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if a woman says this to a man in reference to her boyfriend: "Can't stand him" Uh. He asked us for a lighter, then looked shocked, hugged her and called her by her name. Not her boyfriend. And OP will be the one she can't stand next if he follows your advice.
/r/seduction13/02/16 08:25 PM
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And you're the expert? You sound like one of these armchair redpillers who doesn't do jack shit about approaching in real life, but talks theory on reddit all day.
/r/seduction13/02/16 08:17 PM
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I think that's true. It also depends on where you're at, NoVA is a fairly diverse area.
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:10 AM
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Maybe your girl is on tinder brah
/r/seduction19/07/15 12:47 AM
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you can't choose the girl What good looking chodes Some of those good looking guys are nice dudes who are like, well, why wouldn't I use this...
/r/seduction19/07/15 12:46 AM
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I'm in Northern VA, I do alright.
/r/seduction19/07/15 12:43 AM
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without being pushy unclasps bra
/r/seduction03/07/15 08:34 PM
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Exactly. I've had some fun times with women with tons of clasps, or a front clasp, or a tight sports bra, that I am having trouble getting off. I just laugh about it, maybe make a joke about it, and move on. Or I'll just say, "take this off."
/r/seduction03/07/15 08:02 PM
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Running, swimming, biking, meditating.... what I'm saying is anything you really dive into and push your body toward will help this. I feel like BJJ completely changed your life and you expect it to have the same effect on others, when it's more a matter of circumstance. I love BJJ - well, RJJ, I'm train under a Ribeiro affiliate :) - but I have done martial arts on and off my whole life, I've been competitive and confident my whole life. Success with women came long before it. It's about findin…
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:51 PM
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BJJ is Jiu-Jitsu developed from Judo in Brazil with an emphasis on self defense and practicality. It isn't useless traditional and watered down, and it is absolutely full contact, sometimes 100%, exhausting fighting. However, since there's no striking and other "street" stuff like eye gouging, the chance of serious injury is lower. Source: I train BJJ and have trained other martial arts previously for comparison.
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:34 PM
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Wtf, as a BJJ player myself, there are other ways of getting that out of life. You 100% sound like a sales guy. I generally agree, but your comment is bizarre to me.
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:31 PM
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I use Tinder all the time so I love reading posts about it. That said where are the tips? You just said "swipe right on everyone" and "ask her out". Both of these are thrown around a lot and they're not always true. I'm open to talking more about it. Write more about your experiences!
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:16 AM
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As silly as I think this much structure is, I think for what is you've done a fine job. Hopefully it helps someone.
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:11 AM
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She will point out if she is taken.
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:10 AM
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It depends on the conversation obviously but more on your goals. Are you just trying to fuck "club bitches?" How do they respond?
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:10 PM
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Keep talking to others, might as well go out with her again. Don't over think everything, just go with her if you want and don't if you don't.
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:09 PM
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Well you could start by re-reading it if you're just looking to "apply techniques." The book is about being open, honest, and vulnerable, about making yourself a better man to be attractive to women. What do you want out of life? If a woman walked up to you and asked you about your dreams, would you be able to look her in the eye and tell her?
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:45 PM
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From those two examples, it does sound like you're just being an asshole. It's about how you say things and in what context. Food for thought: If Brad Pitt walked into the bar, he probably wouldn't ask a girl if he could buy her a drink. But he probably wouldn't say "wanna buy me a drink?" either.
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:43 PM
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You just have to learn a couple of key things. 1 is appreciating silence. It's not your enemy, it's your friend. 2 is exploring a conversation. You have to learn how to pick up on avenues when people speak. Girl: "I love to travel." Guy 1: "I travel too, one time I went to...." blah blah blah, girl loses interest Guy 2: "When? Where?" Girl follows up with country, conversation peters out Guy 3: "Yeah, traveling is thrilling - do you rough it and camp out in hostels, or are you a fancy cruise shi…
/r/seduction26/04/15 04:14 PM
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Elaborate on playing around a bit. Are these women you're interested in usually?
/r/seduction26/04/15 04:08 PM
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I don't understand the gap between the eye contact and the approach. You lock eyes, you hold it, there's sexual tension, how is not more weird to just walk away? I use the eye contact as a window to approach.
/r/seduction26/04/15 04:06 PM
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This moment could not matter less. I almost never "end" text conversations.
/r/seduction26/04/15 03:46 PM
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If she denied you twice and didn't give you an alternate time, I'd move on.
/r/seduction23/04/15 11:21 PM
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Haha, as funny as your story is, I believe she knew because she specifically stated that it wasn't a date.
/r/seduction17/04/15 04:00 AM
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Lol what
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:45 PM
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I meant romantically/ socially. Her reason for saying that is probably, unless she was joking, that she doesn't really want to go out with you but she's giving it a chance anyway. Just treat it as it is, escalate, but don't expect much if she's already throwing it in. Just think: if you were gonna go out with a girl, in what situations would you say what she just said?
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:44 PM
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Couple of weeks What in the actual fuck. She is probably right. Can you post some of the (late) conversation?
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:42 PM
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Well, if it's Tinder, and she says it's not a date, she might be retarded. But in general, I don't go on things that aren't dates with women I want to sleep with. So I'd either playfully make sure it is, maybe tease her about it, or I'd bail. Now if you have no other plans, eh, why not. But I'd escalate early to clarify that this is, in fact, a date.
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:39 PM
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Go without this mindset. Go to hang out at the mall, have a real plan to shop or grab lunch or whatever. If you see a cute girl, talk to her.
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:30 PM
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Start tindering the next girl. She'll text you when she texts you. Or she won't. Whatever. Don't fixate on her, you don't even know her.
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:29 PM
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Food is fun. Maybe you just need to sell it better! Are you into cooking or just like a foodie that restaurant hunts?
/r/seduction25/01/15 09:36 PM
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Then don't. Either move on or ask her out. Initially you may have to lead the conversation a little, but if it starts to die out naturally: She isn't into you or you're taking too long She's busy and you're bothering her You two aren't working out
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:46 PM
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I'd say it's closer to 60% at least in my area. Don't validate them at all. Zero. Firstly, this rules out girls that are only seeking this. Secondly, when you finally validate/ compliment them in person, it'll mean a thousand times more. Talking to them can help of course but talk to multiple women or you could get overly involved and feel hurt if she stops talking to you. I personally feel that a bunch of talking is a waste of my time so unless they're very entertaining I don't deal with it.
/r/seduction25/01/15 06:41 PM
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My mindset is that any time talking to her before meeting her is essentially wasted time. I could talk to someone for two weeks and then meet them and find some weird quirk or lack of chemistry that puts me off.
/r/seduction25/01/15 06:36 PM
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Geez, you guys talk to girls on Tinder forever. I work out logistics way before I ever ask for the number. I've been on roughly 30-40 dates from Tinder and I've had maybe one or two really early flakes over text. I say "we are going to this bar at this time next Wednesday are you free?" after some light chit-chat. Then once I have the number I really let them drive the flow of conversation. If they're chatty, I'll chat. Maybe I'll find out if they aren't that cool and I want to flake. If they're…
/r/seduction25/01/15 06:31 PM
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Don't play this game. She's just validating herself on you. /u/Mouthpiece has the right idea. Just play it off and one of two things will happen. She'll take actual action or she'll drop it and you'll be better off. Don't focus on it. Meet other women.
/r/seduction24/12/14 03:41 AM
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Great description.
/r/seduction19/12/14 03:20 AM
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Sort of. You let the thoughts flow to prevent yourself from thinking about not thinking, and suppressing your thoughts and feelings. As your mind clears you will be able to calmly sit in peace and not "think" as much.
/r/seduction19/12/14 03:19 AM
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/r/seduction18/12/14 11:17 PM
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Seriously. I mean one minute is a little short in my opinion but I tell people who have never meditated, "Just try 5 minutes." Silent, eyes closed, letting the thoughts flow. People don't realize how slow time moves when they're finally doing nothing.
/r/seduction18/12/14 11:16 PM
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/r/seduction07/11/14 07:49 PM
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/r/seduction07/11/14 07:47 PM
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Wtf? Are you trolling? If your girlfriend agrees she's OK with you fucking other people then it doesn't matter. If your girlfriend would prefer you didn't, either don't do it or break up with her. It is not fucking complicated. It's just honesty. Edit: also, this is what r/askseddit is for.
/r/seduction07/11/14 07:44 PM
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Just want to chime in to say from my understanding your comment is 100% on point regarding the straight pick-up stuff, to RSDTyler, to Mark Manson.
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:51 PM
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You should look up The Blueprint by RSD. It's got some BS in it and you should take it all with a grain of salt, but there is some amazing stuff in there about state. The more comfortable you already are with going out and talking to women, the less of it will be useful but it absolutely worth a watch/listen. edit: just noticed parent comment mentions the Blueprint Decoded specifically.
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:49 PM
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Absolutely. I always read all these posts talking about rules to follow and little PUA lingo or games that all seem so silly to me, and it's hard for me to take a step back and view it in context. I don't play any games and don't waste any time on women that don't seem interested. On dates, I just go do stuff I want to do, invite a girl, and make sure they know from body language I want to fuck them afterward if we click. And it just comes from being comfortable in my own skin and around people.…
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:43 PM
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these things are complicated to remove suavely. So don't do it suavely. Laugh. Have fun. Jokingly ask her how the hell she got them on if they're that tight. I have issues undressing women all the time, because they're wearing all this nonsense. Front bra clip, tight jeans, sweaters with weird buttons and zippers... it's always fun.
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:35 PM
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/r/seduction03/11/14 11:29 PM
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Absolutely. And it isn't just women. Ask 50 people what they're into, or what they've done lately, and most of them give boring answers or don't really know what to say. When I talk to women I usually ask them what they're into. It is extremely rare that I get someone passionate about their job, with a cool hobby, or an exciting life. Most women will say something like, "well, I don't know, I like to read and watch movies?" Disclaimer: if YOUR answer is "I like to read and watch movies", fix it.…
/r/seduction30/10/14 10:21 PM
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/r/seduction18/10/14 10:52 PM
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r/askseddit Think about what people have to offer you as much as what you have to offer them. Your issue comes from undervaluing yourself and overvaluing your company.
/r/seduction18/10/14 05:06 AM
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Take It Uneasy is great. Even if you don't do Brazilian Jiu-jitsu I highly recommend the episode featuring Ryan Hall.
/r/seduction18/10/14 05:04 AM
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I'd say, "not this week, I've been busy." Agree and amplify. Treat it as a fun game.
/r/seduction16/10/14 01:13 AM
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Paintball and boxing are fun hobbies women will want to hear more about. Hobbies are born out of passion. Do you like to draw? Cook? Run? Knit? Anything is cool if you sell it right.
/r/seduction11/10/14 06:33 PM
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Opener is almost irrelevant. What matters is a good photo, don't fuck it up in the bio, and message a lot of women. They've probably already decided if they'd fuck you based on your image. It depends on attractiveness obviously but I usually go out with attractive women that message me first. They're a lot more likely to quickly meet up and I'm attracted to their assertiveness.
/r/seduction11/10/14 06:31 PM
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Tiredness helps me talk to women actually, because I give less of a shit
/r/seduction01/10/14 02:45 AM
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Great qualifier. "Oh you're a model? What agency? Where would I have seen your work?" Head shots don't make you a model.
/r/seduction10/09/14 03:11 PM
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I've been on a ton of Tinder dates, anything ranging from ugh never mind we don't click at all, to first night (multiple) lay. Tinder is amazing. I'm pretty attractive and have a lot of hobbies but I think even without that it'd be a pretty fun time if you don't give too much of a fuck. The only thing is it seems like you guys talked a ton before meeting. I'm personally not into that, as I could be throwing that time away if it turns out we have no chemistry.
/r/seduction07/09/14 11:15 PM
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Dude. As long as you're in shape, girls around 30 are easy mode almost no matter what kind of relationship you're looking for. You know how rushed you feel? They feel way more rushed, and unlike 21 year olds, they know what they want.
/r/seduction31/08/14 08:59 PM
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No, that's not the same thing at all. I don't need a percentage to figure out why girl A slept with me and B didn't.
/r/seduction31/08/14 07:02 PM
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I'm actually curious as to how this helps. Not trolling. Say I know that ...8% of women whose numbers I get will statistically sleep with me. Now what? I decide I'd like to get laid for sure so I do the math and go find 13 numbers and stop?
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:39 PM
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Do people actually spend time and energy thinking about this stuff instead of doing fun things and approaching women? I mean discussion/ help is one thing but closing statistics?
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:30 PM
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/r/seduction31/08/14 05:27 PM
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Oh boy. OK. So firstly your post is super hard to read. If you type like this to women you're gonna have a bad time. Second you have some contradictions. You said you follow a very straightforward and honest "Mark Manson" style (wtf that means, calling it a style in itself is silly) - but then you're saying you do stuff like reply late to texts and miss her calls. That's not honesty! All women do not cheat. All men do not cheat. The chance of someone cheating on you is increased by worrying abou…
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:25 PM
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Keep in mind two things. She is just another girl. There are lots of others. Not that you shouldn't be insanely attracted to her, but you should keep in mind that you don't need her. If you lose her, her loss, find another. She is 19. Who were you when you were 19? People change a lot in those five years and she may behave differently than you expect.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:31 PM
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Exactly. Are people so clueless as they need to insult a woman to qualify her? "Tell me about your friends" tells me the same things while sounding natural.
/r/seduction10/08/14 11:36 PM
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This is dumb. And don't get me wrong, I'm all for qualifying in this area - it's important. It's just that these sound reaction seeking, whereas the original question is already qualifying. If I say "so why are you guys such good friends?" And she's like "well we have known each other so long" - that's boring. I'm looking for interesting answers. "Do you have any friends at all?" is both qualifying and insulting. Unnecessary.
/r/seduction10/08/14 09:30 PM
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The first I don't see as shit testing. That's just asking questions I want the answers to. The second I feel is silly, like you actually mentioned in your post. I don't care if she is flirtatious with others, or what she thinks of my hottest friends, or if she is checking out other dudes. If she isn't going home with them and fucking them, why would I be bothered? It's all just good fun. I do it too and if she minds that's a new issue.
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:35 PM
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They might be trying to provoke desperation, jealousy, all the same shit any shit test is for. Basically, if that's the reason, I don't want to be spending my weekend with you anyway.
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:58 PM
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I don't think I shit test. I qualify in a very straightforward way. Maybe it's just that I don't care enough about playing that game on my end, or I think that shit tests are a waste of my time. Edit: For example: if a woman tells me, "I may not be able to make this weekend, I'll be busy." I just assume hey she's probably busy, and I say "Hope you have fun! We'll link up next week." It may be a shit test it may not, I don't really care. Why would I do something like this? If I'm not busy I don't…
/r/seduction23/07/14 02:52 PM
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It's explained better. Read some of the content on Mark Manson's site. He really makes concepts click.
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:58 PM
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/r/seduction28/06/14 04:37 PM
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"Thanks, are you into cars?" But don't stick to cars. Especially if she isn't. Just use that to open the conversation.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:35 PM
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Care more. Seriously. The problem is that if it is memorizing, rather than learning, it'll never be any good. Look for the why in her stories or opinions, use it to learn more about her. Ask questions that matter. Relate her stories or statements to other things you or her have done.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:33 PM
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I find if you frame the interaction correctly you don't need to mention the word at all. It's pretty clear (maybe less so in the day) and I've never had an issue.
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:23 PM
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The part where you ask if she can get you prescriptions is OK, but following it up twice is problematic. That line would work great in person where you can gauge her reaction and you can smile at her, but here it just comes off as a question and doesn't have the air of trouble you want. Also, when she didn't respond, I would have dropped her. Many, many girls are on Tinder for vanity checks and have no interest in dating. If I say something I think is clever, and she doesn't reply or gives me a …
/r/seduction26/06/14 11:51 PM
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I prefer "be the best version of yourself." Be the you that you would admire. The version of you that conquered your fears and followed your ambitions.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:55 PM
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You don't need to compliment her. Just smile at her, make eye contact, see if she smiles back, and ask her if she'd like to have a drink with you sometime. Keep in mind the complexity of a workplace romance. Edit: Also, it doesn't have to be awkward if she rejects you. She'll be glad any tension fades away afterward. Just tell her you thought you'd ask, since she's cute, and treat her like you did before.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:49 PM
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It's not that it can't be done, it's just... Why would you shoot in the dark if you can be more precise? If you are adventurous, why not try and meet women out doing adventurous things? If you are timid and like games, why not meet more women in those environments? You might find a distance runner that loves beer in a club, if you're lucky. If you join the hash house harriers, you are 100% guaranteed to find one.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:36 PM
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Why didn't you ask for her number like 100 questions earlier? Edit: I just saw you did. OK. There are a lot of issues here but the main thing is you seem extremely invested right off the bat. When I started Tinder I would run about 15 Tinder conversations so that I was forced to pay little attention to each one or even care. You have to get used to the idea that she is being messaged by like 100 people right now if she is attractive, and you should be doing the same thing. The more you care abou…
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:24 PM
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Absolutely. People take this shit way too seriously and invest too much time. (Joke about photo) (Crack about meeting up that's overboard or silly) (Actual proposal to go grab drink) (Get number) Once I have her number, I might do some qualification stuff. See how cool she is. Then I will probably meet up with her. I cancel a lot of dates though. I'm pretty bad about that.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:20 PM
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This is fucking good. You're beautiful, cbehrens.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:06 PM
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More details. r/askseddit. From what I have: you don't. You go find someone new.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:45 PM
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Thanks. I agree, guess I was looking for some magic that doesn't exist.
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:40 AM
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This is what I've always done, just looking for tips on softening things perhaps.
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:27 PM
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Honestly in these situations I lose respect for the woman I'm with, so I sort of fall naturally into nonchalant body language. It doesn't matter much what I actually verbalize. Sometimes women respond positively to my "get the fuck outta here" body language, sometimes they don't. If they said something that brash though, they're gonna have to earn my attention back.
/r/seduction26/03/14 01:40 AM
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I was merely commenting on OP's use of the term itself, and in no way advocate use of that scale. I don't agree with any "scale" that has so many levels. Such a mess.
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:07 PM
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Oh, carry on then! :)
/r/seduction24/03/14 07:00 PM
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I'm not and you clearly misunderstood me (or you don't know what the HB scale indicates either). How hot the girl is, is completely irrelevant in terms of advice or a situational report like this. What matters is how how she thinks she is, how much attention she is used to, how uptight she acts, how she sees you compared to her. I don't even use that HB scale, I think it's retarded. I'm telling OP that if he is advising on how to hook up with 9.5/10 women, and his girl thought she was 5/10, then…
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:24 PM
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Apparently nobody knows that anymore.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:38 PM
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Her thinking she is a 9.5 is the definition of an HB9.5. She may be very hot but if she doesn't think she is, she is not a 9.5 on that scale. Edit: lol people don't know what the scale means
/r/seduction24/03/14 02:38 PM
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I use a modified version of this for my own reasons. 0 - Pass. 1 - Won't pursue 2 - Will pursue The reason is that this provides me with a comfort zone where I can say, if I see a 2, I will absolutely talk to her. But I don't want to talk to literally every girl I see. I know it's not for everyone but I find binary too polarizing and unnatural. Edit to clarify: 1 is a girl that I find attractive, but not enough to distract me from whatever it is I'm doing, or to stray me from women who are a 2. …
/r/seduction14/03/14 08:41 PM
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As a rider, I would never transport someone I didn't have some small amount of trust of. I'd just get numbers, build attraction, meet up closer to your place later. "You can't come home with me tonight, all I have is my motorcycle" is gonna be attractive to women.
/r/seduction11/03/14 06:11 PM
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/r/seduction13/12/13 02:27 PM
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Is she working or is she a customer? Very different IMO. I am seeing a girl I met at a coffee shop (customer). I made a joke about the line, then sat down with her and talked for about 15 minutes. It's no different than any other interaction. Assume attraction, escalate, make your intentions clear. Have fun.
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:11 AM
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I told her that I like girls who like snakes because I have a pretty big penis ... How did that go over?
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:47 AM
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It may sound strange and take some time to get the full effect, but I like to meditate. I only do it for 10-15 minutes before I go out, but it forces me to calm down, to evaluate why I feel the way I do and face it, and in a way, push the reset button on my day and go out feeling like I just woke up before I worried about all this.
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:57 AM
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Things are creepy when they come out of nowhere and they are done without confidence. If you walk up to a girl forcing yourself to make uncomfortable eye contact, with indirect body language, and ask for her number in a mumble, it is going to be creepy. As opposed to walking up confidently, smiling but not breaking eye contact, and directly facing her and introducing yourself.
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:53 AM
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/r/seduction26/09/13 03:45 PM
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Use texting to set up IRL interaction. Watch How to Hold Conversation Like a Man by Nick Sparks.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:12 PM
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While I agree, I think the best strategy is to attempt to understand what it is you would do when you were drinking and push yourself towards just doing that. Approaches, jokes that put yourself on the line, dancing, whatever. Over time you build comfort, and then you can do day approaches with the same confidence.
/r/seduction02/09/13 11:38 PM
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I prefer to be solo. When I am hanging out with friends, I'm sitting there in a comfortable state. When I'm solo, I can't just sit at the bar or walk around without feeling awkward for not opening. Basically, I am forced to choose and open immediately because I have no crutch. Also, when people want to roll out, I want to go, I want to stay, I don't have any discussion first. I just do it.
/r/seduction01/09/13 09:38 PM
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The problem arises from lack of qualification. Who are you more comfortable with? Who aligns with your interests? Your friends or her? Is she cool enough to hang out with your friends? Are your friends cool enough to hang with her? I keep friends who are fun and entertaining, and look for women who are fun and entertaining. There are very few of these sorts of conflicts. I'd say since you're already in the situation, just have her meet them. What's the worst that can happen? She says your friend…
/r/seduction31/08/13 08:13 PM
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