kesharest Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it. The way he pulled up his shorts and stormed out of the room - it triggered me. I've been too often in fights where my ex used to do the exact same thing as soon as I'd start crying and acting irrationally (his words). I now know I was forced to act out because of his inconsistent actions and it almost felt like I was losing my mind. I hate that I have experienced this first hand without knowing what it was and I hate it more that there are so many of us who can relate to the movie. To people who…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 05:48 PM
45	This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually. So takeaway they get after reading all this is - Ignorance is bliss? Should have stopped myself from reading it? And not sleeping with men casually? ......... ...... .... Shaking my head. Lowkey glad no one posted this conclusion there otherwise men would stop telling on themselves. Sigh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 11:18 PM
31	When evaluating a man, don't just look at how you perceive his behaviour. Also look at the factual realities of your life before/after he came into it. I've spent two years thinking over and over again on what signs I ignored/missed with my ex. I'm not yet ready to date again but I am constantly hyperactive noticing all my friendships and coworkers because I felt like I needed more practice to understand signs I missed. It's pretty exhausting - and the self-doubt never goes away because there are too many factors involved. This advice is literally a life saver for me. It feels so relieving to know I can just look at my own life and if I find it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 10:56 PM
15	Men Who are Still Friends With their Exes Years back, I was the ex my ex stayed friends with when he was dating someone else and eventually got married to. I only came to know that he was even dating a girl when he told me he was meeting her parents. We were on and off and definitely sleeping together. Did the other girl know? I don't think so. I don't know how to explain that feeling - both cheated on and cheated with at the same time?? The minute I was told, I went into fight or flight phase and blocked him out but it was my fault to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 01:03 AM
51	This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setup No one is worth $10k ring? She got me a job but it wasn't like I was unqualified? (Why couldn't you afford rent and physical therapy smh) I don't owe her a diamond ring just because she helped me 4 years ago His own sister calling him an asshole I knew marriage was important to her but not the ring? Starts by saying she doesn't spend a lot on herself (well you live rent free with her and probably using her up so she doesn't think she's worth it) Fuck off. I hope he just calls off the wedding bec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 12:14 AM
36	The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair) Just starting to be active on FDS and appreciate this, thank you!! Excited to see how much I level up in next six months while waiting for my flair 🙂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 03:10 PM
78	When FDS Theory actually makes it in socmed: building a man doesn’t help you cement the relationship you want. Scary how many likes this post got- I'M SO ANGRY. Got a bad feeling in my stomach reading this. His first tweet clearly makes his intentions clear - he ALREADY KNOWS he is going to dump her when he gets a better job!! But now justifies with a super general life fact (and we all know this is what he'll tell his girlfriend when he dumps her) - Things change, feeling change. WTF.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 02:07 AM
1	How I went from side character to main character in less than a year Congratulations, so happy for you 🍀 I am on a similar journey and reading posts like these always motivate me to keep going!! I'm sure the first few times weren't easy, glad you continued to persevere and reach where you wanted. FDS is something a lot of us didn't know we were looking for (but absolutely needed) and somehow ended up in the right place. 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 10:51 PM
67	How to vet if a man is pornsick My ex used to be porn-sick and he was the first guy I slept with. During our relationship, he convinced me to try anal, watch porn videos together and sex would always end with a blowjob. Due to lack of other support, I assumed that this was all natural and I was just learning new stuff because it was my first time being sexually involved with someone. It wasn't anything violent or bdsm stuff, but just a lot of porn video mirrored sex - finger in my mouth, asking me to moan louder, etc. Turns ou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 11:15 PM
6	FDS is BACK! Didn't realize how often I opened Reddit to check this sub on a daily basis before it went private. I'm thankful that it's back, because there are times when I'd just scroll down and read through posts as a form of reminder to treat myself better. FDS helped me to realize a lot of emotional abuse I was going through and I felt more vulnerable without this sub. I don't have a flair yet, but I came across a comment that explained mods still review the comments we post even if they're invisible. Th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 11:27 PM