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Your frame is solid? Sure thing buddy.
/r/askMRP19/12/22 11:02 PM
16

Why do you care? She's just a stranger to you
/r/askMRP19/12/22 10:56 PM
3

Sounds like you're a great Betabux, any women would be pleased to have you 2 weeks of every month and pay her bills. Are you lying to us or to yourself? You're still in the anger phase. You're teaching that bitch a lesson Sex and good sex is my responsability.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/22 09:40 PM
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This belongs to AskMRP and even then I'm not sure Why get married anyway? She will never change her last name, you never commit to her. First, read the sidebar Lift STFU Not easy, but it's simple
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 09:53 PM
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Don't be retarded. You have to communicate. STFU Level 0 - When in doubt on what to say, shut your mouth. You won't win or lose any ground. STFU Level 1 - When you master level 0, you will identify when you should talk or not. You don't express your feelings to your wife. You know exactly what to say and when to say it. You use less words than necessary. And this isn't only on your wife, but everyone in general. Read 48 Laws of Power Lift STFU Sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 05:23 PM
1

Also, lots of Should I? What do you want to do? You want some strangers on the internets telling you what you should do?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 09:18 PM
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AskMRP Also, I got lost on the story because it's fuckih boring. You don't tell her she's going to be a plate or fwb, you let it happen organically and they will know. Don't be an autist fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 09:16 PM
3

The advice you gave is great for guys, not for women
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 10:49 AM
1

Both you and OP have the wrong mindset. Unless you're being ironic. Women are perfect? They are human. They have flaws like everyone else
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:56 PM
1

A woman will always shittest a man she's sexually attracted to. Always. Even in a 50y relationship. They are real, it's instinctive and they cannot help but to do it. Most of the time they don't know they're doing it
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:53 PM
0

He may objectively be better than you. Your post seems like "sour grapes" Drop your ego OP
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:54 PM
3

No, they don't. Date is a reward you give, not an interview process. Never had a date in my life with a girl I wasn't already fcking. You've been lied to, probably by a woman
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:32 PM
0

"You must change hands everytime you bust a nut" is a common saying in my country, so it doesn't grow crooked like OPs Change hands often. And also keep them clean. You were terrified of her judging yr dick shape and not allow to get blown? BJs are cool, they get you off without much effort. Why wouldn't you reward that girl, with your dick?
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:27 PM
5

Why don't you want to come of as a douchebag? She's doing the same to you
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:06 PM
4

Obvious trolling
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:25 AM
1

OP is a troll
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:24 AM
1

You OP, sir, are a troll and looking for validation (whatever that means) from online strangers. Been there, done that. You do it poorly and overtly. Amateur trolling The worst part is the retards who believe you are legit
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 10:07 PM
1

Anti Slut Defence - ASD It's perfectly normal. It's also normal for not having that on someone they really want, for the sort termz so they toss away those rules they had before on LTR prospects. Depends on the situation. She doesn't want OP to think of her as a slut, probably wants comfort and commitment
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:18 PM
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You don't commit until she drops them all. Until then, turn her into a fwb and nothing more Edit: And you only commit if you want to
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:42 PM
1

I recommend going to hookers just once or twice, just so you know you don't want to pay for sex
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/22 12:24 AM
1

They're not wrong
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:28 AM
5

Start by striking random conversation with strangers. All the time. Practice. If you're only looking for girls to approach that irradiates a creepy 'vibe', they can sense it subconsciously.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:39 AM
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If a girl sees you getting rejected, they will reject you too. When I was younger, in my 20s, I lived in a small town. I only did 1 approach, maximum 2 every night I'd go out. At least in the same nightclub It's called pre-selection. Work on yourself. Don't be a creep. They can literally smell the desperation on you.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:37 AM
1

Exactly A hard no is a definitely a hard no. But there are dubious simple giggly "noes". Learn body language and be calibrated. In my youth I did lots of awkward K closes because I was nervous, but I didn't died, so F it
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:52 AM
1

If you have to lie, you have no game
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:01 AM
2

I write in my journal a lot of: I get it (No I really don't) That's you OP. Except you don't
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 09:06 PM
1

Basic advice on attraction/comfort, not on arousal/desire Useless advice so Some women like violence because it turns them on. Most of them like danger. And most of them won't admit that in public, maybe to her apex sexual partner
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:05 PM
1

Rule Zero: Don't take advice from women on dating
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:41 PM
1

Maybe you're not providing enough comfort for them to see you as relationship material. I always had that problem, it started to become a serious issue after 25y I'm 37M
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 06:39 PM
3

seemingly They're just not you. You might be boring and don't acknowledge it
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 05:51 PM
1

Exactly this. But it takes practice for men to recognize it
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:12 PM
1

She reached out herself again, in the same bar. I had already moved on so I didn't care at all
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:52 PM
29

It's not for everyone, I tried it but never beyond 2, and most of my life I've been a serial monogamist. I admire men who do it, they must have a lot of patience
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:15 AM
1

In the middle of sex. Never knew why. She wanted it again a few days later
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:12 AM
4

I always liked MILFs. Unfortunately in my 20s never had that chance. But yes, they're not relationship material, too much baggage
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:08 PM
8

Women's prime is 23 Men's prime is 36 On average
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:30 PM
24

For sure. Work on yourself, believe in yourself, don't look for external validation and you'll be unstoppable
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:05 PM
14

When I was your age I thought the same, that I was at my prime at 27/28 It's just some society BS. Now I'm 37 and I realize I'm not yet on my prime
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:03 PM
16

Late 30's, early 40's
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:18 AM
3

No. She can hit on you though. I've been hit on by waitresses a few dozen times in my life
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:04 PM
10

I agree. If you have frame, you couldn't care less because you don't have the mental energy to spare to that
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:55 PM
1

As soon as I can. But texting should be mostly to logistics. Texting is just free attention
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:45 PM
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Care to listen what a man has to say, OP? You're hardly a whore. I understand it's difficult but allow him to be the man he could be. You'll be alright in the long run. And you're only 22. Lots of things will happen in your life
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 05:43 PM
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She's perfectly normal. I agree. She's just not a suitable relationship partner. 400+ is just too much for either sex
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 05:41 PM
1

Stop being so nice. You're flexing. It is normal if you are doing a lot of pick up. If you're doing constant pick up you'll be constantly rejected. If you do it moderately you'll get moderately rejected. Just learn from rejections and move on. Rejection is painful but take it neutrally and evaluate yourself
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:31 AM
1

Yes. It has worked. But having social proof is key. Most of the times it won't work, but you always learn to connect better for next time
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:25 AM
2

I see myself as masculine and good looking, better than most, confident on myself, not thirsty on girls and I'd say 1% of the girls I find attractive also find me attractive That 10% is for real Chads But 1% is still good. Just as long as you network and meet lots of people (not just women)
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:14 PM
7

Exactly this. Ex girlfriends are not to take back. Maybe pump and dump. Stop your oneITIS. She probably used you for the same reason, to forget or get back at some guy
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:01 PM
1

So, change that. That's unattractive both for women and men. That kind of person starts calling himself SIGMA as a coping strategy. I have a lot of acquaintances, really a lot (I'd say 1000+) but only have 2 really close friends. Do I care I don't have more friendships? No. But I'm always meeting new people
/r/seduction30/12/21 02:48 PM
2

You sir, need more friends and acquaintances
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:15 AM
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Men, in general, don't really care about a women's money
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:17 PM
4

Had a few FWBs like that on my early 20s, they wouldn't dare take me their home. And me, being broke, didn't develop feelings for them because you know you'll never be with them as a boyfriend. Also I wouldn't like to be with a woman making more money than me, that creates more problems than solutions.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:15 PM
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Making AN EFFORT to make a girl cum is a beta behavior. If the girl sees you as her Alfa, she will cum even if you're a selfish prick, without much effort on your part. Making a girl cum starts OUTSIDE the bedroom, not eating her out for 15min and using lots of toys
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:22 PM
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Being a narcissist is fine. I always had that tendency (not on a disorder level) and girls seem to be attracted to that. Yes, I was the asshole they complained to you while you offered your shoulder for her to cry on and a few days later they came back for more Being a psychopath makes you great at manipulation. Game is manipulation.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:07 PM
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That's a beta behavior. Making an effort to a girl always come makes her paradoxically less interested in sex
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:47 PM
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Stop pretending, just be. Females can weed out quickly males who are faking it. Work on your game until you are the game. It's not easy but it's simple
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:43 PM
1

And you're a nice guy who can't attract girls LOL
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:41 AM
1

That makes you a nice guy, always aiming for other people's validation. I'm a male and I find nice guys creepy and untrustworthy. If you don't get what's wrong there, then neither I or anybody can help you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:01 PM
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I’m not an emotionally needy clingy person who needs constant validation Yes you are. Why do you need other people's validation?
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:06 PM
0

Stop being so ego invested. MeToo is just your ego protecting you from getting hurt from rejection. Ask yourself, what sets you apart from other/most guys?
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:46 PM
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Guys. Listen to this girl and stop being pussies. They want to be approached. Don't be afraid to fail once in a while
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:43 PM
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You are right. Guys nowadays are just pussies. It's like you're with your girlfriends and not a real man, right? That's why I don't like girls approaching me. And that's why so many guys would like to be approached nowadays
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:41 PM
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Why is she cheating? You guys are fwb, not in a real relationship. Get more girls, keep this fwb stuff and leave your feelings out. Otherwise, she'll end it
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:03 AM
1

Isolate, escalate, close OP What do you want from her?
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:53 PM
3

Exactly. Don't mention the guy. Act like he doesn't exist. But the whole things smells "FRIENDZONE"
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:50 PM
2

Keep her as a side plate and invest on a new woman so you can kill that retarded oneITIS
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:06 AM
1

Its a fitness/shit test Comfort tests are when you're in a relationship So OP, you failed the test. No biggie, move on or keep her as a side piece
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:03 PM
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The secret to good sex is quality, not quantity. You'll be miserable and empty inside from all the low quality girls you're banging. Focus on getting high quality girls, not quantity numbers. I had a 'hoe phase'. It was horrible. I was always afraid of STDs. The sex isn't that great. If you're doing it for your ego, try something better
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:29 PM
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I have no idea on what my body count is. Stopped counting at 3 or 4. High body count doesn't make you an expert at sex. I've hooked up with total sluts and they fuck terribly
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:38 PM
1

Exactly. But dopamine is also cool so think about it
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:48 PM
1

He just wants you around like an orbiter but isn't that into you I'd say go no contact for 3 days and see what happens He might have other girl(s). May be a serial monogamist. Can't have more than 1 at the same time because th Guys like to have our stomach fed, balls empty and peace. We're so simple it hurts. But if he's not into you just accept it and move on
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:33 PM
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OP is female
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:30 PM
2

My best year was probably 8 and having regular sex with most of them. Not much but it was enough for me. Eventually you have to keep replacing since some get boyfriend's, marry or just get tired of you Edit: that year was 2010
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:50 PM
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You'll get a lot of low quality females and maybe a few STDs, also you have to dedicate your whole life to it. Seems a waste of time Do not obscess over notch count. Not worth it
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:47 PM
1

I disagree. Learn womanese instead
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:27 PM
3

You're young man. Start now
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:42 PM
2

You had that chance and you blew it. Probably too soon or too awkward
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:39 PM
2

Or a simp
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:36 PM
1

No. I totally get this situation, even from her. You can't fix her, and she's telling you that. And you keep putting up with it. She and we all think there's something wrong about you
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:34 PM
3

So you want that cum rag to be your wife/gf/ltr and stop the cum ragging... ok
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:29 PM
1

Welcome to reality, lol. But srsly she's shit testing you OVERTLY. Has no attraction for you. She thinks you're a loser for putting up with it. Well, one day you'll laugh about it. Now, next her, have much less time for her if you want to do that friendship thing and look for other women. She'll be attracted to you again. And don't put up with those shit tests man. Don't you have dignity?
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:25 PM
3

Iz it oneITIS? Srsly man get over it. She senses your insecurity. Treat her as a friend and get other women if you also want that specific woman
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:18 PM
2

Learn game, practice and approach and talk. How old are you?
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:14 PM
1

I'm not married. LTR for 11y. 36y old I didn't made her change her last name. My 2 kids got my last name. No discussion whatsoever
/r/askMRP29/09/21 09:58 PM
1

Judging by OP's post, I don't think he got past the 2nd base yet, so calm the f down
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:42 PM
1

Maybe it's just a cope to deal with you. Your X knew how to write. The flaker and the approacher just had bad school experiences or that's just missing somebody and writing a lot of letters just to make it seem bigger. Don't dwell on it. Don't you have better things to do? Oh, and don't forget self esteem
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:41 PM
1

This is kinda correct but it's not accurate information. The girls who told you texts that way. It just depends on the girl
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:37 PM
0

Yeah. It's creepy
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:31 PM
8

Make your life interesting to yourself, other people will want to enter your life too. Stop being boring a d get some hobbies and only spend some time applying game.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:22 PM
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Women will chase you if you're worth chasing Women who chased after me was always me approaching and not the other way around When I was 17 (I'm 36) I was a sexy son of a bitch skateboarder and I got hit on and approached a few times, and I didn't like it very much. Even though I had trouble closing at that age, it felt right me approaching and not the other way around. So change your mindset OP. Are you a man who takes what he wants?
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:15 PM
9

Is it just me or the wife is banging Chad and not feeling guilty?
/r/askMRP29/09/21 07:34 PM
1

I started getting girls at 12yr, but I learned a lot about psychology, seduction and women after 17y, when I actively wanted lots of girls in my life I'm now 36. In an LTR. But remember, when you start to understand women, you'll be very disappointed and it will make you angry, for a while
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:09 PM
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Looks matter, since I was 12yr to like 26yr But I had to learn seduction and lose fear of closing to be successful Looks alone, unless you're Giga Chad just gets you a "job interview" it does not guarantee the "job"
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:05 PM
1

No, are you for real? Do you think men and women communicate the same way?
/r/seduction25/09/21 09:34 PM
1

That's an horrible advice. You cannot talk about sex, you must steer the conversation so she can talk about sex and you can use plausible deniability But I got the feeling OP was already in the FRIEND ZONE, so, leave that oneITIS and find yourself a new girl
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:03 AM
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Congratulations, you've made it into the FRIENDZONE
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:00 AM
2

Incel? Are you talking about most users in /r/seduction ?
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:24 PM
1

Counseling? You cannot negotiate attraction Is this sub really for real? Try SEDUCTION
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:18 PM
4

I had 2 girls bragging to me about their body count being over 60 (age: 25 or less), because we both knew I wasn't going to wife them up. It's a shit test. A weird one. Both got married and divorced after marrying chumps
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:24 PM
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As I guy who happened the same I will tell you: He will never forgive or trust you 100% again. The only thing that could erase that in his mind is to have sex with a few different other girls while you stay loyal to him
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 05:59 AM
2

You get female friends and then they could win your benefits. You always state your intents to them. You waste no time if they give you no benefits. You don't care if they see with other girls because they're not entitled to your full attention Sometimes it could take weeks, months or years. I eventually hooked up with almost all of my female friends. Only a few I didn't. They knew I was ready to have sex with them and be discreet, but I wasn't that easy, so it was kind of a challenge to them. T…
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:38 PM
2

Dude just get more girls, move on. If she wants you, she'll change her behavior. You're being just a friend to her. Go No contact
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:36 PM
1

You should move on. Learn from your mistakes. Stop texting that girl and get other ones rolling. Don't get oneitis
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:14 PM
11

Good genetics will make your game easier, just that. But genetics alone won't get you nowhere, unless you're gigaChad
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:52 PM
1

Because being depressed and suicidal isn't normal. We don't want you to kill yourself, we want you to improve your life. You have to want it too. Everything will be better, I promise.
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:41 PM
2

Lift weights. Build yourself up. So what if you're a virgin? Don't tell anyone and act like you're not. Stop having fear of rejection Your life will improve
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:39 PM
0

She's 36 and wants to settle down? Get a pair, seduce that woman but don't make it an LTR. Do not make it an LTR! She's in the Epiphany phase where she just wants kids. Pump and dump. Not worth your time
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:31 PM
2

Accept your mistakes and move on. Don't dwell on it brother
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:55 PM
3

When I was 16-18 I masturbated a few virgins, went down on them (and they went down on me) and I felt a few times I could easily steal their virginity, but I never did it because I'm not like that. But it took quite some escalation... Never in just one date. I don't do dates (in the way most guys do). Only took them out if we were already having sex. They felt safe trying those things with me. I had a female friend that I taught her to suck dick before she lost her virginity to her boyfriend. Af…
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:07 AM
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I lost my virginity only when I stopped thinking I was a virgin and I needed to lose my virginity. With a girlfriend and someone I loved at the time. Never told her I was a virgin. She never knew. I am sure she would be turned off since she already had 3 guys before me. Don't stress about it
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:58 PM
7

Well... Move on, don't get oneitis
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:55 AM
3

We don't do shit tests. But we should test them. You're the prize, not them
/r/seduction31/05/21 11:59 PM
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I had a book but I am can resume it for you: Relax your whole body,first the head, neck, chest, shoulders, focus on your breathing and feel yourself relaxed After you feel totally relaxed repeat "I am whatever situation you want to improve" not "I will" and envision yourself in those situations. Keep it humble and achievable. Like "I am comfortable in every situation" and imagine that I did it for like 10/15min every time for a few weeks. Like meditation. I never did it again, for lack of time a…
/r/seduction25/05/21 10:12 PM
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Work on yourself right now. You're a stranger, I don't know you, but I want you to work on yourself right now Something that really helped me when I was 16/17 was self hypnose for a few weeks. Then I felt something unlocked within myself. Really hope the same happens to you
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:53 PM
1

When you have options, you shit test girls. Don't waste so much energy trying to pass shit tests. Test her if she's good for you
/r/seduction15/05/21 03:26 PM
1

That's great OP. Just don't waste valuable time with them. Keep some around, sleep with other girls that are not your friends, and eventually you'll sleep with 1 or 2 in the friend zone, without trying
/r/seduction08/05/21 11:51 PM
1

I always interpret the boyfriend line as a sh*t test Also you went to ask for her number after your buddy told you that, she was just begging for male validation, or worse, trying to make your buddy jealous, not interested in you at all Move on and forget it
/r/seduction02/05/21 08:20 PM
1

I went to night clubs to be with my friends, not picking up girls. That might seem awkward for some people. I picked up a few girls because of my mindset. I wasn't there to pick up girls but to have a good time Also, I found it easy to talk to random beautiful women because I didn't care about the outcome. I just wanted to have fun
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:48 AM
0

Help a brother (or sister) and nevermind they made a post ranting/venting or made a mistake I genuinely like to help people. OP, you're going through a tough time right now. Learn to like yourself first. Improve yourself. Start today. Until your last breath. Women should never be the most important goal in your life
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:40 AM
1

I (now) have people skills and I'm used to talk in public, my job requires it to do so. I haven't always been like that. In the beginning I found it harder to talk with other men. My LTR says I'm the most confident man she knows when talking in public, being assertive and talking to people in general. And I'm always trying to improve it
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:33 AM
2

"You've been with" not "are with". Also, you didn't mentioned it was monogamous or LTRs. Also, I don't care if you think I'm low or high quality. I sincerely don't care.
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:25 AM
2

It doesn't work that way girl, sorry You would like it to work it that way, that's the difference That #bossgirl attitude will just attract low quality males. If a high quality male happens to be attracted to you with that attitude, don't expect him to be monogamous
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:01 AM
1

Never had muscles. That can build attraction, but doesn't make you close. If you exercise, do it for yourself and your health, not to be attractive to women
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:14 PM
1

hopefully Don't think too much about it. Next time you see her, close.
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:11 PM
1

sometimes it would happen. Also I'm not attracted to all girls that crossed my path, that were somehow attracted to me
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:09 PM
1

I did this to girls that I knew already were attracted to me, with high success. But occasionally a girl would say that to me and it would sometimes kill the attraction. I'm a hunter, not a prey. Good for ego, though
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:45 PM
1

Exactly. Hit on her sister while ignoring her (most of the time)
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:40 PM
5

Sounds like she has lots of male attention. Be confident , do not be friends with her, flirt and show her you have social status. Do not act like a friend! Remember you want but don't need her. That's how you get her. If she doesn't want you, move as quickly as possible and don't get into her friendzone.
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:39 PM
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You should have closed but regardless that's great to you. At least it builds up confidence, so keep it going
/r/seduction22/04/21 09:55 AM
1

I don't necessarily agree the text on the title is true 100% of the time. I don't disagree on what you say next
/r/seduction15/04/21 10:45 PM
1

Focus on your life and always be seducing on your girl. This is great advice
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:20 PM
1

This is actually great advice. Stopped watching porn a while ago, relationship improved
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:19 PM
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Stop being a nice guy. That's no different from other countries, even in the West
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:15 PM
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We can still talk to men and women but not too close. You cannot touch the other person. But you can make eye contact and have comfortable body language. I say OP, while approaching, also improve yourself and your confidence. Approaching works if you don't think about it. I had a friend who made cold approaches all the time. He's an ugly bastard but women love him. I love that guy too
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:25 PM
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If it's complicated she's taking the lead. You should take the lead. Sorry if I'm pushing
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:21 PM
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They feel you're nice, you don't create tension and suddenly they are attracted to a guy who can make them feel the way they like I stopped having best girlfriends at 16. Then I had one at 21/22 because she was a friend's girlfriend and that made me feel safe, because I knew she wasn't going to make a move on me. She allowed me to be the jerk I naturally am without me getting afraid of attracting her. But she did make a subtle move a while after they broke up. I rejected it. And the friendship k…
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:20 PM
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Btw, it might happen to you. I remember a girl I kinda liked in my 20's and made a horrible approach. I failed. Got number but somehow I knew I failed. She gave me her phone number just because of my social status. I texted and never took off, I didn't insist either A few years later she texts back out of the blue. I didn't follow. Just to tell one thing. One failure now is not a failure for ever.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:51 PM
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Don't think of it as rejection, think of it as a learning experience and move on, don't waste too much of your time overthinking what went wrong Do it again. And again. And again. You will get a lot better and one day you'll remember it. I remember some of my failures and I don't think negatively about it anymore Sometimes I'd 'fail' and proceeded to overthink about it. Only started to get really successful after not caring if I failed or not. I got upset with myself for not trying This advice i…
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:48 PM
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Your hints should be subtle. I don't know if I'm expressing it in the right way. English is not my native language
/r/seduction12/04/21 07:47 AM
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Subtle. The more you are the better are the end results
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:36 PM
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Yes. I have that 'bad' habit that I sometimes struggle to mitigate it, in 'formal' work situations for example And sometimes I'm not as subtle as I wished it would sound That's me. And my occasional mistakes But overall, takes practice. And it's fun.
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:34 PM
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I don't know man, probably, but at this moment it seems almost impossible. Never liked 'cold approach' on total strangers. Friends of friends of friends at most. So get your social network wider, irl and internet I don't know, cold approach just seems creepy at the moment
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:21 PM
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Depends on what she wants. A younger guy with a really HL or a more mature guy and still young with lots of energy. So you have to know what your style is and improve it. First will attract some, the later also
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:04 PM
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I have no experience but someone I know has. He's 30. Bangs some 40's and mid30's usually married. They just want to bang that horny fella
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:59 PM
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I really don't care about this. Sometimes I reply right away sometimes takes me a few hours. Just depends on how busy I am I tried it once 15 years ago with a girl I really liked and she took 24h/48h to reply, and I replied right away, because she made me think she was scarce
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:40 PM
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Yes. I just never done that
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:33 AM
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It's an old joke, be my guest :)
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:26 AM
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Say thanks and move on. An ex is like an old car, you know the problems and has more mileage
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:08 AM
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Pick up artist
/r/seduction09/04/21 11:43 PM
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That's boring and not challenging. So if a guy you really like doesn't want you, what do you do? What's your seduction strategy?
/r/seduction09/04/21 11:30 PM
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Because there's something you do, consciously or not, to get "all the guys" attracted to you. I really doubt it's just from kisses on the neck and nibbling ear lobes
/r/seduction09/04/21 11:28 PM
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No it's not. You have potential, everyone has. You just have to define goals in life and discipline yourself to it. I defined mine but have problems with self discipline, nevertheless I'm always trying to be better And you can be better. It will be hard. But even in the short term, it will be worth it
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:46 PM
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Could be just a test. It's shitty I know But about when she does tell only after you had sex a couple of times? Or when were previous fwb, then she gets a real boyfriend and doesn't tell you right away?
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:26 PM
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Some will test you just to see what you do. Depends on your goals. If you make her want to cheat. Or just make that up, like projecting her just friend as her boyfriend, just as she doesn't seem single or desperate
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:24 PM
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It's just tension building up. I rather have the 3sec rule. 5 seconds is just way too long. After 3 secs approach and you never should look away, unless you have a reason for it.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:54 PM
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A relationship is not all about sex. You wouldn't fuck every attractive girl in the planet. You might think so, but after a while it would get boring. Then, you would want a special connection. Your mindset is just wrong, brother. I kudos to a woman who is willing to learn and develop herself.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:46 PM
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First, you have to get him to want you. A few girls in my teen years did that to me and it just doesn't work that way. I was a horny teen like everyone but that coming from out of nowhere, just is a turnoff, personally
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:43 PM
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Touch him. Talk to him. Make him feel special. Appeal to his ego. Kiss him. Do not be afraid of rejection. Take a lead sometimes. Do not play games, that only works on weak men. I think most of the stuff here on can work both on guys and girls. Do you want casual sex or a LTR? Are you falling for just one man? What kind of men do you like? You have to standout to get a good man.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:42 PM
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Improve yourself first. Turn your weaknesses into strengths. Really commit to it. You will overcome this. It will be HELL but it will be worth it
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:12 PM
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This is so true. You don't even have time to think about rejection. And does not need to be other women, just your job or hobbies. One thing I learned, in my early days and now even with a LTR as I am at the moment, you cannot ever let her feel comfortable with you. If she senses that you fear losing her, she will lose attraction.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:10 PM
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This is gold. I know a lot of guys who can lay a decent fair amount of women without really trying but anything beyond that they're losers. They just have no goals in life A life chasing only chicks is a wasted life. Women/A woman is/are a complement to your life, not the main goal
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:05 PM
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She was trying to manipulate you with sex. Didn't work. You didn't finish your story but my gut tells me she had a lot of issues and you dodged a bullet
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:57 PM
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You feel like an attractive girl feels about guys chasing her, all the time. Boosts your ego only to a point, not worth it, it gets tiring To me it was kind of a turnoff, subconsciously
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:54 PM
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I thought better at it and I had a girlfriend who also didn't like it, didn't remember at the time. But I was 17 she was 16. We tried getting back together at mid twenties during a weekend but we just just didn't clicked anymore. She still didn't like it. For her, she just felt powerless
/r/seduction07/04/21 11:22 PM
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Sorry, now I've read it, you do tell them.
/r/seduction07/04/21 10:45 PM
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Ok I respect that. Never met a girl who didn't like getting it though But do you tell yr partners that?
/r/seduction07/04/21 10:44 PM
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Books, internet and having great friends as wingmen, getting out a lot, meeting alot of people, failing alot but not caring, etc I'm now on a LTR but I cannot forget the stuff I've learned, and keep improving myself. But the most important thing was not deciding to improve just my game, but to improve everything about me
/r/seduction07/04/21 10:41 PM
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That is true. Well, I'm not an american. I'm european. And I got some women this way and it creates a strong connection, but most of the time it's a failure.
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:25 PM
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I don't like it, but it works if it's bold, all the time
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:06 AM
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In my experience, not watching porn at all makes you go after more sex and also last longer, masturbating or not. Porn fucks up our minds. Consume with moderation
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:31 PM
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You don't like doing it or getting it?
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:26 PM
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What's a cold approach? Sorry for asking
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:24 PM
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I know man I changed that simple thing in me But that's not a reason to call me an anomaly lol. I wouldn't smell like shit (I think), sometimes I just went 24h or a bit more without showering. I started to learn about seduction when I was 17 now I'm 36. Smell helps but does not close. I'm not saying "don't bathe"
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:14 PM
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I've pickup a lot of girls in my mid 20s while not having the best hygiene in the world. Not a pig but sometimes I wouldn't bathe everyday A girl who left her boyfriend for me only during that weekend even told me "you smell so good tonight" I changed and now I take care of my hygiene on a day to day basis. Just to let you know, its important, but not the most important thing. A girl will fuck you even if you're all sweaty if she wants to
/r/seduction06/04/21 10:00 PM
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Alpha males never try to be alphas. They just are. If you're trying, you're failing. Just be yourself, help others when they need, don't care about what other people think of you, learn to like yourself. You'll be a better person and you'll have a better life. Then ladies will flock to you
/r/seduction02/04/21 12:22 PM
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