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Discussionkenshn1/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah i thought this was the whole point of the purple pill don't be an unemployed loser living with your parents and don't be Patrick Bateman from american psycho. Find some middle ground and you will be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:39 AM
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If your only concern is achieving your goal, sure. But there's something to be said about going to sleep with a clear conscience and having a partner who actually cares about you in your life. It's a lonely road and i know as one of those top 10% men who wasted my 20's chasing achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:34 AM
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Sure but just wanting something doesn't mean it's good for you. I want a zr1 c8 Corvette but I won't buy one because it's a bad financial decision and would possibly ruin my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:26 AM
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I think the fear comes from being treated as a means to an end. Some women want a nice house, house work done, someone to help them with their car and don't care about the person giving them (or helping them with) those things. It's just like when men use women for sex without caring about them. No one wants to be treated as an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:23 AM
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I think the common understanding is that most men could never be paid any amount of money for sex. It's simple supply and demand economics sex from a guy has flooded the market while it's more of a rare commodity from women for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:19 AM
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I disagree, it's easy to be tolerant. Which yes everyone is entitled to, as in no one should overstep boundaries and try to change your own personal choices. But being nice? That's going above common courtesy to make another person more comfortable. Being nice to someone means you like them enough to care about their feelings more than your own and no one should be expected to like everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:32 AM
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The problem is too many people push their own objective choices as facts because they can't handle someone disagreeing with them. If you're happy being single with no kids and want to live a materialistic unfulfilling life cool. Stop calling all men/women trash to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:16 PM
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If multiple women matchmakers are quitting their jobs maybe women and their contradictory impossible standards are the problem. They are willing to turn away from money and possibly change careers because it's so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:53 AM
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My bad didn't notice the debate tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:47 AM
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This is one of my biggest problems with dating modern American women. There are no social rules, roles, or understanding for men. Whatever that particular woman wants at that specific time is good, big dick energy, etc. What she doesn't like is toxic, an ick, or sassy. Depending on her mood it could be the same behavior even. We've gone too far left as a society in validating womens feelings. Women are human and can be wrong, selfish, mean, nasty, unstable just as much as they can be kind, sweet…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:44 PM
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Sorry to hear that bro. You're proof that all women aren't upstanding citizens and men get fucked over by the opposite sex just as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:07 AM
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Sure that works with certain women and cultures. But there's a lot of "don't date a broke dude" rhetoric out there. The dating game is America is fucked and the rules are arbitrary. The only consistent one is rich/popular = good man and by definition most men can't reach that status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:05 AM
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The lack of accountability checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:04 AM
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Murder should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:56 AM
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I think this election was more about the left's only benefit being moral high ground. The whole "vote for us or you're racist, misogynistic, etc" doesn't work for people concerned about the economy. I voted left (because I'm 99% sure a Trump administration is going to be corrupt and based on loyalty not competency) but the debt ceiling, the economy, immigration, family values, and other concerns the right campaigned on are valid things to be concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:49 AM
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You literally said you don't understand male spaces and you prefer platonically hanging out with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:30 AM
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I think the problem with all the men you named is that they chose women who didn't really want them and given the opportunity would trade up to a "better" man in a heartbeat. It's just that there aren't many more successful men so they got stuck. It's the equivalent of being stuck at a job you hate but pays you very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:35 AM
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Very insightful. Also as a Senior Infrastructure Engineer, give us more domain permissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:25 AM
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My man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:29 PM
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Ill take the 21 year old. Not because she's young or more attractive but from my experience women act more tyrannical when they pay for stuff. I make enough money as it is and can always make more but my peace of mind is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:27 PM
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I think there will be women who are miserable when they are older and don't get as much attention as younger women. The only part where "redpillers" and "incels" fuck up is making that their personal business. If someone wants to fuck up their own life man or woman i say let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:23 PM
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I agree mostly, but the unrealistic man side is more of "This girl will shut down every guy that even looks at her, praise everything i do for her cook, clean, take care of the kids, be a hot 40 year old milf with a nice ass and skinny waste, etc" People in general i think are less likely to compromise these days because social media, and dating apps show us partners that could possibly check every one of our boxes. Men just have more leverage long term so that's where we are picky and women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:52 PM
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Stability if alimony wasn't a thing guaranteed that number would decline
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:39 PM
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I don't think men are on some moral high ground we are just less picky and more realistic in the short term. In the long term i think we tend to be more unrealistic and want the perfect girlfriend before we get married. It's just now in western dating hookup culture is more of a thing and long term commitment isn't necessarily the goal as much so the dating realm is much more skewed in womens favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:32 PM
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When talking about marriage and commitment i think that's where the tables switch between the different sexes. Usually when a couple has been together for a long time and hasn't been married it's the man holding out. If a woman would have sex with a man multiple times over lets say 3 years she would probably marry him. For a man that's not inherently true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:25 PM
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Best way is to get out and interact with people in real life. I think both sides online have some truths but they are distorted versions of the real thing. If you're still in your 20's I'd highly recommend college and making friends there. Also don't be afraid to lean more on the men's views of things. You are a man so it's natural, just don't get mad at women for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:48 PM
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Maybe till you're about 25 after that i personally believe all your self confidence stems from your own actions. If you had a shitty upbringing thats cool i understand but that's what therapist are for and if your family didn't care about you as a kid they damn sure won't care with you being an adult. You gotta be a good parent to yourself after a certain point, if you didn't have one growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:43 PM
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Let him cook. He's wrong but he's got the spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:38 PM
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You never answered OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:36 PM
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Lmao thanks for proving me right, you got the whole Minecraft server cracking up rn. This is entertaining but a waste of my time. Grow up bro and you'll realize women really aren't that difficult some just want you to think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:02 AM
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You must have never heard of the proverb "speak softly and carry a big stick". Also "No u" is a sick burn for a fucking 12 year old. No wonder you have problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:57 AM
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And where has bitching on the internet gotten you? Getting over it means moving on with your life and focusing on the things you can control. If you don't like the double standard don't have it reflected in your actions but crying about it on the Internet only works for women and children. You sound like a borderline school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:14 PM
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Danger is that you can get too wrapped up in making the ideal life. Not everyone can have perfect ideal life. Work on what you can be confident in yourself and appreciate all the progress you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:48 PM
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Sure and?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:41 PM
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Double standards exist(usually for a reason), get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:20 PM
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"Also money helps" lmao i like the honesty. And remember your talking to a black man my definition of dealing with someone's shit might be different. By that i mean working through problems which it seems you do in your relationship. You're dealing with another whole ass grown adult you're going to disagree on things. No one is 100% compatible let's be realistic. I agree with you for the most part though. Some stuff i could debate but overall you seem like a good person so im going to call it he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:48 PM
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Yeah but i say perfection because there's a mindset online to not take anyone else's flaws and you deserve the best while saying people are perfect the way they are. There's a cognitive dissonance with those two ideas. Especially from women. I'm personally single because women I've dated seem to have a "i want more" mentality and as soon as i put my foot down on something then they switch up and act like they were doing me a favor because they have other options. So we break up, then months down…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:12 PM
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Yeah for some i agree. That's mostly guys who spend all their time on Reddit echo chambers. Same with some women. And maybe if you've never had a gf by 30, yeah you're probably the problem. But the dating market these days isn't doing anyone any favors. The general consensus on both sides is pretty selfish and looking for perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:29 PM
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Okay you didn't say all sorry about that. But again that is unrelated for most people. I recommend you check out the study i linked. Relationships on the whole are down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:06 PM
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Did I say all in my response? No My point is being a bad person at best has no effect on dating and at worst is actually helpful. Race, age, social status, having a two parent household, etc all are better indicators. So saying a lot of single people are bad people is problematic emkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:35 PM
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You're giving your opinion as fact. It's more complicated than that. For example I'm a black male and single (i have dated and I'm currently talking to some people). According to thisstudy 62% of black adults are unpartnerd (no spouse or cohabitation), so 62% of black people are bad people? So the statement "a lot of singletons are bad" is dismissive and inaccurate. Assholes do get married, look at how many wives Donald Trump has had, and there are tons of single mothers who had children with "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:45 AM
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So all single people are bad people? Got you. You seem totally rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:22 PM
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So he won you over by your own admission, case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:27 PM
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Yes the most successful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:26 PM
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No the pedestal is the problem. It's been a saying for years for a reason. If you don't respect what you have to offer no one else will. "Winning her over" is apart of finding a long term partner. What do you think expensive dinners, weddings, wedding rings, trips, etc are? Also expectations are a way of avoiding problems by setting them at the appropriate time. Ideally they should be a given if two people are on the same page. But that's not going to happen 100% of the time. What are standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:46 PM
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A lot of variables. But I'll take your word for it. How many billionaires, millionaires, ladies men, etc would you classify as nice? Probably not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:27 PM
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I think we're talking about two different scenarios. If a guy clearly states he is fine just being friends that's on him. But if a guy is nice to a girl he likes without "just friends" being directly stated, how is that manipulative? Why would you be mean to someone you like? And I'm not saying anyone is obligated to anything. But just like incels shouldn't judge all women who aren't virgins as branch swinging 403's, even though some are. Women shouldn't judge every nice guy as a manipulative fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:13 PM
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Eh red pill like most things on the internet is an extreme version of reality. There's some truth to it (there's a reason why professional athletes have tons of women chasing them) but it's not the end all be all. Money, looks, and status all do help with dating but if you want to be genuinely happy i wouldn't recommend basing a relationship solely off of those. Context is also key which is hard to determine online. It's natural to lean towards being nice to someone you like doesn't mean it's fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:06 PM
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Sex and affection reward you with dopamine too. Very large amounts in fact. "Throwing a shit fit" is very vague. You could say the same about a woman who is mad that a man doesn't want to be her friend anymore after taking her on a dozen friend dates and her not being interested in anything romantic. Also no one is jesus and nice to everyone. As long as they don't become violent or intentionally harass/insult someone, becoming frustrated that someone doesn't return your affection is a totally ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:21 PM
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Sounds like either low self esteem or unrealistic expectations. Men for the most part have most of the power in long term commitments like dating while women have most of the power in short term hookups. So if you're dating a woman you don't like or aren't attracted to you're selling yourself very short and need to work on your self esteem or narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:55 PM
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That's dumb we are literally hardwired for rewards. Dopamine is the driving force for all actions. Sure some guys are fake nice just for attention from women. But a large amount of "nice" guys had good mother's and are naturally nice to women because they (admittedly maybe unrealistically) expect the same dynamic they had with their mothers. Basically momma's boys. Now being a momma's boy isn't a good thing. Men have to grow out of that and lead themselves and those around them but just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:43 PM
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There's some truth to this but remember a lot of those women are for the streets. If you're not as good looking or successful as a guy she's had sex with before she will think she can do better. Which i get but if these women are looking out for themselves first, we gotta do the same. Don't get hung up in hookup culture standards, they are low for women and high for men. Mainly because men's hookup standards are low, we want the easiest we can get while women want the best they can get. I sugges…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:16 AM
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So they just ignored any conclusions for women in their results statement "Unpopular low mate-value women reported more support for casual sex than popular low mate-value women."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:26 AM
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Sure but those things should come naturally. If they aren't you need to fix something else about yourself first then those things will come. Not the other way around. At least not if you don't want to be in a codependent relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:41 PM
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Guess women stay with toxic guys cause the sex is bad huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:29 PM
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Disney movies aren't real and plenty of insecure people get married. That's a big part of why the divorce rate is so high, some people just get married to someone they don't like for the emotional or physical companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:05 PM
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Same to you. I think you might be a more active participant than a lot of women though. Most women I've been with either wait for me to do everything (trash at sex) or follow my lead (pretty standard). So with your example by being confident and taking the lead role i now make sure a woman feels comfortable to let go because all she has to worry about is enjoying herself. And sex with a long term partner is 100% better. You already know what each other likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:02 PM
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Nah but I've been one and i was so concerned about doing the right thing i was in my head too much. Makes for not the best sex. And lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:23 PM
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Ooof. That's too real. Both are looking for outside validation to make them feel better about themselves. It's understandable but when you get desperate, yeah that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:00 PM
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Nice guys can't make you cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:57 PM
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Crazy enough i would though. I've been with a few women in my time and sex isn't as important as it's made out to be. I'd take having a traditional family over a playboy lifestyle any day. I have enough finances to have a family but I'm not risking everything ive worked hard for to be with a woman who would drop me in a second for a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:47 PM
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I mean there's levels to those things right. Handsome and rich in Idaho looks different than handsome and rich in LA. I personally work on my fitness, looks, confidence, education, and finances daily so i have no problem being held to a standard it'll only push me to succeed. But at the same time it has to be realistic I'll never be a millionaire nba player who models on the side. So if that's what it takes for a woman to act like a woman I'd rather do my own thing and maybe co parent with a str…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:37 PM
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Divorce has been legal for hundreds of years. It's more socially acceptable now compared to the 1900's but whether that's a good or bad thing is a whole other conversation and arguably it's a worse outcome for women. " Lenore Weitzman's 1985 book The Divorce Revolution, using data from California in 1977-78, reported that one year after divorce, the standard of living for women declined 73%, compared with an increase of 42% for men. " - from the wikipedia page for divorce. My point is that tradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:32 PM
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Bro you literally said "men did this" so there's no reason for anything after that. I never said marriage used to be perfect, it never will be like everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:12 PM
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I'd prefer that over a 304 any day. And why is it cool to bully those women but fat shaming is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:35 AM
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This is 100% fair. You're missing the obvious caveat. This is the exact thing men did for years no problem. Women wanted to be "sexually liberated" like men so the stock price of coochie plummeted making the effort not worth it. Why should i change my whole religion (the basis for my philosophy on life), sign away half of my assets, and take on the responsibility for protecting and providing for another person to get a 7 when 5's are throwing it back basically for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:29 AM
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And how do you build that relationship? It can be small things "hey babe can you pass me the remote", "can you start my shower while i answer this call real quick", etc. That's how you build a non one sided relationship. There's a balance of give and take, and as a man you have to lead the direction of the relationship. That's why so many women end up with objectively bad guys. They may lead women to bad places but they lead non the less Your logic makes sense in theory but in practice people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:17 AM
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You need to ask because you are a man. Women and children are the ones who have their minds read not us. You have to at least ask for everything you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:07 AM
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Idk online they're fighting pretty hard to make it not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:02 AM
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Honestly I'm cool with her doing that. As long as the rule is consistent for every guy. If she had a one night stand a week before we met but now I have to wait 3 months before hitting that's a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:01 AM
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There's exceptions to the rule sure but you shouldn't base your expectations on exceptions. If a woman is having sex with a lot of different partners more often than not that's a key indicator of issues, which you agreed with. So the inverse must be true to an extent. Low sex partners may not exactly mean no issues but there is a correlation. OP has a point and everyone should have their personal things they won't compromise on, if that's his hey more power to him. I'd recommend lowering the sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:51 AM
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That's what i said. Women (people in general really) with trauma are prone to engage in sexually risky behavior like high numbers of sex partners and sex work. OP said they would avoid women like that because of the high risk of serious trauma (which is backed up by studies i can link if you're interested), and i can't really blame him. Only pushback i give is that finding an attractive, kind, intelligent woman with no trauma is about as likely as finding the attractive, rich, fit young guy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah sure but those women are statistically prone to having a lot of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:03 PM
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I agree let people believe what they want. But women in the west are the freest women in the world. They just are upset because things aren't perfect and they have to make choices. Things aren't perfect for men either and me being a man I'm gonna focus on that. As long as women can vote, can work, and aren't being abused i don't care. If they want to be like men they need to fix their own problems like men. Plus feminism goes right out the window for most women once a draft, a robbery, a fire, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:05 AM
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Maybe when it comes to technology. But i think it directly relates to insecurity and scammers are always trying to sell you the fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:21 AM
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Nah i think we're attracted to on average most women. Could range from 51% to 90% depending on the guys preference, how down bad he is, and his self confidence. But if you look at some of these girls athletes or famous guys have had sex with and then the women brag about it, it's obvious we will fuck most women regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:17 AM
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Possible? Sure there's outliers to everything. But probable? Not likely. Unless you're faking it to get women. And that's a bold strategy you'd better be very good looking. Women talk so much shit about "pick me" girls. But constantly push out this male feminist rhetoric like it's supposed to be the norm. Y'all are getting played.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:03 AM
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Bro you literally asked what would that say about a man who likes that. You're a sub bro that's what it says. You want a dominant woman, which is cool do you. Half of the internet was loosing their shit over the tall murder lady from RE7. But it is what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:59 AM
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Still yes. I would assume most men myself included wouldn't like that. To me that indicates less maternal instincts and a tendency to want to take the lead on most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:49 AM
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Makes sense probably because it's true men and women are different. Plus it's been proven women like a man with back bone and will take that guy over a nice male feminist 9 time out of 10. I can't even blame women for that, if a guy can't stand up for himself how is he going to stand up for you and deal with adversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:46 AM
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Lol Talk about pushing commit ment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:39 AM
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He's saying 61% of people met in person before starting a relationship. The chart splits that up between different categories of how they were introduced. Now that we're talking about it im curious how the stats would look if they separated "online" in the same way. How much would be dating apps versus social media apps and forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:37 AM
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First to me this is a weird question especially from a man. Second women have never been the killers of society, hunters, soldiers, even farmers, are/have been all overwhelmingly majority men. Let's not even mention serial killers. I don't like this fantasization of murder, that shit fucks with people a lot of soldiers get ptsd because of it. This dude is a sub, which is cool, but let's call a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:31 AM
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You don't know how quotes work do you? I never even mentioned the word cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:11 PM
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Yes. That's philosophically where you should be operating from as a healthy person. The ego meditates between the super-ego : societal expectations, and the id : your base instinctual desires. In that way you get your most important desires met while still somewhat conforming to and operating in society. So fuck yeah I'm ego driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:02 PM
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You gotta remember what sub you're in. In a blue pill or ex redpill sub you might get a whole different response from dudes trying to virtue signal. I could see a guy with not many options or who really wanted kids and thought he couldn't have them or something sticking around. A little too simpy for my taste but i hold myself to very high standards so I'd expect the same of my partner. Plus i want my kid to have every statistical advantage possible which means having both biological parents tog…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:19 AM
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I could see that. There does seem to be correlation between emotional guys having strong maternal bonds and expect the same attention from women. While women with strong paternal bonds usually have more self confidence and seek less attention from men. I think those early social relationships subconsciously influence how you expect the opposite sex to treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:55 AM
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Yeah less stakes if you're just dating. It's even more important if you're married. And that's cool for your friend and her Dad. I gotta step dad and i like him better than my sperm donor. But the key factor is that he knew she wasn't his biological child and chose to raise her. He is an extraordinary man for that and it should be recognized. Normalizing what he did not only is unfair to men who don't want to raise a child that isn't theirs and they have no responsibility for but downplays his s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:33 AM
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I think you're on the right track. I wouldn't say men are inherently more emotional, probably the same as women but men are more out spoken as children. Then like you said social norms force us (with good reason) to hold our emotions in to get results. You can't cry if it hurts because you got tackled on the football field or sprained your ankle playing basketball, you gotta suck that shit up and get results or you get left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:22 AM
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That's because some guys have no purpose besides chasing women. If you become top 20% at anything you'll get some female attention, and i mean anything the top clowns and cirque di Soleil probably have a fire Instagram and get some groupies. That should be the focus on being the best version of you for yourself and those around you. Any good quality woman will admire that ambition and want to join your team.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:07 AM
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This one hits home because a girl i know cheated with her boyfriends roommate left him and got back together around the time she got pregnant. The dude was an alright guy and took care of the kid because he thought it was his. But we all thought something was up because they both were white and over time the kid started getting darker. Guy's roommate was black. So one the day he goes and gets a paternity test while she's at work and after she came home she found a note saying he knows the kids i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:47 AM
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The world doesn't revolve around what you find attractive. I don't give a fuck either way. I only care about the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:40 PM
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Alpha has a definition. "socially dominant especially in a group of animals" Your definition isn't based off of reality or the real definition. Mine is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:09 PM
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Okay cool I'm actually glad to hear it. But he's not going to be alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:22 AM
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I'm a he, respect my pronouns. And sure some are. But again my point is that noble traits aren't rewarded like women act like they are. Just ask JFK, Abraham Lincoln, MLK etc. Most of the time you can have a good guy with morals, or you can have a dominant successful "alpha" guy. Veeeeerry rarely do those two traits happen in the same person. Being genuine and being successful are already rare on their own, and you want both?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:11 AM
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There's definitely a curve on the scale. But especially in this age if you're messing with a girl who never had some what of a hoe phase: 1. You caught her early before like 23, congrats but the older you get less likely that's the case. 2. She's not very attractive, i can't judge but i atleast have to settle down with an objective 6. 3. You're in a small town, cool i guess but I'm black and not with the probable racism 4. Socially awkward or anti social, could be a good thing but good luck meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:51 PM
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You literally just named all fictional characters...... And Donald Trump literally leads millions of people who follow his every word (again i don't like it either, but that doesn't make it not true). This is a prime example of people online confusing how the world works with how we want it to work. It's impossible to make good judgement calls if you're ignoring reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:32 PM
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I think there's some variance. You could get unlucky or lucky depending on the other person's experience. I've gotten shot down by some women because they thought i was going to play them, true or not, it wasn't because they weren't attracted to me. Or I've gotten some 9/10's because i was in the right place with almost no competition. But if you're getting all yesses or all no's then you should change up your strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:21 PM
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I had a fuck boy phase so i wouldn't be upset with a small hoe phase. As long as she doesn't have a super high body count or had a train ran on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:14 PM
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Can be nice is the key word or most importantly chooses to be and has the ability to be a dick when required. True alphas range in personality depending on the social hierarchy they are alpha in. So yes and no. Being alpha just means you're top dog. If being toxic helps you be top dog or even doesn't hurt your social standing in that social group, then yes they can be toxic. As much as i don't like it Donald Trump is alpha and is toxic as fuck. If women want more guys to be less toxic start rewa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:47 PM
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Make some friends first. You don't want to be too dependent even if you start a relationship. Whatever is your favorite hobby I'd look for events in your area for that. Like cons, meetups, concerts, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:18 PM
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So if your husband doesn't whine then men aren't whiners. You're contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:17 PM
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Oh the partner who apparently whines about taking out the trash? Yeah sure that's why you're loosing your shit over a reddit comment lol Your life must be going great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:58 PM
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I'd recommend most guys try and meet women through mutual friends, family, or work/school. That way you can build real attraction over time and you know you at least have something in common. Avoid apps like the plague if you value your self esteem and aren't a 9/10 in looks. Bars can be fun if you're going out with a group of friends every once in awhile. If you're not around women much the female attention is nice but i wouldn't suggest looking for a girlfriend there. Another option is speed d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:54 PM
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The fuck does that have to do with anything i said? Stay on topic. You seem like a woman who definitely doesn't whine and is a joy to be around..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:38 PM
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Sure in the 1950's. These days peak masculinity is more like the wolf of wall street. But even then there are people born rich, nice, to powerful families. They would have an easy time at that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:32 PM
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I don't think you're getting it. Regardless of the actual role, if your natural disposition compliments the expected traits then you will have an easier time. That's why nice guys get the short end of the stick from men and women, being "nice" traditionally is associated with feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:58 PM
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Sounds like a feminine "modern" man. Dudes storming the beach in WWII weren't like that because it would get them killed. Along with if you played any organized sports growing up or joined the military, that shit gets beat out of your system quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:53 PM
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If you're personality naturally fits a gender role it's easy to "assimilate". For instance if your naturally an assertive guy or an empathetic woman those would mesh well with gender norms so you more than likely wouldn't have a problem with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:49 PM
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You must have not read the post. Op said the husband would be "your type" so i assume that would be the same case for an assigned wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:31 PM
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Nah I'm getting out the game. An extra 24k a year is easy money to make if I've got a quality wife to take care of the home stuff. If i can get a solid 7/10 wife without wasting my time wading through all these hot girls and ig thots I'd gladly pay double.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:25 PM
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Hookup culture is a waste of time to me and I'd rather spend my time working towards building a family. I'm a decent looking financially stable dude but not a super model so i could with enough money, time, and effort do alright in the hookup market. And i did for a little. But i realized it was costing me real relationships and money while not fulfilling my desire for real companionship. As soon as you bust that nut and pillow talk is over you realize the type of women you get are not the kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:22 PM
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Why does "having fun" mean fucking tons of random dudes? That's not the only fun thing you can do in your youth. Date around and get to know people, travel, pick up a hobby, and sure maybe have a one night stand or two. But don't become the town bike. Being a slut shouldn't be something to aspire to. Even the rich famous "successful" ones have a hard time finding a husband. If you want to be a thot i don't think most guys care. Hell someone is having sex with them. But don't act like that then e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:43 PM
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I don't care what you think. Plus wtf did i say about hating women, shut up. You're one of those people who try to label others as "problematic" just because they said something you don't like true or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:14 PM
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Saying "yikes" doesn't make me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:11 PM
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Looks just aren't as important for us guys. Don't get me wrong being attractive helps anyone regardless of sex or gender but it's not the end all be all. I think the whole body positivity movement went way too far left. It was supposed to be about people not feeling ashamed of their average non supermodel bodies. Not celebrating being fat. It's like if a dude with a micro penis said "it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean". Yeah bro technically you're right, but you have a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:01 AM
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I had just got back on Reddit after a long hiatus. I thought asking would make them rethink their values and the point of the sub. I was sorely mistaken lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:50 AM
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That's a shallow outlook. Both sexes should provide more than sex and money. If a woman is only providing pussy she is a thot and will drop you as soon as a better option comes around or try and "open relationship" you into being a cuck. If a man only provides money your only a sex object and he definitely has other ones. Sex and money are important in a relationship like they shouldn't be slacking but those should be like 4th or 5th down the list of priorities. In my opinion social media and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:18 AM
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I asked if any advice in FDS actually resulted in someone starting a relationship and got banned. Like you said they want the sensitive, borderline genius iq, social justice warrior, MAANG engineer making 300k.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:00 AM
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AF/BB is an extreme but it definitely does happen, look at the rise of literal cucks. The wall is real. Any random 21 year old woman has a 99.999% chance of being more attractive than any random 70 year old woman. It has something to do with child bearing years, which is the whole fucking point to sex woke people seem to forget that, kinda sucks I'll level with you but blame genetics. Men have a wall too but our wall is like 50-60 vs 30-40 for women. Plate spinning isn't my thing, i usually drop…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:45 AM
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IDK about all content but all red pill content creators i watch respect and love women. My goal is to find the right woman and make sure im the best version of myself when that happens. Now some dudes go off the deep end and their only goals are more money and more women. That's their choice though, just like women can choose to be sluts. TRP to me is about becoming more in touch with your masculinity and not being ashamed of being a man. Confidence, leadership, accountability (women forget abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:28 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:54 PM
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You keep saying data with no references or research. Link some proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:54 AM
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I said Yeah but men are emotionally intelligent, and do house work now too? So it's not all on women now. If anything I'd think they'd want a man making less financially but more emotionally supportive, to balance out women being able to financially support themselves. You said that's not the case. I feel like we're talking in circles. Back to the main point. There's nothing wrong with having standards but they should be realistic. If you are a 6 be real with yourself and date a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:50 PM
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Emotional intelligence and domestic labour are huge. You’d have to earn substantially above average for women that make their own money and have choice in partners to marry so guys. You literally just contradicted yourself. Women want the perfect guy we get it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:42 PM
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So you're saying most women want to make their own money and support themselves but still be supported by a partner that makes significantly more than them? Why get a job then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:30 PM
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Yeah but men are emotionally intelligent, and do house work now too? So it's not all on women now. Are we doing gender roles or not, i don't get it? If anything I'd think they'd want a man making less financially but more emotionally supportive, to balance out women being able to financially support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:50 PM
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Definitely possible if you have decent social skills. But to me it sounds like you're going after below average women. Which I'm not hating on, my body count is around 25 and I've definitely got some 3 or 4's in there. But my stance is that women want men at an increasing social status above them. Women who are 7's want men who are 9's but will settle for an 8, and friendzone other 7's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:48 PM
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Just keep that same energy next time you hear a woman talk about her controlling boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:37 PM
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Oh no random person on the internet who is just green pixels to me doesn't like me :(. Contrary to what the internet thinks everyone is not going to like you. Even Keanu Reeves. It's subjective anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:02 PM
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I'm not talking about bmi. It's statically proven Americans are overweight. So you're saying a minority of men have access to women, interesting. Also that women have enough of an advantage to be more selective, a starving person isn't picky. Also interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:07 PM
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Gotta disagree on the first one my guy There definitely are guys like that but they are called out on their bs. And how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:02 AM
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Oh i have no idea man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:34 AM
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Henry sounds like he was a leader. A bad one and every woman he dated was probably worse off for it but most women want to be led or at least a guy who is confident in himself and his decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:22 AM
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I thought that way for awhile. I never had problems with women in high school, college, or low level jobs. But now i make a very comfortable salary, I've always gotten female attention, and I'm consistently in the gym. I realized very recently it's because I'm never around women long enough to build a rapport. I work remote, have moved three times in the last 3 years for jobs, and all my hobbies are male focused. Only time I'm around women is through dating apps, and bars. Which have been somewh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:15 AM
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My bad didn't see that last part about women having skills, or money. In that case yeah you are correct. Those men are useless and there is already social stigma about being a deadbeat dad. Along with my point about most homeless people being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:48 PM
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I don't think the actual size matters. Only if you're on the extreme of either too tiny or obnoxiously big will it make a difference. From my experience if a woman likes you, then she'll tell you, you have a big dick. As soon as a fight happens or she's upset now it's small or she's seen/had bigger. Unless you have a very small penis i wouldn't worry about dick size too much. If you do I'd up my sex game in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:40 PM
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Okay so any single mildly attractive women with no kids, who can still physically have them, has a terrible personality then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:27 PM
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No but there's a significant amount of 20 to 29 single women who are. That guys comment was probably hyperbole but i think the point stands. There is a subset of women who have been told they deserve everything they want, but don't have to evaluate what they have to offer. We evaluate everyone on what they are asking for and what they fairly deserve based on the market on almost everything, cars, house loans, apartments, down payments on utilities, insurance, the list goes on. Yet women in that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:24 PM
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Thank you! I can't speak for all men, but how i was raised and the environment i grew up in, all of that is expected and fine on my part. Just some acknowledgement that alot of dating pressure is on men and a little bit of slack every know and again like this post is all i ask. Because on the other hand i see why women are the way they are. Dudes can have very low standards, women have a lot of potential options, and there are bad men out there. Plus i spoil the hell out of my favorite niece so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:14 PM
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Yup i actually agree. There's that old stereo type (at least in the black community) of a deadbeat dad showing up on nba/nfl draft day saying "i always believed in you son". I've seen the same principle in my own life. If you've given up parental rights you shouldn't be able to show up after the hard work is done, and that person has been properly raised, then call that person your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:06 PM
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False equivalence. Nature doesn't give every man, a valuable skill, and tons of money after puberty. But society deems men useless all the time. That's why homeless people are mostly men. And i ended my conversation with them because of their immaturity and refusal to acknowledge any meaning behind what i was saying. This is purple pill DEBATE. Everyone has the right to debate (say their point), "you can't say that :(" isn't a valid argument. And their ignorance of the tax code.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah anyway have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:07 PM
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Also we've already done that in the west. Slavery, rape, and murder are very low comparatively. While less and less women want to have children. So we as men have done our part. It's the women's part to uphold their end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:52 AM
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I have the authority to say whatever the fuck i want. You can't be older than 15. Before i say something mean to a kid this conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:09 AM
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1 It's a biological imperative. I didn't create organic life so fuck if i know the exact reason why. Look into religion or philosophy and find your own answer. 2 No you pay sales tax and income tax consistently. I'm starting to think you have never done your taxes, how old are you? 3 I don't think you are comprehending what i am saying. Societal values can be shallow but they are what they are. You can't choose to be judged or not but you can choose whether to care. The overwhelming majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:39 AM
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1.I literally answered your question. The average person wants to have kids. You don't have a choice. It's illegal to not pay taxes and being born in a country by default makes you beholden to it's laws. If you have concerns about that look up the term stateless. Not personal at all. You are putting your own feelings into my words. I was saying what does it matter what society thinks, being fully accepted or appreciated by society shouldn't be anyone's end goal if you want a mentally healthy lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:21 AM
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That sounds like a her problem. Why is it the mans job to decipher what the situation is on her end if she can't differentiate between a guy who just wants to sleep with her and one who genuinely likes her? Either women are adults who can make their own decisions and deal with their own trauma (we all have some) or men have some better capacity to do such. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:03 PM
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Look contrary to internet culture most people want to go on living and carry on their family line. That's how we got 9 billion people. How are you going to pay taxes with no skills and i already covered that with having money. You basically proved my point "Contribute" to society. That doesn't require anyone to like you or care about your feelings. You're close friends and families sure but society as a whole is cruel and shallow. We learned this shit in like 2nd grade with all the after school …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:33 PM
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Wasn't planning on it. I'm a software engineer. So gaslighting and mental abuse don't exist now, got it. Or is that only a problem when it happens to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:18 PM
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So make me a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:22 PM
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From a high level macro standpoint yes. Only women can bear children to keep our whole species going that's pretty important. Otherwise if you can't have children, aren't very good at a skill, and don't have money why should society care about you vs the other 9 billion people on the planet. Before you cry about the injustice western women face look at the murder, sex trafficking, slavery, and other actually bad shit going on today. Not in the history books but right now. Now are you going to dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:12 PM
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Some of you women have strong main character syndrome. "Biologically it's tougher for my body to have children after 35, and for centuries before i was even born humans understood this as fact, but it doesn't apply to me because i have the power of internet friendship, believe it!" Everyone is being told how to live their life, get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:46 PM
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I agree with most of what you said. But i think women are having sex without dates to compete with other women. They either know or believe sex is the only thing they can do to keep that man around and making him wait and prove himself on dates has her losing the edge on competition. That also has the side effect of guy's that are good enough to take her on a date but not get instant pussy having to be basically the perfect guy or she'll just run back to that toxic dick. The dating game is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:51 AM
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How about if that's all you have to offer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:01 PM
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The camera cut before that part. But there was a solid 10 seconds before Will smith went from smiling to being on stage. It doesn't take a genius to figure out what happened in those moments. People don't laugh at a joke they don't like. Jada was the only one not laughing. So obviously she was the one who did not like it. This refusal to even acknowledge she had a part in it is why every man should be careful of dating a spiteful manipulative woman. She'll ruin your life and no one will care or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:58 PM
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They picked what they thought were high value. But they end up single mom's because they chose to pursue the same guy 10 other women are after and didn't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:44 PM
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If making 80k a year when the national average is like 50k, and 6 months of consistent gym progression, when the average guy can't lift their own body weight and do a pull up, isn't enough for an average woman you just proved the point that the standards are too high. Those are above average, if above average isn't good enough then it sounds like women are lying to themselves about what's realistically attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:36 PM
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I think sex is a need. Lower than food water or shelter but it's definitely a driving force for human (really all animals) behavior. I don't think it's a right or anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:17 PM
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Yuppers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:07 PM
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Yeah she totally looked happy with the joke and didn't death stare will after it. I'm with you 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:05 PM
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Sure cause chris rock made a joke about him. You're totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:50 PM
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Yeah i see what kind of women you are. You totally ignored my last sentence and my whole point. I know how to handle your type. You're right and you have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:31 PM
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And here's the manipulation. Why did he think that was an appropriate response to her being upset? They have been married for decades I'm sure he knows what she would think is appropriate defense. I'm pretty sure he said he wanted to be more like tupac and he thought that's what tupac would do. Why would he want to be more like Tupac you ask? Because for thirty years Jada has been saying Tupac was the love of her life shitting on her husband. Now don't get me wrong Will is ultimately at fault fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:01 PM
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Did you watch the video? Will initially laughed at the joke Jada was upset from the start. Then Will turned around and looked at Jada. Next thing you know he's on stage. You really think that's a coincidence? I also said "manipulate" not "force" and Jada showed her true colors long before this incident with the entanglement fiasco. She even admitted by her own words to taking advantage of a mentally unhealthy young man who came to her for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:46 PM
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Most societies if not all do trend towards a patriarchal hierarchy but it's lazy "wokeness" to just say men are the cause of all problems like women are perfect angels and don't manipulate a lot of these powerful men behind the scenes. There are just as many power hungry, sociopathic, greedy, controlling, women as men. They just are more covert. Look at Amber Heard, or Jada Pickett Smith. I'm 100% sure Jada was the one who decided something needed to be done about Chris Rock's joke she just pull…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:52 AM
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I see your point and appreciate your empathy. But most of those cases are shitty men abandoning their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:40 AM
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I think that kind of stuff is a self fulfilling prophecy. Women who say that either believe it and are delusional (stay away), or only mean a subset of men are creeps and if you fall for it that must be you. Any woman with good male figures in her life doesn't have that thought about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:28 AM
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That's a bad faith argument. Obliviously asexual don't really want sex, their asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:59 PM
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Everyone wants sex though. It's like if a billionaire donates to charity for the tax break does that negate the positive impact his money will have to those charities?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:33 PM
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I mostly agree. Really like how you pointed out the taking accountability for social stigma part. Freedom of choice isn't freedom of consequence from anyone but the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:31 PM
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I'm not saying there's no benefits. I'm asking if there were any drawbacks. Women enjoying sex and their bodies is a good thing but i personally think unrestricted sex has pushed things to the other extreme which isn't good. I'm trying to gauge the room to see if anyone else sees what i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:21 PM
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Okay great i agree. So is there any problem with wanting to have sex with only one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:44 PM
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It was hyperbole. Why is wanting sex now bad once in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:34 PM
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The correlation exists. Barring religious reasons I'm sure most people would not enter a marriage without having sex first. It's not the only reason or even the main depending on the guy but it factors in. And I've stated what i said in my post was my opinion. And asked what others opinions were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:05 PM
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Condoms aren't 100% safe so if you have sex with hundreds of partners whether it's a baby or and std chances are you're going to catch something. And okay congratulations i was wondering if you're view point was coming from the current dating market or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:56 PM
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I don't know about the first part. I think sex is natural and something traditionally done with your partner. Definitely shouldn't be the main one in my opinion but it is a factor. And okay i can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:42 PM
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Why is a dead bedroom a major indicator of divorce then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:40 PM
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Ideally i agree but realistically i think it happens. And okay, how sex positive are you and are you in a relationship? If you don't mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:39 PM
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There's alot of man blaming in this response. I can understand no woman wants to feel trapped in a relationship like they could be happier but are being forced to stay somewhere they don't want to be. From my point of view and experience as a man it seemed like women are the issue with hypergamy and the constant need to be better than whatever wealthy, popular, or otherwise very successful guy they had or could have a one night stand with. I think there's blame on both sides and without the econ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:38 PM
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100% same to you. We disagree but you seem like a good enough person so i wish all the best to you my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:56 AM
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I said change yourself or lower your standards. Not totally drop them. I'm saying be realistic and know your audience. If their price is too high change your target demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:47 AM
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No, sex shouldn't be the basis of your decision making objectively it's going to make life more complicated. I've seen in my own family and friends the results of just wanting to bust a nut without thinking about the consequences and it's never turned out well. Now that's an individual choice to make, people are allowed to make bad decisions, and we all do at some point. There's a fine line between shaming someone because you want to feel superior and shaming them because their actions are hurti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:45 AM
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There's definitely been a push of the ideal that men and women are the same. We're equal, but not the same we both have our parts to play. Even in homosexual relationships one person is masculine and the other is feminine. But "every correction is an overcorrection" so it may be a result of men socially being allowed to cheat on their wives and have tons of illegitimate kids and being actually abusive not too long ago, which is kind of messed up for modern society. I think once more women are ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:48 PM
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And you can have that viewpoint. I disagree because I'm very family oriented for personal reasons. Not knowing my biological father growing up caused me issues so I'm not going to make a commitment unless i know both of us are sticking around for the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:32 PM
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My point was not to victim blame the people getting cheated on. Just because they may be unhappy doesn't mean the relationship is crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:22 PM
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Sexual health is important but that's more about having a good relationship with yourself and what you like. Nothing to do with banging random strangers. Plus a sex life where you're totally comfortable with another person and you know each other's bodies without saying much, is more fulfilling in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:13 PM
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The ones i can think of Pc gaming, Music production, Guitar, Weightlifting, Boxing, Reading, Car modifications, Programming, Sneakers, Basketball, Going to the gun range, Dancing, Philosophy, Arguing with people on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:05 PM
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I agree it's definitely case by case with other factors. Beauty or attractiveness, personality traits, wealth, all in various degrees can be factors. It's a combination of all those things among others and some people might weigh sexual history lower on the scale but it's still apart of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:59 PM
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Right, I always thought that too. There is that old saying that "crazy chics are great in bed" so there may be some anecdotal truth to it. My concern is why is there a push to normalize extreme sexual behavior when that may be the symptom of a mental health issue, versus getting treatment for the underlying issue whatever it might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:56 PM
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I'm in the United States and I'm basing my opinions off of american culture so i can't comment on that information. However id argue the results would be much different in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:51 PM
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Women are judged by what men want because men are the customers. And Vice versa. Gay men and women are judged by what other gay people want. You are proving to a potential partner why they should choose you over someone else. You have the choice to live up to a standard or not. Best thing is to go for people who have the same ideals. If everyone you meet with those ideals are shitty and you want someone else, you need to look inward and either change or lower your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:46 PM
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I'd say that's the main concern in a long term relationship. Along with potential financial loss in a divorce. The trust betrayal, feelings of worthlessness, and general emotional stuff is there too but to lesser extent because as a man your emotions aren't that important life's more pragmatic in that sense. I agree though there should be dna test at every child birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:38 PM
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I think casually dating is. But one night stands, getting a train ran, threeways, etc ie. Extreme hoeing that porn and some popular media push, isn't necessary at all and actually detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:28 PM
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Most current cultures are monogamous because it works best for children. If you don't want a family and can handle intimate relationships with multiple partners and aren't just looking for an excuse to bone everyone you want i could see that working for some people. I'm not judging I've been guilty of it too, but i think recently there's been too much of a mass push of sex just for sex sake. Sex is an important part of life but shouldn't be the basis for all of your decisions and definitely not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:24 PM
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Yeah women never have to worry if a child is really theirs. If you don't care about cheating cool ignorance is bliss. But don't try and gas light guys into thinking its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:15 PM
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You can't know for sure there's an inherent risk in dating. But having a lower sexual partner count, from the data given, on average proves for a better long term relationship. Doesn't mean that person can't make it work but it is going to be more difficult. What matters more is actions vs a persons thought process. That person with the higher n count will probably have to be a better partner in a long term relationship because of their reputation vs the one with a lower count. It's messed up wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:08 PM
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I agree their may be a correlation between mental health and casual sex. I think it may be the self validation gotten from someone finding you attractive enough to sleep with. But you're taking a massive leap assuming the relationship is crappy and that's why the person cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:51 PM
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Most do it terms of attractiveness. Your best shot to get the man you want is to be realistic and shot your shot when you're most attractive. For men its when you have the most money. But there's a time limit on everyone. Also most people are happier with a fulfilling relationship than a successful career and since most people are heterosexual most women will need a man. I don't know why it's so hard for women these days to say they like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:07 AM
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I'd drop her man. I had a similar situation i let go too long and she ended up finding other girls i was messing with on my Instagram and messaging them ruining anything else i had going on. It's only gonna get worse over time and the easy sex isn't worth it.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:55 PM
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Sure there's grey but that's my exact point. Body count isn't everything. Self esteem and social value are just at a high level things that affect success of game. Looks, past experiences, current stage in life, social influences, personality, and the list goes on, can effect if your game will work. But to keep it simple high value high self esteem partners are more desirable and harder to get. Low self esteem low value partners are easier. It's the same for women. Game just tips the balance in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:29 PM
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Rape and violence are actions. You can't feel like you were raped or punched in the face. It either happened or not. I'm also black and have met racist plenty of times. Not gonna cry about it, they either did something racist and i dealt with it then, or nothing serious happened and i kept it moving. Shit there could have been things i perceived as racist but really weren't person could have been having a bad day or just disliked people in general, or another misunderstanding. Point being there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:50 PM
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Depends on her sexual value along with her self esteem. High value high self esteem women won't fall for game or maybe just want some themselves and are back to their lives after. High value low self esteem women usually go for losers at least relative to her so they can have a project to work on make themselves feel better. Low value high self esteem women will go for game but try and change you with you with the power of pussy. And low value low self esteem women are the bread and butter they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:47 PM
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Exactly sex is more mental than physical with women. If you check all her boxes for a man, good enough looking, somewhat successful, socially adept, confident, a woman will put down her guard enough for you to have a chance to sleep with her. I wouldn't consider myself a full on player more of a reformed fuckboy. But same rules apply. Once that guard is down then that's where your game, charm, humor, charisma, etc comes in to seal the deal. That's why usually player's are more respected than slu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:26 PM
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Women can lie and exaggerate. They are people not magical fairies who only tell the truth. And feelings aren't valid arguments. I love women grew up with them outnumbering men in my family. But they are real independent strong women who own their mistakes and grow from them. Not women who want the veil of autonomy but need to be reassured and protected as soon as someone has something bad to say about her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:46 PM
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That actually sounds like anti slut behavior. I'm pretty sure those guys would prefer if you were a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:38 PM
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Tons of sex if you're her type or drop your standards during a dry spell. Also dude who rape are being outed now so that's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:36 PM
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Question what sex do you think is the overwhelming majority that pays for onlyfans, strippers, sex workers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:27 PM
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I think you're overestimating how picky the average man is. I guarantee every woman has at least a handful of men she can have sex with regardless of how she "expresses her sexuality", i still don't know what that means, but y'all don't want sex with those men. So it's the men who choose more carefully who they engage with (men with lots of options) y'all are trying to strong arm into not respecting their own standards. A person male or female does not have to engage with anyone they don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:24 PM
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Men are more romantic because women crave romance. While men want someone who's more dependable and will support us (a "ride or die"). So we're going to take on the characteristics that are more attractive to the opposite sex. I read a study (i can find the link if anyone is interested) that showed when the amount of suitable mates drops the one with the higher numbers will lean more towards the ideals of the sex with the lower numbers. Basically minority rule. So less quality guys women become …
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