keepdointhat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Std scare Upvoting for the comedic value⬆️ But seriously, you need to reflect here. Going down on a one night stand is already suspect, but eating the ass of a prostitute? You PAID to do that?	/r/seduction	26/07/22 06:01 AM
2	Std scare You lost me at anilingus	/r/seduction	26/07/22 05:55 AM
1	How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your place Agree, only I replace wine with tea. Prefer for us both to stay fully sober.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:20 AM
1	[deleted by user] Just do a coffee date and get tea, Costa about $3 or if you want even cheaper go for a walk/hike for free. A picnic sounds like a lot of prep, and also a longer time commitment/awkward to leave early so it’s a bigger ask.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 03:19 AM
2	How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL? Online dating, not much at all; for tinder/bumble etc, I usually go for a meet within the 3rd or 4th message I send. I almost always do a coffee date, which is public and a very low time/money commitment, so not much resistance.	/r/seduction	13/07/22 03:44 AM
2	[deleted by user] Hear me out; Try alcohol. I’m not talking about getting drunk, just 1-2 drinks max so you barely start to feel the effect. I did this when I started dating often, a few years back because I was so nervous meeting girls. Maybe it’s not the “right” way to do it, but otherwise I probably wouldn’t have even gone on my first few dates with girls I didn’t already know. Once you go on enough dates, your confidence will start to naturally build. Now, I haven’t drank any alcohol on a date since 2019, the…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 05:15 AM
6	If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction? Personally I don’t, unless I’ve spent time with her in person before. Not texting can lead to flaking, so to avoid that, I’ll text on the day of the meet “hey, I’m running a bit late..” and ask to delay the meeting by 15 or 30 minutes. That way it serves as a reminder if she forgot, and you don’t have to text “are we still on?”	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:59 PM
1	[deleted by user] I agree, that’s definitely needed. But there’s also something to be said for leaving some awkwardness/tension	/r/seduction	09/07/22 05:18 AM
1	When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer? My go-to is usually to “make tea” because I legitimately like tea, and probably have some type she hasn’t tried before. But my place is not the initial meeting spot, I usually meet somewhere public and make sure we actually click well first. Then if all goes well we go back together.	/r/seduction	09/07/22 03:35 AM
2	How do sober people get casual sexual encounters? As someone who rarely drinks if ever, and also prefer more quiet/chill environments, this is no problem. My go-to is always coffee shops; it’s the perfect low-pressure meet, it’s a “well-lit public place”, and a very low time and money commitment. Basically you’re not asking for much. I value my sleep, so I never actually get coffee, I usually go for a non-caffeinated herbal tea. Also won’t mess up your breath like coffee can. Typically I will try and set the meet time for evening, ideally withi…	/r/seduction	09/07/22 02:56 AM