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Facing some fears is a good thing to do. You will feel proud of yourself and make progress in areas you want to improve at the same time.
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:25 PM
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Totally agree. Might depend on where he lives, but personally I have found lots of girls like that (on Tinder, at work, etc). @OP: do you have a specific type of girl you go after? Maybe go on some dates with a different "type", or younger girls, or something like that. The girls are definitely out there. Having a "women are the shallow ones" attitude is also going to repel a lot of quality girls.
/r/seduction21/05/16 05:06 AM
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Ya, I'm still learning... I think it's more of an art than a science. Don't stress over not being perfect at these things, it's just kinda a hypothetical target to aim at.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:57 AM
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Definitely one of the harder ones to grasp, and the one that I've been working on most lately. My basic understanding is this...let's say your girlfriend has a problem/issue. Maybe she wants to lose weight. GOOD - Nurturing/Giving: You can and should support her emotionally, i.e. encourage her - like tell her she looks great, or you're proud of her for working hard at this goal; and support her - maybe she is going to the gym, so you could join her at the gym too. Or if she has a question about …
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:22 AM
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It's not chauvinistic at all... it's really just about helping guys who need help. If anything it's more of a hug-it-out, we're all gonna be ok, self-help style book...but with a firm and clear message.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:12 AM
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It's probably worth reading once to really get the idea hammered into your head. Being really clear on the "Nice Guy" idea (and how to fix it) can change your life, so it's probably worth your time.
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:09 AM
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Here is my summary from the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. I re-worded a list from the book and adjusted it to suit me: “An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes: *1. I like myself just as I am. I have a strong sense of self. *2. I take responsibility for getting my needs met, and I make them a priority. *3. I am comfortable with my masculinity and my sexuality. *4. I know how to set boundaries and I'm not afraid to work through conflict. *5. I don't try to be perfect (just be g…
/r/seduction03/03/16 06:08 PM
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Agreed. Here's my summary from that book that I have memorized and repeat to myself frequently. I re-worded a list from the book and adjusted it to suit me: “An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes: *1. I like myself just as I am. I have a strong sense of self. *2. I take responsibility for getting my needs met, and I make them a priority. *3. I am comfortable with my masculinity and my sexuality. *4. I know how to set boundaries and I'm not afraid to work through conflict.…
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:06 PM
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I agree... you don't have to overthink it... you can just laugh and hug her or something. Socializing doesn't have to be a science lol.
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:04 AM
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Depends how developed they are I guess. There's no "right answer" to it obviously. Honestly, as with most people, I would rather not face the prospect of an awkward rejection if I don't have to. So if you are new to this (to the point where you think you kinda suck and have a low chance of making it work with the girls you know) and want more practice then just practice on new girls who you don't know. If you are super awkward (which is totally fine, we were pretty much all there at one point), …
/r/seduction22/05/15 12:13 AM
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Nice, that sounds great. I actually went through a very similar stage several years ago... it's fun! As for doing one thing per day that is outside your comfort zone... that's a great idea. I actually started that a few years ago, and it's really helpful (it can even be something very small that I simply notice I'm hesitating to do). Eventually I added one bigger one per week, maybe something that's a little scarier to do. As long as you aren't too hard on yourself (sticking to the principle of …
/r/seduction22/05/15 12:06 AM
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There's no clear cut best approach for anyone, but my personal approach to learning a new skill or building a new habit is to make sure I stick to it. Other people prefer the massive short-term burst of effort to get quick results... you can test and see what works well for you. For me, I know that if I stick to it then I am guaranteed to succeed in the long run. So to do that, I make sure that I set a plan which is easy to stick to. For example, make your minimum quota (for approaches, or peopl…
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:42 PM
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I mean it's a bit different if it's a close friend, but he seems to be talking about random acquaintances who he sees on the street (or at work?). But I agree, just don't make a big deal of it and she won't either.
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:26 PM
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I guess it takes practice, but just pretend you asked them for directions somewhere and they told you they didn't know how to get there. Basically don't be super emotionally invested in the outcome, don't make a big deal out of it... you're just a friendly, open and brave guy who was taking a shot, there's no guy on the planet that every girl will like, but at least you have balls. I know it seems like a huge deal to ask a girl out at first because each time is one of the only times you've ever …
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:24 PM
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How many friends do you really need? Unless you live in a TINY town, there are at least thousands if not millions of potential friends near you. Who cares if you lose the possibility of being friends with a few of them. Getting laid and having girls around is really fun, so for me it's worth losing a few possible friends (who I realistically had like a 1% chance of being friends with anyway). Approach the girls you are interested in, and if those bridges get burned, who gives a shit...just make …
/r/seduction21/05/15 01:07 AM
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Ya, I appreciate your answer... this is what I was thinking, but I just thought I would put the question out there in case I was over-thinking it (which I do sometimes). I like your idea of asking someone else in the social circle too. Which I may do if the situation gets a bit more realistic in the future (i.e. at least one of us having our own place). But for now I think I'm just gonna leave it alone and stay friends with her. I suppose down the road I could also just talk to my buddy about it…
/r/seduction19/05/15 07:02 PM
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At the bar you don't even need an "in"... just say hey, how's it going?
/r/seduction16/05/15 01:56 AM
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For sure, but it's still better to say movie than sex lol
/r/seduction19/04/15 05:56 AM
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And you don't have to be as blunt as just asking for a hookup, but asking if he wants to hangout and watch NetFlix would be a pretty easy way to do it.
/r/seduction23/03/15 03:45 AM
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Kingston, Canada, not Jamaica lol :P
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:36 PM
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Kingston
/r/seduction31/10/14 07:26 PM
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