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You don't stand around at all. Forget what you know about IOIs, they don't matter. Find a girl you think is cute, and approach her. Do it that way and all you have to worry about is if they tell you to fuck off, and if they continue the interaction assume the dance of seduction has begun. Simple either/or situation.
/r/seduction30/10/17 11:47 PM
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You get it. You're not really pushing outside your comfort zone if you're going out to "sarge" with your "bros", you're going in a group for comfort reasons.
/r/seduction12/08/17 10:03 PM
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Keep dancing and move towards them while you do. When you're close keep dancing and start making eye contact. When she notices same deal, beckon her closer, if she closes in you're good to get more hands on (not in a gropey way, hands should remain on her midriff or below, at least until you've kissed her) and close the dance from group dancing to two people dancing in a crowd. Or if you're super drunk and behind a girl you can always bump into her "on accident" a few times. Shell do one of a fe…
/r/seduction12/08/17 04:23 PM
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Whatever works. Seduction is a war and game, it's a back and forth of two parties with two sets of priorities, but at the same time it should be fun. Do whatever feels right. If the way you do things is yielding you a satisfying result go with it. If you're satisfied don't overthink it, and don't ask for the peanut galleries input. You'll inevitably get someone in here who's gonna tell you to be "more alpha" and just to go up and push it until "you get the ho to say no". If it ain't broke don't …
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:27 PM
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Believe it or not some chicks dig on cheese.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:14 PM
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And that's what wingmen are for. They aren't supposed to be vital to the seduction, they're supposed to point out interested females that go unnoticed.
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:11 PM
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Beckoning a girl over if she keeps glancing seems like it would be a good way to be sure. Either she starts moving towards you at which point you're good to grab her; Or she ignores you or looks at you funny, in that case oh well. Worst case you grab her to dance with her, and she freaks out, at that point you laugh, apologize for being to forward and tell her quite simply that you thought she wanted to dance because she came over after you beckoned her, which you did because it seemed like she …
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:07 PM
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Read the news.
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:43 AM
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Thanks for repeating something I know. I was bringing up a question of contextual semantics, foundational knowledge.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:03 AM
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I wouldn't call that an advantage. I'm a shy pooper.
/r/seduction03/08/17 09:04 PM
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Do the matches matter if she won't actually meet up? No. If a girl gives you her number in person, she won't have the anxiety of having to meet up with someone she doesn't really know better than a stranger. I can say or pretend to be anyone on tinder, girls know that.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:52 PM
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Two questions: Are you 12? And do you think anyone buys this?
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:41 PM
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Yes there are. It's called go outside and introduce yourself to a girl if you thinks she's attractive. There's like 3 billion in the world.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:40 PM
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Ok pumpkin. Have fun not ever learning how to turn a woman on. BTW never said chicks never make the first move, pretty clearly stated that the majority of women require the man to make the first move if he's interested. If they're initiating, and you're not leading them to that, you're not seducing them, they just need a quick dumb lay.
/r/seduction03/08/17 06:19 PM
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My only issue is the phrase "being alpha" is that itsan empty buzz phrase generally used by people who to use your words "wanna go on mad sex rampages". We're in agreement that someone's life goal, Thelema, ambitions whatever, should come first.
/r/seduction03/08/17 04:19 PM
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Did I use the words false dichotomy? No. Cool, then don't strawman me please and thanks.
/r/seduction03/08/17 04:17 PM
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I'm sorry I thought I was on the subreddit for seduction, not the subreddit for having the girl make the first move. Secondly a psychiatric condition is not the same as neediness, ones a choice, ones a diagnose blessed medical condition. Don't blame "posts from guys like me" for your own self sabotage, Internet posts don't make you fuck an opening with a chick up, that's on you, take the responsibility for yourself like an adult. Lastly there's nothing macho about what I said, just logic and kno…
/r/seduction03/08/17 04:15 PM
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slow clap Finally some goddamn logic up in this bitch.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:43 PM
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Pretty sure he's gay bruh. Could be wrong doe. Edit: Just looked it up, not gay. I'm now impressed with his impeccable taste in clothing.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:42 PM
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Success with women Right, but I'd rather have one long term relationship, with good sex that makes me happy, with a healthy, mentally stable chick (preferably without daddy issues) than one hundred different crazy bitches every year. So really it depends on how you define success. For me success is a healthy fulfilling relationship, apparently for you it's a number that will have meant absolutely nothing on your death bed.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:41 PM
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Are you sure you don't mean cowardice? I've hesitated a few times with making a move on chicks (Chicks in question had boyfriends, had to do internal rationalizing), and still been in. I have found that if you pass on the signal more than once or twice it will fuck you though. Not disagreeing on general idea, just curious about word choice.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:30 PM
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It's also wrong to expect the girl to do all the work for you. If a guy isn't willing to make the move (hesitant or not) it's not the girl's job to help you get into her pants. They expect guys to take the lead ninety percent of the time for a reason, because ninety percent of chicks tend to be submissive in a sexual/emotional dynamic. If they can't trust a dude to lead them to places they enjoy (emotionally, sexually, datewise, etc.) then they won't want to sleep with them. You don't get to bla…
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:26 PM
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Sorry I was at work and a bit stoned when I read your stuff yesterday. I understand I might have come off as a bit of an argumentative cunt. I think we're in agreement about most of this at this point. And yeah I did misread some of your stuff.
/r/seduction22/07/17 02:41 PM
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Ok now I understand. You're angry at yourself and projecting it cause your 16. Have fun at school sweetie.
/r/seduction22/07/17 02:30 PM
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Lol. The group think around this sub is sad.
/r/seduction22/07/17 02:29 PM
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Whatever dude. I have no idea what you're on about, nor who you are. Also why would I accept unasked for advice from a stranger and why are you so upset about it? PS: Went back and reread the thread. I never disagreed with u/gooseduck, I just put an idea in a different context. If I don't want to go to a gym why should I? I didn't say he's wrong about to go to the gym if it makes him feel more confident. Chill out cunt.
/r/seduction22/07/17 04:19 AM
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You might want to add some context dude.
/r/seduction22/07/17 03:22 AM
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Lolwut?
/r/seduction22/07/17 03:20 AM
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I'm not gonna argue about the subtleties of communication, we're in agreement there. My issue is that it would have come out sooner or later, and it would have ended the same way (more than likely). It's better he deal with his emotions first, that way he doesn't get up there, sleep with her, get that sweet oxytocin high, and then have the buzz get killed because she doesn't feel the same. While we're on the subject of "subtleties in communication" OP didn't say he loved her. I can see how "You'…
/r/seduction21/07/17 10:03 PM
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Put her on a pedestal Having an emotional attraction or bond to a women does not mean you put her on a pedestal. Wanting a relationship is not the same as ignoring a chick's flaws.
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:21 PM
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That shit wasn't insecure or needy. It was straightforward, and honest. Texting a girl eighty times in an hour is insecure and needy. Confidence is putting your authentic self forward and not being worried about a negative experience, so I got not no idea where u/NTSpike is going with his filtering your text shpeal. You could have avoided acknowledging your feelings sure, if getting laid is more important to you than being an honest human being; Besides the universe punishes when you dont acknow…
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:18 PM
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Still not sure. I was pretty fucking wasted. Guessing hers though, still all saw I was half a blue eye and some blond hair before she stuck it in so... who knows.
/r/seduction21/07/17 01:39 AM
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Quick reply as I'm currently at work. 1: I will gladly do that when I get home, if I remember. 2: Maybe at some point I'll self post a mini-manifesto, but to be perfectly honest I haven't really been in a financial situation to go out and meet a lot of women lately, so most of it would just be a combo of life philosophy and meditations on the last couple years of my life (21, didn't get laid til I was 18) so I claim to be no expert.
/r/seduction20/07/17 10:12 PM
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I thought of it in a Jim Jeffries Australian accent. Might have binge watched Legit this weekend.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:51 PM
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That's sounds like a real boring life you lead on that social ladder kitten.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:50 PM
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I agree with the other user, you're overthinking this and give off a deeply cunt vibe. I posted trying to help you figure it out, and immediately you were a snark dick about. Regardless of where you're dancing you need to make a move. You don't need to keep coming back to a chick, you need to let her know you have intent on things other than dancing. You can get a girl to go out with you in five minutes, ands it not fucking hard. You just have to make a connection, simple stuff. If you're dancin…
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:36 PM
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Thanks for replying for me. You said that way more cogently than I would have. I would have just said "No girl wants to get fucked by something that they already have, you cunt".
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:29 PM
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Yes, I'm white. It's probably just a western rave thing honestly. I was just making a joke though.
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:27 PM
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Do you talk with them while you dance? It's difficult but most of the time yes. Ok... Do you ever ask them if they want to go grab a drink, before some dude "runs up and grabs her"? Nope. How do you do that when you've been doing a fast paced dance for a few minutes and barely know her? Pretty simple, before some dude runs up, just say "Hey, I dig your vibe, do you wanna grab a drink?". Either they say yes or no. Though they don't sound like styles you'd practice at a bar or dance club They're n…
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:47 PM
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Oh. Good on you then.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:39 PM
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Afraid to acknowledge them I've been there too comrade. I hope it helps. Remember if you're worried about seeming confident, assume all women find you attractive until proven otherwise, and talk slowly (not handicapped slow, just be active in making sure you're not just spitting out an entire sentence too fast).
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:39 PM
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Stop giving a fuck. Stop overthinking. Find a girl, introduce yourself, open (compliment/neg whatever, I've found complimenting them, and then teasing them about something inane works best, negs always seem too backhanded to me, and teasing them about tiny earlobes or their eye color makes them feel included rather than judged)then have a conversation, alternate open and closed ended questions (about her, she will inevitably ask about you, when she does answer honestly, then try to bring it back…
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:01 PM
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That sounds like a failure on your part. Do you talk with them while you dance? Do you ever ask them if they want to go grab a drink, before some dude "runs up and grabs her"? If you're not leading the dynamic, you shouldn't expect to get laid. Being the man in dancing you take the lead position, you still however have to lead her attention and flirt with if you want more. Side note: What is Lindy Hop / East Coast swing. I'm a New England native and I've been up and down the East Coast, never on…
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:52 PM
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If it's white kids and dance music, they're gonna jump in a moshpit and grind on each other. Trust me there's nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:45 PM
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WERE MORE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR ANGER LEVELS OP. With that allcaps shit.
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:44 PM
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Can confirm. Only college party I ever crashed, I ended up dancing with a couple friends, somehow moved across the room; ended up dancing with a blonde who turned around a shoved a tongue down my throat.
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:43 PM
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Right... I think you're assuming things. Don't get me wrong, if that's what gives you confidence do it. That being said, you're making the assumption that that boosts other peoples confidence. Personally it makes me feel like a smelly, sweaty fucker everytime I go to a gym. The key to boosting your confidence, is to determine the things about you, that you are insecure about (weight, hairstyle, teeth, reading, whatever) and deal with that shit. You were on the right path, just not thinking in a …
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:39 PM
1

Good for you brother, glad you got a date to that concert.
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:02 PM
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Hit the gym, got a nice hair cut and dressed nice You're mistaking the male obsession with the appearance with what females find attractive. Do girls like good looking men? Yes. Is it the most important to them? No; It's about the feels you give them. Obsessing about your looks as a man does nothing for women, just so long as you don't look like a total fucking bum.
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:01 PM
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Because one of you was thinking for yourself instead of posting snarky comments to get karma.
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:48 PM
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Because they don't like to confront the reality that most of them are into pickup because getting laid is the only thing that validates them, when they should be into seduction, because when properly applied you improve yourself. Also apparently because I called him slick jokingly, once. Tl;dr: Apparently calling someone slick steps on dicks around here.
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:46 PM
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I called him slick once, and made like one joke. I wasn't trying to make any points, the post was for his benefit not yours. I'm made sorry I asked him to question why he's into seduction, it's almost like people who say their into self-improvement should want to improve themselves emotionally and mentally or something.
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:43 PM
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Smart move on his part. Now the only thing that he is expecting is a hook up. No need to make that total obvious because that could scare you off. how do you get that from: We were texting and he asked when I was moving cities (I'm going massively South in 2 weeks, UK). Before I could reply he sent, "Don't tell me. Tell me on our first date." If it's me, maybe I want a hookup or a quick fling, but that move is about not letting a clock in the back of your head keep you from having a connection w…
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:56 PM
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It's called lying on the internet. Shit is easy.
/r/seduction28/08/16 01:27 PM
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