good advice. Some of it I have to actively reverse if I consider it problematic enough. Seriously, the average person gives terrible advice, even if well intentioned. Trust your gut and do what you need to do. Especially with men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 07:03 AM
10	The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair) Perfect timing on this post, much appreciated! Indeed it feels like posting into the void, so it was really helpful for you to share with us how long you had been posting for before being approved.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 10:56 PM
53	Thanks for keeping us aware You made the right call for sure. The context makes it practically impossible not to see it as predatory. I used to fall into the trap of helping men when they asked for things until I realised a lot of this misogynistic from the outset. Asking a woman because she is more likely to say yes, not call out your bs, ‘protect’ your masculinity because you were able to tidy up your problem without involving men, because you only really care what other men think	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 04:28 AM