kenbsmith3 Archive

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1	Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing? This is the mentality you should have, but a little flirting won't hurt. I only mention it because most the time, people find it easier to flirt so when you're traveling. My point is location, location, location, if something isn't working it's best to switch up the location.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 07:18 PM
1	Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing? How do you do abroad?	/r/seduction	23/07/26 05:56 PM
1	Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing? Bro, save up and travel	/r/seduction	23/07/26 05:36 PM
4	What are your best daygame openers? Flood me. Ask her anything, but it's good to start with name and observational comment... Really, you need to understand the difference in interest and being polite. Keep interaction short, be intentional, and state said intention before trying to ask for contact info - "Would love to take you out for drinks this week/weekend" Exit slowly, don't stands around and talk for 10 minutes unless she's very receptive. "Intro" - If she's receptive "Small talk about current situation" - If she's receptive "Would l…	/r/seduction	09/07/26 12:17 PM
2	What are your best daygame openers? Flood me. "Hey, I saw you just now and had to introduce myself, I'm me (big smile)" handshake	/r/seduction	09/07/26 11:44 AM
2	What are your seduction unpopular opinions? Cod approaching in a lie, all your doing is looking for the women who actually like you. Sometimes there will be a lot and sometimes there will be a few. Yes get your numbers up, talk to Manny people, but the key is focusing on fun and active listening. The ones that like you will make it clear	/r/seduction	19/06/26 04:50 PM
28	Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ? Relentless practice and evaluation, no such thing as losing, just a matter of refining what you know works for you. Folks can give you a good general idea of what to do, but all of it has to be specific to who You are	/r/seduction	04/02/26 10:48 PM
1	Numb to getting girls numbers 💯, sounds like not enough rapport is being built first	/r/seduction	07/10/25 11:26 AM
2	WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME? Watching girls I like go for men they claim to hate... I really just didn't understand gender dynamics	/r/seduction	11/08/25 08:48 PM
4	How do I stop building women up in my head? Stop making them superhuman - You build them up to be above you and not at your level..... They are shitting, stinking, regular people too. Really you just need to change your Framing device in your head. You are building them up because you don't feel worth it. Instead of "I would be lucky to get with her", it should be "We should both be excited to explore this dynamic together" Just remember to pull out if you are not getting welcoming energy.	/r/seduction	11/07/25 07:59 PM
1	Girl literally told me “ur ugly as f” THIS THIS THIS	/r/seduction	11/07/25 07:55 PM
4	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men Overall posture and energy Also: 1. Proper use of pausing, don't rush to fill silence with noise. Learn to sit in it 2. Balancing complimenting and making her work. You approached her because you're attracted to her but you should still qualify her. 3. Strong eye contact, no, it's not staring, but it's not backing down. Once she looks into you, let her look away first.	/r/seduction	09/07/25 08:20 AM
1	It hurts when girls act so into you… then ghost you. What do I do differently? Yeah women are mostly looking to just have fun at the club, and not take the club home. This is normal, clubs are great for pick up but not dating. Do not internalize I'm not saying it can't happen, I'm just saying it's rare	/r/seduction	08/07/25 12:45 AM
5	Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious? Emoji's only purpose is to inject fun, so they should only be used for emphasis	/r/seduction	30/06/25 05:08 PM
0	Is cold approach worth it? 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿	/r/seduction	30/06/25 01:03 PM
1	What's the one thing that improved your Flirting/Teasing/Being interesting stats? Make a list of things that you really like, things that you need and your goals. Life is somewhere in the mix of those three, and the discipline it takes to get there. And then once you're there you can worry about flirting with women.... Women lean into confidence, and you have to have a life to be confident. If this genuinely doesn't help though, I would tell you to start with therapy to figure out why you think you'll never get to live a life that you're genuinely excited about.	/r/seduction	30/06/25 03:15 AM
22	What's the one thing that improved your Flirting/Teasing/Being interesting stats? THISSSSS Improv is great—as long as it’s in service of becoming a better version of yourself. Flirting and teasing are just signals to pick up on during a conversation, not the conversation itself. The real key? You need to have a life you're genuinely excited about. That’s where most guys fall short—they don’t find their own lives interesting, and it shows when they try to talk to women. You can’t fake that kind of spark. Live well first, then share it.	/r/seduction	27/06/25 05:04 PM
3	How to approach women in public? This! This makes your intention clear, and gives them a choice whether they want to continue or not. The thing with older women is not to waste their time, which is why you should set an intention... Well women in general 😂	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:19 AM
19	What are some good ways of asking if she’s single besides “are you single?” If she's not interested she's going to tell you she's with someone or seeing someone	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:17 AM
2	How much rejection is necessary? How to get over it? Well, I can tell from this post that you are not in the right headspace for approaching, you're not supposed to care about the outcome. There's obviously a healthy desire for what you want to happen of course, but this post reads and getting way too much pressure on the conversation. Women can smell that fear instantly bro, it's a huge turn off to them. With that said, you can keep going out there and practicing. It sounds like you described someone who it's not ugly, but for myself who is ugly,…	/r/seduction	25/06/25 06:35 PM
1	Struggling With Escalation on Dates It just doesn't sound like you're building enough sexual tension	/r/seduction	25/06/25 06:32 PM
4	What should I focus on to improve my dating life? So the apps should be used in tandem with whatever else you are doing, it sounds like you are solely relying on the apps and that is a disaster. Tell me more about IRL, are you approaching women in the streets? Malls? Bars? How's that going for you? Have you joined any clubs or activities that women frequent? Run clubs for example.	/r/seduction	18/06/25 02:01 PM
1	Can you have good game without doing 'gamey' things? Who is Todd V?	/r/seduction	03/06/25 03:58 PM
1	I’m kinda tired Two words: Frame Control, women that I have lost, I lost because I didn't hold my frame. I gave in, in very little ways which undermined my core frame. Your last sentence sounds like you're starting to give up. That kind of mindset can quietly bleed into your dates and sabotage you without you realizing it. Don’t let a rough patch throw you off. Rejection—even after initial success—is completely normal. It happens to everyone. (I'm not saying to do that at the cost of your own mental health, tha…	/r/seduction	03/06/25 03:57 PM
1	Can one achieve attraction without teasing? Yes, what you are looking for is emotion. Teasing help creates tension, which is very good for creating emotion, but you don't need it. Mastering tension feels like a cheat code though	/r/seduction	03/06/25 03:49 PM
1	How to get laid while travelling? Yes, the point is to find things that you're interested in, that would bring people who share your interest. And yes, women do enjoy dungeons & dragons. If you haven't tested this at a local Meetup yet, I encourage you to	/r/seduction	07/05/25 05:15 PM
3	How to get laid while travelling? If you're struggling with time management, I would tell you to start setting alarms/ timers. I usually give a place I don't like 30 minutes to an hour, and the place that I do like 2 hours. I also use an itinerary, but I do tend to write down estimated times. You know like I wouldn't spend more than 30 minutes to an hour at the Bean in Chicago for example. Of course, if you like something, there's no reason to not stay longer, if you're trying to see the city, then you're going to have to set li…	/r/seduction	05/05/25 07:41 PM
11	How to get laid while travelling? So you're going to do things that are going to have a lot of people there (sight seeing, museums, restaurants, walks around popular areas) - I'm saying that you should force yourself, to talk to at least 25 people a day. If you can talk to more then I would say do that, but some people struggle with social stuff so I always start with the low number. What you want to do is just look for conversation, you want to have simple conversation. "Isn't this awesome, I can't believe all this crazy stuff …	/r/seduction	05/05/25 06:36 PM
0	What’s the one piece of advice that changed everything for you? We’re all drowning in seduction content, most of it we’ll never use. Share only what truly made a difference. Lol it did clean up my answer, ngl	/r/seduction	05/05/25 02:36 PM
37	How to get laid while travelling? These all assume that you have no issue being social and can approach anyone anywhere. Find out what the popular hookup app is in the area and download it. Pay the fee so you can customize your locations. I would say try to start matching with women a couple of days before you get there, so you can setup dates upon arrival. Make this clear in your profile too. Find out about adult social events when you will be there. Like a Singles Mixer, DnD meet ups, Bar Crawls for example. Foreign Language e…	/r/seduction	05/05/25 02:24 PM
2	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way Lol, you did reject him, this is a classic rejection.... even if you try to soften the blow. Men, If she responds this way, she is not interested - This young lady is describing medium interest. Notice she did not mention approaching him when she saw him again. She liked the attention but did not like him enough to provide him a way of staying in touch with her (not the first time, or the second time, even after being flattered lol) Never chase medium interest.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 02:16 PM
5	What’s the one piece of advice that changed everything for you? We’re all drowning in seduction content, most of it we’ll never use. Share only what truly made a difference. 3 Keys to Talking to Women & Flirting 1. Be Playful Confidence is the base—playfulness is the spark. Keep things fun, light, and a little teasing. 2. Approach Without Hesitation See her? Go. Unless she’s clearly taken, don’t overthink—just shoot your shot. 3. Drop the Maybes If she’s not showing interest, walk. You’re not here to chase—focus on real chemistry. Mindset Protips 1. Inner Game First Be good with yourself. Confidence starts there. 2. Talk to Everyone Talk to 25 new people a week. Bui…	/r/seduction	05/05/25 01:31 PM
1	Need advice: how do I make a move at a party? Well I view this interaction is very direct	/r/seduction	02/05/25 03:00 AM
1	Need advice: how do I make a move at a party? Either way, I'm trying to do it respectfully. But direct is an option for sure. Lots of women appreciate a direct approach	/r/seduction	02/05/25 02:45 AM
-1	Need advice: how do I make a move at a party? Direct, Intention, ask for more "Hey, I saw you over there just now and thought you were really cute... Can I: Introduce myself? Get to know you? Make a comment about the situation "How do you know the host?" tis mostly confidence. Just be comfortable with a quick exit if you don't get any reciprocation. Also, talking to other people help overcome social anxiety, so if you are nervous, talk to others till you feel comfortable.	/r/seduction	01/05/25 03:01 PM
1	Is approaching just for normal dudes ? Chads just get more overt signals from women... Women will obviously stare at them, for example. Charm trumps everything though	/r/seduction	30/04/25 03:12 PM
1	Which one has more of an effect on someone's dating life: looks or status? Status	/r/seduction	30/04/25 03:10 PM
2	need someone to explain me why it happens (regarding cold approach) 2 is key here, I also get the vibe that there's not enough kino escalation going on... I also think OP should give it at least a day before reaching out. And if they text you back the same day, you should take a couple of hours to respond	/r/seduction	05/04/25 07:43 PM
1	Why do we forget game? What videos do you watch to put you back in the mindset?	/r/seduction	03/04/25 11:53 AM
4	Hobbies that could make you better with women? The only thing I disagree with in this post is the hobbies that are considered unattractive by women. When we like another person, we're into whatever they're into, this is for both men and women. If the attraction is high enough on both sides, it's not going to matter what you're into. The secret is to be authentic and happy about whatever it is you like.	/r/seduction	28/03/25 04:40 PM
1	How to fake Confidence? You need to reframe how you see yourself. You will not attract every women, so get that thought of out your head Women will respond to your confidence in yourself, more than anything you wear. Yes, you should have on clean clothes and brushed teeth, but dudes in hoodies pull baddies all the time. As far as your asthma fear is going, sounds like you should consult with a medical professional. Seems you place too much pressure on the act, at the cost of your own health. You should consult with som…	/r/seduction	04/03/25 05:13 PM
4	For beginners, how many women did you approach daily, and how did you handle rejection? Women admire boldness and bravery, approach approach approach! Rejection is normal, The trick is to never take it personally.	/r/seduction	01/03/25 01:24 AM
1	Where to meet many women to cold approach? Local events, Day Parties, Exercise Clubs, and Malls near Office Buildings	/r/seduction	25/02/25 10:13 PM
2	You Play It Safe, And That’s Why You’ll Never Get Results This post is really about nutting up or shutting up - It is solid game advice. You really just have to hit seduction/pickup like you are testing for GLaDOS in those Portal games - test test test and then test again. Mastery takes 10,000 hours, so start today. Also to the poster's point - What works for Nick Cage won't work for you, embrace who you are and be fun. Don't try to be like other guys, be yourself but be confident and TEST.	/r/seduction	25/02/25 05:20 PM
2	What is a good flirting structure and how do i implement structure into my approaches? Ok, so I would recommend going out with friends who are good at talking with women and watching them. Nothing can teach you like watching a master work.... Here are my personal recommendations: (If at any point she is not receptive, be respectful and leave. The key is here is not to stay in a bad conversation, remember to have fun, If it doesn't feel fun, move on. If a woman likes you, they will want to have fun with you too) Open, just be bold and approach. "Hey, I just saw you and thought you …	/r/seduction	25/02/25 05:14 PM
2	How do you have a fun conversation with a girl who doesn’t ask questions about you? I would say so, folks usually make it clear they want to talk to you by keeping the conversation going. Even if she is interested, if she's not keeping the conversation going, then that's a sign to stop.	/r/seduction	19/02/25 03:57 AM