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SEEKING ADVICEkeepsgettinbetter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:09 AM
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This is true for me. Especially during ovulation - I do tend to notice other men a lot at that point in my cycle, but my goal isn’t “I want to have sex with them.” I mostly just want them to flirt with me more during that time, and I’m more open to flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:12 PM
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Ugh that movie was horrifying. She deserved way better. Even after this “glow up,” I still didn’t love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:51 AM
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This inspires me to read the book. Also, if anyone wants to listen to a funny song about this, the show Crazy Ex-Girlfriend has a song called “Ping Pong Girl” that has a great take on this concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:24 AM
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By the way I’m 5’11. 250 lbs Seeing this after reading this long list of demands...my jaw dropped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:12 PM
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It seems to me that he didn’t just ignore her safe word. Ignoring it would’ve been bad enough, but his behavior indicates that her safe word was his CUE to become more violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:39 PM
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I have been abused in the past and at my lowest points, being a BDSM “sub” was just a socially acceptable form of self-harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:37 PM
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His voice is absolutely grating. I feel sorry for her that she has to not only put up with insults to her hobby, but put up with hearing them from that voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:39 PM
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I’ve noticed this even in my friends’ parents (who are in their 50s and 60s). Many of the women are realizing their power and becoming more feminist, and the husbands are super upset about it. For example, the other day, my partner’s dad came home after work. I’ll give him credit for the fact that he does provide for the family. But his mom also keeps an insanely spotless house, and cooks him elaborate meals every single day, including amazing desserts every night. One night while eating a beaut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:34 PM
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That’s a good point. For a long time, I’ve had the idea that there’s a magic level of hotness and desirability I could reach that would allow me to get whatever I wanted. But that’s not necessarily true, it’s just what society wants us to believe so that we’ll put more money into the beauty industry. It’s especially dangerous because even if there WAS a magical level of hotness where great things were being thrown at me, I would still have low confidence and that could cause me to settle for les…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:20 PM
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Once on a first date, a man remarked on the dishonesty of online dating profile pictures and said, “You know this girl showed up and I thought, ‘What did you do, eat the girl in the pictures?’” He was not the first to make such a remark but I was so ambivalent on the possibility of seeing him again and it wasn’t even a good fat joke that I said, “I don’t like that joke. I used to be fat.” “Fat” was an exaggeration but “fatter” wouldn’t have put me in evident solidarity with this duplicitous over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:04 PM
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Wow, this was disturbing to read, and so sad. Great analysis, though. Kinks can truly be revealing and often they reveal serious untreated psychological issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:12 AM
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I used to be really into choking and breath play. I’m so glad that I’m getting out of that world now. How horrifying would it be to DIE because of injuries sustained during a “kink scene?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:07 AM
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I’ve known some men to be into torture and degradation, so it’s not all directed toward women. However, a large portion of those men were also into being “feminized” and called female insults while being degraded. It’s amazing how most of the time, it all leads back to misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:05 AM
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That’s awesome, and seems to fit in with what we know of his personality. In the article linked it talks about how Henry might have been trying to cover up his impotency by claiming she was too ugly and calling her virginity into question. I totally buy that, insecure men can get real defensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:16 AM
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I agree with this. Seems like this man was just using his bisexuality as an excuse to be an abusive asshole. Abusive men will use every excuse in the book that will cause you to hate some other entity (their sexuality, alcoholism/addiction, the “other woman”, video games, past trauma, etc) as opposed to putting the responsibility for their horrible behavior on themselves. OP and everyone who would not date a bisexual man has every right to avoid them, obviously. But I’d be careful to not allow a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:02 AM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you, with someone you cared about and trusted. He wore you out, wore down your defenses. One analogy a friend used was, “If you went to a store and they had a closed sign up, would you bang on the door? Beg for them to let you in? Smash in their window with a brick? No, you’d check back another time.” I say this not to compare a woman’s body to a store, but to show that any reasonable person would accept a “closed” sign as something to take seriously, yet so many me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:51 AM
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I just looked it up, and the creator says that the doll was “heavily soiled” with two fingers broken, because the men mounted her breasts, legs, and arms. Her breasts were also destroyed due to aggressive groping. And this is what was done to her at the convention - who knows what these men would’ve done in private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:35 AM
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I checked out the red pill sub the other day just to see if it was “as bad” as FDS. One of the first posts I saw said something like, “what doesn’t kill men makes them stronger, but what doesn’t kill women damaged them for life.” It went on to detail that supposedly, when women go through trauma, it takes years and years for them to work through it, and by then we are well past our “biological prime.” This means we’re not as “strong” and rarely recover as well as men do. It was such bullshit, be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:34 PM
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