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I have Zarat tagged because he nearly always uses deceptive titles and often misrepresents things in his comments. It was a guest blogger on Feministe, she makes a non-gendered argument that a person who lies in order to get someone to sleep with them has committed rape, and she is being pretty thoroughly torn apart in the comments. FWIW. Glad to see this has now gotten the May be Fake label during the time I spent checking up on Zarat's claims.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 02:34 PM
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You sound like my brother. Luckily, he is surrounded by people who give a shit about him. Therapy was hit and miss until he found a really good therapist -- what particularly helped him was something called cognitive behavior therapy, which is supposed to be really good at treating internalized negative feedback loops. Good luck.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 02:47 PM
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Google the quote. It takes you to Gawker. Check the commenter's history. It's clearly a sarcastic comment on an article posted by someone who is hardly a feminist.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 01:47 AM
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I see I'm getting downvotes, with no arguments. So why is it okay to say "wait until the facts are in" in some cases but not others? I have kids. The idea of them being doxed by internet warriors who can't spare the time to investigate bothers me. Downvote me all you want, I think I am done with this place.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 04:44 AM
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Waiting until the facts are in is a good idea. Too bad Reddit and A Voice for Men didn't do that with the Georgetown student they doxed.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 02:37 AM
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The guy who runs that blog was banned from r/MensRights, a long time ago. Manzboobz (note the misspelling) impersonates him here, probably as a joke.
/r/MensRights09/04/13 09:44 PM
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If you have reasons, put them in writing. I am not going to watch 13 minutes of random YouTube videos to discover your argument.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 06:11 AM
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And the commenter was heavily down-voted.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 09:41 PM
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This is terrible. THIS is what the MRM should be organizing around. Is anyone doing any work around this?
/r/MensRights02/03/13 12:21 AM
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Do you have any recent examples of feminists lobbying against the male pill? Just curious.
/r/MensRights20/02/13 08:43 PM
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It still wouldn't be "giving shit away for free."
/r/MensRights02/02/13 12:21 AM
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I think it is also true that heart attacks in women often take a different form that the typical male heart attack, leading to women not realizing they were having a heart attack. My aunt thought she had a cross between food poisoning and bad indigestion and put off calling 911 for a long time. When the EMTs came and told her she was having a heart attack, she argued with them all the way to the hospital. I'm in favor of anything that raises awareness of the broader spectrum of symptoms of a myo…
/r/MensRights01/02/13 08:51 PM
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People pay for insurance. Insurance should cover the healthcare that they need. It isn't "giving shit away for free."
/r/MensRights01/02/13 02:05 AM
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Replying again to say that apparently Fox News, Rod Wheeler, and Bill O'Reilly all distanced themselves from this story (which is from 2007!) when they couldn't find anything to corroborate it. Although O'Reilly still said the story must have some truth in it because ... Bill O'Reilly.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 05:11 AM
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Yeah, I am pretty sure this is fake. People shouldn't assume everything on YouTube is true.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 05:02 AM
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Seconding this advice. Definitely see a doctor. My brother had a similar problem; in his case, it turned out he had low testosterone (as I recall, this was years ago). Not saying this will be the case for you, but a doctor should be able to sort it out. Also, there is absolutely no shame in seeing a therapist for the anxiety and depression. Men need to get better at asking for help when we need it. If you don't like your first therapist, switch until you find someone you can talk with. Good luck…
/r/MensRights14/12/12 07:17 PM
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Also try 1-877-4AID-VET if that local number doesn't help. Good luck, and check back here to see if there are other, better suggestions.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 06:45 PM
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Threats were used. From the linked story: "Johnson made the comments in the case of a man who threatened to mutilate the face and genitals of his ex-girlfriend with a heated screwdriver, beat her with a metal baton and made other violent threats before committing rape, forced oral copulation, and other crimes."
/r/MensRights14/12/12 05:41 PM
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My wife and I dated for 5 years before getting married. We've been married now for ten years, and things are great. 2 girls, 1 boy. Take your time, make sure you respect her (and vice versa) as much as you love her. You've already avoided marrying too young, so you're a step ahead. Good luck!
/r/MensRights18/11/12 06:11 PM
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From the first Clery release: "The female victim stated while walking to Ellis Library she passed an unknown individual who then turned, came up behind her, and wrapped his arms around her putting her in a "bear hug." The victim tried to free herself but was unable get free. The assault ended when the suspect observed an unknown individual approaching them. The suspect released her and stated, "Oh, I thought you were someone else" and ran from the scene."
/r/MensRights26/10/12 06:21 PM
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Of course when you say "butcher" but what you mean is "criticize" you lose a lot of credibility points. Do people here care about that? Honest question.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 05:55 AM
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Men are raped too. Should their rapists also get a "Get Out of Jail Free" card? All of Elam's arguments apply, so I will assume the answer is yes.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 06:04 PM
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I can't believe it either, but thank you for trying!
/r/MensRights09/10/12 08:27 PM
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There are transphobic radfems, though mainstream feminists do seem to be more accepting of trans people.
/r/MensRights08/10/12 07:15 PM
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I feel like there's a real disconnect here between those of us who are here because we're egalitarians, and those who want to go back to a time when women really were just considered property.
/r/MensRights08/10/12 12:09 AM
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I'm not sure if you're implying that misinformation from Trisha Meili was behind the accusation against the five young men, but she wasn't. The Wikipedia entry makes it clear that she had no memory of the brutal attack: "On April 19, 1989, the slightly-built 28-year-old investment banker was violently assaulted while jogging in New York City's Central Park. She was raped and beaten almost to death. When found about four hours later, she was suffering from severe hypothermia and blood loss from m…
/r/MensRights07/10/12 10:58 PM
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German AIDS posters are among the most provocative in the world. This campaign has gotten some notice: http://www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/controversial-hiv-aids-campaign-in-bed-with-hitler-a-647497.html
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:27 PM
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A friend of my wife's lent her that book. After the kids were in bed, we took turns reading the sex scenes to each other and cracking up. Good times.
/r/MensRights29/09/12 10:53 PM
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Yeah, dude kind of loses the moral high ground when he does it first.
/r/MensRights29/09/12 10:35 PM
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Here are some I found: http://www.mass.gov/courts/childsupport/guidelines.pdf http://www.mass.gov/courts/courtsandjudges/courts/probateandfamilycourt/parentingplan.pdf http://www.mass.gov/courts/courtsandjudges/courts/probateandfamilycourt/afccsharedparenting.pdf Hope this helps -- good luck!
/r/MensRights29/09/12 07:36 PM
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Also, nowhere in the article are her actions described as either ingenious or brilliant. And anyone, ever, who uses the Daily Fail as a source should be disregarded for all eternity.
/r/MensRights27/09/12 12:51 AM
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This is what he's saying on his blog: "First, the investor in my business CC Motors has take away my signing authority and the profits I have created for CC Motors. I have also been banned from the business I built from nothing to a success. I refused to make him a partner in the car business. He is no longer satisfied with the $48,000 a year he get’s for lending me $160,000. As a result I currently have no money to pay for airfare tickets to come to court. My second problem; I have 10 days to c…
/r/MensRights22/09/12 11:18 PM
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Yup, at least if this happened in the US: http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sex.cfm He would have 180 days to file a charge, possibly longer depending on the state. Your friend probably has no way to contact him, though, even if she wants to help. She might be able to report it to the EEOC anyway, as a witness.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 12:42 AM
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I agree with you on this. My wife reminded me last night of the BSA position on this, and now we are looking into alternatives for scouting-like experiences.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 04:30 PM
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Posters are ephemeral by their very nature. Just be prepared to put your own posters up over them (and they will put their posters up over yours) (ad infinitum). At least there's a political discussion going on here, and it isn't just advertising.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 04:20 AM
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I think I may try to get involved with the troop, so if they require a year's training in advance, that puts me in a good position to be involved at the time my son starts.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 12:15 AM
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Yeah, I was mostly wondering if people currently or recently involved with scouting could confirm they had addressed the problem. Thanks to all!
/r/MensRights17/09/12 12:12 AM
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Posting and then immediately commenting is probably bad reddiquette, but I'm asking because my son is nearly old enough for cub scouts. I had a great experience with scouting, but these stories have made me paranoid. Curious if others here have recent experience with scouting...
/r/MensRights16/09/12 08:35 PM
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Well, if possible I would have the conversation privately, and ask lots of leading questions, and maybe lay out some of the concerns and questions you'd have if you were a parent. And then encourage the person to do some more research.
/r/MensRights16/09/12 08:02 PM
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Definitely satire, and I'm pretty sure Kagin is not a feminist.
/r/MensRights16/09/12 07:55 PM
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Yeah, it's much bigger than circumcision: http://www.amazon.com/The-Immortal-Life-Henrietta-Lacks/dp/1400052173
/r/MensRights12/09/12 05:44 AM
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You were right to get away from the guy and put yourself in a safer situation. Don't let the cop's reaction make you feel like you handled it badly. Very glad to see that your friends are supportive. As a father, it infuriates me that the cops would make light of this. That guy was a predator, plain and simple.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 09:23 PM
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You serious? Women watch porn too. My wife watches porn nearly as much as I do.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 01:54 AM
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Peer reviewed medical journals are a slightly better source than Wikipedia. Killick, S. R., Leary, C., Trussell, J. and Guthrie, K. A. "Sperm content of pre-ejaculatory fluid." Human Fertility 2011 14:1, 48-52 ABSTRACT: "This study was designed to establish whether motile spermatozoa are released with pre-ejaculatory fluid and whether this fluid therefore poses a risk for unintended pregnancy. Forty samples of pre-ejaculatory fluid were examined from 27 volunteer men. Samples were obtained by ma…
/r/MensRights26/08/12 04:00 AM
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Wow. I read that story. If police had tested the rape kit of the featured woman and gotten a conviction, her attacker would not have had the opportunity to go on to commit "indecency with a child" (for which he is now serving 20 years). I for one am glad they are testing these.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 07:04 PM
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As someone who has been partnered with a wonderful, honest, egalitarian woman for 15 years, married for 10, with three kids (two of whom are honest, egalitarian girls) I am upvoting your comment. Women are not the enemy of men. This guy Zarat may have had bad experiences with a women, or multiple women, but generalizing that to an entire gender is just wrong.
/r/MensRights21/08/12 03:46 AM
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I'm circumcised, like most American men of my generation. But when we found out my wife was having a boy, we talked it over and decided there was just no good reason to do it to him. This was before I really knew anything about men's rights or anything like that. I've been trying to educate myself more about this issue.
/r/MensRights21/08/12 03:36 AM
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Yeah, I was going for the easy joke.
/r/MensRights21/08/12 02:20 AM
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If your long term relationship is monotonous, you're doing it wrong.
/r/MensRights20/08/12 11:46 PM
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Except when it's a female statutory rapist, then it's all about "sore hands from all the high fives" etc. In my experience, men are as likely as women to be making (and liking) those comments. Hell, I've had to call out friends in real life for that kind of thing.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 02:17 AM
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You misunderstand me, I think, or maybe I wasn't completely clear. (Probably the latter.) I am a father of three, so I know the depth of feeling involved. Mainly what I mean is that you have to be very careful of expressing yourself in ways that sound violent or (even verbally) abusive, even if you would never actually do anything. If your ex, or a social worker, or anyone on her side, heard you saying "Bitch, fuck you" to her, or talking about how her actions make you want to bash her face in, …
/r/MensRights13/08/12 02:10 AM
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I'm not divorced so take this FWIW. You need to get control of that anger; I'm not saying it's entirely unjustified, but it is completely counterproductive. If it gets back to the court, it will raise major red flags AND give your ex ammunition to use against you. Check out Fathers and Families, linked over on the bottom right External Links section. It's great that you want to be a good dad to your daughter. Her life will be better with you in it. Good luck.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 01:02 AM
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Citation needed on both parts, just to be clear.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 12:42 AM
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I'm late too, but this is good advice. I've been married for 10 years, and while we always put our 3 kids first I think part of what has made it work has been the fact that we also work on the relationship and don't take it for granted. Whether or not you can salvage your relationship with counseling, etc., I really hope things work out for you and your kids in the long run. You sound like a good guy, and a good dad. Take care.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 12:36 AM
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Ah, I see she's in the habit of calling people she disagrees with whiners, since she does that to atheists too: http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/la-oe-allen-anti-circumcision-activists-20120812,0,386071.story
/r/MensRights13/08/12 12:22 AM
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Been married 10 years myself. 3 kids. We dated for nearly 5 years first, took our time. My interest in men's rights isn't really based on anything personal, but I can see that is different for lots of guys here.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 07:56 PM
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Not particularly well written.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:10 AM
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Good for you. Keep fighting.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:07 AM
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Oh sorry -- said the same thing up above, b/c I didn't read the whole thread.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 04:03 AM
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If you get 2 paychecks/month, and each one has 15% deducted, that adds up to a 15% deduction. If you get one paycheck/month, and they deduct 15% on the 1st and another 15% on the 15th, then that would be a 30% deduction (but it seems very unlikely they do this).
/r/MensRights02/08/12 04:02 AM
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Some good advice here too: http://www.moneycrashers.com/back-child-support/
/r/MensRights01/08/12 11:42 PM
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I feel like the headline writer really missed an opportunity. "CAN-FAP* at the VAG" might attract more readers. *That is their preferred shortened moniker: http://can-fap.net/
/r/MensRights01/08/12 10:52 PM
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QFT.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:49 AM
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The children of a woman he claims to love. KIDS. Small, helpless human beings he wants to be a step dad to. Yeah, I don't get it.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:42 AM
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Why would a person even care what gender a complete stranger is? Seriously.
/r/MensRights20/07/12 07:40 PM
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Seriously. I saw this and thought, "So what?"
/r/MensRights20/07/12 07:15 PM
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Wait. feminism.org (which now redirects to buydiablo.blogspot.com) has not ever been associated with the Feminist Majority Foundation, according to archive.org. It was originally associated with the American Psychological Association's Psychology of Women Division, and more recently has been "under construction." The Feminist Majority Foundation site (feminist.org) seems to be up and running. Was it also down for a while?
/r/MensRights18/07/12 05:44 PM
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After also engaging in violence: http://redd.it/ve5zp Sorry, but I can't condone the violence and I think it needs to be part of the picture.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 04:07 AM
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I want to suggest you rethink this until you've consulted with people who work in the field of suicide prevention. Particularly for young people, there is a danger that it could be seen as romanticizing or idealizing suicide. I want to be clear that I think your heart is in the right place, but your focus may need to shift in order to be most helpful.
/r/MensRights14/07/12 08:29 PM
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I found this story without too much work: http://www.eaglecountryonline.com/news.php?nID=2479
/r/MensRights13/07/12 11:22 PM
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No. It isn't the law. It is not child pornography unless the image "is, or appears to be, of a minor engaging in sexually explicit conduct." Neither is true here. (Ask yourself this question: If this were child pornography, why are the people who made the Twilight Saga films still walking around free? It's not like they're anonymous.) That said, if it is a real picture, any HR department that is any good would ask the person to take down the shirtless photo and might (depending on the context) a…
/r/MensRights13/07/12 07:20 PM
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