| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 67 | Standards (Get Some) | kayterrell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsGood for you! I hope you find what you're looking for! Have a good tine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | how do you get over misogynistic kinks you haveI'm not? I was admitting that as a free thinking female, I know I enjoy these things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Standards (Get Some)Okay, I agree. It takes two. I'm not taking the blaim from the man, I'm saying in a perfect world of women equally respected each other, this wouldn't be the a issue. If my husband steps out of our marriage, HE made that descision. He knew what was in the line and I'd blaim him if asked why we're divorced. However, there is no way the female didn't know, and therefore while I would be upset with her, my husband ans I are the only one's reaponsible for our marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:14 AM |
| -1 | how do you get over misogynistic kinks you haveListen to me : NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU So you get turned on by being choked, there is NOTHING wrong with that. Lots of women do. Hell, I do. What matters is are you being safe? I never let just anyone tie me to the bed. There's a lot of conversations to be had, trust to be given ect. BDSM is nothing to be ashamed of and is predominately more female inclined then male. (Even of you are a sub) Stop being afraid or ashamed and own it. If you still want to look into it, I heard this theory when I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Should I be FWB with an ex (LVM)?Would you date a man who was sleeping with an ex who he doesn't feel attatched to? Of course not. Also, science says fwb is harder on women. When women have orgasms, we release dopamine (or the feel good chemical) in our brain. Chocolate, cuddling and seeing puppies are also things that cause this release. Women, however, associate this release of dopamine with whatever caused it and grow an emotional attachment to said thing. (Ever been sad when you tried looking for chocolate and realizing you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | I don’t even know where to start; the threesome fantasy, the ‘conversion’ fantasy and her thanking him for making her day with his gross comment on her marriage... Just shows how they view women reallyTHAT MAKES SO MUCH MORE SENSE. Okay, I get it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsThen he's not the one for you. I'm sure he's a great guy, but he's not it. 5 years in and I still get execited when my husband comes home. He's the first person I want to tell everything to and I'd be upset if he didn't text me for a few days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:11 PM |
| -1 | Standards (Get Some)In response to why men cheat, he's not wrong. If women would stop anything from happening with a man who is in a relationship, then we wouldn't have to worry about this. Does it make the man's part in chatting okay? No, but it takes two to tango | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsYou're wasting your time. Your reasons 1-8 (out of 9) have to with things for or to you. He paid a large bill and walked you home. His job, his accent ect... Did he make you laugh? Do you think about him? Do things remind you of him? Call me a hopeless romantic, but shouldn't more of your focus be on the lack of butterflies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:39 PM |
| -1 | LVM -Hates MakeupMaybe he thinks your beautiful without Make up? Maybe he doesn't understand why you feel you need it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Did I find a HVM at 19? And should I stay with him or test out the waters?If you have to ask if you should stay with someone or see if there is something better, you have your answer. Leave. If testing the waters seems intriguing, he's not for you. Also, ask yourself how you'd feel if he was asking himself this question. Would you feel secure? No, he'd be hated on and hung from the tallest tree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 5 | How should I respond to "what are you looking for?" when OLD?To be brutally honest, your answer has no depth. You want to date and meet people. This sounds like you don't have anything in mind for your future, your just enjoying whatever happens. If that's your thing, than you nailed it. To me, it sounds like this guy has a plan, and where he's at in his plan is to find a mate and settle down. You replied the opposite of that, so he passed. No one is wrong here, you just don't want the same things. Glad you figured that out before both of you wasted each … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:21 PM |
| 9 | Should we delete Instagram?Let's start here: STOP COMPARING YOURSELF! Yes, I know more than anyone that it's hard But for your sanity, you have to stop. For years we build this competition between women and for what? To see who dies with the most toys? Pass. Be happy for your friends. You wouldn't NOT go to a wedding because you've never been married, right? I It is okay to want a someone, but alone doesn't have to mean lonely. What other goals do you have? School? Promotion? Traveling? Story time: I went back to school a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of?No one else bothered by the use of "cray"? Just me? Ok. Some of the best dates I've been on were last minute, or I was just told a time and dress code. At least he confirmed. Go. Have a good time. If you do, and this lack of communication bothered you, just say so. Be the adult you claim to be and communicate that you like to know all tge details a few nights prior incase you need to get a few things done before hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 42 | How do you answer "why are you single?""Because I'm not with someone? I'm not sure I understand the question." And then just stare at them. This not only belittles the question, but most people will feel prompted to say something to fill the silent void. It well cause them to explain their motive of why their asking. Generally it's followed by backpedaling, "I meant, like, did you just get it off a relationship?" Or "You sound to good to be true..." Whatever. At that point just mention, "I guess it's because I have standards." And wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 12:05 AM |
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