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This post went above so many peoples heads, lol. It’s not that these are unreasonable standards. In fact individually they’re all extremely reasonable. It’s that 99% of men are not desirable and tolerable enough to make even THESE demands and there seems to be a lot of lack of self awareness among a lot of people and the way they come across when they start finger snapping. We have men out here 45+ DEMANDING women be under 30. We have 240lb+ men out here DEMANDING women be under 150. We have men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:13 PM
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I think a lot of men don’t understand how much context matters for most of us too. When I was dating I’d basically never kiss or sleep with a dating app date on the first date. Or if they were a stranger I met at some party or bar. But someone I knew longer term who decided to shoot their shot? Yeah that’s happened a couple times. It was more about my predetermined comfort in the situation than it was how into them I was. Just some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:27 PM
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Not the “no one will ever date a woman who’s older or feminist or a single mom” crowd turning around and saying “even women who are r-slur can get men!!!!” Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:49 AM
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Being content with casual means you’re not competing. Do people not realize that women who have casual sex partners are usually also having a rotation of some sort?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:26 AM
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Lmfao. All the guys who say women should pick better guys get salty and bitter when women actually learn their lesson and start picking better guys and having higher standards. Just browse WAATGM for 5 minutes. They don’t actually want women to pick better guys. The only rule to them is women lose. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:02 PM
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Exactly. Like I can say all day long I’d never date a guy outside of 2 years of my own age if I were ever single again, but let’s be real, if the PERFECT guy who was 5 years older or younger walked in and checked every other box I’m not genuinely about to tell him to get lost. That was kinda my point is that Reddit is full of people who don’t touch grass who probably don’t spend much time outside of their echo chambers and would change in the drop of a hat if the right person walked in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:28 PM
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I felt this way after browsing the manosphere the first few times too. I went years unwilling to commit to a relationship because I didn’t think any men could be trusted and didn’t wanna risk ending up with one of these dudes. Finally with a little bit of time I learned to vet men for these qualities and I also learned like 90% of the dudes on TRP are lying. 99% of them absolutely are willing to commit to single moms, high n count women, etc if they like them enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:04 PM
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Most traditional men in particular don’t view women as depreciating assets and don’t value youth. The red pill is not a traditional ideology, it’s a male supremacy ideology. They’re having a hard time finding traditional women because traditional women are not willing to settle with men who aren’t traditional themselves and want one sided open relationships. I’m not traditional at all but I do know both traditional men and women are in demand just not by the people they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:42 PM
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What are you talking about? We hire people to come fix our shit lol, you think the average single woman is flirting with dudes for plumbing favors? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:07 AM
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No. But I am married to one, have dated several of them before that, have several in my family, several in my friend group, several in my work place, several I encounter on a regular basis. Men who refuse to marry certainly exist, but it is not a phenomenon happening in massive droves and certainly not “most men”. I don’t even know that many men over 30 that are single at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:40 AM
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The amount of men refusing to get married of their own volition is still a minority of men and of those men doing so specifically because of body count is a minority of those. The world is nuanced and not a play by play of a red pill podcast. Please touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:37 AM
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Paying alimony literally costs less than fully supporting your spouse who stays home with the children within marriage. If they’re lucky they’ll receive half of that in a divorce settlement. So, paying less out of pocket than they were previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:08 AM
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These are two types of guys are the same guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:36 PM
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It always cracks me up that Keanu is a symbol of TRP and other scripted manosphere types. Bro, he’d literally hate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/22 04:43 AM
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You didn’t but you addressed this post to men broadly. And a lot of them do ask us that and act openly hostile to us for having standards as you are pretending people do to men here. Have whatever preferences you want, we all have them and are entitled to have them. Nobody’s asking you to change them in the first place but you’re on here defending yourself like they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:24 AM
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You guys literally do whine and cry and ask women why they don’t like short guys or broke guys but go off my insecure king. If you want a woman with a low partner count, great! Good for you, I hope you find her. But don’t bitch and moan that it shrinks your dating pool by a large margin when this is a criteria you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:17 AM
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Ugly guys actually have way more audacity than hotter ones tbh. If you take advice from all these redpill incel types and settle for less than you deserve that guy will just look down on you for settling and his ego will go through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:19 PM
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Are we pretending that guys out there actually accept ‘no’ for an answer for that but will go down on that same woman? Absolutely not lol they’ll just dump her. You made that double standard up yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:26 AM
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So, because men have decided they’ll just spitefully opt out of society as a reaction to women’s progress, instead of suggesting we push more positive cultural attitudes among men, we blame women instead? Yes I’m sure this is very helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:49 AM
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You’ll need to account for how many of those virgins are so by choice. Not everyone is in a hurry and some people are religious. I feel like this is a non issue. If men wanted to be fucking that badly, they’d be putting in the work. Honestly I don’t feel like this is that much of an issue. I’m sure if the genders were reversed this would be seen as a good thing. If people wanna wait, let them. If they’re having a hard time and do wanna have sex, they need to re-strategize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:10 AM
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Oh, but I’m sure you believe it’s just fine for women to settle for men who have had sex before they came along, right? This isn’t Christian mingle my guy, most people care about whether their partner makes them happy, not if someone had casual sex 5-10 years prior to meeting them. Most people don’t even ask lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:11 AM
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EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. They just migrated here from incels when it got banned I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:58 AM
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Anyone else feel like this sub every day has the exact same posts? And every single one is some inc*l garbage? Also plenty of attractive, well rounded and self respecting men fall in love with and marry women who have slept with men before them. As a matter of fact most do. I swear Reddit is the only space on earth that actually fixates so heavily on this. PLEASE touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:39 AM
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Because most men don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:36 AM
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Yeah, I think that’s pretty fair and normal to say. Most people find more happiness with someone who’s on the exact page and timeline as themselves. When one person gets fomo and wants to explore because they never have and the other wants to settle down it’s just a recipe for disaster. It’s hard to know you aren’t missing out without actually trying it yourself, no matter your gender. And this can work either way. Most people who marry young get divorced earlier and then “catch up” on all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:23 PM
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Literally absolutely no one at all. But if they don’t pretend someone is then they have no one to be mad at and no excuse to try and legislate transgender people out of existence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:21 AM
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Exactly! It’s not one of those like “I’m using sex and leverage and MAKING him wait” things, it’s just about brewing up the chemistry and focusing on other things before jumping in bed. When I’ve dated I’ve waited to have sex because it always seemed like the guy understood boundaries and didn’t push for it within 1-2 dates. It wouldn’t even come up from him so I’d just wait til the times right and we’d do it when it felt natural and comfortable from both people to do so. Whereas a guy I’m havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:58 AM
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Most actual average guys end up in relationships with women. Men here just think the bottom 10% are the average. Also someone not wanting to have sex with or date you isn’t equal to “not viewing them as people” 🙄 What an unhinged hyperbole. If YOU don’t view women you’re not attracted to as people, just say that, don’t deflect your short sightings on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:47 PM
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They might in certain areas where people invest in their appearance like LA or NY but basically everywhere else in the US including where I’m from, hard no. They develop alcohol problems, get beer guts, go bald, get wrinkly and get bitter and resentful. Nobody wants to listen to some drunk bald guy complain about his ex wife who left him after 5 minute out of breath sex. The ones that do keep themselves well looking and age well and don’t get bitter and resentful usually get and stay married aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:15 AM
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I’m an average looking woman and have turned away multiple attractive men because they creeped me off or came on too strong. If you think good looking dudes are just cat calling hella women in public as then she’s tripping over herself to ride his dick you’re very very mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:32 AM
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This is my fiancé and I. I’m okay with it, especially since when we do have sex it’s the entire package and he’s never lazy about it and we don’t do “quickies”. Sometimes I wish it was a little more frequent but at least the sex we’re having is high quality every single time. That’s a fair trade off to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:50 AM
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High value men value women for other things than youth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:51 AM
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Harry Styles, Kit Harrington, Will Smith, Zach Efron
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:46 AM
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Yeah, no lol. I was a single mom before meeting my fiancé and he does partially help me raise my kid. I don’t think the same rules apply to cheating in a marriage. If he had a kid before we met, fine. I love him and Im willingly signing up for this as I walk into it. He cheats on me and gets another woman pregnant? That’s their problem, Im out. You won’t directly disrespect me and then ask for my help for 18+ years. Why would I expect him to raise a kid I got impregnated with because I CHEATED o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:49 AM
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Oh trust me every post I see in this sub makes that crystal clear. I just think the odd pretzel knotting gymnastics they use to justify this make absolutely no sense when you actually think of them logically. “It’s bad when women have higher n counts than men because it’s easier for women to get sex because they have more options” is really not the dunk on women with high n counts and flex for men with high n counts that they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:17 AM
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I’m also confused by this. I don’t see the relevance of it being easier to get and it making someone unattractive to obtain it. I get that retroactive jealousy is a thing to a degree so like wade with caution when talking about past encounters with partners but this obsession specifically with n-count is so bizarre and odd. I feel like if someone’s n-count is enough to turn you off to them, you just didn’t really like them that much and had it not been the n-count it would have been something el…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:03 AM
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You didn’t “have” to date her lmao. You could have spent time with yourself and waited for a better option instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:21 PM
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Exactly. Obviously I’m hyperbolizing on wanting 3 nights a week for dates since the OP went up to 5 times a week for sex and how many working adults have time for that? But one date a week is MORE than a reasonable request. And you don’t need 5 hours every single time to get an adequate romantic night out. Also, if you’re having sex 5 x a week and that’s totaling to only 25 minutes, she’s probably not getting hers, so that said, why would she want to if you won’t take an extra 10 minutes to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:36 AM
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No, there is no large social pressure on men to keep their women faithful the way there is for women to keep THEIRS faithful. Especially in more old school conservative or religious circles. But there probably should be. At the end of the day, you can not MAKE someone be faithful to you, you can only select partners who actually fit the bill and keep up your end of the bargain. Why should only one person cave to the others needs? Emotional labor isn’t measured in minutes, especially in a LTR or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:29 AM
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Imagine if women started cheating on their partners in droves and then blamed not getting enough date nights like this guy is. “Fellas, it takes very little maintenance to keep us loyal. All we need is 3 date nights a week where you get the baby sitter and take us to dinner. Would you stay faithful to someone who gave you less than 3 out of 7 nights of your attention?” Seriously, men want more sex from their partners? Maybe start investing emotionally a little more in the relationship and make s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:19 AM
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My current partner? Yes absolutely, I’d do literally anything for him. And I feel pretty confident in assuming he’d do so for me. If I were with anyone else BUT him? No way. He’s the only person in so long I was willing to make any kind of sacrifices or life changes for. So if I wasn’t with someone I didn’t love very very exceptionally, I think I’d go tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:31 AM
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He added how infuriating it is when people say “nice is the bare minimum” and “nice isn’t a personality trait” as if those aren’t completely reasonable things for women to say and apply to their dating life. You have to be nice AND attractive. This is not a hard thing to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:46 AM
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They also want her to be all things traditional but don’t wanna be a traditional man and keep their dicks out of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:59 AM
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I was referencing the men mentioned in the OP who are in established relationships with women older than them. I was only making the point that we don’t live in a vacuum with strict criteria on value. Plenty of HVM have no qualms about settling down with women who are older or mothers or divorced, and this should be common sense. But then we have these posts like there where the OP goes shocked pikachu face and even gets somewhat resentful when they see it happening despite that everyone else wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:09 PM
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Trust me as a woman in my 20s I know there are plenty of older men who fetishized young women. But that’s again, fetishizing and is a separate thing and idea from genuine attraction and the desire for an emotionally bonded romantic partner or even just general sexual attraction. Most people, as you can see in marriage data, settle with people closer to their age. As the OP pointed out, there are exceptions. But the idea that HVM will only ever settle for women who are under 30 is just bonkers an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:59 PM
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No, I don’t think it gives her innate value. I think for a lot of people being attractive is an obvious preference but plenty of very attractive people are just absolutely untouchable because of how rancid they are. Bonus points, sure, but not innate value. And no I don’t think all peoples looks diminish with time. I think a 10/10 woman in her 20s who stays fit and keeps up with herself will still be a 10/10 in her 40s as a general consensus, particularly to men her own age. There are obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:52 PM
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Well clearly not since a lot of the women dating the men on this list are 40+ or close. Again we don’t live in some vacuum where women at any particular age lose value as partners. High value people tend to stay high value and low value people who don’t work on themselves stay low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:55 PM
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It’s almost like TRPs idea of women becoming totally undesirable after turning 25 and having children is a load of shit out in the real world. Color me absolutely shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:12 AM
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Yeah that’s an easy theory and example to make when you use the absolute worst angled and times photo of someone you can possibly find of someone. this is a photo of her from the exact same night. she’s still a smoke show.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:50 AM
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When and how lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:32 AM
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Well, it’s a good thing no one was even doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:04 AM
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Nobody believes that teachers should be able to talk about sexual practices they enjoy with 3 year olds because there aren’t any doing that. You just don’t like gay and trans people being in society but can’t say that out loud so you have to make up some absurd polygender pre school teaching boogey man to scare people so you don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:52 AM
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No. Women tend to become better people with age because we have empathy and it’s very useful in shaping us into good partners, friends, parents, coworkers, etc. Because men don’t experience empathy the way women do their mistakes turn into defensiveness, bitter resentment, and they don’t learn from their interactions with others. They may clean up some of their behaviors or bad habits with time but men’s view of the world tends to stagnate with time and they almost NEVER treat women better as th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:45 AM
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I mean whatever you need to tell yourself lol. As a woman in her 20s I can just only say in my experience this is just not the case. Obviously men in their 40s are not as unappealing as men in their 70s but they are not attractive to the average woman in her 20s. There are exceptions to every rule but people 💫generally💫 speaking have the strongest attractions to people in their own age group regardless of what that age is. I was only pointing out that this advice that men should just go for youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:40 AM
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What does that have to do with my comment at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:32 AM
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Income and assets are not as important as sexual attraction and there is not an abundance of young women who are sexually attracted to older men. Maybe the absolute most aggressive of gold diggers but there aren’t enough women willing to date older men to go around for them all. Even the richest of guys will not obtain a faithful woman if they aren’t attractive to her with decent personalities and the ability to respect them. Unless you’re Hugh Hefner, this really isn’t an option for 99% of men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:42 AM
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You met a woman ONE time. Waited ONE day with no response. Then immediately logged into Reddit and complain about how the reason she hasn’t replied to you yet is because “women have too many options”. I think you have some stuff to work out before getting anyone’s phone number. I’m sorry but this isn’t reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:43 AM
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I was googling something on the computer while he wasn’t home and an address popped up in the search bar. I googled the address and it was his ex from before mes address. He put it into Google maps and didn’t clear the search history that was linked with his computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:10 AM
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One and I’m engaged to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:11 AM
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I’m not saying they wouldn’t. Yeah there are a sizable amount that would. I’m just saying this point being made that women only sleep with men they’re desperate to be in a relationship with a false. Sometimes the opposite is true and sometimes it is the case and sometimes it’s mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:24 PM
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Not really. At least for me you have to be hot to get casual sex. But you have to be just as hot AND have everything else to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:33 AM
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There are DEFINITELY men out there that are only hookup material and not relationship material. The only times I’ve ever had casual sex as a woman has been with a man I specifically did NOT want a relationship with for reasons that were huge deal breakers. I did this intentionally so I could just get a release and send them on him way when we were finished without any entanglement. I definitely prefer relationship sex as it’s much better but when you’re in a long spell, you do what you can 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:22 AM
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All I’m doing here is debunking the idea that it’s BiOlOgIcAl for men to be turned off by promiscuous women. People have their individual preferences for shit and that’s fine and all but just say that, don’t make up some shitty pseudoscience that has no real roots to reality or neuropsychology to avoid feelings of insecurity. I’m monogamous because I feel insecurity at the idea of someone enjoying something with someone the way they enjoy it with me. I’m self aware and honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:20 AM
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If I was an unattractive partner choice to someone, they would have chosen someone else instead. We wouldn’t even be in that position. Personally I’ve never had an issue with people being repulsed by my past sexual choices. As a matter of fact people don’t even really ask. Men who actually care or even ask this of their partners are pretty rare. And no, you can’t “just tell”. It’s also very telling that redpill guys don’t care if they give good dick. Right out of the horses mouth that they see u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:37 PM
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Because they don’t measure up. If you’ve had multiple sexual partners you’re more likely to know through experience if they’re not truly putting in the effort to make us feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:47 AM
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This is the actual answer but none of the dudes here will admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:57 AM
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But… do you not think the hygiene part is common sense that no one really needed to teach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:53 AM
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This was one of my favorite episodes and I can’t wait for the rest! The 37 lies post is the one that actually brought me here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:24 PM
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I’ll take society wide gaslighting of women for 500 Alex. STOP telling women they’re overreacting or making a mistake when we leave men who overstep our boundaries on purpose. If she couldn’t even not shove his claustrophobic wife’s face in their cake when SPECIFICALLY asked not to, what else will he try getting away with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:30 AM
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I VERY often get “you look good…. FOR A MOM” from begging scrotes 🙄 like yeah, too good to be talking to you. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:52 AM
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