keepflowingbro Archive

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1	Used to think TRP was a weird internet culture; Standing in a room Sat. night, finally dawned on me how pathetic most men act today. We are all artists in the sense that we are creating our own lives, whether we know it or not. What we do in the present moment and how happy we are doing it is shaping the next minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade, etc. All "those guys" you are observing that you don't want to be like, that's okay. On some level, all of "those guys" have accepted what they are doing in different areas of life, and most are okay with that. Some are not aware of what they have chosen and will go on to sta…	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:38 PM
1	It's like I'm 2 different people now Don't try to be this person or that person. Be yourself. If you're a beta nerd transitioning into a more confident, attractive man, then be that guy. And as you grow into who you want to be, as you practive your speaking and body language, etc., you can be yourself again, only then it will be a confident, attractive man.	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:29 PM
1	18 year old, really scared of University. I encourage you to read an article written on the blog "The Art of Manliness". It has helped me see life from a different angle. To think outside of the box I grew up in. A very powerful affirmation to repeat when you see the damage that your family's mistakes and negative behaviors or thought patterns have upon you is, "It ends with me." You don't have to go down the same road as ANY of your family, because of the fact you have the same blood running through you. You can choose to take the best…	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:21 PM
1	Bench press grip position? There seems to be some pretty good suggestions here. Overall, weight training allows for experimentation and you get to find what works best for you. Just don't experiment with weights that are too heavy for your current skills. You can ask or look around the gym and see and ask what is working best for other guys, try out for yourself, and adjust and adapt as needed. After consistently hitting the gym, you will develop wisdom about what is best for your body and your goals.	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 07:43 PM
3	How do I get rid of this girl? Be honest and tell her anything other than casual friends won't work out. I'll see you when I see you kind of thing.	/r/askTRP	15/09/15 08:04 PM
-4	Most attractive women use drugs but I'm not a big fan. They will always question me about it. How do I respond? "Listen, bitch. I take my education seriously. I have standards and self-discipline when it comes to respecting body and mind. I have nothing against the way you live your life. I just don't do what you do and am content with my habits and where I am headed. With that being said, you're hot as fuck. I wouldn't mind making you cum. Give me your number." Gave my point of view in conversational form. I haven't broken it down to anyone challenging my lifestyle like that before (just graduated from c…	/r/askTRP	13/09/15 02:40 PM
1	Every movement has its positive and negative side. TRP is no exception. What do you think has been the negative side of TRP ? Biggest downside for me: -Reddit is the platform of the movement. While the literature may be inspiring or knowledgable or serve as a much needed call-to-action, I have no idea who the fuck is giving me this advice. All I know is their username, their previous posts/submitted, and their feedback from others. It's like being approached by a random guy you've never met before on the street, with an abundance of self-confidence and charisma, telling you, "This is how the world is. This is the way T…	/r/askTRP	13/09/15 02:28 PM
3	All Men Are Like That Shepherds who lead their own life without abuse are the ideal ones to discipline the herd. Shepherds who have the best intentions for leading cannot truly know the best way if they are self-destructive to themselves. I think this is where most RP "guides" go wrong. And where one looking for guidance can go right. Understand a man, his self-talk, and what he has sown in his own life before following his instruction on what seeds to plant. Source: first-hand experience following alphas who are gre…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/15 01:23 AM
1	Heading into my final semester of college as a virgin, what can I do about this? Skinnyfat as of right now (like at 20% bodyfat the last time I measured) but some some odd reason I have still had people tell me I am good looking which I don't get but I'll take it! Self-discipline is a must. You might be good looking or handsome, but don't bullshit yourself. Thinking from an attraction standpoint, getting yourself strong and to half that body fat would greatly increase opportunity. Get to the gym. Start training your body and mind and get in the right mindset. 5x5 is a good s…	/r/askTRP	01/09/15 02:14 AM
1	30 Day Challenge #2: NUTRITION Good nutrition is essential. I won't be going into detail and tracking my progress because like another user stated, I've been keeping up with my diet for a long time and my body is loving me for it. However, I do want to say that I am challenging myself to one month of no fruits or sugars. I had a 7-day streak leading up to yesterday, when I had a piece of cake and tea with honey to bid farewell to a colleague. I don't know if it was more mental than physical, but my stomach and digestion felt …	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/15 02:56 PM
2	Strategy I appreciate your viewpoint. I've met a lot of successful men happy with themselves who think like you. However, I do disagree with your closing statements: Only fools are proud of how hard they work. Wise men are proud of how effectively they work. Be wise. Use strategy. Take the shortest path. A successful strategy is not always the shortest path. The man who takes steroids who achieves similar results in 3 years compared to the non-steroid user who achieves these results in 10 years have work…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/15 02:43 PM
1	In college, 19 havent done jack shit with girls. Drop the all-or-nothing attitude. Real girls are people, too. Yes, they have very different minds than guys, but they are people. Work on filling in the space between first meeting a girl, and fucking her.	/r/askTRP	31/08/15 02:43 AM
1	When you're in a relationship, does it bother you to think about all the girls you're missing out of fucking? No. It may bother a weak-minded person who is consumed with missing out on the things he decided to forego when he committed to making a decision.	/r/askTRP	31/08/15 02:38 AM
5	Guys here with high lay counts (20+), what situations and instances have commonly led to lays for you? he posts pictures	/r/askTRP	25/08/15 04:08 PM
8	There is no substitute for learning from other Alphas The best alphas to learn from are men who live for themselves and understand that to be a valuable member of any group (including society at large), there has to be a sort of selfishness to their living. "Take care of you for me, and I will take care of me for you." Lean on each other, but don't depend on each other. From my experience learning from older alphas (slightly older, like freshman year college me learning from seniors, and also generation above me) teaches you to understand that ulti…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/15 03:42 PM
3	"...And Candy Cheats Again" Now it's Mike's turn to become Chad.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/15 07:37 PM
1	[FR] To Indian, Asian and minorities in general. Semen doesn't come out of thin air. Heavy leg day, lack of sleep, and sex four times (did you ejaculate each time) sounds fucking exhausting. Male essence is for recovering the body and growth. When you have sex four times, physically exert a lot of energy lifting, and don't allow your body to recover through rest is probably why you have "limp dick" issues. Gotta give yourself a chance to recover. You cannot exhaust your body's semen and then expect to have strong erections.	/r/askTRP	14/08/15 12:34 AM
1	[FR] To Indian, Asian and minorities in general. Can't kill shit until it's out in the open.	/r/askTRP	14/08/15 12:29 AM
1	Has anyone in here personally known a brown guy that cleaned up and had a shit ton of success in the game? One option, if and when you have the resources, is to move to a location where you can surround yourself with "your people". I went to a huge state university, and I spent a lot of time at different cultures' social events (Mexican, Indian, White, Black, Asian, Purple, Yellow, etc. etc.). Any young man within these social groups who was the same ethnicity as the majority would naturally kill the game as long as he had self-respect, confidence, a mind for improving himself in ANY way, behavior th…	/r/askTRP	08/08/15 04:14 AM
1	BPs who are just curious. What did we miss in our early 20s? We missed out on nothing that cannot be attained or experienced by acting now and building in the direction of your vision. We need to let go of the mindset that someone who parallels us in age has experienced much better things than we (defeating ourselves and labeling ourselves as failures where they succeeded). We are all the sum of everything that has led us to NOW, and nothing in the past could have been better for our own life because it has led us to this point. Gathering up the past and …	/r/askTRP	04/08/15 04:48 AM
1	Why do successful black guys marry white girls? Whenever you see a black man married to a white wife, it's most likely because…he wanted to marry a white woman. Simple as that.	/r/askTRP	03/08/15 04:39 PM
2	where can i get a red pill therapist Find an experienced male therapist in your area, see if there are any reviews, and if there are any that seem helpful, schedule an initial consultation and be brutally critical during the first meeting to determine if this person is what you are looking for (red pill therapist) and if you feel that they can help you in the long term (or however long you need therapy). If not, move on to another one. Aside from therapy, I'd also recommend a nutritionist or nutrition study (self-research online is…	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:42 AM
1	Finding an entry level Engineering job in USA . New Grad Dude. You've got all the right stuff. It sounds like you just need to build up that self esteem and confidence. I went to my local library today and visited the self-improvement and education section. There were a bunch of books about how to nail interviews and practice questions and things like that. I recommend practicing through resources like that and prepare yourself for wow'ing any future employers and letting them know how valuable you are. Interviewing is basically marketing yourself and…	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:37 AM
1	20 year old not into the "go to the club and get fucked up" scene. Something wrong with me? I'm in the same boat, at age 24. I live in Chicago, a huge metro area/city with a BOOMING night life. The thing with these clubs/bars is that the people who enjoy them the most are the ones who are mainly after pleasure and fun. For me, I get my pleasure, my fun from developmental activities, mainly exercise through yoga, weight lifting, basketball, and stretching. The main allure for an intelligent young man like myself is the physical catharsis of getting loose and just kind of losing your min…	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:33 AM
1	If you could go back to right after High School Graduation, what would you do differently? YES. Things that happened in the past, you cannot control, and do not exist in your reality. So thinking on how it "could have should have" been is basically masturbation. This is regret, amplified, and you fucking with your own mind. Whatever happened, happened for a reason. It was meant to happen exactly the way it happened. Otherwise, you would not have made it to this point of life. I was about to answer this question myself, but then I saw this reply, and I thought, "Well, if there's anythi…	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:27 AM
2	How to deal with premature ejaculation? (Serious) From what I've researched and experienced myself (first-hand learned the art of controlling muscles that can stop one's penis from ejaculating by practicing with a "dirty dancing" partner - different from sex, but same concepts), it's a matter of psychological and physical connection and control. The Chinese Taoists believe that the gate to the man's essence should be locked and kept locked during the act of sex, as to allow his essence (semen) to flow naturally through the body without releasin…	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:19 AM
6	"You will never be around as many attractive girls as you were in college" So basically, focus on the current opportunities available to you and let go of the "it's all downhill from here" mentality.	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 11:30 PM
10	Solipsism, Emotion & Arguments Thanks for all the contributions of knowledge over time. Much appreciated. Now, for my take on this subject; I think that understanding this is a fundamental problem that boys raised by single mothers face. Unless there is some sort of dominating force (man, whether family, boyfriend, coach, RP teacher, etc.) being asserted over the mother, the boy will feel forever trapped as a slave to women's emotional control over his natural way of problem solving. I know I did. For a while. When I finally …	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/15 07:51 PM
1	Feelings of guilt and social pressure when dropping a plate I felt the same after dropping a girl in college wanted to tame me. I told her, I don't want a relationship because I'm not ready for a commitment. I don't want to commit to ONE girl while I have all these options. And it was the truth. There's no reason to feel bad about what you want and what you don't want. You might want sex from girl, but not relationship with girl. And that's fine bro. They have to respect that and you have to respect yourself for that.	/r/askTRP	01/08/15 07:39 PM
1	LTR - I make the money, I lift, I keep myself in good shape but can't initiate sex Gold. This man is preaching the right stuff. OP, it sounds like you're doing all of this for her. Lifting for her. Making $ for her. Coming home to her and showing her all of this stuff you're doing is for her. It should be that you're doing this all for yourself and she needs to recognize what a fucking prize you have become. If she's not respecting your development and the resources you have to offer her, and giving back based on all of the ass you've been KICKING, then find another one who wi…	/r/askTRP	01/08/15 07:35 PM
2	Any other TRPers strategy geared toward LTR/future family vs. short-term fun and lots of random sex? Thanks for the input. After the responses in this read I realized I do need to work on my abundance mentality. I will be studying this link.	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 09:05 PM
1	Any other TRPers strategy geared toward LTR/future family vs. short-term fun and lots of random sex? A thousand thanks. God bless.	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 09:03 PM
2	Any other TRPers strategy geared toward LTR/future family vs. short-term fun and lots of random sex? Spot on. That articulation is something I intuitively knew when I was recently "dating" a girl who I had to next, because when I tried to escalate and make it more physical, she denied me several times. She did give me these things you are describing, i.e. cooking, discussing with me about yoga, mind&body connection, alternative healing practices, as well as connecting me with a lot of internet resources to improve my skills and career in business, but I could not handle any more because I was n…	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 08:41 PM
1	Questions concerning hard/soft next. What she doesn't get is that level of disrespect, in front of everyone, requires you to truly move on, and leave her behind. Never complain, never explain. Not to her, not to anyone. She may have even disrespected you openly because she wanted to reciprocate the level of disrespect you showed her when you fucked her roommate. You've both disrespected each other and it's out in the open. I agree with all who are saying now she's another dude who is in your social circle who you notice every once …	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 08:35 PM
1	Any other TRPers strategy geared toward LTR/future family vs. short-term fun and lots of random sex? Alright. Well, I have another question about plate upgrading. I was recently reading this article about Plate-Spinning (comparing the male equivalent of sex to the female equivalent of attention). How does one know when a plate is LTR-upgrade worthy? Is this something that is more individual, like RPers who want LTR, where you & OmLaLa prefer a different route to sexual strategy?	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 08:28 PM
3	Any other TRPers strategy geared toward LTR/future family vs. short-term fun and lots of random sex? Thanks for weighing in. I had not heavily considered this before your post: If you'd truly wish to attempt an LTR without eventual infidelity, you'd need a constantly high SMV for her alone, give her tons of validation, agree with everything she says so she doesn't cheat out of spite and limit her travel distance. Good points & something I will consider further. Though, I do believe that between validation, agreeance, and keeping my personal SMV high there's a lot of room to balance the dynamic …	/r/askTRP	29/07/15 08:17 PM
1	I fucked a girl in a 5 year relationship. How do I come to terms with how I feel? No reason to let the negative feeling take you over, man. Jesus Christ died for your sins. Seriously, though. You ever see Silver Linings Playbook? There's a part where a song plays and reminds the main character of an incident where he walked in on his wife cheating. He starts going psycho and breaking down in front of a large crowd in public. He loses control mentally over something that happened months before. The girl with him gets him under control and tell him, "It's just a fucking song. D…	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 06:07 AM
1	Why do younger men nowadays sound like women? It all depends on each specific guy. I work in hospitality. My voice doesn't sound feminine, but I have crafted it in a way that works best for the cooperation of my team and in communicating with customers/clients. Yes, it is less deep than I could make it. Does making my natural voice sound pleasant make me less of a man? No. My role as a man in that particular environment depends on me being warm, welcoming, and cooperative. I see this as necessary control. Rappers and singers, as well as sal…	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 05:57 AM
2	Why was this girl willing to give me a blowjob before but not now? She didn't like the taste? Seriously, though, if she's a virgin and that's the first blowjob she's ever given, there might be some intimacy issues for her. When she's drunk, it could happen again if she's attracted to you. When she's sober, she's probably shaming herself or her friends are doing the shaming if she told them, and thinking that she's a slut. Like, omg, I blew this guy when I was drunk, wtf was I thinking? But in a similar environment she might give you another one if you get her c…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 10:48 PM
1	I can't lift, 4 years off my hard earned muscle is vanishing, and I can't focus on school because of the depression Good to hear. Practicing yoga is very good for maintaining strength, flexibility, and mobility, and can help you maintain that attraction that you seek for yourself. Good luck.	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 10:38 PM
2	Body posture and pectus excavatum I don't have any experience with this specific "abnormality", but do have experience with a major traumatic football injury to my shoulder. I did not put much time and effort into healing it immediately after it happened, so I am now correcting all of the bad habits of posture, moving, neuro-muscular connection, etc. Just like any sort of disease, or problem, there are solutions. For anything very individual like this, I would recommend doing as much research you can and finding as many possible…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 10:30 PM
1	I can't lift, 4 years off my hard earned muscle is vanishing, and I can't focus on school because of the depression Do you have access to a yoga studio or are there classes offered at the gym you go to? If so, I recommend you try it out. It's a different approach to the body, and more spiritual and "inward" in nature. Many, MANY men and women, including myself, have used yoga as a successful therapy for many things including physical, emotional, and mental ailments. The energy in yoga class and from instructors is very different, too. Have you ever had a conversation with a yogi? Even one that you wouldn't wa…	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 10:20 PM
3	Should we tell a girl if we're attracted to them? There's no rules that you need to follow 100% of the time when communicating with girls. Compliments and open communication about your attraction to her can be played very well by making it fun, not just like, "omg I worship your presence, you're so beautiful." Something like "negging" but playful in intention. For example, meeting a girl with a fit body in some really tight jeans. "How the fuck did you fit in those?" You're not saying straight up, "nice ass", but you are noticing it and openly …	/r/askTRP	23/07/15 10:13 PM
1	What can I learn from Marcus Aurelius' Meditations and the Stoics? It's good to hear a discussion of the book and see what others learned, but I will offer a re-iteration of your title back to you; "What can I learn from Marcus Aurelius' Meditations and the Stoics?" You may learn something different than what askTRP can tell you what you can learn. :) In my opinion, Meditations is definitely worth a read.	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 05:43 PM
2	How to deal with jealous and manipulative friends "he still sees the old dynamic" I just visited a friend in another state that I've known since the first grade this weekend. I can sum up the entire experience with that statement. We both grew up the smart, nerdy type. That was me until college, when I really started exploring myself and all that my body was capable of. This friend of mine did not do the same. Although he has a good engineering job now and is still a brainiac, he's still a skinny nerd with under-developed social skills. I'm tal…	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 05:33 PM
1	What do you do for self improvement? Exercise. Lifting, yoga, martial arts, walking, climbing, biking, sports. Any and all of these. Exercise is the natural way to circulate dopamine in your body & brain. It's what makes a person feel alive and connected with their body. That grounded feeling. The more you naturally produce dopamine, the better your response to stress, negative thought, and strong emotions. Pair daily exercise with consistent, long-term, healthy nutrition and the world is yours, my friend.	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 05:09 PM
1	TRP thoughts on being a retail salesperson and being attracted to customers. I had the same habits in the past. It happens. The illusion of free, easy, and effortless sex a few clicks away is a real trap for any guy. Respect to you for seeing yourself and making effort to cut the bad habits and re-create healthy habits. For me, with that issue, the biggest thing to be aware of is the mindset around sex. Changing that for the better takes time, and much effort. Time heals all, but not without effort. For nutrition, find what works for you, which is different for every per…	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 04:50 PM
1	TRP thoughts on being a retail salesperson and being attracted to customers. That's a good point, and I definitely needed a way to concisely tell myself no, i.e. "don't shit where you eat." Thank you. I am not my own boss yet, but in the future this will change.	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 04:38 PM
1	TRP thoughts on being a retail salesperson and being attracted to customers. Thanks and good call. It is too risky. "Don't shit where you eat". I needed a concise way to put it. I definitely noticed that the girls who are attracted to me end up buying more, like they forget about what prices and money are.	/r/askTRP	20/07/15 04:36 PM
1	TRP thoughts on being a retail salesperson and being attracted to customers. IOIs, yes. Being approached, not outside of work, no. I have met my monk mode goals.	/r/askTRP	17/07/15 11:07 PM
1	Is this guy mimicking me or just my imagination? After embarking on the path of consistent self-improvement, I noticed something similar among my group of friends and even friends of friends in college. It was a new and strange feeling to be talking with what seemed like parrots, and after a while was quite annoying and I had an attitude similar to yours, kind of questioning the whole thing. Then I had a talk with my close family and we saw the positive side of it, just like the comments thus far have pointed out: basically what is happening i…	/r/askTRP	17/07/15 10:38 PM