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How would a guy know what the "right things" are for you? Are they the same right things most women would say have that kind of effect on them, or are they unique to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:31 AM
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He ended up asking you out, so you must have made the prospect inviting enough for him to do so. Did you socialize with him regularly? Did you compliment him? Flirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:30 AM
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Looks is 80% the motivation for approaching. Inebriation is the other 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:27 AM
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Most men who don't like females who approach only don't like it because the women who tend to approach guys do so out of desperation. However if you're the kind of woman who's attractive enough not to need to be desperate, no type of guy would dislike you on the basis that you approached him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:25 AM
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For women there's a significant difference between the the maximum attractiveness of a guy willing to fuck you and the maximum attractiveness of a guy willing to invest in a long-term relationship with you. Likewise for guys there's a significant difference between the maximum attractiveness of a woman willing to fuck you no-strings attached, and a woman willing to be in a relationship with you contingent on you providing resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:39 PM
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If a man gets exploited it's his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:00 PM
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It is frowned upon since men are shamed into not bankrolling women's hedonistic lifestyles. It's ok that women exploit men, but men should not be shamed for standing up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:20 PM
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Financially stable, handsome, tall, socially capable with a solid friend network in multiple cities, not balding, intelligent, charming, large penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:59 AM
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It's all because they don't have enough confidence bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:41 PM
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That's a blatantly idiotic truism. I'd say those already getting laid feel better about who they are, but the latter doesnt cause the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:39 PM
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Men don't need to be conditioned to equate happiness with beauty and sex. That association is perhaps the most strongly biologically hardwired instinct we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:37 PM
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You call it "pedistalization" but in reality the life experience of women and Chad's could really not be more different than that of unattractive men. It's not low self esteem, it's just an accurate picture of reality. I mean, when you show a guy how easy it is for women to be generally liked, or get laid, or you show what it looks like to be a tall, handsome guy on Tinder, you'd have to be a master of coping mechanisms to not compare that degree of unmitigated sexual excess to your years of try…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:33 PM
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Some guys will never have visible cheekbones no matter how lean they get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:38 PM
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Holy shit no lol. Chads are Chads because they are tall, handsome, muscular. Do you really think an ugly 5'5" guy could be a Chad if he gives himself "approval"? He'd still be sexually disregarded by the vast majority of women, and never get the Chad experience that a 6'3" handsome guy who hates himself would. Lol on second thought checking your profile it seems you're a troll, guess I took the bait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:23 PM
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This makes sense. Like of course sigma is hilarious but there are obvious tall, dominant men who call the shots and short, weaker men who tend to follow. Of course there are short alphas and tall betas but there's usually a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:18 PM
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Maybe not but I'd wager most.men into it are because they are submissive and do it because they like being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:42 PM
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Only a rare subset of submissive men get pegged
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:52 PM
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It's just how the female brain works, it's all or nothing. Sorry if you don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:55 PM
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A woman's sexual disgust goes down with arousal. This, according to one study, directly correlates with the facial attractiveness of her partner. If disgust is a barrier to certain sex acts, a handsome face can nullify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:00 AM
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Lol you live up to your username
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:54 AM
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It's not about the girl doing sex acts she won't enjoy. The point OP is making is that if the woman is really into her man, sex acts she otherwise wouldn't enjoy become enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:54 AM
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I don't think OP means crazy extreme shit. I think he's referring to more theatrical displays of passion, like girls being more into giving blowjobs, being vocal, moaning more, different positions, etc. If your girlfriend is just lying on the bed, "letting" you penetrate her, it isn't loving or passionate like the former is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:53 AM
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I think he means that women tend to get penetrated, so anal sex isn't as removed from their sexual experience as anal sex is for guys. Being on the receiving end is also the more submissive position, so it's more natural for a woman to be penetrated anally than a guy in a relationship with normal sexual dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:50 AM
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Please link to at least one post downvoted to hell of a woman stating her honest preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:44 AM
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They'll never admit just how much the world was handed to them, don't try to argue with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:42 AM
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Capitalism benefits everyone, it just benefits the wealthy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:38 AM
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She was making you feel better because that's what women do to their partners. If you want an objective rating of your face go to truerateme, not your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:18 PM
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There are many ways to be happy besides being a husband and father. If that's all that matters then eventually most guys will be able to score a reasonable "beta-bucks" scenario. It's just that most guys won't be able to hook up, which of course leads to frustration, but nothing can be done about women's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:03 AM
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I agree with you OP, the cat's out of the bag, however you're assuming that women will only, exclusively be attracted to the top 20% of men. What if, as all women lowered their standards, all men self-improved to be at the cutoff reserved previously for the top 20%? Would women still only sexually desire the top 20% of men in that new higher average level?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:49 AM
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I can't get pussy Thus society should be burned to the ground I understand your grievance but you're spelling out exactly what people criticize most about incels/redpillers. You really think that women going for the guys they're sexually attracted to means that men should end society?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:44 AM
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Twox, FDS, white people Twitter are men shitting subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:25 PM
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It's impossible to discuss redpill without quarantine so people go here. I'm still shocked /r/whereareallthegoodmen is allowed to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:21 PM
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The correct application of the bluepill is to avoid internet forums and live your life, so people would naturally drift away from here if they were bluepillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:58 PM
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There's a difference between "fuckable" in that a woman will tolerate fucking a guy in a LTR, and "fuckable" in that a guy is hot and a woman will want sex for sex's sake with him. A good majority of marriages and LTRs are the former, while every hook-up or short term relationship is the latter. Women do not find guys hot for doing chores. They find hot guys hot, no matte what they're doing. Doing chores as an average guy won't get your gf more into you, she'll see you more as a domestic servant…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:02 PM
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women comprise half of hetero hookup culture, so obviously they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:54 PM
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Men are taller and have better bodies, they are the more attractive gender. It's just that women's natural libido is a lot lower for non top-tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:16 PM
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Attraction to height, facial bone structure, harmony, dimorphism is universal. There is no faking it and it is by far the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:56 AM
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The thing is to men, being described as "fuckable" themselves is the epitome of sexual esteem. There is no higher compliment really, because it's so rare among men to be considered a sex object
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:11 PM
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You aren't qualified to hurt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:46 PM
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Post a pic of what you consider the "average" body of a college educated 25 y.o. woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:45 PM
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They think that the average man is paying 3 e-thots minimum. Lol, I think people assume that men have less self respect than they do, and that the moment only fans came out we all "fell in line" and paid for porn like we're all mentally deficient boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:41 PM
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It just helps to be aware that we are instinctively attuned to caring a lot more about women's feelings than is natural or justifiable in a humanist sense. Men are physically stronger but can succumb to scarcity mentality and self doubt which manifest in hyper concern for women's feelings and shame. Removing yourself from those sensibilities will help you fuck more and will be a load off your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:40 PM
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Psychopathy seems to be an advantage 100% of the time because it renders you immune to remorse or emotional manipulation, the two #1 underlying factors of the simp instinct. Psychopaths also tend to be more pleasure seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:35 PM
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Since you agree that mental illness is the culprit, would you also agree that disparaging men on here is the same as disparaging someone with mental illness instead of offering them help?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:31 PM
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If she fucks ur brains out she respects you. I can cook better than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:30 PM
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No matter how much you write women will still instinctively hate unnatractive, low genetic value men. It's a survival instinct way stronger than any culturally mediated empathy they could develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:29 PM
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Looksmaxxing to become Chad is the only justifiable worldview for the average man in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:27 PM
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That's literally a normal slim figure and average size ass. Femcels think men have high standards because their fridge bodies aren't naturally lusted after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:27 PM
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Remember these women are top 0.0001% of only fans earners. You should see the paydays of top 0.0001% crypto traders which outpace thot money 100:1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:25 PM
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This guy is a 5.5/10 max
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:24 PM
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Women hate porn because it reveals how they fuck Chads. They naturally feel too much disgust for their beta boyfriends so they want to convince them that unpassionate starfish sex is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:24 PM
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Obesity rates don't adjust for muscles. It's better to look at aerobic fitness and fat percentage over healthy which is more prevalent in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:22 PM
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Do you're disparaging men with mental illness now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:21 PM
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I guarantee you if guy on the right posted a 3 second vid on tik tok he'd have 40000 girls in his dms in minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:20 PM
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Literally the only difference is hair, nose, and jawline implants, three things easily achievable with outpatient surgeries. If you're not a Chad in 2021 it's entirely your fault if you ignore the surgical routes available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:19 PM
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Copers will say that men unnatractive to a woman can become attractive by forging an emotional connection but at the same time have to contend with the fact that couples tend to have less sex over time, even though their emotional connection would naturally increase during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:17 PM
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Average for suburban/urban dweller with a college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:16 PM
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Psychopathic men probably have more sex than normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:15 PM
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They're saying that so betas don't try to hard and stay in their lane. Top tier men know by default the rules don't apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:16 PM
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NOOOOO YOU CAN'T JUST USE OUR BAD FAITH TACTICS AGAINST US SHUT UP STINKY INCELL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:22 AM
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yeah they're doing parkour now https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tF4DML7FIWk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 AM
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watch the entire video
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:45 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_Vc_yDvU24 Just one firm has progressed significantly in 10 years. Now there's more investment as uses have been proven so there will be more peripheral R&D into pleasure bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:39 AM
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I'm not talking shitty plastic dead eye sex dolls, I'm talking 10-15 years from now, realistic, articulated, AI-powered self cleaning giga sex robots. Literally better than all women and will make life finally tolerable for unfuckable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:17 AM
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what is the better solution? IMO the cat's out of the bag. Women aren't going back to patriarchy. The only option is developing sex bots and normalizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:56 AM
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True and that's why I think cosmetic surgery should be a human right. Most men however don't really seem to care as long as they get their scraps, so I think stuff like this will just push low-status men over the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:46 AM
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True, but I think everyone already knows it. Handsome men getting laid is a cultural meme baked into almost every piece of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:40 AM
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Correct. What are you gonna do about it? Complaining won't get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:37 AM
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lol is this a troll account? Anyway thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:24 AM
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There's no way you can tell a vast swath of men that they are never meant to ever find love or have children and not expect vitriol in return, lol. You're a bit fucked up but at least men will tolerate that as long as they get to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:20 AM
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So given your choice of SO, do you feel any sympathy for the extent to which men of certain ethnicities are disparaged and discriminated against in the dating market? Do you think they deserve to be alone just because of cultural racism? I will admit men are worse than women when it comes to behavior, violence, and "harassment" type behavior. Those men are bad and deserve to be punished (and they usually are given most people in prison are men). But most men who can't get a date aren't evil or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:09 AM
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It's just a very narrow subset of disturbed women, it's far from representing the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:01 AM
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The "I hate white men" asian/hispanic girl with a white boyfriend is so prevalent it's almost a meme at this point. When women say they hate men, they in reality hate the opportunities afforded to the top 1% of wealthy, high status men. Personally they still have libidos and emotions and since the vast majority of women are heterosexual, they still still date and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:59 AM
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Why do women disparage men and nevertheless date them? It's possible to dislike elements and opportunities afforded to a class while at the same time cherishing it's individual aspects, especially in members of that class that don't subscribe to the views that keep that person out of the dating market. Like for example, it's perfectly valid for a short man to decry women for being shallow due to the frequent harassment and rejection, but individually seek a woman who does not subscribe to height…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:51 AM
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it looks like it attacks minority races and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:41 AM
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99% of construction workers are men. A lot of what makes modern society so easy to live in is mostly men doing dangerous, difficult work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:07 AM
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Men aren't called conceited if they show off a natural candid shirtless pic. All the talk is about mirror selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:05 AM
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The equivalent would be claiming a woman's mood is due to her period, which happens irl all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:04 AM
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If men were so alpha then those comments wouldn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:36 AM
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Touch grass. Call your parents and ask for forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:35 AM
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Men do totally insult women for their tits and loose vag, haven't you read anything on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:34 AM
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Because men have power and commit more violence. Great power, great responsibility and all that. Super simple stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:33 AM
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What's scientifically illiterate about this post. Be honest because I want to be able to debunk it if some alt righter uses it to justify racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:31 AM
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Imagine a 5'7" man with tiny hands trying to pull this off LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:30 AM
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You sound upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:29 AM
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It's actually not accurate at all. Show me one science Instagram where there are ass and tits in the frame like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:27 AM
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Bottom guy could work out, get contacts, dress better, improve body language and he'd get the treatment the guy on the top gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:25 AM
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What is assortative mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:24 AM
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Can't believe guys are reacting seriously to this meme lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:23 AM
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Would you require a man post a 60FPS POV head webcam movie from match to hookup before you believe that this is possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:46 PM
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If men didn't systemically throw out their standards for vagina, 80% of men would never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:06 PM
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That 46 y.o single mother was once a healthy, young, 21 year old woman with no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:51 PM
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Sign up for your leforts and implants today boys. There's no reason to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:48 PM
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The best way to offend women is take the advice they give guys and use it on them in a way that reflects their own value. They never realizing how insulting they are until what they do to guys is done to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:47 PM
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Reminder that the incels who know they're genuinely ugly don't show up to things like this. A lot of the guys who show up know they're somewhat attractive and are hoping for the dopamine boosting "there's no way you're an incel" comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:45 PM
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Some guys on this site are so dense. Women DO know that calling guys relationship material is demoralizing and emasculating. They just don't care. They still get tons of relationship material simps lining up. If being called relationship material offends you, too bad, because it's easy af to get a guy who cherishes the label because he has no self respect. That's the biggest reason women hate redpill type men on here. They're men with no sexual value who nevertheless have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:41 PM
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Don Draper still is materially successful, has multiple extramarital affairs with attractive women and wins in the end. His personal hangups could have been resolved with therapy. Saying that it's all an "illusion" is a coping mechanism for guys who can't get 1/100th of the Chad treatment. Everyone's public persona has elements of deception and exaggeration to it, but at least the Chad is genuinely respected and listed after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:38 PM
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Well then get leg lengthening surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:12 AM
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Unironically. You already know that guys taller than you are only getting affection due to a random genetic trait that they can't control. Why not shift the odds in your favor and take advantage of a genetic trait you can't control to accomplish your goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:09 AM
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just move to SEA bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:04 AM
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I don't know. I don't know how women's brains work. However I do know that our cultural notion that "there's someone for everyone" was borne out of that idea being a probabilistic likelihood due to the patriarchy requiring women to get with a man to support herself. This naturally allowed lower-tier men to get with similarly attractive women. However nowadays, as women are more free to choose a life not dependent on men, a large swath of men are going perpetually without any romantic attachments…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:51 AM
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Ok imagine a 6'6" Henry Cavill with Chris Hemsworth's eyes, a deeper voice, and a cannibal fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:40 AM
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Because the default human instinct is to see undesirable men as cannon fodder. For 99% of history men were shipped off by the millions to fight and die in war. Now the extreme excess of men has led to a more equal gender balance among young people that normally would have been corrected by warfare and violence. We don't want to help loser men, we want to get rid of them, like a nuisance. Entertaining their realization of their low status would upset the order. We just want them to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:33 AM
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Wholesome posting means nothing. It makes the poster feel better about themselves and does nothing to change the circumstances of the reader. If a man has been trying hard and discovers he's never been attractive to any woman he's met in his life, this stuff feels like the good dream that insults the waking disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:30 AM
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Because what men want is super simple. Sex, companionship and either one not necessarily being dependent on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:25 AM
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This is actually crueler to say than citing disparaging OLD stats lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:24 AM
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Basically imagine Henry Cavill with Chris Hemsworth's eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:23 AM
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Many guys get dysmorphia because of the way they are percieved by the opposite sex. Let's say you're an average guy and correctly believe you're average. You try OLD and get completely ignored, while there are clearly tons of women on there looking to fuck, just not with you. Even if you are average, women rate you as far below average (per that OKCupid study), so whether you believe you're average or below average doesn't affect your results. The thing is, it's tough for average guys, but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:21 AM
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he's a 5.5-6 who knows he's a six and is upset he isn't a 10. Narcissist syndrome. This however isn't every lonely sexless guy, but is a minority who demands more attention due to his narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 AM
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Again more selection bias. The guy was willing to be filmed because he knew he was attractive. A genuinely ugly guy aware of his condition wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:57 AM
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That's just one example. And I'd consider him unattractive in the sense that he doesn't look masculine at all, which I'd wager is more important than "prettiness" as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:50 AM
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Yes, well at least on Reddit overall they'll admit that height, face, and race have some effect on desirability, but they'll never admit just how hopeless it can be for a non-charismatic short ugly guy. Of course everyone knows that "life isn't fair", but failure to get sex when others are having it more often and easier than any other time in history is a very relevant unfairness to young men with healthy libidos. It's not a noble cause, and woe-posting won't do them any good, but it's one that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:43 AM
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Huge selection bias. Only attractive people who know they're attractive post their selfies, they use the "incel" label to fish for compliments. The real ugly ones never post their pics because they know they'll be harassed and mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:39 AM
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If all these things akin to what everyone figured out at 11 then why are they aggressively denied and called false almost everywhere on this website?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:38 AM
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I'll admit I used the deceptively nerdy, chaste girl archetype as a narrative technique, but I'm certain it's not an archetype for no reason. Do you honestly believe a girl who once fucked a 9/10 tall, handsome jock could ever go on to date a 4.5/10, short, physically unimpressive normal guy and treat the latter sexually the same way she treated the former? It seems like wishful thinking that a guy like that could expect to be "dominating" in the bedroom without giving the impression of pathetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:49 AM
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Reality can be very dramatic when described plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:31 AM
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Ask a girl to describe her ideal guy she will likely say "tall"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:54 AM
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There are tons of men who are 95% alpha, complimentary to men who are 95% beta. Of course everyone has shades of either extreme, but there are enough guys significantly higher than the threshold, and likewise lower than, who effectively comprise the AF/BB phenomenon. One example would be a 5'7" software developer mamma's boy with a weak jaw who gets with a cute, nerdy girl who claims to not be too much into blowjobs, despite the fact that she enthusiastically fellated her 6'5" chauvinistic hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:53 AM
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Interesting point but a bit short sighted. Feeling desired, or perhaps more precisely admired, is a huge boon to a man's pleasure and esteem. No man is genuinely gratified fucking a woman he knows has no desire for him, if that were enough men would solely stick to prostitutes. Also men get a tremendous amount of pleasure from being touched, have you ever heard of a blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:41 AM
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Women fuck guys all the time purely for sexual pleasure, it's the core tenet of AF/BB. Alphas get to fuck women genuinely into them with no strings attached, and betas are told that a woman's sexual interest is predicated on commitment and resource exchange, and end up sexless anyway despite devoting 100x more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:39 AM
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Conventionally Handsome And Ruggedly Impressive Skulls Manifesting Arousal Physically Robust Extraverts Stimulate Excitement, Not Charming Eggheads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:12 AM
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Factors like height, race, facial structure, and all the superficial stuff incels normally obsess over are relatively unimportant It's ok to dismiss incels as being hyperbolic but don't outright lie. You'd have to be living under a rock to call height, race, and face relatively unimportant.
/r/seduction07/01/21 11:50 PM
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The stigma begins at being under 5'9" and having bad bone structure. Masculine/feminine is a far less important dichotomy than ugly/attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:45 AM
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Um I'm not sure I think there are as many jokes about eating pussy as sucking dick. Also men think about sex more you're bound to have more of their perspective on it just based on whose more likely to share their feelings on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:42 AM
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Eating pussy is as big a cultural meme as sucking dick, even more so. It's joked about all the time. Same with guys "not being able to find the clit", etc. Wasn't there a big song last year called "Wet Ass Pussy"? I'm not really sure what you're going for with your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:59 AM
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The extra work is only in the beginning. If it takes you 4 years to become a doctor, but it took some other guy only 3 years, it will suck for that 1 year difference, but after you'll both be doctors and the only difference is how you apply your skills. Same with dating. It takes more effort the less attractive you are, but the difference in effort fades away the more success you get, with one person (because of personal connection) and even with other people (because of preselection bias).
/r/seduction03/01/21 08:11 PM
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I never said women "don't care", but that the advantage of good looks diminish the longer you know someone. It's the classic "they open doors but don't keep you in the room analogy". Online dating is favored towards looks because it's 100% first impressions, but online dating is VERY different from real life.
/r/seduction03/01/21 08:08 PM
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Usually means a narrow palate or big underbite, which can be seen as traditionally unattractive since they sometimes indicate functional problems with biting/breathing.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:36 PM
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/u/bad_thrower was right, your only issue seems to be a bit of a long face with a narrow palate. Other than that you have symmetry, will developed eye area, no major disharmonies. The problem is you look like you've just had the worst week of your life and are moments away from passing out dead. Grooming, healthy living and not looking so depressed would do wonders for you.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:33 PM
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Depends on the cause of your ugliness. IMO ugliness stems from 3 causes. Proportions Poorly developed jaws Weird features The best solution to solve proportions is to change your personal style to offset it. If your chin is too short, grow a beard, if your skull is too narrow, put on (healthy) weight and widen your neck, if your forehead is too big, use your hair to cover it up (as long as you have hair but there are solutions to that) As to the problem of poorly developed jaws, you could go to …
/r/seduction03/01/21 06:44 PM
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There's no reason to believe you'll be "stuck" a "loser" man for the rest of your life. I'd wager that you've tried only 0.01% of your options available to you to get out of your rut.
/r/seduction03/01/21 06:37 PM
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Lol girls don't care about your "alien skull". If your face is good it shouldn't be an issue.
/r/seduction03/01/21 06:36 PM
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I don't think Paul Rudd is a good example. He's clearly a very above average, traditionally attractive man, like nearly all big name hollywood actors. A better example of an average looking guy (to me) would be Miles Teller.
/r/seduction03/01/21 06:33 PM
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Could you give an example where someone's necessary effort exceeds its worth? Yeah of course there are no guarantees but I'd be hard pressed to really find anyone for whom things are truly hopeless. I guess there are the disabled, paraplegics, those who suffered severe full body burns, those with genetic diseases. Life is cruel, and for those people I imagine the daily pain of whatever they're suffering must be greater than the pain of having no sexual partner. All they have, like anyone, is the…
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:40 AM
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For getting sex off Tinder easy and quick it's 80% but overall it's like 25-30%, 50-60% of which is under your control through exercise, diet, grooming, etc.
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:32 AM
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Without hope you'd have no reason to continue, but I think ultimately everyone has it in them to do what is necessary to succeed, they just need to know that the effort it worthwhile.
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:18 AM
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Did you not read my post? I do say looks matter that's why it's a lot easier with traditionally good looks to get sex fast and easy. That doesn't mean however that your overall sexual value has a 1:1 correlation or even a strong correlations with your looks. Everyone can eat healthy, work out, etc to lower their activation energy with respect to others opening up to them, but their ultimate value beyond that is far less dependent on how many millimeters wider their mouth is than their nose or st…
/r/seduction03/01/21 02:17 AM
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Depending on where you live in the world the worst of the pandemic should be over sooner than you think. As more people get vaccinated, cases will go down, people will be ok going places together, as long as they're wearing masks, and things will gradually ease back to normal. Political fanaticism I believe is a consequence of a hyper-connected culture which ascribes hyperbole to everything. People want to feel secure, so they will abandon reason to be on the "right side" of something. I think t…
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:56 AM
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obviously talking to ppl is #1, practice and all, but overall my biggest piece of advice is not to take any specific piece of advice. A lot of "tactics" online try to be one-size-fits-all and end up being one-size-fits-none. As paradoxical as it is then, my advice would be to find out what kind of interaction gives you the most confidence. For some people it's regular small talk, for others it's specific technical discussion, others it's dance, music, etc. A lot of these are limited by the pande…
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:49 AM
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Hahah politics sucks. I guess it really depends on your entire life trajectory and what options you have available. If you plan to stay in the same place for a while try to find out what people in the area are doing to cope with the pandemic. I don't mean go to bars or anything like that, but use resources like Facebook groups, meetup, or anything pertaining to some niche interest that you could offer genuine enthusiasm/insight to. If you're employed that's obviously a good place to start, thoug…
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:26 AM
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Money is evaluated in only one dimension, more or less. Handsomeness has hundreds of dimensions, only like 7 are objective (jaw width, muscles, etc). Likewise with sociality or personality, one kind of extraversion can be very different than another kind, same with any kind of sense of humor.
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:02 AM
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I think everybody knows that, I just want to assure less than perfectly chiseled guys that the girls who go for them aren't "settling". It's better to get to know a person better than to impress them with accoutrements which could be interchanged with that of anyone elses, i.e. the money you have isn't any different than the money any other guy has, so there'd be no competitive advantage for you if some other guy had more of it. However there's noone else who can do "you" better than you can.
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:41 AM
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