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Post publicly whatever the fuck she's saying about you.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:39 PM
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Dude... you're panicking for no god damn reason. Let her come over. if she wants. Just let her talk and stay calm. 10 to 1 it's not about you and even if it is and it's true, just fucking own it. Don't freak out. Stay calm. "Yes, I did that thing." "How could you?" "I wanted to."
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:37 PM
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That's a pretty autistic response from you. She's not subconsciously testing your frame. She's doing it consciously. You suck and she letting you know that directly. You're just too dumb to get that.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:48 PM
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My teeth are healthy looking and white before braces were just a mess. I got braces so that I would keep my teeth longer but did notice a boost in confidence and a positive reaction from women. My smile still isn’t perfect but it’s my most often complimented feature. Do it. Bad teeth scream low class.
/r/askMRP23/11/17 03:14 AM
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One primary function of a friend is the ability for that friend to reflect honestly and openly about your behavior. A good friend should be able to tell you when you fuck up or are about to fuck up. Think of it this way. You're friend is drunk and playing in the road. From where you stand, you can see a truck company. Do you tell your friend he'd better move or do you stay quiet so as to not hurt his feelings? You know the answer. You jump up and down and make him aware he's about to be run over…
/r/askMRP14/11/17 03:49 PM
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You could be doing something wrong with the kissing. Perhaps you're escalating too quickly? Sounds like something sets off an alarm for her and that she's not enjoying it.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 08:46 PM
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Again, don't lose weight first. You'll just be a skinny little shit with no muscles. Bulk first then cut...
/r/askTRP13/07/17 05:09 PM
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You're overweight but won't admit it. You potato face blob show everyone exactly how doughy and soft you are. Instead of losing the weight, you need to follow rule fucking #1 around here. LIFT. First, lift weights to build muscle then lift weights to retain that muscle while you cut. Your face will show your progress. The changes come to everyone. Your jawline is good perhaps but the rest of your face isn't. I've been lifting 3 months and already the progress is showing in my face. The wife just…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 05:02 PM
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Isn't that what ugly girls say? Sounds like she's had to care more about personality than looks because she wasn't being approached by good looking guys. She's still female so looks play some part in it. I don't think you should put too much weight on it since she doesn't really know what she wants anyway. I really don't think she's lying. She just thinks she cares more about personality so she doesn't have to feel shallow.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:08 PM
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Grow one and see if you like it. Shave it off if you don't. How cares what anyone else thinks?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:05 PM
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I had the same issue where I was afraid to read some books in front of the wife or purchase them on the same amazon account that she uses too. I found PDF's when I could but eventually wanted to read them so badly that I got over the fear of it. I buy paperback and audible and sometimes books for books I really want to understand. I get up at 5AM and sometimes read for an hour is she's sleeping in. I listen to audible in the car on the way to work and I had pdf's on my phone. I read red pill boo…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 03:53 PM
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I'm 53. I'll be dead soon. I couldn't live with the idea that I'll always be a sloppy fat fuck because I was too lazy. I hated the way I lay in bed and my fat belly and man tits sagged into the mattress. I'm 6' and 165 now and I feel great. I get attention, which I like, and I get to wear nice clothes. I feel better about myself. I do if for myself but can tell that it makes my life easier. Men are friendly to me and women smile. How bad is that?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:45 PM
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You might not have done something but she still may think you have. Act polite to her and nothing else unless she gives you some real IOI. Other than that, who cares? Also, it may not be anything to do with you. I had a girl at my office act really weird to me for awhile. I thought I must have offended her. Turns out she had been diagnosed with a crippling disease with no cure. She was struggling with her own shit and I thought it was all about me. I'm sure I didn't enter into her mind at all.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:19 PM
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When I first starting reading red pill and married red pill, I kept coming up with excuses why I couldn't lift. My back hurt. A gym would be expensive. I don't have the time. It won't help. I won't bulk up. At some point, I just said fuck it and joined a gym for just a month and started lifting. Then I set up appointments with a trainer so I could learn what I was doing and to be sure to lift with correct form. It's only been 3 months but there is progress. Wife had the talk with me about how wi…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:16 PM
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There are other ways to be unattractive. Perhaps you are so awkward that people are uncomfortable around you or the things you say are odd.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:43 PM
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You're looking for a girl to fix you. That's not going to happen. What will happen is that abused you will form a fucked up relationship with an abused female and have a horrible, fucked up relationship. Don't. You're not ready for any kind of relationship. Get yourself to a therapist and deal with the abuse issues. Once you're stable, then you can look for a relationship and another stable person.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:12 PM
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It's simple. You're unattractive.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:09 PM
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You're probably rating her too low. I doubt she's a HB4, She's got a pussy so she knows that some guy somewhere will fuck her. While YOU think she's an HB4, SHE thinks she's and HB7. This is a pretty common thing where guys think fat girls should have low standards because they are fat. She doesn't agree with you and hurt your feelings. You're realizing just how unattractive you are. You shouldn't interact with her anymore. As far as ugly goes, read the side bar. Improve everything you can impro…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:08 PM
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You're nothing to her.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:02 PM
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It's a shit test but that doesn't mean she wants you. She could just as well be disgusted by you. She's testing your frame because you seem weak. Your response was pretty weak as well. Leading them into the classroom didn't do anything for you but make you look like a tool. Should have AA and DNGF. Honestly, there is so little here that you're clearly overthinking this little interaction means something. You sound desperate.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:59 PM
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Ugghhh... this is just about the most horrible post I've seen in a long time. I've been a beta bitch, but I'm turning it around. No, you are most certainly not. You exist totally in her world taking money from her BF to live. Jesus Christ, dude. This is fucked up beyond belief. Have you no self respect? Get out of this ASAP. Cut all contact. Make a life for yourself instead of being this bitch's bitch. Who cares if she fucks you? You're being used like a rag doll. How can you even look in the mi…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:55 PM
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She's embarrassed by what she did. Your job now is to be cool about it. Be cool with her, yourself, anyone related. It happened. It was fun. No problem. If you make this weird, she'll magnify whatever your behavior is. If you stalk her, she'll freak. If you blow her off, she be vindicated that you're cad. Be a gentleman about it. I would respond with something like "I understand. I really did enjoy myself and your company as well." If you wanted to see her again and you were interested in doing …
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:36 PM
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THIS! She gets all the boyfriend experience without having to spread.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:54 PM
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If you take her back, the sex will only get worse. Other guys hitting on her isn't a sign she's a slut. She can't help what they do. She can only control how she responds. Does she shut them down or encourage them? I double she's after the money. She might be attracted to safety and stability. Vaginismus - yuck... dated a girl with that for awhile. Rule #1 is to walk away from people with broken genitals... always... Whatever else this female has for positive qualities is far overshadowed by #4.…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:50 PM
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You should get marriage right out of your head. You're not in any state for that. You had a new relationship that was great until things went south because you fucked up. The question now is can you two work together to recover. Relationships move through states, Harmony, Disharmony and repair. Right now, you're move from Harmony to Disharmony and you two haven't been able to repair. You need to red all the side bar, learn it an live it. Your answers are all there.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 03:44 PM
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THERE IS NO SPOON! Seriously, spooning is connecting. Spoon however you two feel like it. I don't think it's a power play.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:06 PM
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LTR still isn't the same as being married because, in an LTR, you can walk away more easily with fewer financial problems and not having children. If you LTR is a problem DO NOT put the same amount of work into it that you would a marriage. GTFO and survey the wreckage from a safe distance.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:01 PM
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