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This. She can undo everything he has gained since they split. That pain is not gone, it is just buried. Do not give her the chance to open old wounds.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:10 PM
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Meditate and practice mindfulness - learn how to enjoy the details of the moment. Learn to catch yourself when you're mind starts going down a dark windy road. Focus on your breath, and be present. Practice lasting longer by setting a timer when you wank. Do kegels. Don't look at porn. You're really young, but you can still talk to a doctor about ED and PE. You can also use the site Roman to get medicated (THIS WILL NOT SOLVE PERFORMANCE ANXIETY but the mental reassurance could help) Don't tell …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:07 PM
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Hookah bar
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:19 PM
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Admittedly, I care because I thought she could be LTR material. It's my error for being optimistic and hoping that she would be. I do want to continue seeing her but this kind of leveled the playing field. You're right though, true frame would not give two shits. My problem is that I will have to fake that to keep this going.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:59 PM
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If what they say about "getting a job is easier when you have a job" is true, this could be a good stepping stone at least.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:16 PM
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So how'd it go?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:13 PM
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She’s on test run for Life Partner and failing
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:30 PM
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This is the best answer. OP’s parents probably don’t even realize what they’re doing. Mirroring them may offer them a new perspective. Def important to maintain frame while doing so. Don’t come off as sensitive or annoyed.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:47 PM
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Log your workouts
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:35 PM
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Just fill your lungs till your huge cock has a huge cock of its own
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:29 PM
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Also start meditating, and read some self help books
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:00 PM
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Try to think of it as a “meeting”. Decide ahead of time which days/times you’re available. Then tell her “we should grab a drink this week. What works better for you Thursday or Friday?” Separate your hopes and expectations from the equation.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 09:09 PM
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Agreed. I've been dishing out this knowledge to a close friend lately, and really needed to hear it back.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:53 PM
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I see where you're coming from here, but she has (as far as I know) been super loyal and gone above and beyond to show me what I mean to her. This was after me telling myslf she was high-risk, but then deciding I might take that risk. Not because I was lonely or scared of missing out on "the one", but because I knew that if she fucked up I would next her and move on with my life. So having said that, it is a bit foolish of me to be asking this question in the first place, but I guess I just need…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:45 PM
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Subtle like a cocaine_face? But in all seriousness, I will definitely keep this in my back pocket for a time I feel suspiscious (hopefully it doesn't come that far). Good idea.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:37 PM
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This is what I needed to hear. Exactly what I tell my friends. It's so easy to ignore your own words. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:35 PM
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Yea it's just that she has expressed concerns for her financial situation over the past few months and I don't know what this job might lead to. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out more flirting = more sales.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:33 PM
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Sorry to hear you have first hand experience. Unfortunately it's pretty much too late for her to turn down the job, as she started alraedy. I'm glad to see you think there are other options. it's just a matter of time until she hooks up with a client or leaves you for somebody she meets through work. Definitely the potential disaster at hand. The wealth aspect is a huge factor that could work against me, but I know she already has admiration for the work I've been putting in in other areas (care…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:29 PM
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I think that she will probably be dealing with more of the former but am also aware that it only takes one of the latter.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:18 PM
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Thank you for the reality check and the words of encouragement. I will keep my eyes open, and stick to the boundaries I have laid out for her.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:17 PM
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I was thinking the same thing but can't really justify punishing her for something that hasn't been done
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:11 PM
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She's a very sociable person, and definitely gets hit on regularly. She has had similar jobs, having been a bartender and waitress in the past, but her current position specifically targets wealthy men. From TRP's point of view, she is on the more promiscuous side, in addition to being a highly spontaneous person. I guess I was okay with this before but now that she's putting herself in that situation regularly, I fear that I will struggle to maintain my control and find myself resorting to old …
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:05 PM
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I'm already a few months in and it's going well. I will admit I have kind of lost the self discipline I had before dating her, but I'm working to get that stability back, and the best part is that she recognizes this and does what she can to help me and encourage me to pursue my dreams. It's all kinda beta-sounding, but in the end she knows I am not interested in wasting my time with unnecessary distractions (...as I sit on reddit for hours every day).
/r/askTRP22/08/14 06:34 PM
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I'm gonna do this this weekend in response to the inevitable 'you're not texting me enough' text that is coming my way. Have her ready for my return!
/r/askTRP22/08/14 06:01 PM
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It kinda just happened. She was a plate who I didn't really see as LTR material because of some red flags including the fact that she is part of my friend circle (I realize i made a mistake here). Over time I realized that she is someone I actually enjoy spending time with, and she earned my trust and affection. I haven't actually wanted to be with anyone for years up tilll now. Long story short: I have no fucking idea why, but I'm taking a risk on her, knowing that it if it doesn't work out, it…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:59 PM
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Twenty-six. I really do think I have low testosterone, and I was also told I have a vitamin D deficiency. I had no idea they were related! If this is the case you are the answer to my prayers.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:45 PM
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Yea I'm coming to terms with the fact that this is just how it goes. It's been a few years since I've been in a LTR. I made a joke following the original text and now she's telling me how much shes going to miss me this weekend. The comment about your daughter made me laugh (you're right).
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:47 PM
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Yea i just got a "I'm gonna misssssss you" haha
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:44 PM
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To be honest, my libido is definitely smaller than hers. Sometimes I'm pretty indifferent to sex, whereas she is always dtf. Still, I'm almost always feeling up her ass when we're both in good moods. I think the real lack of attraction for me is just her bad moods that result from jealousy/dread game. She starts acting childish and I realize I have better things to do than cater to it.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:18 PM
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I am fairly confident I am not dating a sociopath, but you're right, I should question everything.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:54 PM
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Yea I told her I didn't want to get a boner in the parking lot. But yea, I personally feel like I show her affection all the time, but then I get comments like this out of nowhere. I just can't imagine giving her any more without breaking frame. I'll look for some of those posts though. Thanks.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:42 PM
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If she is, it's definitely not on purpose. I can tell she is genuinely hurt by my 'lack of emotion'. I think dread game has weakened her sense of security in the relationship. Having said that, dropping frame would definitely not benefit me at all.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:38 PM
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Could have helped prevent the break up too
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:06 PM
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Haha I have "No More Zero Days" written on my dry-erase board in my room.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:34 PM
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I'll be there too! I was just like you a little over a year ago. I went to a few festivals and literally had an anxiety attack at EDC NY when my buddy told me a girl was checking me out. I've learned you have to just focus on enjoying yourself. Live in the moment and seperate yourself from the outcome. A good way to warm up is asking for high fives from people (especially hot girls) as you're walking. This gets you comfortable with interacting with them and builds you tolerance to rejection (som…
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:18 PM
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What are we working with here? Any siblings? Is your room on the same floor as your parents? Do you have a basement that's cool to hang out in? I'm 26 and still live with my parents. I feel your frustration but it can definitely be done.
/r/seduction01/04/14 09:00 PM
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I just want to follow up on this. After I posted this I headed out for a job and told myself I was going to talk to one girl. I came across a cute receptionist who was super friendly, and I decided I'd make some effort to bust out of my shell. After a few words exchanged, I could sense I was allowing myself to let the interaction fade, so I snapped out of it and started teasing her. I ended up getting her number, taking her out on a date, resulting in an f-close. All thanks to your post. Thanks …
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:08 PM
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I find your posts to be really inspiring and I really want to acquire the same mentality, but I'm honestly getting anxiety just reading this. Fuck.
/r/seduction07/03/14 08:22 PM
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I see where you're coming from man. I also struggle with this immensely, and your post has served as a small wake up call for me. A major (if not THE MAIN) point of this subreddit is self improvement and confidence. How can I say I've improved at all if I can't fight past my mental barriers without the use of drugs and alcohol? If you rely on a crutch for too long you'll never learn to walk on your own.
/r/seduction28/01/14 09:54 PM
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ok me too
/r/seduction03/01/14 08:55 PM
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The number one rule I stick to at raves/shows is to have fun with myself. When I'm rolling and feelings good/social I wander the crowd, often by myself, looking for fun people. I initiate dance circles with people who look energetic, and eventually approach girls when I learn to be indifferent of the outcome (because I'm having such a good time they should feel privileged to be part of my fun). Girls at raves/shows are very aware that guys are looking to make moves on them, and are often more in…
/r/seduction30/12/13 09:30 PM
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Fuck man how have I not seen this? Good read.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:25 PM
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Is there a specific post on Roosh Text Game you are referring to?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 08:45 PM
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Girl I k-closed last weekend went cold (showed reduced interest progressively) on me via text before I could confidently ask for a date. How do I act if I run into her this weekend (probable)?
/r/seduction13/11/13 09:29 PM
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