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| 4 | Responses to “Not sure if that’s a complement or an insult” | ken_34 | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:55 PM |
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| 1 | PSA: Make a fake facebook account and join your cities "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" page, you will be shocked.What was the name of the group and in which city? Just curious if there’s any cached version to be found of it. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Make a fake facebook account and join your cities "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" page, you will be shocked.I actually looked into this but I think that if it were to become popularly used, you’d attract the attention of Facebook’s lawyers because their terms don’t allow you to scrap content from the page. Perhaps you could if you were able to copy all of the content by manually scrolling and copy. But technically they can ban your account for violating ToS for using automated methods to scrap any data from Facebook. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 11:50 AM |
| 8 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I’ve found during the quarantine the only thing I want to do is improve myself. I have a flood of likes of dating apps more than ever but I’m prioritizing myself because you can’t even meet up with someone else. Might as well use this time to improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 03:34 PM |
| 220 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Reminds me of a time I was really focused on cutting weight and had a goal of reaching 6% body fat. On a Sunday morning, this hot bumble girl FaceTimed me and told me to come over to her house now and lay with her in bed. I wanted to but didn’t want to miss my morning workout so I told her she had to wait until I was done with that. It just made her want me there even more. But the best thing was I wasn’t faking it, i really wanted to accomplish my own goals over meeting up with a random girl. P… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Can you approach on the dance floor?I struggle with this too. And I think I just realized why. Dance floor game is like Tinder in that it’s almost purely on your looks, although confidence plays a big role too. What I mean is, I have a lot of confidence in my ability to use attraction game when talking, but non verbally on a dance floor you are relying so heavily on your first impression. I tend to be shutdown much more swiftly in the dance floor. Theoretically it should be super easy but I think it takes more confidence that a co… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuckWhen you say things that most guys would consider to be a gamble, like a sexual comment or a making fun of her, casually look away right after you say it and then you can slowly turn back to her and smirk. This will show that you don’t care what her reaction is and you are not seeking a reaction. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterFair point. Other people do notice. I’d say the best way of getting around that is to be sure you always use a false time constraint with an open so that you preserve value and have lower odds of getting full on blown out. Also, I find that opinion openers and situational openers work well too and will get your momentum going. I try to pick a bar not only with a lot of people, but also with at least two separate areas. So when you walk away from an interaction, you move to a completely different… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterI almost feel like the rejection is easily on your own because there is no one there to immediately ask you “what happened?” and there is no one watching to see how good or bad the interaction goes. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 16 | Going out alone is a rollercoasterAs someone who’s gone out alone quite a bit, I can agree about the highs and lows you mention. One thing I’ve found is that when you go out alone, it is much tougher to actually get past a phone number with a girl because you are hopeless at separating a girl from her friend (2 set) and there are barely any girls by themselves. Phone number isn’t too difficult, but those more often lead to nowhere. I have found that the best way to get past this, is to have good enough game that you feel very co… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Copy of Tom Torero's Street Hustle and podcastI’d also really appreciate the share! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?Full disclosure, I suffer from this as well in certain settings or situations but have approached some very attractive girls recently and gotten numbers. Just my two cents. I think there’s a lot of talk out there about how the best pickup line is just “hey” because it’s very confident. In my opinion, that is only true when you are really good at immediately steering a conversation into something flirtatious and fun. I have found recently that I can confidently approach hot women with zero contex… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Went to nightclub alone and tried my game!Agreed. If I go out alone, I always want a bar with a dance floor, multiple somewhat separate areas and bars, and an outdoor area that is not very loud. You can hop between these areas unnoticed for the most part and start multiple sets with girls, if nothing comes to fruition but you have positive responses from the sets, you can move to the dance floor once everyone gravitates there and you will know many girls in the dancefloor. Not to mention, if you’ve been approaching a lot, you should fee… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Went to nightclub alone and tried my game!Not sure what the club was like and if it’s super loud and difficult to have a place to talk to girls. I will say though, that I have gone out myself many times when my friends do not want to go out. Full disclosure: I’ve only twice taken a girl home doing this but have many instances of dancing with and making out with girls. My experience is that if you want to find a group to be accepted into, you’re best bet is to find either 1 or 2 guys who are clearly also there to meet girls and talk to t… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Responses to “Not sure if that’s a complement or an insult”I really like this line “how did you perceive what I said?” That seems really useful. And that’s hilarious a girl would freak out on you like that to your statement haha. I definitely agree that a response from her like that is an immediate red flag and reason to just walk away. In this case, this girl had been really enjoying the conversation and laughing up until that point although not attracted to the point of initiating any kino. After she said she wasn’t sure if it was insult, that’s where… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Responses to “Not sure if that’s a complement or an insult”I like this. To clarify, if anything she was indifferent in her emotional state when you said it. The more I’m thinking about, I think in retrospect I should have said what you proposed and just moved to the next topic. She was already starting to kind of turn away toward her friends at the start of that statement so she wasn’t super invested right then anyway. Maybe handling the external interrupt by reopening her friend group. I also was just not very well locked in with them so I was kind of … | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Past Awkward ApproachesThanks. Good advice. I’m sure a lot of people in this subreddit can identify with approach anxiety not from fear of rejection but more fear of being labeled as creepy or weird by a girl that ultimately decides that based on the fact they were not attracted by you rather than you doing anything inherently creepy. I’ll try to reconsider the positive experiences from this weekend and ignore the negatives. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Past Awkward ApproachesHaha good point. Definitely feel through the ice into the freezing water haha | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Past Awkward ApproachesWould you consider that to be an insecurity that I pointed out? I mentioned it and said I thought it was cute. I guess I just identified it as a neg because I know I have literally read that exact thing classified as a neg, although I stated (even the second time when I noticed she was self-conscious) that I only mentioned it because I thought it was cute. I see what you mean about your interactions. I won’t actually say that my intent is to be the funny guy, I usually try to steer the conversat… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I made an awkward impression what should I do to avoid such things in the near future?I literally just made a post asking a similar question. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d7svx6/overcoming_past_awkward_approaches/?st=K0V7M81T&sh=6690f6c0 | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | is this sub directed solely to men?“I kinda suck at small talk but enjoy meeting new people” As a guy, I make a point to practice interesting responses to small talk questions. I will have these sort of default replies ready so that I can steer the conversation to a more interesting place. I don’t know how if most guys would perceive this differently than it works the other way around, but when a girl asks me a small talk question, I reply with the most playful sarcastic reply possible. Example: how old are you? “I’m 73. My nickn… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Interesting perspective.Very much like this perspective. Also, I like the just handing a girl your phone and not asking. This is somewhat out of context but I’m currently reading MM and I think it would be great to just hand the phone with new contacts open like that before isolating her. And then you stack that by her having your phone as a way to ensure she follows you away from her friends and doesn’t leave it at just a phone number. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Quick way to know phone number is definitely legitOh I agree, definitely not. Only for the reason I just said. I have just had times were I have trouble remembering well what they looked like. And the snap purely just to check the number | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 03:36 PM |
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