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You need to talk to your local Family advocacy program (FAP) if you're near a base. Hopefully she gave you some numbers before ditching you, if not you should be able to Google it and if you have an ID go pay them a visit and they will give you a bunch of useful information about what you're entitled to. She will probably not get 50/50 is she's active duty. I would stipulate that you get majority custody and she gets every other weekend or holidays and long weekends, and once she's out then you'…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:06 AM
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Tell her to go get a hub, in more ways than one.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 12:39 PM
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I don't know how men can walk away from daughters and leave them to moms like this. Your daughter is likely going to be exposed to a revolving door of men as she grows and there's a good possibility one of them is going to do something to her. Honestly can't imagine terminating rights entirely and not even keeping an eye from a distance to make sure this doesn't happen. I know you can't stand giving your ex money but it's not for her it's for the kid. Of course if the kid isn't yours then it's n…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 10:26 PM
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You're kind of sleazy for trying to get out of paying CS. You're already underpaying and potentially on the hook for a lot in arrears if she files. There is no benefit for her not to file so I would expect her to. If you don't want anything to do with the kid you need to terminate your rights and let the new stepdaddy adopt.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 04:43 PM
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Women grow up with a dependency mindset. Most of them use men to move out of their parents house, then they monkey branch from man to man to better their lot in life. They depend on men and HATE them for it. The best thing you can do for your daughters is to teach them to make it on their own and never need a man.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 11:34 PM
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Yeah this is a way to get child support and a new car. My husband's ex wife did this exact thing.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/22 10:58 AM
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You're able to get a divorce even if she doesn't want it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 09:19 PM
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Make a very specific custody order about schedule, times, access, right of first refusal, introducing new partners, vacations, college savings, make up times and communication. You can count on her to be less cooperative once it starts to inconvenience her. Remember she doesn't owe you anything so don't make plans counting on her to be cooperative.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 02:22 PM
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I don't think you understand me. When somebody is having a fight or disagreement with you that is when it's hardest for them to maintain whatever mask they are putting on for you. This is where you get the best clues to who they really are. If you don't have any fights then you might have a complete insecure pushover or a psychopath or narcissist on your hands. Either one is probably not what you want. You're never going to know right off the bat I think a few months of vetting a person is still…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:45 PM
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Of course, my husband put up a good act for a long time but looking back I see he never apologized and even if we had a discussion rather than a fight, he never called it over until he got his way of got off the hook for changing anything. When you have a fight or a disagree with somebody that's when the mask slips and that's what you really really need to pay attention to. You can't know how a person is going to be until you actually have a fight. And a lack of disagreements and fights is a red…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:09 PM
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When your kids are adults you can expect her to pressure them into supporting her just how she supported her family of origin. This type of attitude is toxic and seems to get passed down the generations if no one breaks the chain. In your divorce decree I would specify that a certain amount needs to be put towards college savings for your children this is not an unreasonable thing to ask for.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:06 PM
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Think with the big head not the little one? Find someone who is nice and polite to everyone, not just you. Someone who approaches a fight looking for a solution rather than to "win." Someone who listens to you rather than just waits to speak. Someone who picks up the tab sometimes and gets you gifts (even small things) "just because." Someone who is able to actually say a sincere "sorry" if they fuck up, but not so insecure that they apologize for everything.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 05:26 PM
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Obviously not "cherished" by who I'd like to cherish me but yeah thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 05:08 PM
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I'm a woman and I only look at this sub to see what the other side is thinking. Not all women are like that, some of us are suckers too. My husband is the one who's selfish and has cut off sex after getting comfortable in our marriage. When we do have sex he has to be on the bottom. I've tried to be the best possible wife I can be and he loved the support as long as I never asked for anything in return. If I asked for sex he said I was sex-obsessed, if I needed help with the kids or house I was …
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 01:18 PM
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Another word for narcissist
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 09:45 PM
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Why? To pick a fight? Rub it in your face? Ask for sex tips? I feel like these types of meetings need a clear objective...
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 05:01 AM
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It was quite a bit of time between her moving and when they actually got in front of a judge, at that point she was established in her new state. A judge can prevent people from moving or hold them in contempt for moving but they can't make them move back and they can't do anything at all if there wasn't anything legally in place at that time. Seriously go and file or you risk losing your kid. If she moves before you file you can always go to the police and report it but then it becomes a case o…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 04:51 PM
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You need to file right away. In that limbo time between when you say it's over and when you actually file she could very well take your kid to another state and there isn't much you would be able to do about it. Take her threat seriously and file ASAP. This exact scenario is why my husband and I don't get to see my stepdaughter very often. He hesitated in filing and his ex moved away with their kid. There was nothing he could do about it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 03:17 PM
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