kelvinlordkelvin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
88	My 12 year brother was ashamed to cry	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	04/09/13 07:39 PM
57	I like the push by the mainstream to address the problems that men and boys have with their emotional welfare, but I hate the fact that so many people can't seem to grasp that men process their feelings differently than women do, and that that difference is okay.	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 07:51 PM
33	This made me chuckle. I think that this is an example of the fact that boys and girls in general have different play styles.	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	24/02/13 09:50 AM
24	As a man, how often do you feel that your safety is, in some way, at risk on a daily basis? How do you think that this compares with women?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	13/03/13 07:54 AM
23	I am a college aged black male who would like to go into education some time in the future. What are some of the problems that I may face regarding my gender?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	21/10/12 07:08 PM
22	She says "College Men: Stop Getting Drunk" .... what do you all think about that?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	16/10/13 05:55 PM
7	Here's a well crafted answer from Yahoo Answers detailing the similarities and differences between male and female circumcision. It also discusses the ability for women to orgasm after the procedure.	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 05:21 PM
6	What do people mean when they say that this is a "male dominated world"?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	08/02/13 07:14 AM
5	Why is it that men are more often the targets of violent crime?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 05:36 PM
5	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists)	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 08:00 AM
4	"Man's Prayer", written by Eve Ensler (the author of The Vagina Monologues). Some good points are made, but others blatantly undervalue the worth of the male thought process	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	21/02/13 10:10 PM
3	How was marriage different than slavery for women?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	17/02/13 10:07 PM
3	It is said that men have more rights than women. In your discussions with feminists, what are some commonly cited rights that men have in more abundance than women?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	05/02/14 06:18 PM
3	What Liquors Ads Teach Us About Guys - Rebecca Watson. Here's a quote from the video: "Advertisers attempt to convince men that manipulation is the only way to engage with women." Wut.	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	13/06/13 08:38 PM
2	How do you start a conversation on men's rights with feminsts? How do you break the ice?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	20/02/13 08:22 AM
0	I think that as a community we should mention the Steubenville rape trials. We always talk about false rape allegations, but it's just as important that we acknowledge real accusations	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	19/03/13 02:48 AM
0	"Purity" is Overrated [repost from r/atheism]	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	25/10/12 02:05 PM
0	I'm am very interested in what you guys have to say about this. What do you think about rape jokes and phrases like "that test just raped me"?	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	20/11/12 12:29 AM
0	Tumblr post about why we still need feminism. Have at it!	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	20/05/13 07:13 PM
0	"NAILED IT: This Ad Calls Out 5 Ridiculous Double Standards Women Face In Less Than 60 Seconds"... Have at it, boys (and ladies)	kelvinlordkelvin	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 01:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Whose money did she use? I’m probably gonna end up watching one of those movies tonight - I saw the trailer and had the same type of thoughts. Here’s a film about moms feeling like martyrs for doing a bunch of stuff that either no one asked them to do OR the ask was unreasonable from the start. But the problem will always be not being recognized and not being helped enough, but never that they need to address the inner voices in their mind that can turn a festive time into a stressful and anxiety-ridden span of weeks.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/12/24 07:30 PM
46	Whose money did she use? The bigger problem comes from moms externalizing the internal pressure they feel to be all things to all people. There is no requirement to run yourself ragged buying gifts for everyone or to put on dinners or to send out Christmas cards, but you’d never know that from how many moms conduct themselves over the holiday season. Instead of asking themselves, “Do I really need to do all of this?”, they answer yes to this question a priori and then feel overburdened because their husband isn’t helpin…	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/12/24 07:08 PM
4	Women asked about men’s mental health. Empathy for men is always backhanded. It’s a shame. It wasn’t always like that on this site	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/12/24 05:44 PM
1	Sexism at its finest Do you know what happened to that girl? Why was she out in the cold?	/r/EverydayMisandry	03/05/24 05:42 PM
3	Women Slut Shaming Men No, but I was trying to say that a man's number can be a problem for him if he's looking for a commitment with a woman. Maybe it doesn't as much the older that you get (for a man), but women want to be with someone who they don't think will sleep with other people just like men do. And for men and women both, your number of partners can either help or hurt you depending on what you're looking for.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 09:50 PM
0	Women Slut Shaming Men Out of curiosity, how do women react when they hear your number?	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 04:29 PM
-1	Women Slut Shaming Men You should read the last line of my response. I wasn't telling him that his rule set wasn't important. I told him that the fact that he felt betrayed was the most important thing, and it would still be the most important thing whether they were monogamous or not. I'm not trying to find a middle ground here, although I can see why you think that. I just made an observation about male-female interactions that I've seen, and I wanted to share it with this community.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 06:08 AM
-2	Women Slut Shaming Men It's not about you feeling shamed. It's more about the fact that women do give you shit, or that they may not want to sleep with you or be in a relationship with you because of it. I'm not trying to say that it's an injustice because it's not. But I'm just pointing out a different way to look at the situation.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 05:54 AM
-1	Women Slut Shaming Men I agree with you completely. I wasn't saying that she would find him to be unattractive, but definitely unsuitable as a long term partner. The same concept with guys and promiscuous women.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 05:46 AM
0	Women Slut Shaming Men Understandable. I think that it all depends on the woman. Just like if a woman has had 10 partners, for some men that's okay and for others that's too much.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 05:43 AM
-2	Women Slut Shaming Men Being a man and respecting yourself means knowing yourself. I'm non monogamous. I assume that you're not. That's fine. But I'm going to have a different world view based on my experiences. TRP community is not monolithic.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 05:38 AM
3	I like the push by the mainstream to address the problems that men and boys have with their emotional welfare, but I hate the fact that so many people can't seem to grasp that men process their feelings differently than women do, and that that difference is okay. I suppose that that's what I meant. There is a different social norm for the way that men and women express their feelings, and while there are problems with the social expectation itself, it seems that the male method of expressing emotion is altogether condemned because it's not more similar to the female method. Being told to "man up" is unproductive. But being able to share emotions with another man has been a wonderful thing for me and other men, and the way the interpersonal dynamics of ma…	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 08:39 PM
6	My 12 year brother was ashamed to cry That was a very well worded and touching response. Let me just say that when I spoke of my hate for feminists, what I truly meant was my hate for mainstream feminism/ feminist philosophy and its ability to belittle the plights and insecurities of boys and men. I can't think of a single person that I hate. But as far as philosophies go... especially as a black man living in America, feminism has done very little to change the circumstances that have plagued many men just like me in my community.	/r/MensRights	04/09/13 11:00 PM
1	Peter Lloyd: 'Why I'm suing my gym over their sexist women-only hours' I don't believe that women and men should have to be separate when exercises, but I do know how uncomfortable women can feel when they exercise in front of men. Especially when they are getting hit on. While I don't think that women-only hours should have to exist, I see no harm in it. And frankly, if the gym owners want to create that, then it is 1) the owners' prerogative and 2) financially, it works out in their favour. The gov't shouldn't be brought into that. If Peter Lloyd has a problem wi…	/r/MensRights	19/04/13 04:41 PM
0	As a man, how often do you feel that your safety is, in some way, at risk on a daily basis? How do you think that this compares with women? I didn't learn about rape culture from MRAs. I learned about rape culture before I even knew what the MRM was. I've heard many feminists say that the definition provided on Wikipedia is very accurate. Here you go: "Rape culture is a concept used to describe a culture in which rape and sexual violence are common and in which prevalent attitudes, norms, practices, and media normalize, excuse, tolerate, or even condone rape." Is your definition of rape culture different than what was mentioned in t…	/r/MensRights	13/03/13 02:32 PM
3	As a man, how often do you feel that your safety is, in some way, at risk on a daily basis? How do you think that this compares with women? That's a very good point to make. I think that's why it's so important for us to define our terms when having a discussion like this. When I speak about rape culture, I mean a culture in which sexual violence against women is not only normal but is also considered to be acceptable. Sexual assault and harassment are real, for both men and women, but I do not believe that our culture condones that kind of activity.	/r/MensRights	13/03/13 10:06 AM
5	Anti-masculinism at its finest Not necessarily. "Anti-feminism" is not synonymous with misogyny.	/r/MensRights	26/02/13 10:04 AM
2	"Man's Prayer", written by Eve Ensler (the author of The Vagina Monologues). Some good points are made, but others blatantly undervalue the worth of the male thought process I poorly worded my thoughts. It's the fact that this piece was in essence trying to project "feminine" qualities on to males. A great example of that is "May I be a man who appreciates listening, more than knowing."	/r/MensRights	22/02/13 04:37 AM
0	How was marriage different than slavery for women? Would you say that this supports the idea of merely guardianship of women by men or rather the idea that women were viewed as property?	/r/MensRights	18/02/13 04:13 PM
8	How was marriage different than slavery for women? Can you give me some sources to read more about that?	/r/MensRights	17/02/13 10:27 PM
–	Sick of being profiled. Do feminists actually believe that?	/r/MensRights	20/11/12 11:19 PM
6	An inequality I've hated since Elementary school. I felt the same way when I was in grade school. I get cold really easily, and I couldn't even wear a beanie to cover my ears. As weird as it sounds, I had to resort to wearing a scarf and using that to cover my ears because the school would give me crap if I ever committed the heinous crime of wearing a hat indoors.	/r/MensRights	15/11/12 06:13 PM
0	In your opinion, why do women who are cheated on get more sympathy than men? I think that it's because in this situation, women are considered victims and men are the perpetrators. To say that a woman was somewhat responsible for her partner's infidelity is tantamount to victim blaming, and victim blaming is a lot more acceptable for men than it is for women. The problem is that a relationship is a two-way street, and Western culture in many ways views it only as a one-way street. Is a woman responsible for the fact that her man stuck his hot dog in someone else's cornbr…	/r/MensRights	20/09/12 04:55 PM
2	Great video on the recent "girlfriend mode" controversy in Borderlands 2. This. The whole pedophile accusation is so ridiculous that when I was in the 8th grade, students and their parents called me a pedophile because I was attracted to 7th graders and they liked me back. Ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	18/08/12 02:31 PM
4	Male childcare workers: "parents had highlighted in yellow on their child's enrolment form they wanted no male worker to go near their offspring" What kind of things?	/r/MensRights	18/08/12 02:16 PM
3	Apparently the reason boys are falling so far behind girls in education is because of swag. It's not earrings and shit. It's confidence in who are. There's nothing wrong with having "swag", but the problem is that people (especially guys) develop super-inflated egos and become cocky little shits.	/r/MensRights	17/08/12 07:08 AM
–	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) 1) More rape occurs between people who know each other. That still doesn't mean that your friends are going to rape you. 2) Of course he knows, and a woman would know too. I'm just saying that to put yourself in such a situation is dangerous.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 10:00 PM
–	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) True. But in regards to alcohol and drugs, you are taking substances that will hinder your judgement and reasoning facilities. For someone to do this with a group of people that you trust is one thing, but to do this with a group of strangers is another. My statement in the original post could be applied to similar situations. If a man is at a party with complete strangers, he gets blackout drunk, and someone steals his wallet, the thief is still responsible for the crime but if the man had not …	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 09:36 PM
–	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) But the rapist does not have an inch to shrug off responsibility. Rape is unwanted sexual contact. That ultimately lies with the rapist and his/her decision to either accept or ignore the victim's denial of consent.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 09:29 PM
1	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) Right.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 03:33 PM
–	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) It is not my intention for that to happen. If they were to read through the whole post, they'd see that I'm not blaming women for what happened to them. Ultimately, they should recognize that these are the thoughts of one person, not the whole MRM.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 03:29 PM
2	Questions about Rape Apology: Can someone please help me to understand what it is? (x-post with r/AskFeminists) Exactly.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 03:18 PM
1	Wow, imagine the outrage if this was done to women There are douchebags that would say that, but I wouldn't. That's completely inappropriate.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 07:47 AM
1	Wow, imagine the outrage if this was done to women It's true, though. It doesn't make the rapist any less responsible, but people's actions do allow other things to happen.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 06:48 AM
–	Wow, imagine the outrage if this was done to women If he hadn't done it, then he would have been able to save himself a great deal of embarrassment.	/r/MensRights	16/08/12 05:23 AM
–	Here's a well crafted answer from Yahoo Answers detailing the similarities and differences between male and female circumcision. It also discusses the ability for women to orgasm after the procedure. Do you have any sources where I could read up on the topics that you've addressed?	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 07:11 PM
–	Here's a well crafted answer from Yahoo Answers detailing the similarities and differences between male and female circumcision. It also discusses the ability for women to orgasm after the procedure. I'm sorry, -Rushka-, but I can't back you up on that one.	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 06:55 PM
–	Wow, imagine the outrage if this was done to women You're definitely right, and I understand that these men are only human. I'm just saying that it still wasn't the best decision for them to do what they did with a stranger online. That doesn't in any way make the woman and her audience less culpable, though.	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 12:47 PM
–	Wow, imagine the outrage if this was done to women You're absolutely right; they're not programmed like we are. That does not change the fact that you're put yourself at risk for humiliation when you do something as private as jacking off in a forum as public as the internet. She was wrong to do that to him, but it wasn't the smartest decision on his part.	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 12:07 PM
10	Feminist secretly records herself being 'sexually harassed' by Muslim men - including simply looking in her direction as she walks past them To be fair, when women receive unwanted sexual attention so regularly, it is very easy for them to label it as sexual harassment.	/r/MensRights	14/08/12 12:08 PM