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9	Unusual mismatched libido problem: How much sex is normal?		keepinitonthedl	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 01:22 PM

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2	The Watercooler #2: Less-Than-Epic Anecdotes Was teased for having a beard and long hair. Plate says she finds them extremely unattractive but continues fucking me; watch what they do not what they say. I wouldn't necessarily interpret this to mean that she finds your beard and long hair attractive. She could definitely find them incredibly unattractive but is sufficiently into you otherwise to compensate.	/r/TheRedPill	08/07/13 10:27 PM
1	Is The Red Pill compatible with Liberalism? It's pretty commonly accepted that people tend to become more "conservative" with age/maturity. This is actually a myth. The older members of a population tend to be more conservative than the younger members, but relative to themselves when they were younger, people become more liberal as they age. http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/02/15/getting-more-liberal-with-age/	/r/TheRedPill	07/07/13 03:22 PM
2	Unusual mismatched libido problem: How much sex is normal? I didn't nag him- he was very clean, very on top of his work, just a very together person. I think my biggest problem was that when I felt rejected I was MEAN to him, which is embarrassing to admit. Not like, yelling and screaming mean, but I would subtly insinuate that he was not a nice person, etc. Definitely not acceptable behavior. He HAD behaved very poorly in the past (issues with academic dishonesty, theft, etc) but instead of leaving him or forgiving him (which I think are the only two o…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 08:09 PM
3	What's your girl game like? How did you develop it, improve it, or overcome rough patches? this is exactly what I meant, thanks for clarifying! Don't play games, but don't be easy.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 07:21 PM
2	Which aspects of TRP do you most readily accept? Which aspects are you most skeptical about? Why? Could you describe the heart of TRP in a few words? This. I think this is also a lot of where the accusations of misogyny come from: people conflate the loss of SMV that occurs when women hit the wall with a loss of value as a human being.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/13 05:36 PM
1	Which aspects of TRP do you most readily accept? Which aspects are you most skeptical about? Why? Could you describe the heart of TRP in a few words? females do not have introspective access to their own attraction triggers ("Watch what they do, don't listen to what they say") I'd say that the quote "watch what they do, don't listen to what they say" is true while the first part is false. Speaking as a woman, I absolutely know that things like being unavailable, unpredictable, a "bad boy" etc are totally what bring the butterflies as far as attraction goes (there are scientific papers discussing the dopamine rush that comes from being contact…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/13 05:31 PM
2	Unusual mismatched libido problem: How much sex is normal? Upon rereading my posts and your super helpful post, I've realized that I'm being very controlling in how I handle this. The whole "if I don't initiate this no one will" thought process is definitely a control freak thing that I need to snap out of. Yeah, there's a precipitating lack of libido, but I make it worse when I try to take the lead sexually- it emasculates my significant others. Guess I need to learn to control myself and be less selfish. If we don't have sex once or twice when I would…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 04:58 PM
2	Unusual mismatched libido problem: How much sex is normal? How do make him chase me for sex while still making sure he sees me as a sex object? Most of the time we would end up just getting meals or watching a movie and cuddling, and while that was fun I felt like if I didn't initiate sex, it wouldn't happen. Doing things like dressing sexy or teasing only made it seem more like I was chasing him/trying too hard. How do I go keep a guy sexually interested without being the one to initiate sexual contact?	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 04:13 PM
2	Actress Diane Kruger: "I Punished Many Boys for My Lack of a Father Figure" "The hard part is the timing. When you meet someone, are you ready to make them your number one priority? There's never going to be a role more interesting than my own life" I think that's the redpill essence of the post- that she figured out that if she wanted to make her relationship work, she had to make her boyfriend/husband her number one priority over her career/movie roles.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 03:39 PM
5	What's your girl game like? How did you develop it, improve it, or overcome rough patches? I'm new to the red pill and in my early 20s, so grains of salt all around. From my experience, the RPW canon works well and is important for all relationships: look pretty, be feminine, be enthusiastic. As far as starting relationships/picking up guys, I suggest encouraging guys to talk about themselves, staying classy, and BEING hard to get. I know a lot of girls who go on dates and blather about themselves the entire time (and I definitely struggle with this too, especially after I've had a dr…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 03:19 PM
3	Unusual mismatched libido problem: How much sex is normal? It's just been frustrating because at the beginning of both mismatched relationships we were having sex all the time, and so it was an issue that only started coming up a few months in. I have two theories: The fact that I pretty much always want to have sex might take the chase out of sex, and so after a few months of having sex whenever they want it, guys stop appreciating it as much and also stop wanting to have it as often. In addition, I think it's definitely possible that by often being th…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/13 02:37 PM