| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | [FR] First Date OKC, F-Close... | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 06:17 AM | |
| 3 | Should I practice on my game all throughout the day/night or just at clubs/bars. etc.? | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 08:49 AM | |
| 3 | How do you build rapport through text? | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:11 PM | |
| 1 | Introduction to the term...JUICE! | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 03:42 PM | |
| 0 | [FR] Slapped! | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 05:38 PM | |
| 0 | My First "Real" Breakup | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 05:56 PM | |
| 0 | Problems Closing...Advice? | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 03:20 PM | |
| 0 | I have Number closed but get no responds when call/text... | keptit2real | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 08:52 AM |
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| 5 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?I personally don't view showing interest in a person as a negative. But I fall victim to that as well | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 02:53 AM |
| 6 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?OP, this is the comment to use, go direct game. Make your intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Anyone willing to wingman A 25 year old incel in Connecticut?Those are not missed opportunities, those are lessons. Each Miss opportunity is now a lesson for the next opportunity. Rejection is part of the game, get a job going door to door that can help you handle rejection and learn more. Instead of checking out books on game check out books on sales. Take a daily walk around your block. Use that walk as a daily practice to ground yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond?Call her out on that shit, then decide if you want to continue. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 02:28 PM |
| 7 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?This part of the game really annoys me. I much rather prefer women who give me direct yes or no and acknowledgment when escalating the first time. As I've grown in the game and in life I realize for myself I need a direct acknowledgment or some sort of consent. I'm done playing with little girl games especially for women who are over 35. Lately I predominantly deal with women who are over 40 so it has been a widely different experience. I find this to be true with women who are under 35. Especia… | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Starting to prefer only going for those who make it easy for meYes! I have adopted the model of absolute yes, I need clear indication for certain things I'm not looking to date little girls I need I am seeking today and sleep with women | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to react when she shows disinterest/mixed signals?You walk away, if it's a situation where You're going to see this person on a daily or weekly Don't ignore but don't engage has been the best advice I've received from this sub.. are you Chase mixed signals and they would ding all the carrot around me. I guess you just have to go through the experience to learn it. But learn it from those who have overcome it you want to find women who are showing interest in you and if they not are not walk away.. a yes ,a f*** yes, ,yeah I'd love to, a resched… | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | i went to 3 bars for a total of 2 hours and couldn’t make a single approachThe best oper is "Hi! , I'm (your name)" word to the wise go for those who are showing some sort of reciprocation back to you | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?I can only tell you give it a try and see if it works. It will work. Seduction is a game of discipline and numbers stack those two consistently and you start winning. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:07 PM |
| 65 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?I can help you out with this, make the decision to only ejaculate through sex. You will find a woman within 2 weeks | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?I would say sometimes is and sometimes it isn't. You entered in the game to get play. improve your game | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:06 PM |
| 4 | What’s the best way to react when a lady friendzoned you a on date?You say "Oh, I guess iu was giving off the wrong impression, I'm not interested in friendship with you, then say goodbye and leave." Don't wait for another response. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Hard Truth: Some men are meant for this. Some arentAs I disagree with the true alpha speak of what you're saying. I do believe some men are just born with the it factor for women and it starts at a young age as in your case. 100% believe your numbers are diabolical. I recall a painter I hired on my first time working with the guy he told me and he was in his late like the '40s, and he told me I have slept with almost 850 women. I sat there and bewilderment wondering how the f*** his dick is still on him He's a man from the '70s. And when I chat … | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?Ain't nothing wrong with a little thick lovin' | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?I can acknowledge what you are saying. At the end of the day tho, OP has to make a move in an upward direction. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?If you want that bad, go pay a working girl. My first time was with a sex worker. Is it something i regret...no I don't. After I was finished with the sex worker I realized there's more to life than just busting a nut. Beware sex worker sex not the same as from a girl you pulled. Continue to work on your inner game. Look up David wygot ( forget last name) he's a pick up artist. Helped me a lot | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?I can buy example: You see her in the hallway you say hey and keep it moving. She tires to have a conversation with you. You speak a few sentence then keep it moving. You are in a group setting with her, you talk to the others and her much less. She may try to pull you into a conversation than you remember (she's not for it), then you respond with "that's interesting, okay I'm going to move on " Don't Ignore (It's rude to ignore in social situations, your simply acknowledging them as a human bei… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?Best advice I ever got on this sub. Don't ignore, but don't engage She's a waste of time | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 10:43 AM |
| 7 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?One thing I suggest is not masturbating for 1-2 days before the date. It can help with keeping focus on building sexual tension | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is BrutalHow are guys playing day game now? As I've gotten older, I've realized to look for the signs before approaching. Quick eye glance, body movement, asking myself am I attracted to this girl, we just made i contact, say Hi. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Paying for sex, am I a loser?One commoner said this but I think it has to be said again. Don't make a habit out of it, shit gets fun and expensive. I attend sex parties which has shown me subtle signs. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 10:32 AM |
| 4 | How should I approach a girl at the gym?Why does a man going for it, make him seem like a creep? Even if he handles the rejection like a champ. I don't disagree with your strategy for the gym. But I don't like how when a a confident man acts a woman out. It is deemed creepy. Have all the simps ruined it. I myself have been to the creep too some lady out there. That's just part of it...no | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?Correct, this doesn't mean you can't course correct b and grow | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?Only Read Title... You know how long life is? 23 is young,33 is young, 40 is kinda young, 50 is old. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Talk me out of this; Taking one girl to another girl's showThis can go many ways. Depending on how you play it. Your plan has holes and can go south very fast. You could lose both girls or they might be 2 freaks who want a FMF. In my experience, I I would always lose out on my target. Cuz I would have the thought. Oh the grass is greener on the other side. Same fucking grass, it's green where you water it. Why are afraid to sit solo? I think it will show confidence and other traits to this dancer. Talk with people around you, build your social skills up… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 11 | A guy at work always steers our conservation towards sexAre you interested in him? | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 53 | [deleted by user]I've learned now to ensure girls understand we are not going back to hangout and be friends. Just let them know beforehand. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 10:37 AM |
| 147 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?Don't ignore, don't engage. ( See her in walking by, wave. She tries to engage in a full conversation don't bow out) It will show you are done with her and understand she is only an co-worker (not a friend you work with). Just a co-worker. Ghost is a lacking of respect. If she happens to bring it up. Call her out on it. Remember, if she flakes with no reschedule date., It's a pass. Don't go down that road of chasing this girl. It will end in you being emotionally embarrassed. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 11:10 AM |
| 6 | How to make my girlfriend want to have sex again?This may be a question for r/relationships | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Your pass is no good here.The cringe here is so strong. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/17 10:52 PM |
| 62 | How to Know She's Flirting With You [INFOGRAPHIC]Fuck it, when it doubt assume attraction. Always assume attraction the worst that can happen is a maybe a slap in the face or rejection. Life goes on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 01:12 PM |
| 2 | If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on?I don't mine paying on the first date. I don't like it. My rule is this if she doesn't attempt to pull out her wallet then it's a red flag. If she attempt to pull out her wallet/money I will tell her to put it away I got this one. I'm looking for aa partnership. And the girl who is willing to pay I think is also seeking a partner. Being self-employed teaches you a lot. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeI will attest I've fucked up so may times, when I look back I now laugh at myself. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Successful game I like to play plus simple kino suggestion.That's Game! | /r/seduction | 22/11/13 03:21 PM |
| 2 | The benefits and limits of being clever.ACTION, like body language, kino, eye contact, how fun you are to be around, actually asking a girl out (more of an action than words) - those things are what bring sexual attraction front and center during your interactions with women. Seddit has taught me a lot about game, I find more then anything once you take action its game on. Taking action in itself is confidence | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck does one start a convo in online sites? (read info inside before)With OKC I typically shoot them my number after 4-5 messages, I leave the ball in their court. Constantly going back and forth is not my thing with online same with texting. That's just me. But it does not hurt to improve on all areas of one's game. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 02:56 AM |
| 1 | My daygame openerBefore I get to the "would you like to go for some coffee?" I always build rapport with the girl to get a better idea if there interested or I should pursue further. I find that direct game works better for me, it various for every situation. I am very good at adapting (hope that makes sense). I rely too much on my charm with women. It does work eveytime I pick and choose my battles. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 06:23 PM |
| 12 | My daygame openerMy goto daydame opener is " Hi (with a smile), How are you doing today? " from there I simply comment off what she is doing at the moment. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Cheap or low cost dates?What I do is take them out on something I know is free. One place I take dates to is a free pool night. With paying I always see if I can make a deal with'em (make it fun) I'll pay for the drinks if you can beat me at pool. I don't lose often. Whatever it may be make it 50/50. I changed my stay up from yours cause I once paid 100 dollars on a chick and got no love from the chick. This told me I need to change my game up on dates. I will only pay for a dinner on a day 2 that's it. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Cheap or low cost dates?So True had a girl pay $40 dollar tab for me. haha, after while of being a AFC I am starting to enjoy the game. Not the best out there but I've stepped up game and now learned to laugh. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Excerpts from The Game by Neil StraussIf there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him I feel this is very true | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Tips for IntrovertsYour not alone | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Who else lives with their parents?We're all fucking broke Too True Bro! | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Women want what other women want.I would have kicked that chick out of my house. Do I know you? That disrespect off the bat, it good he checked her. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Don't text her, CALL her.I am going to apply this rule to my game. I don't like texting too much never been good at it. For short simple answers I text, I would rather call I can build confidents in myself and build better rapport, while at the same time managing exceptions and set-up a date. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 04:37 AM |
| 0 | Don't text her, CALL her.Do you talk on the phone with customer service reps? Have you met them? | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 04:31 AM |
| 2 | What causes girls to lose interest so quickly?Truth is man, we will never know. Even if she tell you it may be something totally different. Its part of the GAME | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 05:36 AM |
| 0 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsVery misleading statement though as it discredits any insight from the female perspective, which can actually be pretty helpful. You make a good point the female perspective can be helpful at times. I've gotten great advice from women at times but a most of what I'm told from them does not apply to to all women I've discovered. It comes backs to the question of what women want? When getting advice from a female friend I believe she's telling me more of what she wants in guy. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 09:39 PM |
| 384 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsYou don't ask the fish how to catch a fish, you ask the fisherman | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:47 PM |
| 3 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...Best motivational post I have seen in awhile. Thank You! Man. I wil never stop working on bettering myself as a person. Self-improvement | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 02:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] She bought another guy to the date.Its dates like these that will slowly remove the beta in you and in us all. I 've been there to Bro. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 03:27 PM |
| 1 | If she's Awkward After Rejecting You, You Win!Rejection teaches us all on making our game better. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Alpha guidelinesI like the list but... You can't pull off a fedora, bro. I wear that shit everyday, except on rainy days. Fedora is part of me now plus it brings JUICE. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 03:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Entire invite to hangout was a shit testThe Game will be forever tricky. If she calls you back, your still in it. Don't give up. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "Listen to these two mp3's and it just might change your life." These words are from a post from almost two years ago, but the mp3 links no longer work. Does anyone know where some mirror links might be?Great advice from David Wygant mp3's. Now have a new outlook on how I game. Change your lifestyle and women will follow. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Step by Step Guide to Kiss CloseSolid Game | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 02:57 AM |
| 11 | So, her place or yours? Why? (F-Close)My place, I have roof access. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls who always seem to be part of a group/surrounded by friends, that you don't know.Using this line so good | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneThank You, Putting this in my book. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneCan get your advice on this seddit? Have a fellow classmate whom I went out drinking with after a late class. We went to three different bars, bar one got one drink. Bar two had dollar daft so we drank a lot at this I begin running game kino here and there used my hat as a push/pull device. While at this bar I opened a two set sitting next to me while girl I was with went to bathroom. When she came back she tugged my arm to break me from the set. I looked at her and then looked back at the set, … | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Picking up shy girlsAsk her out in person? See what happens from there. On FB she has the option of not responding at all. In person women have to act on the spot, its 50-50 at that point. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 07:49 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Something a lover taught me years ago, do most people know this? The leg trick...thanks | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 05:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Something a lover taught me years ago, do most people know this? The leg trick...Definitely will give this a try! | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 05:39 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with infatuated girls?IMO you should make her your FB | /r/seduction | 01/03/12 06:01 AM |
| 1 | I've read hundreds of biographies and have noticed one common characteristic amongst all successful people...I had recently read "The Alchemist". The book came at an interesting point in my mind set and changed the way I see things. I have started doing this PUA thing because it brings me more self-confidence. The book taught me this a lot but the number one thing it taught me is only I can make it to where I want to be and I must overcome the obstacles in my way and learn from them" | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 08:01 AM |
| -1 | I'm really sexual when 1on1 with a girl, but keep getting told, "I'm not that type of girl."Had the same problem, but girl was in my bed and said "I need to get to know you better". And it was battle to get her to my place. My wingmen had to put in work and I. Her friend was cock-blocking hard. Still trying to figure out how to fight LMR. Work in progress | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 07:54 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyThis why I am getting rid of my AFC ways. No more friends zone shit. I have decided recently that play the game with any new girl I meet. I do this to make sure i will not revert back to AFC ways. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 08:22 PM |
| 4 | [FR] What went wrong?Your main problem is you waited. I have lost a lot of potential girls by waiting too long to attack. If you find yourself in a similar situation where the target will be seen again within the next day. Attack that second day! | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 06:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Date OKC, F-Close...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Field Report, OKCupid first date F-CloseThanks! | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 08:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Field Report, OKCupid first date F-CloseBeing suggestive I like that. Your story inspires me! Have a Date with an OKC girl tomorrow night hoping for the same result but keeping my exceptions balanced. You think taking a girl to see a friend's band play at a popular local venue where it is night club feel is a good idea? After eating... | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone deal with multiple relationships at once?I'm interested in knowing more...Some women are fucked up! A girl I use to work with told me of how she keyed the shit out her ex-bf car because he ended the relationship to get with a new girl (probably less crazy). Also she told me how she broke one of his windows. Moral of the story: Don't stick your dick in crazy. On side note was told by a friend the other day "Rather stick it in ugly, than keep it lazy" | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 08:43 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Slapped!You get slapped in the face, and then tell me what to do. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 06:28 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Slapped!I switched to a separate table with another friend. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 06:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 20 minutes to her bedIt is true that holding hands is better than kissing Never new this, was not aware of how it built the tension between two people. Thanks | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who are single, what do you have planned for Valentine's Day?Same here! Library is now my lover | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 06:43 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How I was Kidnapped by Three Girls <LONGPOST>The only thing between you and an adventure is your front door. Walk through it. You have inspired me! Thank You! | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 05:14 PM |
| 40 | [FR] Follow up to 14 rejectionsNot giving a fuck attitude is the best way to approach a woman. And now you know you do not give a fuck about being rejected. Hats off to you Sir! | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you build rapport through text?I think i will try this more often now! only thing is I don't know how to counter attack the I call her and no pick but three seconds later i get a text back saying "whats up". what then? | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you build rapport through text?I remember this...Its in part I never know what to text cause I usually use text for short direct talk i.e want to get something done, lets chill | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:33 PM |
| 1 | mini-[FR] & hit a road block trying to F-close at a club/ dance-floor.I have had girls walk away from me whom I knew were enjoying themselves after putting my thigh between hers. I don't know if they get too horny. Or I could be doing something wrong with the attraction put. I have realized dancing is a fast way to build attraction for a women. The longer the better. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I have Number closed but get no responds when call/text...Thanks for the article! Definitely will use some of those techniques. I need to call during the right time. I think when I text it comes off in the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I have Number closed but get no responds when call/text...I have applied some of the techniques mention in the link but not to its fullest. I think where I mess up is not teasing after I get the number. I also answer the smalltalk text too much. I need to keep the texting to a minimum to keep the mystery effect of who I am. How about phones calls? Any Advice? I know now not too many women today understand what a phone call is anymore. I feel I do better when talking rather than texting. | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I have Number closed but get no responds when call/text...Usually a "wats up" for the first initial text. I try to keep the texting short and minimum. No girl has picked up the phone for me yet when call. Is there something else you would suggest I write for the first initial text to get to a day 2. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 03:45 PM |
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