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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	20 M, A friend friend told me that her friend find me cute but I am an Incel. how do I go about messaging her No worries. Curious to hear how it goes. Fell free to PM me. Not always on, but will def reply.	/r/seduction	29/12/18 03:24 PM
2	20 M, A friend friend told me that her friend find me cute but I am an Incel. how do I go about messaging her Also, read books! Models by Mark Manson The way of the superior man by David Deida.	/r/seduction	29/12/18 03:14 PM
1	20 M, A friend friend told me that her friend find me cute but I am an Incel. how do I go about messaging her You’re most welcome. Yeah, neediness and desperation are a killer. Work on that in whatever way. Find out about her interest through your friend, check her Instagram / FB etc. Don’t go weirdo on details obviously. It’s enough to say, you’ve heard (or seen) about her being into so-and-so. Look up these things. Learn a little about what she’s into. Connect it to things that you’re into. When contacting her, be honest. Trying to be cool, funny, manly, spiritual doesn’t work. You’re either are it, o…	/r/seduction	29/12/18 03:13 PM
7	How do you pursue high maintenance girls? It sounds to me more like you’re the high maintenance person here. Lying? Not living up to your word? She’s doing you a favour ma man. If a girl decides to be with a guy who behaves like that, she’s most likely hurting in some way or another. Do your self and the women around you a favour and up your game. Honesty breeds confidents and trust.	/r/seduction	29/12/18 02:55 PM
2	20 M, A friend friend told me that her friend find me cute but I am an Incel. how do I go about messaging her Firstly, this is one opportunity. Not the ultimate opportunity. Approaching her with underlying neediness and a feeling of ‘you’re my only chance’, is a huge turn off for women. Secondly, screw messaging. Walk up to her. Speak to her directly. If that’s not possible for some reason; send her a message. Either way keep things simple and say something like his: “Hi, I’ve seen you at so-and-so, and I would like to get to know you. Wanna have a chat over coffee?” Be honest and confident. Express you…	/r/seduction	29/12/18 02:51 PM
2	Best self-help books? ‘The way of the superior man’ by David Deida	/r/seduction	29/12/18 02:41 PM

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