keepturning1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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17	Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way? Good fathers are vital. That’s a lifelong constant mentor who teaches you how to be, how to speak, how to act, how to react emotionally. Your father is your “dating coach” from birth. How you’ve been raised then impacts the friends you hang around. These friends then impact you themselves. So if you have another friend who is also from a good family with a good dad, and so is much like you with a good temperament and way of speaking and interacting with people, then you guys will level up togeth…	/r/seduction	10/05/26 07:13 AM
6	Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events. At that scale it is entirely genetics, nothing to do with makeup. A 7 can never ever make themselves a 9 or a 10 under no exceptions.	/r/seduction	12/04/26 10:11 PM
8	I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6s Who we attract over a period of time gives us a good indication of our own attractiveness. If the women you’ve been with are all average in your opinion, then you likely are too and need to adjust your expectations accordingly.	/r/seduction	31/03/26 09:44 AM
1	Are busty girls ever single? If they are it’s by choice, not for a lack of options. When you’ve had relationships with busty women it’s eye opening/entertaining to see how much guys thirst after them wherever you go. You see their brains rewiring just dealing with their presence because it’s not everyday you see a beautiful busty woman. So because of this they will always have options but because of this they can also be very picky.	/r/seduction	24/08/25 01:12 PM
1	Men can now message first on Bumble That’s what you get if you pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:19 AM
4	Women: what's the most irrational thing that gives you the ick when it comes to men? What a strange thing to not let your tired partner rest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 02:55 PM
5	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? The last couple of years I’ve had a fair few times where I’ve seen female friends of mine posting happy families with their boyfriend/husband then I randomly see them within some months single on bumble after their breakup/divorce. What you see on social media doesn’t really give any real indication of what’s going on with a couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 07:22 AM
14	Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their Husbands Possibly the most naive post ever made on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 08:29 PM
1	Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance? If you love someone the thought of cheating on them should make you sick. If it doesn’t then you’re not in love with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 06:06 AM
2	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity You haven’t provided an alternative so I really don’t see what the other option is? If a waiter hasn’t noticed you what else do you do other than be patient and wait to calmly get their attention? The other alternative is getting shitted off about it, what’s the third?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:56 PM
2	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Patiently waiting for a waiter is feminine? And the alternative is what? Getting upset and hysterical about it is feminine, calmly waiting unbothered is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:34 PM
16	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Yep this is it. However once you’ve had it happen to you you can recalibrate and actively manage it next time you’re deeply in lust. Dating is a learning process.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 08:54 AM
2	What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting? I can easily drop off for a week or 2 and it doesn’t have to be because I was dating someone else, it can just be cause I CBF or had stuff on at work or social commitments with friends and family. Having said that I wouldn’t be keen on a fancy dinner for a first date so I’d simply say yes to meeting but something more casual. What I should add to that though, if I was really keen on someone I probably wouldn’t drop off in the first place. So she’s probably not enamoured with you.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 05:49 AM
1	What is it about Pete Davidson You’re not the target audience, but your advice is for the target audience. I think some people have a very one dimensional view of attraction, while yours is a lot more nuanced a from a woman while so many guys get advice from just guys. Or put it on the dating subreddit, might be a slightly more mature audience there.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 11:19 PM
1	What is it about Pete Davidson Have you seen him just be though? Have you had a personal conversation with him? Those women have and they liked it, your armchair analysis doesn’t match. If it was right then loads of famous average joes would be dating these women, but they’re not.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 01:58 PM
3	What is it about Pete Davidson You should turn this into it’s own advice thread for this sub. I liked the point where you value a man for having platonic female friends, unlike so many of the jealous psychos on Reddit who say a man having female friends is a bad thing.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 01:51 PM
1	What is it about Pete Davidson It’s charisma combined with being tall, fame just gets him on their level to be able to use those previous two things but is not the reason alone.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 01:45 PM
1	PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps. That’s a fair point. But for anyone average and above there’s lots of variables.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:30 AM
2	PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps. Some of the girls I swipe left on would be considered very attractive by other guys and by women who don’t necessarily understand what a guy finds attractive. A really tall slim model like woman who many women would envy just wouldn’t do it for me at all. I’d prefer a short kinda chubby girl. I’m a “boob guy” so if a woman has a nice butt that means basically nothing to me, even if it does to the majority of guys, a flat ass just wouldn’t be much of a turnoff for me. Totally fine for people to h…	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:01 AM
4	PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps. Nothing is truly objective when it comes to looks and attraction.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:59 AM
9	Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidence This is essentially big dick energy. Anyone who needs training in seduction or overanalyses dating as so many on this sub do just don’t have BDE. They lack charisma, confidence and the ability to be kind without being a simp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/22 12:59 PM
2	Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered? 36-40% is where it starts looking unhealthy there. I love thicker women and a bit of cushion so I’m definitely open to chubbier women if they’re overall fit and have good proportions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 11:33 AM
1	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? Pushing her away is cringe man, treat her with respect or she’ll eventually dump your ass for the guy who will. Nothing wrong with banter, lots wrong with just being a tosser. If I saw my sister’s partner treat her like that, I’d tell him to get fucked and that’s the lens you should see it through.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 09:32 AM
1	The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in them This is definitely not true, Reddit is male dominated.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 12:27 PM
2	If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women? What was the weakness? Was it something like a mental health issue like anxiety?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 03:19 AM
0	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? “She was looking for validation and got it, routine.” So did you mean routine for this one woman you’ve never met, or routine for women generally? I might’ve misinterpreted your comments but as far as I can tell you made a general statement about women, not just the woman in the OP’s situation. Textbook assumption. And an incorrect one. Flirting is fun, there’s really not much more thought given to it than that from the average person. Everything else including how a woman reacts to your approac…	/r/seduction	19/11/21 01:19 AM
1	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? I agree with that but that’s a little different to your previous message. Let me deconstruct how it seems to me, and excuse the bluntness. Because women aren’t interested in you when you open your mouth you’ve come to the conclusion that they’re involved in some sort of superficial “validation” process with a preconceived thought to show interest but not move beyond that, leading you on essentially is the supposition. Or perhaps the common denominator is yourself, and not the women, and they’re …	/r/seduction	17/11/21 10:35 PM
2	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? The unawareness was in reference to saying don’t chase women, so they chase you. If everyone had your view the dating world would come to a standstill. There’s nothing wrong with making some effort to get a woman, and if it doesn’t work then I agree have your mentality of “who cares”. But giving advice of do nothing so they come chasing you (very unlikely) I think is not helpful.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:54 PM
-1	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? You have shit chat bro, work on yourself. For us guys with an ounce of intelligence talking to women doesn’t instantly mean they’re done, it means they’re more interested.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:42 PM
-1	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? Get over yourself. You’re criticising the guy for behaviour you’re saying women should display for you. You’re saying you act like a basic disinterested bitch to women to manipulate them to be into you cause you think your God’s gift to the world. Goddam man this is some cringe completely self-unaware shit.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:41 PM
0	In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy? Guys do not care about likes and follower counts at all. They care about your appearance, that’s what they’re looking at on your profile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 11:16 PM
1	In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy? I think the majority of young attractive women today are actually not that interested in like counts. You’re having your perception skewed by public facing Insta thots. There are plenty of attractive women with private profiles and sub 1000 followers. Some of the hottest women I’ve seen are just regular girls I’ve met and have on IG who don’t give a shit about having thousands of thirsty guys perving on them. So my point is I think the average attractive woman who doesn’t give a shit about this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 11:07 PM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Given not a single gen z is in their 30s yet there’s absolutely no way to substantiate this. Nobody considers children seriously in their 20s except hardcore god botherers. It becomes something you consider more as you get older. Not saying that it isn’t a growing preference, but there’s no way you could confidently call it the majority consensus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 01:01 PM
1	As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older? Casual sex with a friend with benefits who you genuinely get along with and find attractive can be great. It’s a level above just a random drunken hook up and for sure something that’s worth a try if you’re both comfortable with the situation.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 10:50 AM
2	The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of them So you engage in a bunch of performative niceties like paying other people’s bills and holding doors open, that doesn’t make you a “nice” person or one people want to be around. When I think of genuinely nice people it’s an energy they exude all the time, not in fleeting moments of chivalry and good manners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/21 07:36 AM
2	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? All I’m seeing there is crazy attracts crazy. Not a useful anecdote at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 10:51 AM
3	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? Or knows what they want and doesn’t settle for less like so many other people in unhappy/divorced relationships do because of antiquated expectations like marriage by 35.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 09:39 AM
5	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? I think he means he broke up with his partner, as happens everyday with 5-year-old relationships. This is not unusual. Having two 5 year relationships is a positive thing, not everyone is meant to be the one for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 09:37 AM
6	Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life? Hat fishing is as bad as cat fishing for women. Many are wary of men on dating apps who have hats on in every photo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 10:38 PM
1	I slid in the dm's and got rejected You can be hot but not hot to that person you find hot, happens to all hot people, myself included.	/r/seduction	22/03/21 07:12 AM
16	When you go to clubs/parties/bars, is your intention to have fun, or do you just care about hopefully hooking up? I only go out to have fun, hooking up is never my intention and because of that I’ve never had a bad night out. If you go out with the mission to hook up then you’re setting yourself to have a bad night if you fail. One time I travelled overseas with a friend who was obsessed with picking up whenever we went out, it constantly killed the fun of our nights as he’d go off with some random girl and I just gotta third wheel or talk to her friend when moments earlier we were enjoying ourselves togeth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/21 10:55 AM
2	Blew it. We’re all stoic and in control and give out that advice here on Reddit until we meet that one woman who makes us needy and anxious and then we suddenly understand those stories on Reddit. You can even do your best to learn from the experience, tell yourself you won’t do it again... until, again, you meet that girl who makes you like that again. You just gotta hope they’re on the same wavelength of interest as you the next time.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 09:56 AM
1	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating You have to do it for yourself as well, that’s the key. I enjoy working out because it makes me feel better mentally from the endorphins it releases and I like to see the progress. It’s also benefited me with women but that wasn’t what drove me there in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 01:44 AM
4	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating You don’t have to be in shape with hobbies at 41? That’s what I might expect to hear from an 81-year-old. My old man is about to hit 70 and keeps in shape and busy with hobbies and it makes his life more social and therefore more awesome. It’s never too late to start though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 04:52 AM
2	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating Go to a store like TopMan or Uniqlo and get some neat, inexpensive basic clothing items. You don’t need to spend lots of money to look good, you just have to pick things which look good on you while spending enough to get quality. By that I mean spending $300 on a t shirt is ridiculous, you are paying for a brand. Where I am in Australia, a good t shirt should set you back about $40-$80, that means in the USA the price would be even lower. And ask a female shop assistant to help, they always hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 03:48 AM
3	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating You’re not smiling with your eyes so it comes across as forced and inauthentic. Get your hair neatened up by a good hairdresser, not the cheapest, and you’ll already be leaps and bounds ahead. I’d recommend cutting it short and seeing if that improves your chances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 03:41 AM
1	Do you think a lot of men get very clingy and needy after dates/sex with you? It’s only clingy when you’re not into them. The right guy will come along and you’ll love that and you’ll of course be clingy too because you don’t want to lose him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 02:33 AM
3	6 Signs Someone is Attracted To You This is exactly like every other article. This is like school boy 101 stuff.	/r/seduction	12/12/20 08:52 PM
1	Neediness Kills Attraction By in my own world I don’t mean not being in the moment. I mean just doing your own thing, not constantly considering the need to be eyeing people off in the street or the supermarket or wherever you are. That shows every action you’re making in even a mundane situation is overly considered. Nobody likes overly considered people, you can’t relax around them, everything is calculated and fake, from their words to their actions. They have a stench of - what’s the word - neediness. The guys who sla…	/r/seduction	11/12/20 12:06 PM
12	Neediness Kills Attraction Making eye contact with everybody you walk past is as premeditated and therefore needy as fuck as you can get. Someone who is not needy is in their own world not thinking about everyone around them unless someone worthwhile catches their attention.	/r/seduction	11/12/20 08:46 AM
1	How do you define hypergamy? It’s not that they’re better in comparison to you, it’s in comparison to your current partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 12:07 PM
2	A new perspective on approaching woman? And to add even though I’m sure your definition of naturals encompassed this, their interactions come off as natural. It’s not “picking up”, it’s just talking which makes the other person at ease. This is helped by as you mentioned that they’ve already received positive signals from the girl. If a woman is on the defensive from the start then you’re going about things completely the wrong way.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 01:00 AM
1	I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to. Quit your job, travel, move to another country and get some interesting life stories behind you. Make yourself interesting.	/r/seduction	06/11/20 02:46 AM
2	I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to. Rings on a tree.	/r/seduction	06/11/20 01:40 AM
3	Broke my comfort zone! Yes so it’s inherently defeating lol... if you genuinely like the girl then the whole whatever act is contrived especially when you’ve made the effort to approach them in public.	/r/seduction	22/10/20 09:22 PM
5	Broke my comfort zone! That could equally be seen as unattractive though. Nothing wrong with showing your full interest by asking for their number and that way you completely remove the risk of them not contacting you and can take the initiative with a witty and charming message. This manipulation technique of giving her your number cause you’re supposedly drowning in pussy and don’t care if she contacts you or not so she becomes more interested relies on way too many presumptions and things out of your control having…	/r/seduction	22/10/20 09:07 PM
6	Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation. This is too literal, you’re literally pushing for an unwanted kiss, not attractive at all. It’s about conveying different parts of your personality and attraction to her, being a little mischievous, then being a little serious, letting her have some banter then you have some banter. It means giving a little and then taking a little, letting dynamics flow each way.	/r/seduction	19/10/20 09:11 PM
3	Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractiveness And your comment about a woman’s idea of intellectual discussion isn’t snarky? Lacking self awareness there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 12:07 AM
5	Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name? Would 100% want my wife to keep her name and only take my name if she absolutely wanted to but even then I’d try convince her to keep hers as that’s the person I fell in love with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/20 02:02 PM
1	How is dating/relationship dynamics going to change as Gen Z moves into their early 20s and is at the forefront of popular culture? How can a generation growing up freaked out by climate change be the most conservative generation? You are full of absolute shit. Negating climate change requires a complete dismantling of the status quo and the conservative apparatus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/20 03:51 AM
1	Has porn caused men and women to find different traits attractive in women? I would take the girl on the left and a girl next door look always. I think it’s an education thing. Poorly educated women have that horribly made up plastic look and poorly educated guys go for it. See it on Tinder fairly regularly and they’ve always got trash looking lifestyles and attitudes to go with it. Very rarely are they the doctor or the lawyer or the charity worker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/20 12:52 PM
1	What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience? Damn I was going back and forth between both your comments believing both of you. Good arguments on both sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 01:50 AM
1	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash Stop hanging around alcoholics then. Unless I’m out socialising it’s very easy to “limit” myself to one beer or glass of wine at home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 07:59 AM
1	Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you? I think this raises an interesting question of what it is to be masculine. Does he have a deep voice? Does he have a large penis? Is he assertive in his convictions? These things could easily make him not “weak” just in a different sense and make him attractive in a different masculine way. For a woman to be physically stronger than her partner though I’d say is rare, most guys are just naturally bigger and stronger than their female partners so he’s either pretty physically weak or you are very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/20 05:04 AM
2	The beta, turned alpha, does not become attractive to the women who were exposed to him as a beta. Zyzz disagrees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:57 PM
2	IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating Apps Every good looking person has orbiters on social media, whether you know it or not or like it or not. When someone becomes single those orbiters will make their move. It’s not really too much of a mind blowing thing to think about. You’re talking about someone in the friend zone which is totally different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/20 04:25 AM
1	IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating Apps Did this with my most recent relationship. Saw her on an app then added her on IG and sent a message. She responded and we hit it off chatting and within a week or so we met up and ended up staying together for a short while before she went away. It was great. Although we never discussed it she was obviously able to vet me first by looking through my profile and determining that I was an interesting and honest seeming person worth talking to with things in common. I’ve also had a couple of girlf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/20 04:21 AM
0	I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining women Your assessment is far more realistic. Plenty of beautiful intelligent women want privacy and don’t want thousands of followers. But of course the losers on this sub judge all women based off the highly visible ones on Insta. Dating apps have definitely affected dating positively and negatively. It’s made it easier for us all to meet people, correspondingly it’s made it harder to settle for people we’re only so-so on, the question is whether that’s good or bad. I’d say that comes down to perspec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 11:16 PM
3	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale All of your comments here reek of inexperience and I’m sorry to say, immaturity. You are talking about men (you) hitting on women, so yes in this instance why should any blame lie with a woman because she rejected you? If you carry these sorts of attitudes through life you’re really going to struggle with women. So to repeat - better yourself, better your flirting, better your emotional intelligence and go for women you can realistically attract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 12:38 AM
7	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale This sounds like you’ve had maybe one interaction like this and are now coming on here to make it sound like it’s something more common than it is. You were probably out of this woman’s league and she shot you down and now you’re butt hurt about it. Sexy women want attention... from sexy men. That’s who they’re dressing up for if not just for themselves because it makes them feel good. Deal with it. And if it is more than one instance then this tells me you need to either work on yourself and be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/20 11:36 AM
2	What do you think life is like for attractive men? Compared to attractive women and other men Perhaps if they don’t have high standards and take what they can get. Most attractive men with an idea in mind of who they like and what they want will indeed have to pursue sometimes and probably most of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 09:46 AM
4	Men have a greater chance of pulling a woman in person rather than over social media apps making it pointless to even use them Yeah, I guess OLD sounds better than OD	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/20 10:46 AM
23	Is the quarantine affecting women more than men? Silicon Valley is built on hardcore lefties. You mean they don’t do the manual labour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/20 07:13 AM
3	Why wouldn’t a man want to commit to a woman who clearly enjoys sex? My most recent girlfriend has a high n count. She also called her sister and told her she just had the best sex of her life after the second time we fucked. You like me have the confidence to know that any woman even with a high number will still find you one of her best, if not her best, so who cares how many have come before you. I think the guys that care so much about a woman’s n count are less secure in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/20 10:17 AM
1	How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her? I was just trying to emphasise a very attractive woman to make the point that’s where you might find most male friends having underlying interest, but for the vast majority of average women many of their male friends wouldn’t be interested in sleeping with them because they’re just not attracted to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/20 01:40 AM
2	How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her? There are many women I don’t want to sleep with, most in fact. So most of my female friends I actually don’t want to fuck. And if I’m genuinely attracted to them then chances are I’ve tried to turn it into something more than a friendship. So I’m not saying I speak for all guys but just know we’re not all like that. And I’ll just add an obvious point but if a woman is objectively stunning in a way everyone both male and female usually agrees on, then yes chances are most of their guy friends hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/20 09:40 PM