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CMVkeotan/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:29 AM
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Show him this post you just wrote. I am serious.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/15 04:41 PM
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I think it's more about insecurity. As long as you don't initiate and "let him" have sex with you, he can rationalize it as "girls don't really enjoy sex anyways, she does it for me". If you enjoy it and initiate, it puts responsibility and a need to be good in bed on his shoulders, hence the ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 02:55 PM
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I think this desire comes from insecurity. Instead of desiring a girl in a situation of very big need where you will never be able to see if she really wants you or just your providing ability, you should work to improve yourself and get girls who are happy with their life. This way you would know the girl isn't with you by need, but by real desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 07:42 AM
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Exactly. Being nice in order to attract attention is not the same as being nice by love or consideration, the first one is detrimental and shows low value, whereas the second one is a positive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:25 PM
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1) Visit /r/mgtow 2) See it consists almost exclusively of butthurt posts about women. 3) Leave forever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 08:40 AM
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I'm currently reading "Models" by Mark Manson and those 7 points encompass a lot of what's said in this book. Awesome list.
/r/seduction23/09/15 11:47 AM
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I find TRP very interesting and it makes sense in many cases, and I agree with you. In the case of a LTR you need to water down your "alpha" and be more open emotionally, able to care and communicate, all while keeping your independance, self-respect and focusing on improving yourself. The pervert effect of this dichotomy is that if you take it seriously, it can make you self-conscious and make you fear to be "beta" if you show any weakness or softness of your heart, thus making you amp up the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 07:37 PM
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That man is clearly not in control of his mental state and got all sad and mad at a woman. That's not very red pill, which, as far as I know, advocates for a pretty stoïc state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 07:44 PM
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I agree. That's what I wanted to express when I said "Do your things for yourself, [but] don't pursue anything too hard..."
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:20 AM
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And let's not forget that pursuing money doesn't necessarily imply happiness. The stoïcs say it, external things like fame and money can't bring happiness. There is more to life than making money to bang sluts, and this is where I agree with you because "making money to bang sluts" reeks of a need of validation. Do your things for yourself, don't pursue anything too hard while thinking "when I'll get this, I'll finally be happy" because this will never happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 08:09 AM
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Agreed. I bet even the bluest of the blue-pillers would guess the gender of the two people talking if it was not specified.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 09:23 AM
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I am French and I have interacted with few american women in my life, but most of the time, they have been aggressively seductive towards me. One even started flirting in the metro, in front of her mother. I was very surprised at this behavior and I think the fact that "travelling really racks up the number" is the fact that those girls basically throw themselves to foreigners, more than any special beauty inherent to American girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 09:12 AM
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Nice way to make me say something I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 09:24 PM
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"someone having sex". Nice way to spell "someone you considered one of your best friends who betrayed you on the long term with your long term girlfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 08:40 PM
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Male, I do it with moderation and as subtly as I can. Both for new romances if I feel it is a right moment to do it, and in relationships (much less in the latter case though). If a girl is too obviously playing hard to get, it is irritating. If she makes it too easy, on the other hand, I wonder if she is an easy girl and my interest for a serious relationship declines. I don't really have an opinion on the last question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 05:57 PM
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The thing is those excuses are valid only if the man approaching them is not considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:58 PM
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She's subtly leaning away from him. She clearly "settled" for him and I don't think there is any passion of her to him.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/15 05:10 PM
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I don't know for other red pill men, but I have always read that attitude is everything. Being CEO, handsome, etc, is obviously positive, but the one most important thing is the attitude of knowing you are worth her, and outcome independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 09:48 AM
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Female virgin : keeps herself for a man with a high SMV, it is respectable. Male virgin : can't find a girl to have sex with him, he is not attractive. It is NOT necessarily what I think, but it is my guess on how people unconsciously interpret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 08:55 AM
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This. Red pill insists on the alpha traits because it is where most of men are lacking. Men who are into red pill don't need people to tell them to compliment women, take care of them, etc, because for most of them it's default mode. The pervert effect is that some guys grow to think that those sweet actions are to completely eliminate from their way of behaving, which is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:30 AM
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This. I am an avid reader of some "Red pill" websites (Heartiste being my favorite), but I think many guys take all this too far. I tease girls, don't give in to their caprices, have self respect, but I have no problem with watching a shitty chick flick once in a while or give my jacket to my girl when she is cold. Red pill can give really insightful advice, but don't forget to be a true human being. I don't think being constantly in a competitive mood with a woman is very alpha anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 08:23 PM
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She had* a nice rack though.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 09:12 PM
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