kb93_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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20	Cougar vs Silver Fox Male projection, yet again. Cougar sounds predatory, yet it's older men NOT older women that are constantly and innapropriately preying on younger people. If anything, older women are sought after by younger men for sex as a kind of fetish or badge of honour (ugh). No one wants crusty old men for anything but their wallet. Not to mention, I can probably count on one hand the number of genuinely attractive "silver foxes" I've seen IRL in my entire life. Old pot bellied men have deluded themselves…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 02:18 PM
15	Guys asking to hangout on dating apps? I don't even get annoyed at it anymore, it's happened so many times. I mentally thank them for exposing themselves so soon and block and delete. If you're an adult DO NOT accept "hangouts." These men are either looking for casual sex or so insecure and commitment phobic that they can't even say the word date. I will be taken out for dinner or some other appropriate public activity (and sure as hell not free walks in the park) or nothing at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 02:15 PM
27	I don't even know where to start...🤦‍♀️ I'm gagging. He has a list of requirements and wants a thin small woman that's naturally beautiful and essentially a house slave, but I bet his hairline is nowhere to be found and he wants to live with his parents.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 02:04 PM
108	And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women. more projection LOL. Any of the larger women I know make a point to keep their hygiene 100% and they smell fresh and look clean and well kept just like any other woman while I work with several overweight - very obese men who smell like either dirty feet, cheese, or extremely yeasty and all 3 look like they haven't seen a shower in a month. That's not to say there's no women in the world that stink, but hygiene and rank odor is much more a male issue (and plenty of thin men stink too).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 11:27 PM
2	What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ? LOL I just can't with these grown men that abuse emojis. I had been on a date w/ a 30 year old and I had to cut him off because he used so many cutesy emojis constantly to the point where I wasn't even attracted to him anymore because he texted me like my 12 year old sister does.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:30 PM
17	"But I love him!!" I try to have as much empathy for these women as possible. For the most part These are not mentally healthy people who were raised in loving homes. These are people who were more likely than not raised in horrible dysfunctional households and mentally or physically abused by people most of their life. They don't have self esteem because no one ever taught them that and they accept abuse from men because it's what they know. Also we can't underestimate just how predatory a lot of men are. Socio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:25 PM
14	The Truth Always Comes Out In The End...Validation (Not That We Needed It!) I just can't with that sub. It's full of men who get off on abusing women or watching other men abuse women. it's so digusting how genuinely gleeful some of them are when a woman gets physically assaulted by someone twice her size. Yuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:18 PM
7	What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ? I'd consider this a yellow flag, not a red one just yet. Don't fall all over yourself to tell him it's totally ok and fine he didn't text for ~10 hours. If you do that, he'll take it as a green light for acceptable future behaviour (unless this is something you're totally ok with long term). Just ignore the apology and change the topic or respond to whatever else he said. Watch carefully the next few days/weeks to see if conversation is flowing or if "late responses" are typical for him, at whic…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:16 PM
58	He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?! yes, always block at the first sign of inappropriate behaviour. These men know exactly what they're doing when they behave like this. They are testing us to see what kind of depravity we're going to tolerate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:11 PM
460	And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women. everything about men is projection. They age like banana peels and they know it. I almost never see hetero couples with a male that's more attractive than the woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:01 PM
34	Why Are One Night Stands Being Sold to women as “Strong & Empowering” instead of “Risky & Reckless"? Young girls seriously need to be taught the actual risks of casual sex (well, all sex, but casual encounters are the worst) in school. STDs are much easier to transmit from penis -> vagina than from vagina -> penis STDs have much more severe and longterm consequences for women. You could literally end up infertile or with lifelong pelvic pain from a ONS. You're the one that's taking all the risks. 97% of rapes are never charged. So he could rape you, and there's a 97% chance he won't even be cha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 11:43 AM